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2 pointsI'm curious. This is a question for those of you who are couples who only play with other couples. Do you prefer: 1) A straight swap where all/most of the interaction is one on one? or 2) A more fluid foursome type of situation where everyone is playing with everyone (with the exception of the two guys--at least in our case) and just kind of going back and forth and fitting in where you fit. I ask because we've only had a few experiences so far, but we've developed a DEFINITE preference for scenario #2. Since we're still newbies, we don't really have any context. I know there is no right or wrong way of doing things. I'm just wondering which scenario is more typical? I'm also curious why you prefer your choice scenario? In our case, if we get paired off with the other couple, we find we start to feel very disconnected from each other and don't enjoy it as much. Particularly if it starts off as a straight swap, we get distracted by seeing each other with someone else (something that is still somewhat uncomfortable for us) and have a hard time relaxing enough to enjoy the person we are with. But, in the foursome situation, we maintain our connection to each other and we still feel like we are together, but with the added eroticism of more people and all the extra hands and mouths.
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2 pointsI also like the “spit roast.” Man (or woman) is f’ing woman from behind while the woman is going down on a man (or a woman). Early in a our career, an attractive blond woman in scattered lingerie was bouncing up and down on me. I leaned up for a better view. Blond, boobs, dangling bra and a woman getting spit roasted behind her. I came immediately.
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2 pointsIn my early 20's I used to sell shots at a gentleman's club, so I've had times where people offered to pay me for my "time." I have done it a few times and it was a good experience, but for the few I accepted, I said not to a lot more. I dont do Fake very well so I really need to be attracted to the men and women I sleep with. The money was good though. I think it should be legalized.
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1 pointWe too have been going to Sandy Hook and enjoy being with friends nude. Our friends introduced us to swinging and nude bathing, think their is a correlation, not all nudist are swingers. Recently while walking with my wife I saw a woman I work with walking with another woman. I am not sure who felt more awkward, me, my wife or the coworker. Neither of us have been to the office since the pandemic which led to extended conversation neither of us bringing up the elephant on the beach. We are both senior management, work together but as equals. I don’t know much about her personal life, our office contact is purely professional. There is no way she wasn’t checking me out as I was trying not to be obviously checking her and her friend. I am sure what happened, seeing a coworker or neighbor is nothing new. Lucky we are still on remote work from home and we won’t soon be in that awkward situation of being in the office together. How have others handled the unplanned sighting? Do you acknowledge the meeting back at work? My wife keeps saying she bets she swings. I say no way.
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1 pointWe have heard this called the "fuck-lick". Fully agree with you; this is very hot.
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1 pointThe jealousy problem is real, some couples can handle it some cannot. I think you need to know which kind of couple you are before you try. When my husband started asking me to be a hotwife, and I realized he wasn't gonna let it go. I tested it. We went to a club one night, we went seperately, for that night we were not a couple. I told him I would flirt my ass off, I'd dance with guys, I'd accept drinks, and I'd get numbers but I would not leave with anyone but him. The entire night his job was to watch me do it. If it ever bothered him he could come get me and we would leave. I texted him every dirty detail all night long, I was very touchy feely, I danced my ass off and ground my booty against a couple guys on the dance floor. I made sure he saw it all. Then we left together when the club closed and we debriefed each other. He was super turned on so I called one of the guys that gave me their number.
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1 pointA gangbang with strangers without condoms seems crazy to me. We planned a gangbang with some friends in 2 weeks at a casino hotel but a couple of them already backed out and I'm afraid more might so we will see what the final list ends up looking like. I would never be on board with my GF having a gangbang with strangers who don't use condoms although she has done a few blow bangs with strangers without condoms. She has tried oral with a condom but hates it.
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1 pointBareback with strangers is definitely a case for getting a Truvada(Prep) prescription. 99% effective at preventing HIV transmission.
