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In our bunker. Take out lobster, crab, shrimp, oysters, champagne. Happy New Year to all, hope the pandemic is a bad memory next year.

Congrats on your first experience! Like the others have said, they are rarely perfect. Not just the first one, but any of them. But, they are almost always fun and exciting! :) For us anyways, we didn't approach perfection until it was with friends we had been together with several times. Then, the nerves are gone and everyone is totally relaxed. Best thing is not to judge yourself or others too hard and just take what comes and enjoy the ride, and then that's when things get perfect.

Think we're all a little down about how things are going lately and a lot of people have posted their disappointments, but I'm hoping a lot of the regulars have found some bright spots and been able to enjoy their activities. Does anyone have anything enjoyable they've done the last couple of weeks or are looking forward to very soon? Cancelled a planned big trip abroad for the holidays, then cancelled a planned weekend trip nearby as things deteriorated. Not so much because we're worried about getting very ill as we are because things would likely close or be difficult to enjoy due to the restrictions. It was the right decision, but a let-down. With that said, we're having a very early New Year's Eve dinner with friends before things get crowded. After that, we're going a little ways out of town and doing something different that we've never tried before: a complete overnight date swap. We've played with the woman many times and Mrs. E has done FMF with her and the male independently, and we wanted to do a full swap once it was possible for everyone to meet again. Thought it would be fun to try it as a mixed double date for cocktails, leave for our hotel before the after-dinner party crowd, and see where things go. Mrs. E hasn't had an excuse to wear a tight dress since the summer.

Get a life.

No, absolutely not, in any way whatsoever.

Thank you for all the encouraging posts, am I supposed to keep posting how things are? They are pretty pretty pretty good. Back to our first time, the more I read, the more we talked, the more we laughed, the more perfect our first time was, FaceTime only added to the memory. Debbie not climaxing did not take away from her funness, she reminded me she just doesn’t every time we have sex, not letting go might have contributed even if she said it didn’t. I know she said at the time she was uptight, memories have a way of mellowing. Today was a new day, a day after a day we only tried to plan our first next time. A day where Debbie did climax with someone other than the man she is surly comfortable with and never reluctant to be with except when she is, and I know when not to even try. Our kids surprised us this morning while having breakfast. We were enjoying our host’s hospitality with a great hotel style breakfast. Debbie and I were in our best visiting breakfast outfits, Sweats. Our hosts were in similar outfits, maybe a little fancier The “kids” were dressed and ready to go somewhere, ice skating with other friends. Our friends got the details from their son that they would be gone and most likely would be home for dinner. Hours without our kids!!! I don’t know who was the most excited, Debbie was. Like I wasn’t. Once the car was gone, it didn’t take long before chapter 2. Sex in the morning in bright daylight, seeing nude bodies in full light is much different from the light of a Christmas Tree. Even I could me shy in full light. Yeah I read about the woman who didn’t like her imperfections, men have feelings too. Yeah I got over it fast. In daylight you also get to see your spouse with a friend in a different light doing things I only saw in shadows two days before. I will say it was interesting even if she could see me with our very willing friend. I suggested strip poker, was reminded I had no clothes to lose, we were already passed getting out of clothes. What happened next was fun, nervous fun, I a can be a jokester. Pancake syrup was a part of the fun. Guess it is better than turkey gravy if this happened after dinner. My friends are seasoned swingers, I could understand why both would be prized at any gathering. I always thought of myself as a “stud”, Debbie tells me that frequently. Not bragging but I think I can go for awhile, two minutes at least, just kidding. Between what we were doing, and watching what that other couple was doing, is that really Debbie doing that, laughing, joking and doing whatever, it had to be close to a few hours, it did seem long, when we got to real business. I would say we were going strong and so was that other couple. I think I was pretty good holding out and then I heard all those porn sounds, wondering where it was coming from, and then I knew it was the right time to be in sync. No not the boy band. At that point I was able to watch, in full light my dearest sweetheart was doing. This man was a machine and Debbie who claimed not have climaxed that first time, couldn’t say that again. I know, she can’t fake that with me, right, I know when she fakes, right, yes I can tell. They finally finished Debbie seemed exhausted. I sure was just watching all the positions they were in. So now I’m posting while everyone is watching football. We had plans for tonight to go to a restaurant that canceled our reservation. We are pretty sure it’s Covid related. Two couples we were supposed to be with tomorrow are both sick, waiting on test results, it won’t make a difference, they are sick. Me thinks we will be staying in tomorrow night watching Ryan Seacrest, joking about balls dropping. The second chapter is finished and this book is interesting. Am I supposed to continue play by play or blow by blow, I see some on here are posting daily. Right now I will say Good Night.

Congrats on breaking your cherry. Just have fun, try to please your partner(s) and don’t be too hard on yourself if things aren’t perfect. It’s just a human endeavor. As a partner told me when I once had altitude problems, “Hey, we’re not porn stars!” Sounds like you had fun. You have to disable the FaceTime. Claim it’s not working!

Certainly, but some of those little guys swim up into my uterus, looking around, hoping to find Miss Egg.

Our party ended up a bust with people not bing able to make it for one reason or anohter. Ah well.