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Thank you for all the encouraging posts, am I supposed to keep posting how things are? They are pretty pretty pretty good. Back to our first time, the more I read, the more we talked, the more we laughed, the more perfect our first time was, FaceTime only added to the memory. Debbie not climaxing did not take away from her funness, she reminded me she just doesn’t every time we have sex, not letting go might have contributed even if she said it didn’t. I know she said at the time she was uptight, memories have a way of mellowing. Today was a new day, a day after a day we only tried to plan our first next time. A day where Debbie did climax with someone other than the man she is surly comfortable with and never reluctant to be with except when she is, and I know when not to even try. Our kids surprised us this morning while having breakfast. We were enjoying our host’s hospitality with a great hotel style breakfast. Debbie and I were in our best visiting breakfast outfits, Sweats. Our hosts were in similar outfits, maybe a little fancier The “kids” were dressed and ready to go somewhere, ice skating with other friends. Our friends got the details from their son that they would be gone and most likely would be home for dinner. Hours without our kids!!! I don’t know who was the most excited, Debbie was. Like I wasn’t. Once the car was gone, it didn’t take long before chapter 2. Sex in the morning in bright daylight, seeing nude bodies in full light is much different from the light of a Christmas Tree. Even I could me shy in full light. Yeah I read about the woman who didn’t like her imperfections, men have feelings too. Yeah I got over it fast. In daylight you also get to see your spouse with a friend in a different light doing things I only saw in shadows two days before. I will say it was interesting even if she could see me with our very willing friend. I suggested strip poker, was reminded I had no clothes to lose, we were already passed getting out of clothes. What happened next was fun, nervous fun, I a can be a jokester. Pancake syrup was a part of the fun. Guess it is better than turkey gravy if this happened after dinner. My friends are seasoned swingers, I could understand why both would be prized at any gathering. I always thought of myself as a “stud”, Debbie tells me that frequently. Not bragging but I think I can go for awhile, two minutes at least, just kidding. Between what we were doing, and watching what that other couple was doing, is that really Debbie doing that, laughing, joking and doing whatever, it had to be close to a few hours, it did seem long, when we got to real business. I would say we were going strong and so was that other couple. I think I was pretty good holding out and then I heard all those porn sounds, wondering where it was coming from, and then I knew it was the right time to be in sync. No not the boy band. At that point I was able to watch, in full light my dearest sweetheart was doing. This man was a machine and Debbie who claimed not have climaxed that first time, couldn’t say that again. I know, she can’t fake that with me, right, I know when she fakes, right, yes I can tell. They finally finished Debbie seemed exhausted. I sure was just watching all the positions they were in. So now I’m posting while everyone is watching football. We had plans for tonight to go to a restaurant that canceled our reservation. We are pretty sure it’s Covid related. Two couples we were supposed to be with tomorrow are both sick, waiting on test results, it won’t make a difference, they are sick. Me thinks we will be staying in tomorrow night watching Ryan Seacrest, joking about balls dropping. The second chapter is finished and this book is interesting. Am I supposed to continue play by play or blow by blow, I see some on here are posting daily. Right now I will say Good Night.

Want to bet on that?

Hope you are showering before a few days. When you type and don’t check “wasn’t copious” was what I meant to say. Just a squirt was good too. We are having fun, going home will be back to boring.

Honestly, sounds like it went pretty great. You came multiple times and "copiously", Debbie was right on the edge through a very long session. If this was a restaurant, I'm guessing you'd dine there again. Every encounter will have something that could be slightly better, only because we're all human.

I'm a woman who loves getting and keeping sperm in my vagina, a living part of him to stay a few days. When hubby (or another guy) makes the effort to ejaculate his final few drops into me, I appreciate it.

Congrats on your first experience! Like the others have said, they are rarely perfect. Not just the first one, but any of them. But, they are almost always fun and exciting! :) For us anyways, we didn't approach perfection until it was with friends we had been together with several times. Then, the nerves are gone and everyone is totally relaxed. Best thing is not to judge yourself or others too hard and just take what comes and enjoy the ride, and then that's when things get perfect.

