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Don’t think having a nice body is the most important thing, within reason. It’s the attitude.

We were on a lifestyle cruise and pretty new to swinging. We were in our fifties and we met a couple in their seventies who asked if we wanted to play with them. They seemed a lot older than us, but we thought if they have the courage to ask, why not. Well, we both had a very nice experience. The woman had this tantric technique that used her hands on my manhood in which she simulated entering and exiting a vagina. Fun! My wife wanted me to show her how this woman did it, but I didn’t know. The husband used some kind of glove with electrostim on my wife. She liked it. Overall, these people had their tricks and we had fun. Don’t judge a book by its cover and give people a chance. We find the men are gaga for my wife, the women so so for me, but I have lit up a few clits in my time, which has resulted in a reevaluation by the females brave enough to give me a chance. We find the credo of give people a chance has served us well.

Swinging was my wife’s idea causing me great anxiety. I finally agreed to swing with good friends. I agreed and then didn’t want her to great sex. I had a hard time watching her totally into sex. At the same time I let myself enjoy her best friend. My feelings have changed, why have sex without passion and enjoyment. Sharing your partner’s enjoyment is major to me now.

Agreed, "have fun while you can." That said (and I’ve posted previously here on the board about this) a few years ago, when I was in my mid-60s, I played with a couple who were in their mid-80s. It was a new experience for me, playing with people whose bodies were so old, but they were game and it was enjoyable. I later was told by a mutual lifestyle acquaintance that they had been swinging since before that was a term. And that on their night they had staged a post-nuptials orgy — around the year I was born! (As an aside, due to my involvement with the lifestyle I’ve had sex with five women on their wedding nights, only three of whom were my wives…😉😊)

Maybe they still are.

You learn plenty when you have sex with others, you try new things that you think your spouse wouldn’t like. I knew my wife was enjoying new partners when she came home and tried many new acts and positions. An open marriage and swinging has been very educational when it comes to sex. Sharing what we have learned while with others has made our home sex much better.

Yeah... I really don't understand the issue the OP is raising...? "The passion was palpable?" Gee. I would hope so. And why would their spouses want to intervene? "Honey, I'm cool with letting you fuck him. But, only if you promise not to have too much fun. Then I'll have to put a stop to it!" Lol! WTF?

If you know the backstory of our poly family, sort of the same thing happened with us. I fixed up hubby with my friend Lora. She had a boyfriend Walter at the time with whom there was no expectation of monogamy, so it was ok. Eventually Walter and Lora started playing as a couple with the others in our poly family, Clair and Red as well. During that time, Walter and Lora got engaged, then married. But also during that time, hubby and Lora were falling in love, as well as a strong Lesbian relationship developing among Lora, Clair, and me. Lora left Walter and joined our family. Actually, that's what completed our family. There is nothing like the passion I feel in my love for her and the jealousy of her and hubby together.