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This post got me interested in two things 1. Book Clubs. Debbie belongs to an online book club just to give her recommendations for books. Never thought of it as a lifestyle meeting site. 2. Hedonism resorts. I think our friends have gone to adults only resort. I thought it was a resort with no children not a lifestyle place.

None. Anal is more of a comfort level/trust/preparation restriction so not likely to happen on first encounter, but that's not because of a rule.

Still new to having sex with friends we didn’t set up any rules. Thinking about an intimate act that would be troubling, I don’t want to hear Debbie say anything about love. I Love You should be saved for us because that’s pretty intimate.

For us, we will never do oral anal on anyone else. My husband hasn't wanted to do anyone else anally at all since we married. I did help him do a few of my friends anally before we got serious. He was so darned good at it I bragged to them so much I sort of owed them the experience. We are still in touch and they still want him to give them a few more goes. I am totally okay with it but he says he gets all he needs from me and no one can compare to my backside - awwwwwwww, gotta love him!

Oral after intercourse always ROCKS! on all of us. But you are so right - if HE can handle it - lol. The guys crack me up how sensitive their penises get some times and we ladies do love them sloppy so some times the men have to man up and deal with it!

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@ROCKlandCpl Are you looking for validation or approval here? You are overthinking the next steps you want to do. You already stated that you wanted to meet her privately to discuss swinging, Hedo questions just a pretense to start the conversation. I can understand the meeting alone with her to see if you click, she is evaluating you too. The first question you have to ask yourself, are you comfortable with her. If I am reading your comments correctly you probably are comfortable enough to want to stay in contact as a new friend and more. You and Rocky are not going to go to a club for anonymous sex, you need a connection and now you have a connection with a woman, next you need to meet them as a couple. Even if your next conversation becomes explicit, slow down and go for drinks as couples getting to know more. Time will be there whether it happens a week or a month from now. I know you need a connection with others, it’s not just sex you want. Many are shy at first, not only with the first couple you swing with, it could be with the first time with any new partner. Insecure, unsure, wanting to say and do the right thing and then the comfort sets in. Look in the mirror, you are attractive, smart, educated as well as sexy. If you continue in the lifestyle you will have to make decisions about people, not all will click, some will be outright obnoxious. They will be evaluating you too if you are lucky to find people who aren’t just indiscriminate who the have sex with. Not every couple is a great match, you are lucky, your first couple are great people and your friends are perfect play partners for you. Your next partner should be as exciting as your first or close to it. Know what you want and go enjoy it. Your next step should be getting to know them as a pair not single person. I think lovefest was a bit sarcastic, the whole “real” board wants to know.

Because he said “I need to spend time alone with a man” to me that isn’t being bi when you need to be alone with someone intimately without your partner there. It upsets me because he is so into talking about being with men and no mention of me or another woman etc. it’s not like I want to be with women all the time for that matter it’s so rare but all he does is talk about being with men and me. I don’t know how to process what I’m feeling

For us we have an issue with someone thinking negative of a woman when she has had lots of guys. Why is she considered a slut but a guy would be a stud or a player. If you are in the lifestyle then sex is your hobby. It’s what you and your spouse do for fun. If y’all fished together would anyone be worried about the amount of fish you caught or that y’all spent your life doing your hobby together? “Get those numbers up there!!!”

My wife’s motto when we met was “What’s past is past.” We did not discuss old romances, sexual adventures, etc. We didn’t want to be compared with previous lovers, etc. It worked for us. Flash forward 25 years to our swinging career. We have been more active than we ever were in our youth. We’ve seen most of the action each other has had. We are ok with telling each other about our partners’ skills or deficits. She gets mad (disappointed)if my female partner fails to be a good sex partner, which hasn’t happened much. We never focused on numbers, inches, etc. Sex is an experiential process, not a measurable one.

I wonder if men think that women are only doing things for them or are they enjoying it for their own enjoyment. We have met many where we are the first, first woman or first man. Each of the women met us thinking they wanted to be with me, being with a woman for the first time. I am positive all the women had been with men before their husbands and find putting a penis in their mouth more natural and putting their mouth on me foreign. Be happy she was comfortable and enjoyed your friends.

I only know the sounds she makes with me from moans, purring to the sounds she puts out during orgasms. They aren’t always the same or same intensity vocally and loudness. When she is giving me a blow job the sounds are different, she enjoying not orgasming, she will moan and give a shrill sound if I’m cumming. This is the first and only other man I saw her with, I hope it was her first, since we have been together. They were right there and I heard noises from both of them while I was more into the noises coming from my partner. Unfortunately or fortunately I and my partner finished first and I was now watching my wife and hearing her. The more I write and think about the more I think I overthought it before.

