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The first step is to take a deep breath. HSV2 is quite common. It is a chronic condition, as the virus hides in the nerve ganglia and emerges especially during stress. As njbm mentioned, there is treatment and it is quite effective in suppressing the lesions. Valacyclovir, trade name Valtrex. Speak with your physicians. This is an infection that millions and millions of people live with. It is much less complicated to live with and treat compared to (for example) HIV. You should disclose the condition to potential play partners. So long as you are taking Valtrex and there are neither lesions nor the sensation that a lesion might soon develop (often described as a tingling/burning sensation) your risk of transmitting the virus is very low.

I get the "your pussy is tight" comment a lot also, and it always surprises me too, for the same reason, two kids. So whenever a guy says "Wow your pussy is tight", I always laugh and say "well you should have fucked her when I was in my twenties, cause that pussy would have crushed your dick. ?????

Pussy size matters to me as much as cock size matters to her! That is not at all. As long as people do something about the things that are in their control like their weight and their health we don’t care what size their sex organs are. If they are a passionate enthusiast lover we will get off. Missus enhancer is incredibly tight when we get started, but is also multi orgasmic so by the time she has cum multiple times she is completely wet and it isn’t so tight anymore. Makes no difference to me.

Sorry you are having to deal with this, but it sounds like you are approaching it in a mature and reasonable manner. If it is any comfort, we know someone who found themselves in a similar situation. After the initial shock wore off, it turned out to be not anywhere even remotely close to the life-altering event initially feared.

Can’t believe it took so long for someone to say the butt...

It would be a better world if people related to their sexual partners as a person and took less measurement of boobs, vaginas and penises. Part of the fun is the variation. When we read profiles that say the guy has to be so many inches and he has to be able to perform, we know they are not the people for us.

Structurally and biologically it doesn't matter. It is only a perception. What matters is how much work has gone into preparing it for entry? Tight may be pleasing to a dick, but i fit is an unprepared dry pussy, it may hurt the woman. If the guy has worked well on making me ready, I can make it tight by pulling my muscles inside. But , if the guy hasn't worked on it, I would rather throw him out than worry about what he thinks.

I've never been in one that didn't feel "just right" at the time.

When I was a kid, our local small town cop got fired for this. He got in back with a girl, and the doors could ne be oppened from the inside. There was also a screen and the whole back of the car was pretty much escape proof. They sat there for hours till another cop cme and found them.

After reading all of these, I don't know if its kinky or not -- My ex-wife and I were out for a drive one night chasing a thunderstorm and talking, getting our selves worked up. We were staying at her parents for the weekend and could not really do anything there, so we pulled off the road into a small cemetary and took care of busness there.

The kinkiest place I have had sex in was about 30 years ago. I was on the police department and I had a female partner. Her and I had talked about my ex-wife and I swinging and how we would all like to get things going. Well, things got a little hot one night on patrol and we did it in the back of our police car.

In the back of husband's truck out in a field where we were supposed to be fishing in a pond. It was a beautiful and perfect day--just loved being out in the open-no trees with the sun shining...

In a plane heading to Australia with a stranger. We covered with a blanket and did it right in the seat ... the lights were out but incredibly ertotic - the true "zipless fuck".

Early 80's I manage a small waterbed store in a strip mall. I would pick up dates and bring them back to the store. If you looked in the window you could see us. Cost me $45.00 for dry cleaning the comforter and satin sheets, but well worth it. Never was a good salesman and eventually lost that job but sure was fun while it lasted.

Sunset Beach in Hawaii... in the middle of the day....

We love to do it in open areas -the kinkiest? Main Street in Disney. Was at night, had on mini skirt and he loose fitting shorts and just sat on the bench and slowly rocked back and forth. Hard to keep a slow pace so we would not cause any attention to us. Love to do stuff like that!

On a shale slide, on the side of the mountain overlooking Boulder, Colorado, in broad daylight. Anyone and everyone in the city could see us with or without binoculars. We ended up 100' farther downhill from where we started. I had bloody knees; she had deep cuts on her rear and we were both immensely satisfied.