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Not so much different positions with different partners for us as we are all over the place when it is just the two of us! Definitely different things we have done that can’t be done with just the two of us though. Her bent over getting fucked while her face is buried between another woman’s legs, having my cock sucked by her and another woman at the same time, her sucking and stroking another guy and myself at the same time, her being spit roast by another guy and myself, her 69ing with another woman well I take turns fucking both of them, her fucking a woman with a strap on while I am fucking her, her on her back legs up in the air getting fucked by someone else while I fuck her face and boobs and the list goes on and on. These are the things we are in the lifestyle for! The things we can’t do with just the two of us. The younger adult me would never have believed that these things would ever happen in my life, but they have and they will leave lifelong memories of incredible experiences I got to share with the most amazing sexual person I have ever meet.

We have a hot tub, and before we got ours, we had been with several couples who had a hot tub. No games needed, things tend to take care of themselves out there We have had hot tub sex, but most often it's sort of a warmup (no pun intended) area and then head inside when it's time to really get after it.

Hot tubs are awesome. It's also fun to swap partners and rinse off in the shower after!

We have played with this kind of arrangement with couples in the past and it worked out great! As long as the guy in the other couple isn’t a what about me person lots of fun can be had by the ladies.

We mix up positions and have our favorites when together. Any DP positions she'll usually do with other guys because I'm not a big fan. One of my friends likes to pin her legs back behind her head so he can pound really deep. Also him and some other guys do a lot of facefucking positions which we don't do privately. Her head hanging off the bed and him standing over her so his dick is going down her throat and balls slapping on her face. Also on the bed her laying down and him kneeling over her face. I am sure there are plenty of other positions as well but I haven't given it much thought.

Why play anything? We have heard of these things called 'swim suits' but since we aren't going to swim in a hot tub, we don't own any. We do have nice big fluffy robes that we wear out to the hot tub (especially if it is cold and after dark it gets cold quickly in Tahoe). We have also found that taking off a robe and getting naked into the hot tub greatly speeds up everything that may happen IN the hot tub.

With ourselves, we have about three go to positions. With others, we both like to find out what they like and try it.

Here are a couple more of Missus Enhancer in her new green outfit! Getting ready for Christmas.

Welcome to the Swingers Board, you've found the right place to get answers to your questions! Nothing wrong with taking it slow. One of the things you'll read here a lot is "go at the pace of the slowest partner." Along with that though is the #1 thing you're read here in some form or another and that is Communication. There must be good communication all the way around, not just between you and your boyfriend, but also between you and potential playmates, and him and potential playmates. Good communication where everyone knows what to expect will head off 99% of any potential problems with crossed boundaries, broken rules, disappointment, etc. Finding people is always tough. It takes work and patience! But when the search pays off, it can be awesome. Online vs clubs is sort of a personal preference. Some people just aren't into the club scene and like the slower pace of finding someone online and then feeling them out during one or more meets for drinks or whatever. If you have a certain scenario in mind, and it sounds like you do, then communicating that in a club hookup type situation and everyone talking it through and getting comfortable might be a little more difficult than the slower pace of meeting someone online. Without a doubt though, one night at a club will put you in contact with more potential playmates than months of searching online and meeting up to feel each other out. Some people ask for STD test results, but it's a small percentage. For one thing, that only tells you what things were the day of the test, not what things are now. Like most things in life, there is always an element of risk, and you just have to evaluate where your risk tolerance line is. Jealousy is best dealt with through communication. If there is good communication, there should be trust, and trust is the antidote to jealousy.

The start of an anal session.. We love the butt

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