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2 pointsBe your natural sexual self, use your imagination,put yourself in her place,use some visually effects,stimulate her senses, perform cunnilingus on each other taking turns, indulge in what feels good, communicate your needs,embrace those moments of climax, and finish with complete satisfaction using devices.
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1 pointI’m not bi. Or so I thought, until yesterday evening. My husband had dinner with one of his clients, a female CEO. I know they are friends and he never actually hit on her, until yesterday. He told me « tonight I’m gonna try to seduce her Join us at the end of the dinner ! » So, around 21:30, I joined. Obviously they had had a good time already, smiling, laughing, drinking an excellent wine, and their hands were sometimes touching above the table. This beautiful woman was obviously into my husband, but also into me. She was looking at both of us like if we were delicious cakes behind the glass of the pastry shop. That’s when it hit me. I wanted her too!!! For the first time ever, yesterday evening, I felt a strong desire for a woman, a beautiful girl with massive breasts, a body to die for, and a smile that could conquer Rome! I am not sure I would know how to handle her in bed, though, cos I’ve never been with a girl before. But for the first time, I am REALLY attracted !!!!!! Hubby says it will come naturally, and that I should not worry. Still, I would appreciate your advice, ladies. How was your first time with a female body in bed? How was the first time you ate a pussy, you played with boobs that were not yours, etc. ? :))) Sorry, I feel stupid but all this is very new to me.
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1 pointMy husband Heath called me from a local bar around midnight. He told me he was having a great evening. He had made a new friend, a woman he'd like to bring home for us to share. I was horny and had been playing with my pussy that night while home alone, so I was up for some fun. He texted me a pic of Monica. I found her attractive, and she said she liked what she saw in the pic of me I sent Heath to show her. I told them I'd see them in a half-hour. They arrived, and while we were chatting, Monica mentioned she'd never done anything like this before. She kept asking if I was ok with all this? Heath and I explained that we both were. She seemed to relax over a glass of wine, and then she leaned over and kissed me. My hands went to cup her full heavy breasts. Heath moved behind her and began kissing her neck. He unhooked her bra, and then we helped her out of her sweater. She unbuttoned my shirt and started sucking on my nipples. That's when Heath suggested we head upstairs to our bed to be more comfortable. We all got undressed and fell onto the bed. Monica immediately began kissing me, and I leaned over and started sucking on her hard nipples. While her breasts were smaller than mine, her nipples were long and lovely to suck on, like little penises. She said she wanted to suck my pussy, so I laid back, and she began licking and sucking like an expert! I teased her that she must have done this before. She slid her fingers inside my pussy, fucking me. I then felt a finger slide into my ass, and that's when I finally lost control and came all over her face, just like she wanted. Then it was her turn. I positioned myself between her legs and tongued her wet pussy until her moans were so loud I thought she'd wake the neighbors! Heath had been watching all this time, and his cock was very hard now. Monica said she wanted to get fucked. Heath was happy to oblige. He got her on the edge of the bed, put his cock all the way inside her, and began pumping away. I was sucking on her tits and kissing her until she told Heath she wanted him to fuck her ass. Heath couldn't believe his luck! He turned Monica over, and I helped guide his cock into her ass. As a woman, I know that trust is essential when giving up your ass to a hard cock. I could tell Monica appreciated me controlling the situation as she adjusted to being anally penetrated. After a few minutes of helping Heath gently work his entire cock into her rectum, I slid beneath her. Our bodies were pressed together while she was being fucked - it was as if we were fucking each other! Her moans and cries were even louder at this point! Heath couldn't hold back any longer, and I reached around and gently grasped the base of his cock so I could feel the spasms as it filled Monica's ass with hot semen. After a quick clean-up, she was at it again! Attacking my pussy, licking and sucking like a pro. She asked for a dildo and filled my pussy while she continued to flick her tongue over my clit and suck on my pussy lips. My hands were grabbing at her head, pushing her face deeper into my pussy. Monica was so turned on by going down on me that she started yelling for Heath to fuck her. He was ready for round two and quickly moved behind her and began fucking her from behind. Monica then told him she wanted to watch him fuck me, so she moved up to sit on my face, and Heath began pumping his cock into me. But Monica didn't last long in this position. She wanted to lay down on the bed, so I moved between her legs so I could eat her pussy, and Heath fucked me from behind. I loved the feel of him pumping into me, pushing my face deep into her extremely wet pussy. Heath finally came inside me, and I think Monica was finally satisfied, too. We slept for a few hours, then Heath drove her home. We plan to see each other again in a few weeks!
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1 pointOne of the cardinal rules of swinging is to *never* go faster than the speed of the slower partner. It’s clear that your wife is far more eager to swap than you are … she needs to dial it back until you’re both ready because if what you’re describing now actually happens, it’s gonna be a train wreck. We agree with njbm … go to the club, soak in the atmosphere, meet a few people, have sex with only each other, and talk about the evening after you’re home and have had some time to process your thoughts.
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1 pointObservation is a good idea. If not ,then same room, whether or not each of you has a partner. One of our first experiences was an MFM. That worked out well. We also limited ourselves to soft swap initially. Slow and steady. is a good formula for us and , I think , most others.
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1 pointHere is something to think about. How about going to a club the first time just to observe and have sex with each other? While in the setting, one or both of you may feel very comfortable or uncomfortable. If you are both comfortable, you can try swapping or , if not, you can try another trip to the club. Some couples, I’d say the majority, play in close proximity to each other. I think that playing apart or in separate rooms is more for people with a little experience. If your wife seems open to sex and she is not close by you in a club, she could be a gang bang candidate if single guys are permitted. This could be a little overwhelming for a novice. Have some ground rules that you both agree to. Use condoms. If you are under 45, be vaccinated for HPV. It is a multi-shot series.
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1 pointThey are usually made of silicone, cyberskin, or tpe. Some can add length, some add girth. My gf bought different one depending on her taste at the time.
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1 pointWe do this with our regular annual bloodwork. If we had more frequent encounters with a larger number of new partners, we would certainly elevate that, but the truth is that we are probably less active in terms of partners than many vanilla singles. I understand very much where you're coming from about lifestyle and knowing someone's past, and as you say, it's still important, a useful screening tool, and that's been good enough for our risk tolerance. If we needed perfection, the answer would be to not to play at all, or, as you mentioned, to play in a closed circle and check paperwork. (Also a valid approach, not suggesting people who go that way are overcautious.) Barring that, the risk of transmitting HPV (for example), is estimated by one McGill study at 20% - over six months between couples who reported an average of four sessions a week, half without ever using condoms. Some suggest it may also be passed by deep kissing. What, realistically, is one supposed to do with that information? (Barring the obvious answer, the HPV vaccine, which I had no idea one could get up to age 45. I believed the cut-off to be much lower, and that's great information for people to have.) Probably roughly the same things one might do as vanilla singles - and I qualify that by pointing at our style of activity, which isn't that dissimilar from what vanilla singles do. If we frequented clubs, had frequent encounters with a large circle of people who play widely, etc., we would probably evaluate that concern very differently.
