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4 pointsDifferent folks are going to have different opinions on these terms! I know what ours are on the following. Cheating is a betrayal of trust and done behind your partners back without any knowledge by them. For us it not cool or something either of us would tolerate. Break that trust and you will never get it back. I would be gone if it happened to me and there is no excuse that would change that. We also will not play with people we know are cheaters. Cuckolding is when your partner has sex with other people to humiliate you! Usually with someone bigger and better. The cuck gets satisfaction from being humiliated. Cheating with your partners knowledge would also fall into this category. Totally not our thing at all, but to each their own. A hotwife is a wife that has sex with other men with her partners consent and encouragement. This can be on her own or with her partner present. This is not about humiliating him. It is about her being able to enjoy her sexual appetite on her terms with who she wants. Hot wives or incredibly hot women IMO. Last I will add the Stag and Vixen couple. A Stag husband is a Alpha male who likes to share and watch his Vixen wife have sex with other men in his presence for both her pleaser and his pleasure. This is not about being incompetent or humiliated. It is about him thinking his wife is super sexy and wanting her to share that sexiness with other hot men. Like having their own private porn star. This is what we identify as ourselves.
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4 pointsWe have 4 girls. You need to teach your daughter that the responsibility of birth control is on her. If she gets pregnant all of the weight is on her not the boy. He goes on with his life; no disruption whatsoever. He keeps playing sports, he goes to prom, he goes to college. It's her life that will be derailed - not his. And, if she's 16, you are late by a couple years. Get on it - now.
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3 pointsWell, I'll open with "I don't have a daughter," which may reasonably invalidate anything else I say in your mind (I accept this) but I'll offer a thought anyway... I do empathize... I still have moments when, without realizing it, I forget my teenage son isn't the toddler I carried on my shoulders, Oh, I remember that he's taller than me now but sometimes I forget that he no longer needs the kind of protection and guidance I gave him then. He's an intelligent, strong willed young man who will make his own decisions - good and bad - and all I can do is be there is offer what help and support I can. Your daughter is a human being, just like our sons are. Treat her with the same respect that we give them. Talk to her, as the young adult she is, and listen to her. Don't put her on a pedestal or treat her like the child she no longer is. Communicate, communicate, communicate... it's the key to more than just successful swinging.
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2 pointsThat's part of the fun, isn't it... picking up new tricks and techniques. There is one position my wife picked up from a couple of guys she played with back when she would go to a club by herself. These guys evidently got very excited when they found out how limber she is. They liked to put her ankles up on their shoulders, or spread her legs wide, and drive in deep. I think it's a very porn star kind of move but now any time she does this position at home, it drives me crazy because I know it was these couple of guys who did it with her on nights when I couldn't be there. So, of course, now she does it just to drive me nuts. Excuse me, I need to go find my wife...
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2 pointsI found two more. Maybe that site can hire me to screen. I need to find more hobbies. I am finding profiles of single women in their 20s with come hither pictures with their face showing often have profiles that describe “the services that they offer.” That’s not swinging.
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2 pointsHere are a couple more of Missus Enhancer in her new green outfit! Getting ready for Christmas.
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1 pointThank you Santa!!! Beautiful and sexy as always.
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1 pointWe have a hot tub, and before we got ours, we had been with several couples who had a hot tub. No games needed, things tend to take care of themselves out there We have had hot tub sex, but most often it's sort of a warmup (no pun intended) area and then head inside when it's time to really get after it.
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1 pointAs mentioned above, finding a single woman is very difficult. You may be better off finding a couple where the ladies play and the guys play only with their significant others.
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1 pointWe have three children, two boys and a younger daughter who is in High School. Our boys got the daddy/son talk when they were in high school, daughters are different as everyone knows. It’s difficult even thinking my little angel is doing anything. My wife has taken her to her doctor, bless my wife birth control was discussed and options given. I learned our daughter was put on a low dose pill which is good for acne, anxiety and birth control. I suggested a padlock. For years my wife depended on my vasectomy, then swinging came into our lives. She went on a pill, then side effects happen. Over 40, I read pills weren’t a good idea, she had an IUD placed, finally a ligation. We play primarily with friends and condoms aren’t being used. I’m not worried about our play just what our daughter is using and precautions she takes. It’s impossible for me to talk to her about sex, I know she is bright, being smart has nothing to do with sex. How have you handled your daughters growing up?
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1 pointSwinging neighbors
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1 pointMy SO and I have a similar swing mindset. I often get lost in passion when with a partner, and he doesn't mind if I dont give him equal attention during the play. To make the most of the experience, I have to internalize the role of being the best lover of my partner at the moment. A sensitive partner will usually sense that, and will reciprocate the same passion. And since Im wired as poly too, Im open to where it goes if we have chemistry. This is how I met my bf and how we eventually became romantically involved, in addition to my SO.
