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Ask them? How do YOU like stimulation? It shows willingness and ability to adapt, and concern for their pleasure. It does not show inexperience and does show awareness. Just like nipple play some like VERY gentle other like heavy pulling and teeth. As long as you keep track you are golden.

We hosted parties for many years as well as fantasy parties/events. Our gathers had a mix of people, ethnicities, body types, experienced and not so experienced. Mostly Caucasian but some Latino, Asian, brown and darker skin males and females. All were welcome. We had several attendees who were here on work visas….Rhodesia, Brazil, Mexico, Germany, England, Canada and Jamaica. We never had any issues at all. Everyone played well together. Most all played in an open room group setting. We had one semi private room with a twin bed that rarely got used. If you were sexually adventurous, had oral talents and working sex organs and a good sense humor you played well and often at our parties. I do not remember ever being asked to set up any “thrill seeking” or set a special physique, body type or color. Never had any complaints. I think they way we operated only those interested in open adult sex play would attend to begin with and not have many or any reservations. It just wasn’t our atmosphere. I’m not naive and know, witnessed and experience blatant mean and disgusting bigotry and racism. I recognize it even when someone is trying to gloss it over as something else. I have not experienced it at any of the many parties we have attended over the years. I’m sure it has happened and does now and again…..just not in our experience. I personally have major issues with ignorant assholes. As such I can usually spot them and they just do not get invited. so lucky or not we just had fun loving people who greatly enjoyed treating sex play as a great adult extracurricular activity. playing well with whoever might be next to you

"Thinking this will be the last time leaving home as a monogamous couple." If you are worried maybe this will help with the mindset. We believe that people conflate two concepts and then use one word incorrectly. The two concepts are Marriage and Sexual exclusivity. The word that is used with a meaning different to what it means is Monogamy. Mono Gameo in Greek means quite literally, I am to married to one. When the two of you are finished with this weekends adventure, remember that you are still married to each other and not to any others. You will no longer be sexually exclusive. The big difference there is there is never any doubt who has your back, for either of you. Who is the person who you consult about decisions? Who is the person who is "Your Person." Who is the one you trust above all others? That is marriage. Sex can and does support marriage don't get me wrong. It is NOT marriage though. Some people differentiate Making Love and having sex as the defining thing as far as sex goes. That is as useful a distinction as any.

Try it, you’ll like it. Merry Christmas 🎄

Sharing a J and tequila can lead to sex when you aren’t planning it. Our first was delayed a few times because of nerves. Keep talking and be thankful that your friends are patient.

I read that article. I, too, thought it was a problem among the cartels. But apparently the cartels are competing to supply the mostly American tourists with drugs.

In an earlier comment on this thread I suggested that Mexico’s spate of drug-gang violence posed little for no threat to those vacationing at popular tourist sites. Apparently that is changing., per this current article in the Washington Post; "Tourist drug demand is bringing cartel violence to Cancun, Tulum and the Mexican Riviera" https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/2021/12/24/mexico-cancun-tourism-cartel-violence/

Don’t overthink what might happen, just make sure you are both thinking alike. There is only one first time, there is no putting the toothpaste back in the tube. Make a promise to Debbie that you will never hold her actions against her, then ask her for the same commitment. Enjoy your trip and have a Merry Christmas.

Like many men I love watching Tits have sex with others men or women She is more sensual and excited when with a stranger

Here we go again, hitting the road later today. Thinking this will be the last time leaving home as a monogamous couple. We bought two a few Covid testing kits for the trip. Debbie is acting like this will be it, not much different from the last few times we visited so I don’t know how excited I should be.

If she leaves you for better sex or a bigger cock, there are other problems. My husband is no porn star and I have been with plenty of guys that could be and I have watched him with women that were absolutely stunning. What we get from swinging is the thrill of playing with others while coming home to our rock. If he's not satisfying me, I tell him and he does the same. Furthermore, I tell him what I want and how he can make it happen. I don't ask him to grow an extra three inches or to thicken up, but I do tell him exactly where to put the head of his cock so I can cum. If I do want some length and girth Ill tell him.and we'll either hook up with a well endowed guy or he'll wear a nice cock extension and give me a hard and deep fucking. If he wants to have two women sucking his cock, I bring a friend home. It's all about communication, limits and commitment to meeting each other's needs.