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It’s nice you are thinking about her feelings. I surely remember my first time with another girl, it was a threesome and it just happened. I didn’t over think it, it came naturally as a threesome could be. My friend and I shared a guy and what happened was just a progression of the act. My more recent swinging was to please my husband, he never saw two women together. I’m not sure if it was the right reason even if it did lead us to many fun times. That new first time wasn’t what we planned, not the Unicorn we searched for, we ended up with a couple, she was sweet, he wasn’t. My husband got to watch and as a bonus to him he had sex with a younger attractive woman. We have since been with others looking for what we looked for. I can tell the ones who are doing it for the husband, like I did. Over the years I’ve learned to ask the woman questions to make sure she isn’t being forced to do it. Many are doing it just for him, I hate that. Sounds hypocritical because that is why I did. You are having fun with friends you have already been naked with. You have seen the friend naked and had sex with her. You have watched your wife have sex with someone. The hardest part of swinging is behind you, that first time. You know she is nervous, she has asked you to not watch. My suggestion is for you and your friend go out for a drink and leave the ladies home alone. Let your wife be comfortable without the extra pressure of you watching. These friends will be there for more fun. If your wife can get by her first time with a woman and she enjoys it you will get to watch during future visits. I’m thinking you may get to watch right after you get back to their house with your friend. Let her enjoy her first and you will be rewarded.

I never thought President’s Weekend to be a major holiday except for shopping and card ads on TV. This year the excitement has been building for a road trip to our friends again. Debbie has ordered a new sexy outfit off one of those websites. It’s cute even though I think it’s crazy, we are friends and they have seen us naked, very naked before. She is having so much fun preparing for the trip and has become so sexy talking about it. I know she is also nervous worried about being with a woman sexually. It’s strange to answer questions about what to do sexually. I laugh, sex is natural and just do what you think you would like her to do to you. She asked about not having me watch. Stupid me said whatever you want. I did say I watched her with him in every possible position and oral. I know watching her with a woman would be exciting for me and then I know deep down this should be about her. She is so unsure and I don’t want to make it any harder for her. I read swinging is for couples to enjoy together and many of the men have posted the main reason they swing is to show off their wife and to watch them with other men. I don’t think that is the case for us, it’s about fun and pleasure. If I take the fun and pleasure away from her would it be just for what I want? Swinging was very difficult for me and her. I don’t know how others felt the first time and I certainly don’t know how a woman playing with another woman would feel. Is there double guilt? I think I know Debbie wasn’t the least bit bicurious before swinging. This might sound perverted, how did the other women on here feel the first time with a woman? Any guilt involved or just didn’t think about it? I want to be sure Debbie is doing this with no pressure.

Hi, this is Petra. I am some one's wife and wouldn't mind if someone watched me masturbate, but I rare do and no one has ever watched me. I only pleasure myself when no one in our family or our boyfriend is nearby, like when I'm traveling. Otherwise, I much prefer engaging in sex with another person.

"No, *you* ask her." LMAO

You're going to do what you want here, but the wife situation really should be a show-stopper. I know you've said you won't proceed but with your wife showing interest, you may need to draw a line about taking this further and, at the same time, make a point of proceeding with it somewhere else. What happens if she finds out and becomes unhinged, sets about painting you both in a certain light in public, in your workplace and to friends? This is a real thing that happens and ultimately the husband is unlikely to work to help you, to preserve his home. He's also just apparently not a particularly good person. Why allow him the enjoyment of any part of your wife knowing this? Maybe that's part of the appeal to her, but there are other places to explore various dom/sub/humiliation games.

My wife seems to enjoy it,she did a few live BJ me in front of a online fans and enjoying being film to post it.

Oral after intercourse always ROCKS! on all of us. But you are so right - if HE can handle it - lol. The guys crack me up how sensitive their penises get some times and we ladies do love them sloppy so some times the men have to man up and deal with it!

This post got me interested in two things 1. Book Clubs. Debbie belongs to an online book club just to give her recommendations for books. Never thought of it as a lifestyle meeting site. 2. Hedonism resorts. I think our friends have gone to adults only resort. I thought it was a resort with no children not a lifestyle place.

Using my credit card 😂

I guess I never responded to this. What I meant was that *we* were going to definitely have intercourse after she got back and we had our drinks out.

There are 2 reasons why this will not happen 1. they are close friends 2. we both are pretty sure that his wife will not be willing or give permission, and we are not going to proceed with any couple unless they are both willing By the way, thanks for checking our pics out. My wife is "submissive" only on camera 😆

Some of the newer power posters have lessened my interest in sharing my own thoughts. I’m finding myself not even reading some of the posts by many of these im posters.

With the Swingersboard generally, I find it easy to pass over posts that I'm not interested in, ignore the very few posts that rude/offensive/stupid, and appreciate the vast majority of what I read. In an increasingly insane world, I am glad for this place and the honest, polite and intelligent people it attracts.