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2 pointsWe were on a Bliss cruise. We were seated at the hibachi bar at the ship’s Japanese restaurant. The chef asked if anyone had any allergies. One of the swingers said “No anal.”
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2 pointsAfter 8 years in the lifestyle, we do not have any reserved acts left exclusively between us, we have been very lucky to meet amazing people, some of them become very close friends and we have made incredible memories a long the way.
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1 pointI enjoy reading books, mysteries, historical fiction, or books with recommendations. I joined an online book club that a friend told me about. The club from what I can see is predominantly women though I do see posts from a handful of men. The club is very broad based with members across the country and even worldwide. There was a post from someone who suggested a smaller group where we could Zoom once a week and discuss a book. A book would be suggested and agreed upon by the all women group, all living in a tri-county NY area. The membership were all strangers to me, the only connection being the larger book group. We ended up with 20 women at first, a few dropped out, a few added as friends of other members. Just before the holidays someone mentioned getting together in person as a group, it would be nice to have a better idea of people we never met. We put off the meeting to after New Years, finally meeting last week when a few of us had a day off from work. Ten women met at a quiet room at a country club where one woman is a member. It was very nice and more of a get to know meeting, not a book discussion. It seemed most women knew at least one other, I knew nobody. I introduced myself and started talking to someone deeply tanned, the conversation went towards her a recent vacation. I told her we wanted to go somewhere warm but have been holding off travel. I think I was asking too much about a trip from a stranger because she became vague about the name of the hotel. Her and her friend were laughing when I asked about the resort. When our group was leaving and making plans to meet again my new friend and her friend approached me and said she went to a lifestyle resort, asking me if I know what that is. I asked Hedo? I said I never went but heard of it. I said it would be interesting, not saying much more. Her friend said if I wanted to know more about it we could meet for lunch without the other women and tell me all about it. I know I turned colors. She apologized but I said I would like to meet them. Yesterday I got a call with an invitation to meet one night this week. I don’t know how open I should be with them, I don’t know much about them. I knew even less about the first couple we met from a hook up site. I still haven’t shared that we have met others, I only said I was interested in hearing about Hedo.
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1 pointBack in the 90's, Tits used to go to her friends' Bachelorette parties. At the time Tits had grown to D-cup bra, then a DD, but she received a lot of attention wanted and unwanted. She had been groped in a movie theater, touched on a elevator in Vegas, and a lot of whistles and cat calling. She got used to it. She went to Cheryl’s bachelorette party and was having a good time drinking and flirting with the dancers. It got going pretty good and she had stroked a few cocks and even sucked one after a few drinks. They always played with her huge tits while she was busy lol . It got going pretty hot, some of the gals were topless and a few had sex with the dancers. The one guy that seem to really like Tits was dancing around by her and putting his cock by her face, so she grabbed it and sucked it. When she stood up, he spun her around, bent her over, and pulled down her top so her huge tits fell out. The other ladies started cheering and a few started rubbing and sucking her nipples. Right about then the dancer pulled down his tights and buried his duck deep in her already wet pussy. She said she said no, but soon it was no don’t stop!!!!! He fucked her for ten minutes while the ladies egged him on!!!!! When she got home drunk, she was covered in bruises and hickeys on her tits from her friends and panties full of dancer cum!! We checked with the doctor for a few months to make sure everything was good. It was but now the doctor has a new interest in his patient!!!!
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1 pointI'm going to second this, very loudly. There are a number of yellow flags here, basically that the two of you don't fully understand what you want out of this or why and are worried about emotional harm. You're both inexperienced with casual sex - and there's nothing wrong with that, but - you will have a lot of feelings that you have not processed. Start slowly. You can *always* go back and try more if you have a good time. Flirt aggressively. Dance. Get felt up. Show some skin. You'll both have a freer and wilder time than you've had in recent memory and you'll have it together. See where your rough edges are and talk things through before you go further.
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1 pointA graphic being worth a thousand words... I'm see a large number of problems with the approach you are going with here. I think you're swinging for the wrong reasons. I'm also concerned about the emotional impact this will have on both of you. The most I would do, as others have said, is just go to a club to observe and have sex with each other. It may help to inform your discussions. I think the two of you need to have a lot of discussion about this, and I don't think you're there yet. If you're very afraid of being left behind, then the proposed scenario of your wife going off by herself WILL result in you being upset. As others have mentioned, she WILL have people interested in her, and you will be left alone...possibly for hours...with nothing to do. What might even be more painful...your wife not talking about it once she does come back. Could that happen? What about rejection from her, once you want to have sex with her when she gets back and she says she's too worn out from the evening? How will you feel then? Swinging isn't exclusionary. Swinging is together. It doesn't mean you're always together, but it does mean that you're a complete team. I don't see that here. I don't mean to be harsh. I have often said this board is a fantastic resource for people, and we will tell it how it is. I'm telling you how it looks to me.
