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1 point40ish? You have plenty of time. We were together as a couple almost that long before we seriously considered it. Career , children , aging parents that required care, all had higher priority. We have no regrets about playing our life as it was dealt, "to every thing there is a season and a time to every purpose". The trick is recognizing it. I will again recommend the well written and insightful books available. You asked about the rightness and normalcy of this all. While I cannot agree wholeheartedly with the entire contents of these books, they do help form the questions in ways you may not be considering. I will volunteer, " The Ethical Slut" as one book.
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1 pointA theme I'm sure you've seen by now in many, many posts is that the key to successful swinging is communication. Communicate, communicate, communicate. It sounds like you're doing a great job of that! Even if you never end up swinging, that kind of open, honest communication is the bedrock of many a great relationship.
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1 pointAn open mind is a requirement. Even though you’re not religious or have moral issues, the societal programming did its job. It’s good that you’re checking it out for yourself, but like others have said, it’s not for everyone. At least you’re giving it a fair shake by researching the topic though.
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1 pointNot all cuckolds perform m/m play. And, bisexual m/m play has little to do with cuckolding. Seems like a stretch to conflate the two topics. There is enough confusion of terms as it is… The Venn diagram has overlap- leave it at that.
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1 pointIf there is a line between bisexual and cuckold it's a blurry line at best. A cuckold husband may suck a Bull's cock as an act if submission and symbolic transfer of power from husband to wife, but he wouldn't do any of it if he didn't like sucking cock. Yes, men can be every bit the sexual shapeshifter that women can be. And, for us, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. This LS is about exploring your sexuality- so explore!
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1 pointI'll offer a thought. The cuckold thing isn't my particular thing, but the submissive I've been working with sometimes experiences a cuckquean-like kink. She has an older female friend who she looks up to as sort of a mother figure, and let it slip that she's developed a terribly clear fantasy of me fucking that woman and making her watch - and then making her clean the woman up. It's not an explicitly bisexual thing for her, it's a submission thing, the logical end game of the scenario to grind her down as hard as possible.
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1 pointIt’s tough to say if this is bi exploration or fully engaging a cuckold fetish/fantasy. Personally believe it’s more the latter. Although it straddles the line and is probably different and depends on the individual participating.
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1 pointI would certainly hope not. We've got enough people in the world these days trying to rewrite dictionaries to meet their own agenda - hope and pray it does not come to the LS community. Our take on this is simple - we believe in total truth in advertising. I hear the stigma thing, but don't buy it. Common now - there is stigma associated with everything in the LS in the non-LS world. I thought one of the more appealing aspects of the LS was honesty. We know what we are, and advertise as much. People who read our profiles know what to expect, and we expect the same from others. If readers don't like what they see, then they know we're not a great match and move on - a win-win solution IMHO. Anyone who does not have the balls to admit and be truthful about why they are here and what they are looking for should probably not be in the LS to begin with. Sorry for being so brutal - we're not trying to hurt anyone's feelings but feel rather strongly about being able to openly communicate about who we are and what others are looking and expecting.
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1 pointI think cuckhold is different than Bi. He is Bi for us, and we both love the MM play. He also likes to see me fuck other men. We love to share a cock. Any other man engaged in humiliation would be booted.
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1 pointIn terms of why hide it, while I think things have gotten way better on acceptance in the swinging world, there is still a lot of stigma involved with male-male interaction. Or fear of stigma at the very least. I also think there are gender differences, not just in swinging but society at large. A female can admit to girl-girl experience, and "lesbian" isn't the first word on everybody's tongues. A guy admitting to male-male, for some people "gay male" is the first thing that comes to their mind. Don't know why that is, but it is. For some reason, more leeway is given on a female's sexual identity, whereas with males it's perceived to be an all or nothing thing. So question back to you. I have watched some amateur cuckold porn, and it seems like creampie cleaning is much more common that sucking cock. Why is that? Is it that licking a cum-filled pussy is still licking a pussy, therefore still "not gay", but sucking a cock is definitely in gay territory?
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1 pointHere are a couple more of Missus Enhancer in her new green outfit! Getting ready for Christmas.