This reminds me of something; my wife makes plenty of wonderful sounds when she's having sex. Interestingly, she doesn't make the same sounds with each guy. There's noticeable, subtle differences. She doesn't notice it herself. I've noticed it. I don't place any meaning in it other than she's having a very good time

The answer depends on which type of computer you are using. Mac If you are using a Mac, simply create an encrypted archive (or several of those), and drop everything there. Only the NSA will have the power to break that archive. I guess they have better things to do, though Finder > Applications > Utilities folder. Choose 'Disk Utility'. On the top of the menu, select File > New Image > Image from Folder. Choose the folder you wish to add a password to, then click 'Choose'. On the next screen, choose your level of encryption (the higher the better) and your password (the longer the better - it can be a complete sentence). Click 'Choose'. Next, next to 'Image Format', selection 'Read/Write'. Select 'Save' to exit the window. Once the system finishes encrypting the folder, click 'Done'. Exit 'Disk Utility'. Your newly created .dmg file is secure. You can use that .dmg file just as you would any other file. Double-click at any time to open it; you'll need to type in the password to complete the process. Alternatively, you can use Veracrypt (see below) Windows You can use Microsoft's free Bitlocker, or : - VeraCrypt https://veracrypt.fr/ (excellent software with a HUGE advantage : it works also on Mac & Linux. So you can open your archive in any of the three systems) - DiskCryptor https://diskcryptor.org (if you need help, contact us and we will help you) We are personally using Mac with the solution above. All our naughty archives are encrypted this way, and then backed-up. If we die, nobody will be able to open them.

If you are dead, who cares? Maybe they’ll have more admiration for you.

Poor guys. I think you nailed it as the nauseous feeling of an amusement park ride watching her head bob and slurping sounds Debbie makes exciting moans when I’m about to explode and she did it with him also. Now thinking and replaying it in my head I’m thinking how exciting it is and less bothering me just like that ride you were on and want to go back on. Just an hour ago she started my morning with those sounds. Life is good.

Thanks everyone. I overreacted to an act that is natural to sex. This put my remark into perspective, I didn’t expect to bend over or spread and have him dive in. I couldn’t do that to any woman myself. Debbie brought up how much I enjoy oral sex, she does to and this was a decision we made together and we both were there to have fun. Without thinking of her I was only thinking how I felt, we had no rules or restrictions, she reminds me that she didn’t do anything we don’t do daily. She asked if I enjoyed knowing I did, did I want to do this again, she knows I do.

My wife told me half the men she meets never have oral sex at home.

Doing oral on our guys is routine, but having them ejaculate in our mouth is not, we all prefer that semen end up in our vaginas on the way to mutual orgasms. After that, one of us guys or girls will do oral on that mess to get her to a second orgasm. We women like taking a sloppy dick into our mouth as well, when he can stand it.

Yes Steve love to Kiss me after and we know its ok with our friend too lol he loves to Kiss me with a full mouth and I enjoy it too

We have a standing rule, when in a MFM session if she brings you to completion and swallows, she expects a deep kiss afterwards from both of us.

I’ve done it a few times, once the guys wife was sucking me as I was kissing Kim. Then after I came in the wife’s mouth, she kissed her hubby. never into snowballing, but I would kiss her.

I've kissed my wife and other women after they have blown other men and swallowed. I've also snowballed with my own cum.

Fantastic to kiss her when she has another guy's cum in her mouth, and she shares it with me. One on the best swing sessions was with a guy who pulled out of her and came almost a half cup of cum onto her tits. I licked/sucked it up and shared it with her in a French kiss. She shared it back to the guy in a French kiss with him. Wild, wild, wild!

Yes when our reg's cum we agree is't cool. and yes i kiss both guys. Mouth full and they enjoy and that is fun for us all. My bf like as well very much as do I

Lora and I are the only ones who do that to each other; it's part of our fight, humiliate, submit (it's about 50/50), and then make up and trade orgasms play, which we find hot and the others disturbing, so we keep it to ourselves. And you're right, it's shower time (together) thereafter. The interesting thing is how we both go from being the acting-out creatures we were, to the loving ladies cleaning ourselves in the shower. But sex is like that.

