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Thanks for the reply . In a previous post we mentioned that we started swinging ( i was 34 and hubby was 36) . at that time we were mostly "playing" with people our own age, Oldest that I could recalled in the early years of are swinging life was a few in there early to mid 50s. We didn't the age gap so much. Over the years we jump around to the younger crowd to older. Youngest girl/women that we played was a girl that was 21 ( I was 41 and hubby was 43) and the youngers guy I got to play was 24 ( I was 41 also at the time). It was a couple that we meet at the Hedo in 2019. And the oldest that we play was a female at age 55 ( I was 36 and hubby was 38) she was a member at our local club along with her husband . And the oldest guy that I got to play when I was 35, and the guy was 65. Another member at our club, who is single, who took part in my first gangbang . Also in previous post we mentioned There are still thing that we worried about, about her as parents like she might go on full pornstar mode given her age. But as we are swingers we also want her to enjoyed it as much as we have over the years. Since are local government gave the green light for thing to re-open , our daughter look over the swinger club event calendar , and she click on a few events " might be interested". We relayed the request/message to our daughter from are friends. Our daughter ask us for our blessing to "play" with our friends", and we gave it to her. Now she will wait and see. She told us she want to see what the crowd of the club is like and that. She kinda like knowing that she has a plan B couple. Almost every talk we had about her and swinging , we always told her the power of saying NO. Again, thank you all for your time and help

Hey all! We have googled hotwife dares and there are plenty. But huddy needs to be challenged too! Does anyone know of a list for him? Open to suggestions. Like maybe dirty dance with a stranger? Or ........... We love the bar scene where we sit separate and see what happens (it's always fun). Just wanted to see if anyone else's has done or thought about this. We are not a cuckold couple or a full hot wife situation. We are active together everytime he doesn't sit and watch or wait for me to come home. He definitely participates. Just a little background. This is also a hobby not a daily LS for us. Happy swinging S&N

There are closed "groups" where there are several couples who agree to play only with each other. This helps to limit STD transmission. Of course, in the process, such groups of couples tend to get closer and closer. I think the more times you have sex with someone, the more likely you are to develop emotions for that person. That tends towards polyamory, the (to some people 'radical') notion that you can be in love with more than one person at a time without sacrificing your love for anyone else. My wife and I aren't averse to this, and we might be in the beginning stages of forming a group such as that now. We'll see. In the meantime, we're just having fun with no expectations.

As you can see by her tan we are nudist

If your hubby is aware and on board -yes you can swing on your own - called ‘hot wife’. If he is not aware, not on board there is a different word for that… And, yes clubs welcome unaccompanied women with open arms. The clubs are not concerned with your marital status.

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We are very private and we are not on Facebook. Agree with previous poster, do not trust them.

Unless you are "out" as a swinger - I cannot for the life of me understand why you would trust Facebook. Facebook has consistently shown itself as untrustworthy. Facebook would sell YOUR soul for a dollar.

While the divide between the LS and vanilla life is most sharply demarcated along the line of sexual tolerance, the entire lifestyle is an "alternative lifestyle" that rests on embracing and celebrating a set of values. What is "interesting" and "attractive" in the LS is only partially related to conventional notions of beauty. It has more to do--we think much more to do--with how couples present themselves and interact with each other. We agree that "taking one for the team" is a poor strategy. On the other hand, making decisions based on whether photographs show people to be classically beautiful is an equally poor strategy. We have run into more than one "handsome couple" where the attitudes and conversation immediately put us off. And while the couples we are close to are very attractive to us, fun to be with and so on, neither we nor they are going to appear in fashion magazines in the near future. Meeting couples is part of the fun of the LS. It is also an important part of the introspection of the LS: with the opportunity to think about what you like in others, there is a reciprocal opportunity to reflect on how others perceive you. Is there such a thing as too picky? Of course not. However, it might limit your experience and your horizons. Travel provides a useful analogy. If, when you travel, you stay only in lodging that is 'just like home', eat only foods that are 'just like home', see only things that are 'just like home', you can claim to have traveled--but not to have experienced travel. Experienced travelers do so because they relish the new experiences.