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1 pointFor over three years now my husband has teased and tempted me with stories about us swinging with other couples or bi-singles. Up until this weekend, it was all talk. We had planned a trip to Reno for a few days of relaxation and fun. Driving from Oregon to Nevada is tiring but worthwhile. I showered in our bathroom trying to refresh after the nine-hour drive. I could hear my husband in the room talking to someone. I assumed it was the hotel maid. When I came out of the shower the lights were off, and the TV was off, and I could see that my husband was lying on the bed. I figured he was beat from the drive too. I let my towel drop to the floor, and I snuggled up next to him. I could hear him breathing. It seemed somewhat labored so I assumed he'd just passed out and was on the way to snoring. I reached over and started to undo his Levis and shirt. I heard him let out a small moan. I took that as the "go ahead," and I pulled his clothes from him and began to lick and suck his balls and smooth 8 1/2" cock. I love to suck cock, and I really get into it. I get so into it that I lose track of time and block out everything except for the beautiful cock that I'm devouring. I was very fatigued from the long drive, but I couldn't help but think that something just wasn't right. My husband Mike had quickly shot a huge load of cum in my face, which wasn't normal. Mike had, over the years, learned how to hold his orgasm for a long time in order to fully enjoy my oral technique. But he was tired so who could blame the guy. Within about a minute of him shooting his hot load in my face, he had pushed me back and was kissing my neck, my face, and my 40dd tits. I heard him moan loudly when he sucked one of my hard nipples into his mouth. As he slowly made his way down my tummy and to the tender area of flesh just above the pubic hair, I arched my back and tried to raise my swollen, wet pussy and clit to his hungry mouth. But he wasn't taking my signals, he was drawing this out as much as possible. Kissing all the way around my hairy mound. Teasing me. Making me want to fuck. Finally, I could take no more teasing. I grabbed the back of his head and shoved it down to my dripping pussy, and his tongue began to dance over my clit as I slowly fucked his mouth. That's when I realized that Mikes hair felt funny. It felt short and almost spiky. His hair was nothing of the sort. It was smooth, longer, and very thick. I tensed up....was my mind playing tricks on me? I was just about ready to freak out when the door to the adjoining room to ours opened. I was confused and somewhat bewildered, especially when in the shadows I realized that the person entering our room was Mike. "What the fuck?" was the only sentence I uttered before getting a good look at the guy so eagerly lapping at my pussy. It was our local gas station attendant. My husband often teased me about the "kid" at the gas station. He was very cute, looking very much like Tim McGraw and with a killer personality. I'd always make a comment or just say "mmm-mmm-mmm" when I would see that tasty tender viddle at work. But I knew by looking at him that he was young. Probably too young. I am 31, and my handsome husband is 43. My husband had, without my knowledge, got the young stud muffin to consent to come to Reno and meet us and have a mini-vacation filled with nothing but sex. Come to find out this "kid" was actually 23 and was a full-time college student who was making extra cash by working at the gas station. When I saw the huge smile on my husbands face I knew that I was in for a wonderful time. Tim (as I like to call him) went on about his business of licking my swollen snatch. Mike came over to the bed and unleashed his cock so that I could suck it. I was in heaven. A hard cock in my mouth and a hot tongue on my clit. Mike shot his hot cum into my mouth while I orgasmed. It was time for more cock. But I wanted to feel it in my pussy now. I had been a good oral girl, now it was time to be fucked. I pulled Tim up from my love hole and kissed him full on the lips. "Fuck me right now!" I said in a raspy voice. He obeyed. Slipping his very thick hard 7-incher deep in my tight cunt. Mike was now recovering. He crawled up on the bed to watch Tim's fat cock ram into my little hole. Just the thought of Mike's face watching so close helped to push me over the edge. I exploded with such a force that Tim's cock was pushed right out of my pussy. He didn't waste much time shoving it back in. As my pussy flooded over, I could tell that Tim was nearing orgasm. We moved together in a very labored, rough way. I could tell that with each stroke it was taking a lot for him to hold it back. I whispered in his ear that I loved his fat cock and that I wanted him to fill my pussy with his cum. His cum hit the back of my pussy with such a force I expected to taste it. Within a minute or so, I heard Mike begin to cum too. He'd been stroking himself watching his wife get pounded by a handsome young stud. We all cleaned up, and they both laughed about how they'd tricked me and how my sweet husband had set the whole thing up and that we had three more nights to play out whatever fantasies I might have. We left the hotel and went and played the slots, drank powerful drinks, and had a nice dinner. Later that night after many drinks we all three went back to our adjoining rooms and somehow, someway they convinced me that my tight little pussy could be slowly worked over and relaxed up enough to cram both their hard cocks into. I had drunk just enough to try it. But alas, the pussy was too small, they had to settle for one in my ass and one in my pussy...what a weekend. NOW, I'm looking for a sweet bi babe to help me set my hubby up...