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1 pointI agree with everyone that is saying using sex with others as a means for your wife to feel better about herself is probably not the best way for this to happen. Also how does her saying the only way she will feel better about herself is by having sex with other people make you feel? I think I personally would not feel real great about that. Why can’t things be done with your relationship together to make that spark reappear? As others have said maybe start out posting pictures of her on sites where people will comment and tell her how sexy she is. A face pic will not be necessary for this. She will more then likely be overwhelmed by how many men think she is hot. As for her getting more attention and interest then you if you go to a club it will happen! Women always get more attention in the lifestyle then men regardless of looks or personality. It is just the nature of the game. As a man you will either just have to realize it is what it is and have thick skin or you should reconsider if the lifestyle is something that you really want to enter. Regardless of what you two decide to do you will need to be on the same page as far as rules and restrictions go or you will crash and burn. If you are only comfortable with play happening in the same room then you need to make that a hard rule until your feelings might change in the future. Neither of you have ever had sex with anyone else, but each other. To jump in no holds barred is asking for some serious emotional problems for both of you.
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1 pointI came home today and Tits told me about her day. She told me that a guy from her bowling team called and asked her to give him a ride to his sister's house to pick up his car in the next town.Tits being a nice person said sure and she would be right there. She had been working in the yard so she went in and took off the dirty t-shirt, put on some perfume, and grabbed one of my t-shirts (no bra) and left to pick him up in my pickup because it was behind her car. She got to Scott's house and he jumped in and away they went. It is a country road between the towns and in an old pickup truck, well, jiggle happened. She did not think about it except the soft cotton t-shirt felt good on her nipples. As they are driving along, Scott kinda started to squirm in his seat and he kept looking at Tits. She said suddenly he unzipped his jeans and took out a very large hard-on. saying sorry, it was way too tight. He explained that watching her big DDD tits bouncing around and her nipples getting hard it gave him a boner. Tits said: I can see that!! Then Scott started stroking it. Tits said she could not stop looking at this 9-inch monster. Finally, she reached over and stroked it for about 5 to 10 minutes while he rubbed her big tits. She let go so she could watch the road and told him to finish up, they would be there quickly. He kept squeezing her big tit then blew his load all over his stomach. He apologized and Tits said no prob, you have a beautiful cock. I think we are going to have some fun in Vegas with this bowling league!
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1 pointMy 2 cents I think going to a club just to flirt, feel sexy and meet some people would be a great idea. No sex. You're not ready for that. If you wife needs to feel sexy, attractive and wanted she can do all of that without actually having sex. She can dress to impress, dance, etc. I don't think this is much different from going to a bar, local or not, having a few drinks and flirting with whomever catches her eye. At the end of the evening, the two of you should have sex in the car, on a park bench, anywhere. Do something different. Not the same old that couples can get trapped in. As the weather improves, go to a beach. Have her wear a very small bikini etc. Be out, sexy and powerful. I don't think having sex with another person will satisfy her needs to feel sexy. It will in the end, feel shallow and may lead to a lot of drama. I am not against swinging for you as a couple, but it feels like you need to come to it more whole. In control. With power. Not begging for attention.
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1 pointJust a bit of advice from a *ahem* senior: you must both proceed at the same pace. Swinging does one of two things to a relationship 1. It makes it stronger 2. It burns it to the ground. I, too believe your wife is doing this for all the wrong reasons. Looking for love in all the wrong places. Seeking approval via swinging is bound to crash and burn. Work out some of these issues before and not after. You really do need to be on the same page for this to work. Good luck.
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1 pointThis is the male half writing, and I’ll admit here and now that mine might be the minority view … other more experienced members are free to shoot me down. But I don’t think that the point of swinging is to make you feel more attractive and desirable, nor is it to improve your self-image or self-esteem. I believe that in order to be successful at swinging to any degree whatsoever, you need to have a good self-image *going in*. No, the point of swinging is purely to have fun and get physical pleasure in a naughty little pursuit that most of society is aghast at. My fear for your wife is that she’s going to feel no better about herself no matter how many other men she’s with, and she might in fact feel even worse if she’s not “successful” (for some definition of the term). I honestly think she needs to work on her own issues before you two start down this path.
