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When we went on a vanilla cruise with a lifestyle group, we were asked to bring pineapple decorated shirts so we could pick each other out.

Hedonism II is a beautiful resort in Negril, Jamaica, known as Hedo to many who have been there. My wife and I have been there 22 times, with trip # 23 coming up in a couple weeks. There is lots of info available online about it. I would recommend a Facebook group with thousands of members as a place to read about it, ask questions, and get answers called "Our Favorite Jamaican Vacation Place". There is also a great book available on Amazon entitled "The Naked Truth About Hedonism II", with lots of great stories. Hedo is all-inclusive, with all food, alcohol, entertainment, water sports, etc. included in the price. There is no tipping. The only things you pay for are massages and other spa services or what you might want to buy at the gift shop. You can scuba every day for free if you are trained, or get trained there. The food is excellent, with several restaurants and a buffet. You can kayak on the bay or take a Hobie cat out, or the water sports staff will take you for a ride if you prefer. Hedo has a clothing optional beach where you can wear a swimming suit or be topless or be naked, and a nude beach where nudity is required. There are several pools and hot tubs around the property. I could talk for hours about Hedo, but you really need to experience it for yourself. However, the best part of Hedo is the people you meet there. There are all ages, all shapes, all sizes, from all over the planet, and they are the nicest, friendliest, most non-judgmental people you can find anywhere. The staff at Hedo is second to none. If you go to hedonism.com and click on group events, there is a listing of all the groups and what week they will be there. Some are more nudists, some are more swingers, some are older, some are younger. Pick the one you like who will be there when you want to go and book with a group. There are many definitions of the lifestyle, some people like to watch, some like to be watched, some like to play with another couple, some like to play with another guy or another girl. There is an opportunity at Hedo to do whatever you want. However, "No always means no", so no worries. The biggest problem with Hedo is that once you go, you will have the best vacation of your life and keep wanting to go back again and again. Good luck!

Unfortunately the world is full of hate, lies, and very judgmental. I’m a pragmatist and understand the real life and what people say. I can only wonder what people I know would think if they knew how close I’ve become to my friend. She is the only one who I’m close enough to tell my real feelings. I trust her enough to be with my husband, I told her I was with a woman which led us to be together too. I’m looking forward to meeting with my new friend and being truthful to her. It will be hard to be open, my ingrained fear of being outed in my community. I have to have trust in a stranger.

I wonder what the world would be like if everyone truly opened up their hearts, spoke their truth, and shared their lives honestly, no judgement, no fear. It seems to me that this is a great time and place to do just that. How wonderful to start a relationship with others in complete honesty and openness. Do what is comfortable and I hope they become life long friends.

Have drinks, ask questions, learn about the lifestyle. You could just be a curious person, fascinated by others choices. You don't need to disclose or commit to anything other than an interest in what a lifestyle resort is, what type of folks attend, what goes on there, etc. They may ask how you heard of Hedo - which you should have an answer for without going deeper. It's hard to get outed if all you've done is had drinks with 2 book club ladies.

Guess he took the info and ran? But did any of it pan out?

From my perspective it is Extremely HOT!!! From my husband's he most definitely enjoyed receiving it, even spit roasted, and bareback.

They might be reading these posts as well! I think it's great that they were open with you and are inviting you into their circle. It seems to me that they are cautious and respectful with others in the group and that is a positive. For some reason, they felt a good vibe from you and opened up. I'm guessing they will continue to be careful with their conversations. If it was us, we'd join for drinks, maintain a bit of reserve and see what unfolds. Could be the best connection you'll make all year. Enjoy.

One of my students came to class with: A black ring on her right ring finger, an iphone case with a bold pineapple design, a Kasidie.com wrist band and another featuring a well known podcast. I'd say it's a pretty fair bet that she is not shy about being in the LS...

I wish more men would come out to their wives. When I told my wife that I enjoyed penises, she was shocked and wanted to know if I had a man on the side. I told her no but I wanted to share one with her. She is also bi. We had several 3soms with women and we started having them with men. We both prefer the third to be a male. We now have a bicouple who we are exclusive with. We rather new with them and the sex is great in every combination. I am so glad that I came out and so is she.