Congrats on breaking your cherry. Just have fun, try to please your partner(s) and don’t be too hard on yourself if things aren’t perfect. It’s just a human endeavor. As a partner told me when I once had altitude problems, “Hey, we’re not porn stars!” Sounds like you had fun. You have to disable the FaceTime. Claim it’s not working!

We have been invited many times to join our friends who are very open to talk about swinging. For years we have laughed the invitations away as something we would never do, I could never picture watching my wife with our friend, I could picture me with our female friend not thinking it could or would happen. Times change, Debbie and I started thinking and then our friends talked us into reading posts on Swingersboard. I posted my thoughts knowing they were reading, using our names changed didn’t hide my posts. They read that we were thinking of joining them Thanksgiving weekend, it didn’t happen. We left the idea open for this week when we returned for Christmas visits to family and friends. If we were going to have any idea of going forward we had to plan a time when our teenage children would not be around for a good amount of time. Our daughter is still friends with her old friends that she new before we moved. They planned a day to go see the holiday lights on Sunday giving us hours to maybe do IT. Kids gone, it was us drinking in the den, just the Christmas tree lights and the TV on. Debbie says guess we have a few hours. I asked are you sure. Even in the low light I could see her red face. To our friends who are reading this, it is my memory, could be mistaken or different way you remember. My gorgeous friend cuddled up to me and rubbed my leg which took away a fear I had, I started to grow, she noticed. I looked over as I saw Debbie’s bra being unhooked under her top. I checked to make sure she was still in agreement, she nodded yes. Sorry, I will continue later.

Think we're all a little down about how things are going lately and a lot of people have posted their disappointments, but I'm hoping a lot of the regulars have found some bright spots and been able to enjoy their activities. Does anyone have anything enjoyable they've done the last couple of weeks or are looking forward to very soon? Cancelled a planned big trip abroad for the holidays, then cancelled a planned weekend trip nearby as things deteriorated. Not so much because we're worried about getting very ill as we are because things would likely close or be difficult to enjoy due to the restrictions. It was the right decision, but a let-down. With that said, we're having a very early New Year's Eve dinner with friends before things get crowded. After that, we're going a little ways out of town and doing something different that we've never tried before: a complete overnight date swap. We've played with the woman many times and Mrs. E has done FMF with her and the male independently, and we wanted to do a full swap once it was possible for everyone to meet again. Thought it would be fun to try it as a mixed double date for cocktails, leave for our hotel before the after-dinner party crowd, and see where things go. Mrs. E hasn't had an excuse to wear a tight dress since the summer.

There is a very common women's health condition caused Bacterial Vaginosis. There are many causes and the odor can differ depending on the bacteria involved, but it's also easily treatable and usually preventable with some changes in personal habits. There may not be a polite way to bring it up to your partner, but just so that you know it's harmless and common, but also not completely typical. Since you mentioned that you first noticed it during oral sex with your first partner, I'm assuming you haven't had intercourse. However, intercourse can definitely make it worse, especially if her body isn't used to it.

You are funny not like the real serious dudes on here also your friends are hilarious with pancake syrup making a pussy a tasty treat. We fuck with lights on because of the man who gets his kicks from watching us. If you fuck with the lights out you can’t see how juicy a pussy is. With all the fretting you had for years looks like Debbie is enjoying your friend she might not want to go home or you may have to buy an EV for the trips you’ll be making.

It's not at all uncommon that couples feel reluctant to fully let go the first time or even the first few times. That's perfectly normal. I'm happy for you that it all went as well as it did! Sounds like a good time was had by all. Keep talking to each other!

You are lucky to be introduced to a new type of sex play by friends. I’m reading that your first time was almost perfect. I bet you will be taking trips back home more often.

Sounds perfect to me. First times are never 200% perfect, always a hiccup or two that you can look back to and laugh. It’s hysterical that your daughter not only called but had to video chat. With all the most perfect part is you went to bed with the most important partner and exchanged what each thought. We hope you will continue to post the beautiful things you have shared.

I can’t believe 3x. Twice with our friend and saved enough for private time with Debbie. That last one was copious but it was there.