Normally, it doesn't happen because the guys are wearing a condom when we swing and I dont let them cum in my mouth. But it happened in the past when SO and I were swinging with a longtime common friend on a regular basis. Boundaries were more relaxed then. The guys would kiss me after eating me or they let me lick them after ejaculating in me or they explode in my mouth. That gave me the license to kiss them afterwards. But I make sure to swallow first before kissing them. So it happened, they had no choice! ?

Yes we both love to suck dick and we love to share the cum in a kiss.

I very often kiss my wife after our friend cums in her mouth and go down on her after he cums in her vagina. It's great fun and my wife loves it.

You bet. Especially if she was turned on by it.

Even if she has swallowed? If I swallow for a guy he ought to kiss me.

Why wouldn't I?

My wife and I are swingers and we are both bisexual. So I love kissing her On the mouth after I have or another man has cum in her mouth. The taste of cum in her mouth is delicious.

This is a cut/paste from an answer I gave to the thread about eating a cum filled pussy, no reason to retype every thing. I might. It wasn't even in my thoughts until one time I kissed a girl after I came in her mouth. It was the first time I actually came in anyone's mouth. She was sucking me and I was getting ready to cum. I told her I was going to cum, and she didn't say anything, I thought I hadn't said it loud enough for her to hear, so I said it again and she kind of just moaned a little. So I did, and she took it all. When we were face-to-face she told me she had never done that before. I was so in love with her, even before this time, I couldn't resist but give her a big french kiss. It was awesome. It was Unfortunate that we weren't able to get together for the long term. After that I met my wife and after we had intercourse I went down on her. Now I love kissing her or oral sex after I cum in her mouth or pussy. I hadn't considered doing it to her, or another woman, after someone else came in her, but if the situation is really hot and stimulating I just might.

I agree wholeheartedly. I don't think it's gay or weird. I love my wife and I just love the enhanced feeling of her "sluttiness" when she has taken a load in her mouth or on her face (tasteful facial, not all over her forehead and stuff). I like to be a part of the whole situation so it's not uncomfortable at all for me.

I find doing that one of the fun things about a mmf threesome. I also enjoying giving her oral after a friend has cum inside her bareback.

I wouldn't have a problem with it. Sounds kind of hot!

We love sharing cum and I always clean up after she’s been fucked. I would a little disappointed if she didn’t share.

We just did it last night for the first time and took me by surprise. Caro had never swallowed before and our partner came really silent so I wasn't expected to find that taste when she kissed me. It was such a great turn on (if it's possible) and her naughty smile was great to see and share. We talked later and she said she wasn't expecting to swallow, but the taste was different and she loved our after kiss

as long as my mouth is empty he has no problem kissing me after I performed oral sex to another guy.

I've never had doubts of my sexuality. During an evening of swinging it was hard to avoid encountering semen somewhere. I just never worried about it. When I kissed my wife, I was more interested in expressing how much I loved her, not that she'd just swallowed another fellow's load. There is nothing I wouldn't give to be able to kiss her just one more time.

We would absolutely kiss! We do now when he comes in my mouth. Cannot get enough of it!!! My husband has even grown accustomed so much to it that he even requests we do it. I have NEVER found a kiss to be more amazing than after sucking a guy. Most of my bfs were the same and so is my husband. The numbers of how many love it, like it, are okay with it drop off when I let them cum in my mouth and I wanted to kiss but I always required it of them all. Hey, they want to kiss like crazy after eating me out, what's the difference??? As far as kissing me with a mouthful, now that is a different issue by itself. Only the bi guys were into that but a few straight guys would do it with me (because they knew they could do practically anything with me afterwards). My husband had to get used to it and now is a cum aficionado along with me. :0

the difference between a Snowman and a Snow-woman.... sno'balls

Nothing hotter than kissing my wife with the taste and scent of come in her mouth. Winter is coming...snowballs!

Kissing my wife is not a fetish. I'll do it any time for any reason. Even for no reason at all.

I am surprised by the amount of people who have the "kissing" rule. Kissing to me is so much a part of hot sex. Thats like saying "sex=love" or "kissing=intimacy" I disagree with both these terms. Love is in the heart, and intimacy is in the mind. Joe

Finding it hard to believe that french kissing came in third.

Finding your daughter’s hidden pictures can be very traumatizing. I hope everyone knows when you back up your iPhone your pictures are backed up too.

Honey’s “friend” is somewhere around 60 and never had his cock sucked in his life. He only fucked 2 women including his wife who died. He hadn’t fucked his wife for 10 years before she died. That ain’t living.