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When we play, and hubby is watching me with the other male, I know two tricks: I can make him extremely excited by sucking the other man's cock while watching that other man straight in the eyes, ignoring my husband. That will make him go really high The other trick: when I open myself to let my lover penetrate me, I take his neck with my hand, in a loving gesture. That makes hubby extremely jealous and then I can turn and look at him while my lover is moving inside of me. Two very exciting situations.

Glad it was nice, hopefully you've got a new friend... BUT. You do know that there are like 1000 people waiting to hear how this progresses.

Using my credit card 😂

@ROCKlandCpl Are you looking for validation or approval here? You are overthinking the next steps you want to do. You already stated that you wanted to meet her privately to discuss swinging, Hedo questions just a pretense to start the conversation. I can understand the meeting alone with her to see if you click, she is evaluating you too. The first question you have to ask yourself, are you comfortable with her. If I am reading your comments correctly you probably are comfortable enough to want to stay in contact as a new friend and more. You and Rocky are not going to go to a club for anonymous sex, you need a connection and now you have a connection with a woman, next you need to meet them as a couple. Even if your next conversation becomes explicit, slow down and go for drinks as couples getting to know more. Time will be there whether it happens a week or a month from now. I know you need a connection with others, it’s not just sex you want. Many are shy at first, not only with the first couple you swing with, it could be with the first time with any new partner. Insecure, unsure, wanting to say and do the right thing and then the comfort sets in. Look in the mirror, you are attractive, smart, educated as well as sexy. If you continue in the lifestyle you will have to make decisions about people, not all will click, some will be outright obnoxious. They will be evaluating you too if you are lucky to find people who aren’t just indiscriminate who the have sex with. Not every couple is a great match, you are lucky, your first couple are great people and your friends are perfect play partners for you. Your next partner should be as exciting as your first or close to it. Know what you want and go enjoy it. Your next step should be getting to know them as a pair not single person. I think lovefest was a bit sarcastic, the whole “real” board wants to know.

I'm going to second this, very loudly. There are a number of yellow flags here, basically that the two of you don't fully understand what you want out of this or why and are worried about emotional harm. You're both inexperienced with casual sex - and there's nothing wrong with that, but - you will have a lot of feelings that you have not processed. Start slowly. You can *always* go back and try more if you have a good time. Flirt aggressively. Dance. Get felt up. Show some skin. You'll both have a freer and wilder time than you've had in recent memory and you'll have it together. See where your rough edges are and talk things through before you go further.

Send me a video. That’s pretty coool to watch if you don’t mind

Sarcasm?