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4 pointsWe got a message from a guy yesterday on one of the sites we are on that said “ I could fuck it I am in town for the day”. Open his profile and there is next to nothing on it and just the usual cock pic. Normally I just ignore these kind of idiots, but instead I replied “ we will take a pass. There is nothing about your profile that is appealing and we have real lives and don’t just drop everything to hook up with random people we know nothing about”. His response was “ well this is a swingers site after all”. Which made me realize that many people seem to think that if people are swingers they will fuck anybody and everybody. This misconception is about the furthest thing from the truth for us anyways. It does help explain why so many people including some couples out there think they can put absolutely no effort into their profiles, themselves or talking to people and people will just be desperate to have sex with them. Our experience is that swingers are not just sex fiends that fuck anyone that is available. At least not the ones that we would be interested in. If anything we are even more selective, because there are so many options out there.
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2 pointsNot uncommon. I believe it why there are so many single men signing up to swinger sites as free members with little to no profile content; swinger=easy/guaranteed. Same reason they will over run any club that allows them unrestricted. Then charges them twice as much for even the slightest hope that they’ll get laid. There are some super cool and chill ones out there but you have to put up with a lot of frogs to find that prince.
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2 pointsSome people think that after knocking on a hundred doors and only having limited (at best) success that maybe they are doing something wrong and come up with a new plan.
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2 pointsMy husband and I do not live in the town nor state that we grew up in. So just last year after not being around a long time I went back to visit while my husband stayed and worked. I got invited to one of my old BFFs birthday partys. I told my husband and he said if something comes up to go ahead and play if I wanted to. At the party I was drinking and alot of old classmates where talking to me. By the later hours I was feeling good and horny and a few of the guys kept flirting. I ended up having sex with three of them at different times throughout the party
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1 pointI don't know... how different is it really from the general "you have to kiss a lot of frogs" mentality of finding a couple or single that is a good match for you and isn't a fake or flake? Yes, these guys are looking quick, easy, no strings attached sex and they don't want to put in any real work to find it (beyond sending out lots and lots of copy n' pasted messages that say "hey, wanna fuck"). Yes, they are exactly what gives single men in the lifestyle a bad name. Yes, 99 our of 100 of us will turn them down without a second thought... but for that 100th couple, for whatever reason, these guys may be what they are looking for. You're not wrong. At the same time, when my wife and I used to go to clubs, we were totally there for the no strings attached, one night hook up with some agreeable anonymous guy... and as long as everyone agreed that was the deal and had a good time, everyone was happy. Basically, we were the sluts and we enjoyed it. I'm not saying these guys are right or good. Honestly, I've ignored and blocked guys like this on swingers sites too. Still, if they do have a 1 in a 100 or even 1 in a 1000 success rate, who am I to judge to people who do respond to those messages with "hot dick, do me now"?
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1 pointWe keep our hot tub at 95 degrees...hot enough to be comfortable but not so hot that everyone overheats.
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1 pointPeople who want a quick hit knock on a hundred doors. If one person says yes, they’re happy.
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1 pointNo it is far from the first time we have received a message like this! The point I was trying to make is that the misconception that everyone on a swinger site is a slut that will fuck anything or anybody is the furthest thing from the truth, but it is clear that many people think that is the way it is.
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1 pointI have done several positions that involve deep penetration like: Viennese Oyster and pile driver, those are considered "party positions" for me, I like the feeling of being "owned" in front of others especially my husband, I really enjoy when they pin down my legs wide open and taking the deep strokes. I have never had sex with my husband in those positions, it is simply not appealing to do it by ourselves in private.
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1 pointLots of foreplay in the hot tub, kissing rubbings, etc, but I prefer no actual sex there, too hot, too uncomfortable and water is not a good lube.
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1 pointHot tubs are awesome. It's also fun to swap partners and rinse off in the shower after!
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1 pointNot so much different positions with different partners for us as we are all over the place when it is just the two of us! Definitely different things we have done that can’t be done with just the two of us though. Her bent over getting fucked while her face is buried between another woman’s legs, having my cock sucked by her and another woman at the same time, her sucking and stroking another guy and myself at the same time, her being spit roast by another guy and myself, her 69ing with another woman well I take turns fucking both of them, her fucking a woman with a strap on while I am fucking her, her on her back legs up in the air getting fucked by someone else while I fuck her face and boobs and the list goes on and on. These are the things we are in the lifestyle for! The things we can’t do with just the two of us. The younger adult me would never have believed that these things would ever happen in my life, but they have and they will leave lifelong memories of incredible experiences I got to share with the most amazing sexual person I have ever meet.