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1 pointWe were on a lifestyle cruise and pretty new to swinging. We were in our fifties and we met a couple in their seventies who asked if we wanted to play with them. They seemed a lot older than us, but we thought if they have the courage to ask, why not. Well, we both had a very nice experience. The woman had this tantric technique that used her hands on my manhood in which she simulated entering and exiting a vagina. Fun! My wife wanted me to show her how this woman did it, but I didn’t know. The husband used some kind of glove with electrostim on my wife. She liked it. Overall, these people had their tricks and we had fun. Don’t judge a book by its cover and give people a chance. We find the men are gaga for my wife, the women so so for me, but I have lit up a few clits in my time, which has resulted in a reevaluation by the females brave enough to give me a chance. We find the credo of give people a chance has served us well.
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1 pointGreat observations. Although a dick that is too long can hurt in my pussy, it's ok in my bum; and while I won't take a dick that is too thick in my bum it feels great in my pussy. A small dick can be great as well, a lot of the sensation and pleasure for me during regular intercourse is right at the entrance of my vagina and it's fun working it to orgasm.
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1 pointAgreed, "have fun while you can." That said (and I’ve posted previously here on the board about this) a few years ago, when I was in my mid-60s, I played with a couple who were in their mid-80s. It was a new experience for me, playing with people whose bodies were so old, but they were game and it was enjoyable. I later was told by a mutual lifestyle acquaintance that they had been swinging since before that was a term. And that on their night they had staged a post-nuptials orgy — around the year I was born! (As an aside, due to my involvement with the lifestyle I’ve had sex with five women on their wedding nights, only three of whom were my wives…😉😊)
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1 pointDon’t think having a nice body is the most important thing, within reason. It’s the attitude.
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1 pointMaybe they still are.
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1 pointWith ourselves, we have about three go to positions. With others, we both like to find out what they like and try it.
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1 pointI don’t have any suggestions for hot tub games, but the times we have been with people in hot tubs it sure didn’t take very long for things to start happening! We just had a mfm with another guy at his house a couple months ago and he had a hot tub! I went to the washroom and came out and there was missus Enhancer standing in front of him making out and stroking his cock. One of the hottest scenes I have seen. Didn’t take me long to get undressed and jump in.
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1 pointWelcome to the Swingers Board, you've found the right place to get answers to your questions! Nothing wrong with taking it slow. One of the things you'll read here a lot is "go at the pace of the slowest partner." Along with that though is the #1 thing you're read here in some form or another and that is Communication. There must be good communication all the way around, not just between you and your boyfriend, but also between you and potential playmates, and him and potential playmates. Good communication where everyone knows what to expect will head off 99% of any potential problems with crossed boundaries, broken rules, disappointment, etc. Finding people is always tough. It takes work and patience! But when the search pays off, it can be awesome. Online vs clubs is sort of a personal preference. Some people just aren't into the club scene and like the slower pace of finding someone online and then feeling them out during one or more meets for drinks or whatever. If you have a certain scenario in mind, and it sounds like you do, then communicating that in a club hookup type situation and everyone talking it through and getting comfortable might be a little more difficult than the slower pace of meeting someone online. Without a doubt though, one night at a club will put you in contact with more potential playmates than months of searching online and meeting up to feel each other out. Some people ask for STD test results, but it's a small percentage. For one thing, that only tells you what things were the day of the test, not what things are now. Like most things in life, there is always an element of risk, and you just have to evaluate where your risk tolerance line is. Jealousy is best dealt with through communication. If there is good communication, there should be trust, and trust is the antidote to jealousy.
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1 pointMy husband was the one who suggested it . I was very against it at first but now I'm his slut and love it
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1 pointIf you have pics in the gallery on this site you can just go to the insert other media and choose from the existing files! Otherwise I am not sure. Maybe a picture hosting site?