To quickly finish my post without all elaborations. What made it not perfect was our daughter FaceTimed us from a Holiday light exhibit she went to. I was able to get a shirt on before answering. We all think I pulled off the idea we were just sitting around talking. It did lend to laughs as we restarted what we didn’t finish. I worried about Floppy Joe and said don’t fail me now. I did get a straight up Joe quickly. Another imperfect part was Debbie didn’t climax even with a very long session even with the interruption. To me I thought he had her all the way there. She told me privately that it was fun and she would do it again. Yeah she almost had the climax, I almost blame myself, she said she held back her enjoyment due to nerves. I could understand the nerves, I felt the same. I think my partner climaxed, maybe a few times. The after private time we talked. Debbie asked me what was the most difficult thing, honest watching her fall fellating him and she gave an agreeing scream, the oral sex was what she couldn’t watch too. Maybe next time will be more perfect.

Is that the Wife who writes with the same grammar, syntax and spelling as her athletic army hero who married a gorgeous model from Russia You Both know everything about life and how every couple should live. Or the tough guy who would own a wife and demand she do everything he wants her to do or he would throw her out and kick the ass of the man she spoke to. Sounds if you pay for it you should demand obedience. Have you noticed all the Likes you get on your posts?

Well you are in luck, because most men love their cock sucked as much as she loves sucking cock!

Swingers are not some elite group of super models! They are the same people you see day to day at the grocery store or restaurant. Considering the obesity rate in North America is over 40 percent and there are even more people then that which are over weight you can expect to see the same in people that swing. There will be no problem finding plenty of people that find your wife attractive although it might not be everyone. I am sure she does not find everyone attractive either. As for your age that will not be an issue either! There are way more people in your age range that swing then people in their 20 or early 30’s. There are also lots of people that are not interested in full swap. You can find people that are interested in many different scenario’s out there. You just have to find the ones with the same wants as you and do not feel pressured by anyone to do anything you do not want to. Also don’t settle for anyone you don’t think is a good match. It can take time, but you are worth it.

I enjoy being there, but we also play alone or threesomes with other couples. What do you fear about "feelings"? We have emotional attachments to our play partners and think that it's a good thing. I like that my wife's lovers care about her as more than a good fuck. And it hasn't diminished her love or commitment to me at all.

Same with us. In some circumstances, "I love you's" are exchanged, in the heat of passion and when saying goodbye. It's natural and doesn't bother me at all. I actually prefer that a man cares for my wife. It's ironic that people who are swingers are so open and even enjoy seeing their spouse have sex with others in every possible way, but a little emotion, a little caring, is taboo.

I've written before about Laura's experience. Sorry to bore those who have aready read about it. I was a motorcycle industry sales rep, calling on customers in a five-state area. I came home from Oklahoma City to the remark, "I met a guy who wants to fuck me, Darling." She snuggled her nude body closer. Every man she ever met wanted to fuck her, in my opinion. We had decided during our first date that a marriage spent "cleaving only unto each other," would get boring. "That's not surprising, Sweetheart. Have you had an adventure?" "Not yet, but I want to if it's okay with you. Richard is soft-spoken, has a nice smile, and he's a muscled hunk! If I were single, I'd do him in a heartbeat. He asked me to dinner." "I assume you said 'yes'. When do you want it to happen?" She kissed me long and hard (so to speak) and whispered, "I think next Thursday. That way, I'll still have his cum in my pussy on Friday. You can mix yours with Richard's when you get back from Dallas while I whisper the story into your ear. Put me in the mood to commit adultery, Darling." My trip to Dallas was unusually productive. Dealers were stocking up for the coming season. I was beaming all the time. One buyer asked why I was so jovial. I blamed it on the beautiful late-spring weather. Laura and I talked every evening when I was on the road. That week was heavy with "Project: Fuck Richard" plans. We didn't talk on Thursday, fearing it might interrupt them in "mid-fuck". I watched a movie in my hotel room about a Texas couple who met as competitive wildcatters. I rushed through my appointments and finished on Friday morning. All right, I admit to not making any cold calls. I arrived home in time for a candlelight dinner, and a wife wearing a new negligee. "Did you wear that with Richard, Sweetheart?" "I bought it today for you, wore an old one for Richard. I'm so lucky being married to you, Darling. You're about to be welcomed by a grateful and very well-lubricated pussy. Tell me about Dallas at dinner first." Dinner didn't take long.

Our party ended up a bust with people not bing able to make it for one reason or anohter. Ah well.