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1 pointMy wife (Nisha) and I (Trent) have been married for just over 10 years. She is 31, and I’m 33. Nisha is of Indian origin and has an amazing body. She is around 54 kilograms, size 8-10 waist, 34 C boobs, and the most stunning ass you have ever seen. I love her, and I love her body. Me on the other hand, I’m just under 6 foot, nice pecs, decent biceps and a clean shaven 8-inch cock. Our sex life has always been an adventurous one: sex in car parks, blow jobs on the beach, sex while swimming in the ocean and the list goes on. About a year back we introduced pornography into our relationship. Initially, just normal porn star type sex which progressively moved up the ranks to more graphic scenes. We started watching a lot of MFM threesomes, and she loved seeing a lady have two cocks all to herself. This infatuation grew to couple foursome’s porn. The thought of another couple watching us and us watching them made us both incredibly horny. And this is how our swinging lives began. We started researching swinging bars and clubs and came across a venue not too far away from where we lived. We both showered and started getting ready for a night that we will never forget. Nisha wore a sexy blue loose-fitting dress with a black g-string and black bra. The dress was quite sheer, and I could see her perfect round ass beneath. My cock hardened at the sight before me, and I slipped my hand up her dress and gently rubbed her pussy through her g-string. She turned around and grabbed on my cock and told me to wait for later. We got into the car and started driving, both quietly thinking of what may or may not lie ahead of us. Nisha leaned over and kissed my cheek while unzipping my jeans. She pulled out my cock, bent down and started sucking. She has gorgeous lips, and she knows exactly how a man wants his cock to be sucked. She stopped as I was about to explode and I was told that was just a taste of what was coming. We got to the venue, found a parking spot, and went inside. As we entered the property, we heard seductive music playing softly. A well-built man walked up to us and introduced himself, explained the rules, and let us inside. We made our way to the bar and ordered two double whiskeys to calm our nerves. When we looked around, we saw only a few people. We finished our drinks and decided to tour the place. The first room that really sparked our interest was a room with a couple that was engaged in oral sex. The man had a huge, thick cock that his partner was sucking and stroking. He had his fingers in her pussy as she played with and sucked on his dick. Watching a real life blow job was surreal for both of us. I placed my hand on Nisha’s and asked her if she liked his cock? She looked at me surprised and said she did and asked me not to be angry. I smiled and told her that it turned me on knowing she liked looking at another man’s cock. A few more people gathered around to watch this couple in action. Another couple standing next to us were also very intrigued. The lady kneeled down, undid his pants, and started giving him a blowjob right next to us. Nisha and I stared at them. He looked at us and asked Nisha what she had thought, obviously referring to his cock which wasn’t too big to be honest but very thick and uncut. Nisha didn’t answer but responded by slipping her had down my pants and stroking my cock and kissing me gently. We decided to go outside and get some air. As we walked out, we noticed the pool area and a 6-person Jacuzzi. There were naked and semi-naked people all around us oblivious to our presence. We found a spot to sit down and ordered a few drinks. We sat quietly, sipping on our drinks while taking in the surroundings. There were tits, pussy, ass, and cock in every direction we looked. Couples were kissing, sucking, blowing and fucking all around us. Nisha looked at me and asked what my thoughts were. I had to be honest and told her that I had never been as horny as I was right then. This gave her the confidence to tell me that she felt exactly the same way. I asked her what she thought of all the cock that was right in front of her; some soft, some semi-hard, and those with proper erections. She seemed to want them all. She reached over and put her hand on my crotch, gently squeezing my cock which sprang to life immediately. She asked if it would be ok to blow me there, in front of all of these people. Of course, I agreed, getting sucked in public was a major fantasy of mine. I stood up, and she removed my pants and asked me to sit down again. I told her to remove her g-string and bra, and she gladly obliged. I lifted her dress upwards, revealing her just cleanly shaven tight pussy. My hands started rubbing on her clit and deep inside her pussy. She moaned loudly and started stroking my fully hard cock. Again she leaned over and started sucking me off, concentrating on the head of my cock before taking it all in making her gag slightly. Nisha’s ass was in the air; I lifted her dress and exposed her ass to everyone who was willing to look. I was ready