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1 pointMy husband Dennis had been talking about swinging for some time. I wasn't sure if I would like it or not, as I kept telling him I thought it would be better as a fantasy rather than bringing it to reality, boy was I wrong. I finally gave in to his request and we decided to attend a new swingers club that had just opened in Sydney. When we arrived at the club the hostess suggested we have a look around the club and may like to have a drink in the lounge, we got ourselves a drink and found a comfy lounge to watch the passing parade. After a short time another couple joined us, he {James} was a little older than us and very well dressed and she {Corrine} was about my age {mid 30's}. We sat and talked for a while and found that we had much in common. Dennis suggested another bottle of wine and left to go to the bar, and I said I would give him a hand. While waiting to be served Dennis and I discussed how we thought it was going. I asked Dennis if he would mind me screwing James if he asked, Dennis looked at me smiled and said 'that's what we are here for, if you want to go for it.' When we returned to our lounge we found James & Corrine had changed around the way we were sitting, James suggested that I sit with him and Dennis sit with Corrine, so we obliged, the four of us sat and talked for a little while longer and then James asked me if I would like to go somewhere more private. I looked at Dennis and he said 'up to you Cindy'. James stood up and took my hand and asked me to follow him. Walking away from the lounge area I looked back to see Dennis and Corrine laughing and chatting. James led me into a private room and closed the curtain behind us, he put his hand around my waist and started kissing me on the back of my neck and nibbling my ears, James slid his hand up and grasped my boobs. All I could do was sigh and press against him. I could not believe how hot I was getting. I hadn't been with another man since I married my husband and was very nervous, but very horny. James squeezing my boobs was driving me crazy, so I undid my to top and placed his hands on my bra and he quickly worked his hands under it and started pinching my nipples. Shit, I was so horny! Enough was enough, I wanted it and wanted it now. I pulled away from James and undressed, and James took the opportunity to do the same. He led me to the bed and gently sat me down and started sucking my aching nipples, I couldn't believe how easy I was with the whole situation. Less than a hour ago I didn't know this man and now he's sucking my tits and I knew shortly we would be fucking like wild animals. I decided to take charge and pushed James onto his back and grabbed his cock in my hand and to my delight found he was circumcised and a little bigger that my husband. I knelt over him and rubbed his semi-hard cock over my tits. It felt so good. I lay down beside him and pulled his cock to my mouth, at the same time James pushed two fingers into my pussy. I licked the tip of his cock and then opened my mouth and took him deep inside and started to give him the best I could offer, all the while he was finger fucking me. I couldn't believe how much I was enjoying it, I was so horny and he tasted wonderful in my mouth. I could feel his cock twitching against my tongue and knew he was close to cumming so I stopped and lay back on the bed. James grabbed me on the thighs and pulled me up and onto his hard cock and slid deep inside my wet wet pussy and started pumping me like a whore. All I could do was thrash around and moan loudly and as I did he pumped harder and faster. I could sense he was close so I locked my ankles around his waist so he couldn't stop. His balls were slapping against me as he started to tense and shot his load into me as I came at the same time. We released each other and lay back to recover. I couldn't believe it, just a short time ago this man was a stranger and now he'd given me the best fuck of my life. I wanted to thank him so I started rubbing his soft penis all over my face and took him into my mouth. My pussy started getting wet again as I could taste my juices on that fantastic cock. By now he was starting to get hard again so it knelt over him and got a little more comfortable, and started a relentless session of cock sucking. I was sliding my mouth down as far as I could before pulling back to the tip, sucking faster and faster I could hear him moan and tried to get him deeper into my mouth. I stopped for a moment and looked up at him and asked if he could fill my mouth with cum. He smiled and told me to keep going and he would see what he could do. I returned to that great cock sliding it deeper into my mouth than any other cock I'd every had, deeper and faster, faster and deeper, then his cock started to flinch against my tongue. James grabbed my head and thrust his hips upwards driving him into my throat and shot what seemed like a gallon of cum into my mouth. I locked my lips around his cock not wanting to lose any of it. I slid him out of my mouth and tilted my head back and let his hot cum slide down my throat. WOW, my husband has cum in my mouth only once and I didn't swallow and here I was with a stranger doing things I'd only every dreamed about. We dressed in a bath robe and returned to the lounge area and started looking for our partners. I found Dennis sitting by the spa and asked him was he enjoying himself. He told me Corrine and he had a 69 while we were gone. We got ourselves a drink and I told Dennis what James and I had done. Dennis sat starring into my eyes eating up every word. What a night we had! I couldn't believe how much I'd enjoyed it or how easy I was once I was horny. I was only certain of one thing, we would be back again. As the saying goes, this could be the start of something big! Maybe I will write you about our next visit.