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1 pointI agree with him. Relax and enjoy new friends with knowing you are just meeting to get to know her. You’re not going to have sex, she may not be looking for anything more than lunch and book talk. Just because she said she went to a resort doesn’t mean she wants to jump into every person’s bed. You met her because of a book, not a sex site. Don’t overthink things, let her bring up the subject or her vacations stories, don’t push it. If things go further later on you will know if it’s right. Let me know if you want any advice, I’m always available 😄
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1 pointWe have never been to either of the two Desires. However, from talking to various people, some love Desire, others love Hedo. We are all entitled to our opinion. Experiences may vary depending on the group, who you meet, the weather, etc. While there are comments online about single males at Hedo, honestly it is mostly couples. We personally have never had any bad experiences with single males at Hedo. Most everyone you meet there is very respectful. Of course, there can always be exceptions. There is never any pressure for public sex or random hook ups at Hedo, but opportunities exist to do pretty much want you are into sexually there. There are 280 rooms at Hedo, so it is hard to say what may go on behind closed doors, but in 22 trips, I have not witnessed male gay activity in public. You can make a vacation to Hedo whatever you want it to be. You can sit on the clothing optional beach in your swimming suit and read novels on your iPad. Or, you can get naked, party like a rock star, and engage in whatever sexual activity you choose. Depending on the groups that are there, you may see oral sex by the pools or hot tubs, but intercourse is mostly in the rooms or playrooms. As I mentioned above, the best part of Hedo in my opinion is the awesome people you meet there. As they say, "Once you go you know".
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1 pointI wonder what the world would be like if everyone truly opened up their hearts, spoke their truth, and shared their lives honestly, no judgement, no fear. It seems to me that this is a great time and place to do just that. How wonderful to start a relationship with others in complete honesty and openness. Do what is comfortable and I hope they become life long friends.
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1 pointI went to my best friend's house one day and let myself in like usual. I could hear him in the back as I called out his name. He said in here from the bedroom. I open the door and he’s on top of his girlfriend pounding away her legs in the air like goal post. Never forget the smile on his face as he turned and looked at me and I apologized for interrupting. He said it’s cool, she wants you to join. Boing, instantly hard, whip my shorts off, my cock in her mouth. I’m face fucking her as we high five. It’s not our first time but first time with this girlfriend. He pulls out and we switch places with me on bottom and her riding my cock like a wild nympho as she sucked him standing on the bed. Then he got behind her and on my outstroke clamped his dick on my cock with his hand and slid both inside her pussy. The look on her face was priceless. We double vag penetrated until we all came together. It was hot! I leave as she’s joking about how much cum is in her pussy. Of course I’m right back to his place a day later and this time when I enter the bedroom she’s sitting on his cock reverse cowgirl. His cock is up her ass and she’s playing with her pussy looking right at me. Her shaved hot pussy is dripping wet. I can see pussy juices running down his balls. I go right to licking and sucking her clit. My fingers slide deep in her pussy, rubbing her G-spot. I can feel his cock through the small skin lining. She came intensely, fucking his dick and my fingers as I sucked her clit. I climb up and mount her giving her a nice DP for awhile, then at the end our usual. After she washes his dick. me on bottom with her on my cock and him behind her, he slides both dicks in her pussy for our usual climatic finish. This time she’s spent and rolls off leaving us cock to cock. He said “I didn’t cum yet!” I agreed and wrapped my legs around his waist. He lays down on my body and with pussy cum soaked slippery cocks we fucked each other cock to cock. When he started to squirt and cum all over my cock I came in a huge orgasm. It was intense!! Next time I come over and enter the bedroom she’s on top of his cock riding his dick with her sweet ass up in the air. I couldn’t resist and went right to her booty licking and tongue fucking her deep inside everywhere. Then I took the leap, licked down further and licked around her pussy lips, my tongue was touching his cock and balls as they fucked, but it was about giving her pleasure. The taste, the smell, the sound, the wetness was driving me to want more. I licked everywhere as they fucked. She rolls over and I take her missionary as he catches his breath and we put in a good show for him. She came on my cock several times till it was time for our usual climatic finish. I flip over on my back catching my breath as she climbed on top of my cock. He put his cock on mine sliding both inside her hot pussy for our climatic finale. It’s so intense. She’s riding me with both our dicks fucking together inside her pussy. Her cream as lube. I feel his cock throbbing on my cock then exploding waves of hot cum all over my cock. So hot to feel the waves of pulsating cum throbbing on my cock that I cum every time. Every time after that me and her would 69 while he fucked her from behind. I got to where I love licking pussy that’s being fucked and seeded...
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1 pointThanks for contributing! Looking great.
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1 pointWhich for me is precisely why I like to do it and see the ones I love kissing. For me, swinging is more than physical, "naughty sex," it is emotional play. As I have expressed many times, I am addicted to the emotional burn of jealousy. Fortunately for me, after all these years it's still there.
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1 pointNeither my wife nor I consider anal anything special. We occasionally do it between us, if she's had her O's and I feel like it. With our swing partners within our group, I've had anal with all of the wives, but hardly ever do it now, I'm just much more a pussy guy. My wife does it more because some of the other guys like it.
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1 pointBiggest turn on for me is watching my wife being pleasured other men. I get a hard on watching listening to her scream and looking at her grinning face when she get DP. I feed her my cock and get the most intensive blowjob from her.
