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Thanks PatnDave! That's good advice. Maybe I'll run into you there.

We are regular visitors to Cypress Cove…when we go we change our location several days ahead to see if we can meet up at The Cove. Mostly, we have swinger friends come over for a day of sun and fun(sexual)! We prefer playing with couples!

Thanks for your input, it help. Since are last message here there has been more talk with her. We told 4 of are swingers friends (2couple) ( 1 couple whos both age 40 and the other is 42F and 49M) about our daughter. It went surprisingly well. They meet our daughter. Not all at the same time, different dates and meets. We all sat down and talk and answer her questions and gave her more advice and more of the Do's and Don't . After the talk I was surprise that it was the older female that approach me and ask my permission if it was ok " to play". I told her if my daughter want to , then its ok with me. I thought for sure it would be the guys that would of ask first. Haven't told my daughter about the request yet. Should we?? This is her last weekend before she turn 19. Her place is reserved for her first visit. We are still afraid that we could of said the wrong thing to her. But all we can do is hope for the best and we said the right thing to her. Again, thank you all for your time and help

It's fine. What could possibly go wrong?

Welllllll... there are two sides to this. Most successful swingers are older (at least late 20's, IOHO) couples that have been in long term committed relationships. She is very young to be jumping into this pool, but the cat is out of the bag. First, time for a long talk about swinging in general as well as the emotional aspect involved with having multiple sexual partners. If she is still wanting to attend a swingers club after this, with her knowing that she will be, by far, the youngest person there and lots of people will be twice...thrice her age and naked, and as a young unicorn...she'll be fresh, young blood in the water full of hungry sharks. The question then becomes: do YOU want her to go to a club without you? At least you (one or both of you attending) will be able to provide some protection and supervision for her once the sharks begin circling. Just set the ground rules (like it is just a visit to see what it is like and that nobody is going to be playing that night) and let her see what does on behind the curtain instead of her imaging that a swingers club looks just like they do in porn (all young, perfect bodied people having fun). After that, if she is still interested...well, is it a surprise? The apple doesn't fall too far from the tree. While it will probably very uncomfortable and awkward at first, that she has come to you requesting your help is a very good thing. Help her enter into this with her eyes wide open and knowing that you have her back, and then it is up to her.