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1 pointMy name is Kara, and we live in Florida. Here is the story of my first time swinging. My husband and I had often fantasized about doing it with a third person, or another couple, but we never really knew how to act on it. I was nervous and not really sure if I would like it. So we just kept on fantasizing, and occasionally we would allow strangers in public to get a good look at us going at it. Just the thought of someone watching me have sex has always been a huge turn on. I am 35, about 5'5, 125 lbs, with long red hair and green eyes and 36c bust. Paul is 40, 5'11, 175 and built great. We both work out, so we are in good shape. About two years ago we were invited to a party at a couple's house that Paul met playing tennis. We really did not know them, or any of their friends. We were amazed at the house they owned. It was huge, and the party was in full swing when we arrived. People were milling around downstairs, eating, drinking and talking. We expressed to our hosts how impressed we were with their home. They invited us to us feel free to wander the premises and check the place out. So, off we went to see the house. We eventually ventured up to the bedrooms, and after seeing a few, we found ourselves in a dark room with a big bed. Well, Paul reaches under my top and starts to play with my nipples and before long, he has peeled my top off, has me down on the bed and is pulling off my pants. Well, the thought of us doing it with all of those people in the house was getting me very wet, and the thought of someone {hopefully a guy} coming in and catching us was really getting me hot. Paul knows that the one thing I will never pass up is his going down on me, and so he starts eating me right away. What both of us found out later, was that this room connected to two others. That's important to this story, because soon after Paul starts with that great tongue, I feel another set of lips on my left tit. I started to freeze up, but it really felt good, and all I could see was the top of someone's head. At this point, I thought what the hell and let it happen. Well, a couple of minutes later someone else is going at my right tit. Now, I am really going crazy. I reach down to my left and feel a guy's head, and to my right is clearly a woman. {They had come in from one of the connecting rooms.} Paul knows what's going on, and he just does not stop. Later he told me that he just reached up and started fingering the woman's pussy. Soon, the guy on my left turns around and I reach out and grab the biggest cock I have every held. It was huge, and did it feel good. Now I have one on each tit, a great cock in my hand, and Paul eating me like he has never done before. Beyond being in an unbelievable state of ecstasy, all I could think of was did I want that big cock in my mouth or in my pussy. I came twice, and was ready to go a third time, but the excitement was more than Paul could handle. He really needed to fuck me so he mounted me and banged away, while I started licking and sucking that great big strange cock. The woman had moved over, so that she was getting eaten by the guy whose dick I had. Well I came two more times, and Paul just exploded. Soon, the woman took the guy between her legs and they started fucking like crazy. This was wilder than I had ever dreamed of. Paul and I both thought of fucking the other two, but I was not sure I was ready for that, so we each sucked on one of her tits and I let the guy play with my very wet pussy while they fucked like bunnies. After they climaxed, we got up, grabbed our clothes and found a shower off the bedroom. We got cleaned up, headed downstairs, and could barely control ourselves when our hosts asked how we enjoyed the tour! To this day we are not really sure who the other couple is, but we are glad they were there as they helped get us going on a fun lifestyle.
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1 pointCheating is a woman or a man fucks around with another person while hiding it from their spouse. Cuckolding is when the wife flirts with other men openly and has sex with them openly, the spouse here knows and the wife does not care. Often this comes with some humiliation for the husband. Some husband's want to be cuckolded some don't. The term does not mean consent. It just means he knows and is powerless to stop it and has no say in how or when it happens. A Hotwife has permission to fuck around, think of it like a hall pass from her marriage. Some men like to pick the other man, some allow the wife to decide. So for instance, I travel for work, while I am traveling my husband and I have an agreement that I can fuck whoever I want. I'm honest about my sexual proclivities, I tell him about the guys I date. Sometimes I even send pictures, videos and texts giving him details of the evening.
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1 pointThe adage is that the man introduces swinging, but it’s the woman who keeps them swinging.
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1 pointAll the terms are filled with grey area. The individual couple defines them. Your example, where they have not discussed her playing on her own....that's cheating. The fact that he doesn't mind, is one thing, but its still cheating. My wife knows my interests. She knows I would love for her to hook up on her own. And even do it a bunch of times before telling me. Similar situation but totally different. Hotwifing and cuckolding are NOT the same as cheating. They are still part of "couple play" even if its one person being physical. Both parties still get something out of it. Its a game that the individual couple makes the rules. Cheating is not "couple play". I'm talking about legit, deceptive, cheating. Not "roleplay cheating" Two of the three are games. The first one, as defined, is an actual relationship problem.
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1 pointI was wondering about this a bit myself. Although the only real life experience I have with this is the husband not telling wife. For example, I know a couple where the husband is allowed to sleep with whomever he wants but wife just doesn't want to hear about it. Hubby and I have a similar arrangement. If he sleeps with someone on a hall pass, that's fine but I don't need to hear about it. It doesn't turn me on to hear the details and such. Hubby is different. If I slept with someone else, he would want to know and hear the details. Then we could go at it
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1 pointCheating---Husband doesn't know. Hotwife---Husband knows and is turned on by it and both parties share the experience either through talking or watching. Cuckolding---there is an element of humiliation toward the husband that also turns him on. It can take many forms. Without the humiliation factor it isn't cuckolding. Otherwise we'd have to classify swingers playing separately as cucks. I wouldn't (and suspect others) like being called that.