to explode and asked Nisha to take a five-minute break as I did not want to blow my load so early. She settled back into her chair and lifted up her dress and told me to suck her cunt. Those words drove me insane. I took off my shirt was now fully naked. I asked Nisha to remove her dress. I opened her legs and then opened up her pussy lips and started sucking her pussy and squeezing her amazing tits. Another couple moved closer to us and sat next to us. We couldn’t be bothered and continued as if they were not there. It was only when they started talking that we took notice. The man began telling his wife that he loves my wife’s tits and how big her nipples were and that he would suck them all night long. On hearing this, my mouth moved from her pussy, up to her tummy, and finally onto her right tit taking her nipple into my mouth. The man and his wife looked to be in their mid 30’s. We learned later that their names were Tracey and Nick. He was well hung and also clean shaven. His wife was sexy as fuck. Thick thighs and huge hanging tits with a beautiful clean shaven cunt. My wife ushered me to sit back down. I sat down next to Nisha and continued squeezing and playing with her tits. I took her left tit this time and started sucking again. Tracey stood up and asked if I needed any help. I stopped and looked over at Nisha who gave me the nod of approval. Tracey sat on the same seat as Nisha and began squeezing her breasts and telling us how she and her husband loved tits. She bent over and took Nisha’s right nipple into her mouth. The sight of another lady sucking Nisha’s tits sent me into overdrive. Nisha pulled my head towards her chest, and I started sucking on her left nipple. Both tits being sucked by two different people. Nick stood up and came closer to the three of us with his cock in his hand, stroking it while he stepped forward. Nisha turned towards him, fixated on his thick cock. He came closer and closer until his cock was up against Nisha’s right nipple where Tracey was sucking. Tracey grabbed hold of his cock and started tugging. Tracey pulled his cock and rubbed it against Nisha’s nipple. She took turns sucking his cock and Nisha’s nipple and tried getting both into her mouth at the same time. Nisha was unable to control her herself and grabbed onto Nick’s cock with one hand and grabbed my cock with the other, gently but firmly stroking us both. Tracey's back was facing me. I reached over and grabbed her tits from behind as she sucked Nick's cock. My hands went down towards her clit which was swollen. I rubbed her clit and finally penetrated with my fingers. I looked up and saw Nisha’s hand still on Nick's cock while Tracey was sucking. Nisha bit and licked her lips – I knew what she wanted. At this point, I got a hold of Nick's cock at the base and steered it towards Nisha’s mouth. Her mouth opened automatically as she took the head of his cock into her mouth. Watching her suck another man’s cock was electrifying to say the least. As Nisha was sucking, Tracey looked at me and smiled. Her hands found my now throbbing cock, and she gave a few hard strokes before leaning over and taking my entire cock into her mouth. My cock was considerably longer than Nick's but not as thick. I stood up, Tracey now sitting right next to Nisha on the same seat. I stood in front of her and shoved my cock into her mouth and started fucking her face. My focus moved to Nisha who was looking me dead in the eye while sucking Nick's cock. I reached over and grabbed Nisha's tits. Tracey saw this and proclaimed loudly that she now needs some pussy. She got up and went to the front Nisha, spread her legs, and began sucking her wet cunt. Nisha then grabbed my cock and took turns sucking on mine then Nick's cock. I could see Nisha wanted more. She took hold of both cocks with one hand and stroked and tried her best to get both into her mouth. The feeling of my cock against another cock was immense as both cock heads rubbed together, Nisha’s mouth dripped with spit and pre-cum. I got up and made my way towards Tracey who was busy eating Nisha’s pussy. Tracy was on all fours, ass in the air and her face buried between Nisha’s legs. Tracy had a big round ass. I went behind her, spread open her ass cheeks, and started licking her crack almost suffocating as her ass cheeks enveloped me. Her asshole was stretched, and I could almost see right inside. I started rimming Tracy before I stuck my tongue inside her asshole. Her body quivered. I slapped her ass and made my way to her pussy. I sucked her cunt as hard as possible, getting as much as I could into my mouth. He pussy was divine, her puss juices dripping all over my face. Tracey stood up and asked me to sit down next to Nisha. As soon as I sat down, Nick made his way towards me with his cock making its way to my mouth. I have never ever sucked a cock before, but at this point, there was nothing I wanted more. His cock touched my lips. I took hold of it and kissed the head. Then I stuck my tongue out and licked his cock head like a lollypop. Eventually, Nick thrust his cock into my mouth, and