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1 pointMy wife was a 19 year old virgin on our wedding day. Rasied in a very strict religion she had never been on a date until I took her out. She was very cute and we soon fell in love and I respected her wish to give herself to her husband on her wedding night. It was difficult not to pressure her to give in, but I was 26 and able to control my urges for the three months we were engaged. She was totally without any sexual knowledge and had never even seen an illustration of a penis and had no idea what to do except for what her mother told her the night before the wedding. Coming into her bedroom, her mother simply said 'I know you don't know anything about sex but he does. All you have to do is lay there and let him do whatever he wants with you and you will get used to it. Just never tell him no.' She took her mother's advice. After four years of marriage and every way I could think of to get her to overcome her inhibitions, she would just lay there and let me. Never once did she initiate sex or do anything except lay there. Not that she didn't enjoy sex, when we would talk about it she said she always enjoyed it. The only way she ever had an orgasm was from oral stimulation and when she got close would thrash around and hump and moan until she came, but she would never perform oral on me. I would make her cum then jump on and get mine. We talked a lot about her inhibitions, she always wanted to overcome them and fully participate but said for too many years she was taught that sex was not for enjoyment but it was a wife's duty to allow her husband to enjoy her. One night she said that she felt the only way she could ever overcome her inhibitions was to get enough courage to do something so daring and totally sexual that it would take her to a new level and then she could have normal sex after experiencing something beyond her inhibitions. But, she said, we have done everything we can do and the only thing I can think of is to involve another person. ' If I could walk in a room and get naked in front of a guy I had never seen and would never see again and do every sex act with total abandon, then I could have normal sex with you.' When I said maybe we should plan something, she said no, she would only back out if we planned something because it was really something she would be way to inhibited to actually do. I had been buying sex magazines trying to get her to loosen up and there were a lot of letters from readers about swinging and wives who had found themselves in sexy situations with their husbands and one of his friends and ended up horny and fucking him while her husband watched. I was always turned on by these letters and the idea of watching my cute, shy, inhibited wife getting fucked as I watched. I came up with an idea. One night as she made supper I began to play around, grabbing her breast, coming up behind her and putting my hand under her dress and rubbing her pussy thru her panties. The phone rang and it was her mother, as she talked I reached up and pulled her panties down and put my foot on them so she couldn't pull them up. She tried not to laugh as she talked with her mother and then I got my finger in her pussy and she lost her concentration and stuttered on the phone and made a few ooohhh's and ssssstt sounds under her breath. After hanging up the phone I began kissing her neck and she asked what got me so frisky and I just told her 'you'. After supper I told her to go get a bubble bath and I would do the dishes. I quickly did them then went into our bedroom and pulled the covers down, replaced the nightstand bulb with a red one and put a porn in the bedroom vcr with the sound down low. Then I went into the bathroom and got her out of the tub and toweled her off and led her to the bed. 'ooohh', she said. 'you ARE horny!' I laid her down then reached in the nightstand and pulled out a short piece of rope and tied her hands together over her head and to the top of the bed. Then I got a bottle of sexy scented body lotion and rubbed it all over her body. Then as she laid there naked, hands tied up over her head and legs slightly parted, I told her to lay there a minute and think about what was going to happen and 'when I come back I want your pussy to be nice and wet' and I walked out and closed the door. I worked in construction and knew a couple of roofers, nice and tan and tall and lanky. I told them my plan and they were at the back door waiting when I let them in, shirtless and wearing only jeans. Quietly we walked back to the bedroom and I opened the door and walked in and there she laid, as I left her, tied naked to the bed, her pussy showing in the dim red light. About five seconds later the two guys walked in and startled her. She pulled at the ropes and before she could say anything I said 'Enjoy yourself getting over your inhibitions'. The two guys were bent over taking their jeans off their feet, and when they stood up both had at least 8 or 9 inches of cock sticking out and still rising. One got on the bed and parted her legs and she didn't fight but looked frightened. He lowered his head to her pussy and began to lick it and she started to moan and pulled her legs apart a little more as he stuck his tongue into her. The other guy was on the bed on his knees and grabbed her head on pulled it to his dick and with his hand rubbed it on her face and then to her lips and into her mouth and her cheeks bulged as she took it. The other guy moved up and laid over top of her and moving his hips got his cock in line with her pussy and in one thrust buried 9 inches of cock in her up to his balls. Her moan was muffled by the cock in her mouth and she lurched up and down the bed as the other guy fucked her. Taking turns, she got fucked in the mouth and pussy for nearly forty-five minutes. She wiggled and jerked and moaned and humped against the dick in her, I think she cum at least three times before they were wore out and she was exhausted. They pulled on their jeans and left as I climbed on top of her and gave her all I had and she fucked back, humping and moaning and when I pulled out and straddled her head, she had her mouth open and waiting when I gave it to her. Since then I have surprised her once a month for the past year and last week led her naked from the car into a friend's house where she was the entertainment for seven guys at a bachelor party and she loves it!
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1 pointMain stream swinging is an oxymoron. Swinging is not main stream. Within swinging there are diverse interests. Bisexuality by both genders, BDSM, hot wifing, vixen/stag, dom/sub. Many of these sub interests are currently of no interest to me, but if I am open minded enough to participate in the lifestyle, I owe it to participants in these subgroups to be tolerant and supportive of their interests and not denigrate them.
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1 pointCongratulations! You have clearly described a common pathway in the LS. From the outside looking in (aka vanillas, interesteds, just about to dip the toe, breathless reporters,.. )the LS is all about sex. That's what is talked about, envied, disparaged, ... From the inside looking out, the LS is all about your primary relationship with your spouse or S/O, and how that journey unfolds. For a few in the LS, it really is "all about sex". For many others, it is about building relationships with like-minded couples. The friendship piece really does matter. Trust, intimacy, honesty in a space where no one is embarrassed to be having fun\. Compare that to the issues of ordinary life.