Leaderboard

Hedonism II is a beautiful resort in Negril, Jamaica, known as Hedo to many who have been there. My wife and I have been there 22 times, with trip # 23 coming up in a couple weeks. There is lots of info available online about it. I would recommend a Facebook group with thousands of members as a place to read about it, ask questions, and get answers called "Our Favorite Jamaican Vacation Place". There is also a great book available on Amazon entitled "The Naked Truth About Hedonism II", with lots of great stories. Hedo is all-inclusive, with all food, alcohol, entertainment, water sports, etc. included in the price. There is no tipping. The only things you pay for are massages and other spa services or what you might want to buy at the gift shop. You can scuba every day for free if you are trained, or get trained there. The food is excellent, with several restaurants and a buffet. You can kayak on the bay or take a Hobie cat out, or the water sports staff will take you for a ride if you prefer. Hedo has a clothing optional beach where you can wear a swimming suit or be topless or be naked, and a nude beach where nudity is required. There are several pools and hot tubs around the property. I could talk for hours about Hedo, but you really need to experience it for yourself. However, the best part of Hedo is the people you meet there. There are all ages, all shapes, all sizes, from all over the planet, and they are the nicest, friendliest, most non-judgmental people you can find anywhere. The staff at Hedo is second to none. If you go to hedonism.com and click on group events, there is a listing of all the groups and what week they will be there. Some are more nudists, some are more swingers, some are older, some are younger. Pick the one you like who will be there when you want to go and book with a group. There are many definitions of the lifestyle, some people like to watch, some like to be watched, some like to play with another couple, some like to play with another guy or another girl. There is an opportunity at Hedo to do whatever you want. However, "No always means no", so no worries. The biggest problem with Hedo is that once you go, you will have the best vacation of your life and keep wanting to go back again and again. Good luck!

We’ve been to Desire RM, Desire Pearl and Hedo. Enjoyed all 3. We would be hesitant to go to the Desires soon, due to drug cartel killings. I understand the disputes are over competition over drug deliveries to North American tourists. Sorta like Uber Eats vs. Door Dash.

We have never been to either of the two Desires. However, from talking to various people, some love Desire, others love Hedo. We are all entitled to our opinion. Experiences may vary depending on the group, who you meet, the weather, etc. While there are comments online about single males at Hedo, honestly it is mostly couples. We personally have never had any bad experiences with single males at Hedo. Most everyone you meet there is very respectful. Of course, there can always be exceptions. There is never any pressure for public sex or random hook ups at Hedo, but opportunities exist to do pretty much want you are into sexually there. There are 280 rooms at Hedo, so it is hard to say what may go on behind closed doors, but in 22 trips, I have not witnessed male gay activity in public. You can make a vacation to Hedo whatever you want it to be. You can sit on the clothing optional beach in your swimming suit and read novels on your iPad. Or, you can get naked, party like a rock star, and engage in whatever sexual activity you choose. Depending on the groups that are there, you may see oral sex by the pools or hot tubs, but intercourse is mostly in the rooms or playrooms. As I mentioned above, the best part of Hedo in my opinion is the awesome people you meet there. As they say, "Once you go you know".

I wonder what the world would be like if everyone truly opened up their hearts, spoke their truth, and shared their lives honestly, no judgement, no fear. It seems to me that this is a great time and place to do just that. How wonderful to start a relationship with others in complete honesty and openness. Do what is comfortable and I hope they become life long friends.