I gave him the blow job of his life. I gently bit into his cock with each thrust. He fucked my mouth as though I was his bitch. Nisha began kissing my cheek as I sucked Nick's cock. My mouth was sore, so I pulled Nisha forward so that she could now suck. We both sucked Nick's cock together, kissing each other in between. I then asked Nick to sit next to Nisha, and they took turns sucking my cock with Tracy joining in a few minutes later. Three people sucking my cock – I was in heaven. I got both girls to bend over exposing their pussies and their ass holes. Tracy was rubbing her cunt, obviously wanting to get fucked. I went over and slowly inserted my cock into her pussy. She was so tight and so wet, and she groaned with each thrust. I looked over and saw Nick fucking Nisha’s pussy. Both girls getting fucked by a different cock. After around five minutes of fucking, I heard Nisha let out a long moan. I knew she came. I pulled out of Tracey’s pussy and started sucking up all Nisha’s juices. Nick went over to Tracey and finished her off. I then shoved my cock into Nisha’s cunt. Nick made his way to the front of Nisha and put his cock in her mouth. Nisha with a cock in her puss and one in her mouth was groaning with absolute pleasure. I felt Tracy come behind me, her hands on my ass cheeks. She opened them wide and started licking my asshole. She sucked and sucked harder than I have ever had my asshole sucked. She then slipped one of her fingers into my ass. It was a mix of pain and pleasure. She started fucking my ass with her finger and before I knew it a second finger slipped in. The feeling was amazing, my cock in Nisha’s puss and Tracey’s fingers in my ass. Nisha made me sit down, and Tracy got on top of me. As Tracey started riding me, Nick placed his cock into my mouth. I sucked him and all of a sudden he pulled out saying that he was about to come and it was too soon. He made his way behind Tracy and fucked her up her ass while I fucked her cunt. Nisha was in front of me, legs on either side of me and her pussy in my face. I started nibbling on her clit, pulling it with my lips. Nick said aloud that he was ready to cum. He asked Nisha to bend over and spread her ass cheeks. His cock slowly made its way into her asshole, which was a perfect fit for my cock and not used to such a thick cock as Nick had. Once he got inside, he thrust a few times and blew his load in Nisha’s ass. As he pulled out his cum dripped from her asshole. Thick, white, warm cum. I leaned over and sucked Nisha’s ass sucking all Nick’s cum out of her asshole. I kept his cum in my mouth, turned Nisha over as started kissing her, swapping Nick's cum with Nisha. With his cum in her mouth, Nisha and Tracey started swapping. Nisha then started sucking my cock with Nick's cum in her mouth. His cum dripped onto my cock as Nisha, and then Tracey, sucked on my cock. Tracey then went into a 69 position with her ass in my face as she blew me. I sucked her asshole as she sucked my cock. I was ready to explode. After a few deep hard sucks, I filled Tracey's mouth with my cum. She didn’t stop sucking until I couldn’t cum anymore. She spat my cum into both of her hands. She rubbed my cum onto Nisha's pussy with one hand and onto Nick's cock with the other hand. I was broken, fucked like I have never been fucked before. Nisha made her way onto my lap and kissed me. She thanked me for the best sexual experience of her life. We swapped numbers with Nick and Tracey hoping that maybe soon, we could take off from where we started.
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1 pointOn the contrary, such musings are pivotal to this board. We would argue that sex and sexuality are central to adult life. Sexual exclusivity is conventionally used to define and circumscribe marriage ("Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?"), The problem, of course, is that biology runs headlong into culture. How often do we see novices looking to "spice up their marriage"? That phrase acknowledges the tension. While there are surely sexless marriages, and while are surely there are asexual humans, sex is foundation to (most) adult lives and to (most) marriages. At its best, marital sex is joyous. Some marital sex is less joyous--makeup sex, pity sex, going-through-the-motions-sex. But it's still pretty good. Sex is generally pretty good. Whoever doesn't like physical pleasure and orgasms, you're free to leave the conversation. The angst arises with the possibility that someone else might be able not only to make your spouse feel good--but maybe do it better than you. The perceived vulnerability--the threat--is of marital dissolution and consequent abandonment. What makes a marriage "successful"? We would suggest that it is one that not only survives but actually thrives on events that occur both inside (e.g. raising kids) and outside (e.g. choosing how to interact with the complex pressures of work, money,time) the marriage. At the root of such success is the notion of partnership--"we are in this together, come what may, with and for each other, til death do us part".