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1 pointI do agree with realcplub2; getting feedback from women here on this forum will offer some confirmation bias. The only women on this forum will very likely be women who enjoy swinging and have had good experiences from it. That said, there are some things you might not be aware of that bear considering. Quite a few women do very much enjoy swinging and get lots of satisfaction from it. Women are a strong element of swinging. If women were more reluctant than men after getting into swinging, then there wouldn't be swinging. From my perspective, women tend to have a bite more difficult of a time separating sex from emotions. My wife certainly agrees with this. It's possible that on average women get into swinging more slowly than men. But, women wouldn't be in it if it wasn't worth it. It most definitely IS worth it...IF the couple is ready, IF the couple is very close, IF the couple has strong communication skills, IF the couple have no issues in their relationship. Your wife might not be completely onboard with swinging yet. It sounds like she's quite interested, but is uncertain about all of it. That's perfectly understandable. There's a rule of thumb swingers have quite often said; move at the pace of the slower of the couple in getting into swinging. You've been fantasizing about it for years, and are likely more ready for it than she is. Allow her to grow into the idea. Move at HER pace, not yours. If you really want this fantasy to come true, you need to support her in her thoughts and decisions about this, and certainly by no means should you try to move her along faster than she's ready. It is a wonderful, wonderful thing to watch your wife having sex with another man. But, it's all meaningless if she isn't enjoying it too. I've seen my wife have sex with other men many times. It's intensely erotic...because she is enjoying it! Your wife isn't ready for that, even if she gets very turned on by the idea. realcplub2 is right; you need to talk about this well away from the bedroom, without being overwhelmed by sexual thoughts. If you do go down this path, understand that the first time doing something isn't likely to be a great measure of how much she will enjoy it. My wife and I talked about this possibility before we got into it. We agreed we'd do it a few times at least, even if it was just a so-so experience. We'd just try different people. It's a good thing we did this; the third time was the charm for my wife. Before that, the sex was kind of humdrum, and not really worth it. Ok, not a bad evening, but not really worth it. The third guy? He curled my wife's toes...quite literally...and she couldn't get enough sex with him. Shortly after we were on the way home from that, she said "Ok, NOW I'm a swinger!" That time was definitely worth it. It can be for your wife too, but you need to proceed at her pace. Talk lots about it, in the bedroom AND well away from it as realcplub2 said. Don't allow your own fantasy dictate this, otherwise she can end up feeling like she's only doing it to fulfill your fantasy. That will end badly. It needs to be her that wants it, her that enjoys it, her that has a fantasy fulfilled.
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1 pointMy husband Heath called me from a local bar around midnight. He told me he was having a great evening. He had made a new friend, a woman he'd like to bring home for us to share. I was horny and had been playing with my pussy that night while home alone, so I was up for some fun. He texted me a pic of Monica. I found her attractive, and she said she liked what she saw in the pic of me I sent Heath to show her. I told them I'd see them in a half-hour. They arrived, and while we were chatting, Monica mentioned she'd never done anything like this before. She kept asking if I was ok with all this? Heath and I explained that we both were. She seemed to relax over a glass of wine, and then she leaned over and kissed me. My hands went to cup her full heavy breasts. Heath moved behind her and began kissing her neck. He unhooked her bra, and then we helped her out of her sweater. She unbuttoned my shirt and started sucking on my nipples. That's when Heath suggested we head upstairs to our bed to be more comfortable. We all got undressed and fell onto the bed. Monica immediately began kissing me, and I leaned over and started sucking on her hard nipples. While her breasts were smaller than mine, her nipples were long and lovely to suck on, like little penises. She said she wanted to suck my pussy, so I laid back, and she began licking and sucking like an expert! I teased her that she must have done this before. She slid her fingers inside my pussy, fucking me. I then felt a finger slide into my ass, and that's when I finally lost control and came all over her face, just like she wanted. Then it was her turn. I positioned myself between her legs and tongued her wet pussy until her moans were so loud I thought she'd wake the neighbors! Heath had been watching all this time, and his cock was very hard now. Monica said she wanted to get fucked. Heath was happy to oblige. He got her on the edge of the bed, put his cock all the way inside her, and began pumping away. I was sucking on her tits and kissing her until she told Heath she wanted him to fuck her ass. Heath couldn't believe his luck! He turned Monica over, and I helped guide his cock into her ass. As a woman, I know that trust is essential when giving up your ass to a hard cock. I could tell Monica appreciated me controlling the situation as she adjusted to being anally penetrated. After a few minutes of helping Heath gently work his entire cock into her rectum, I slid beneath her. Our bodies were pressed together while she was being fucked - it was as if we were fucking each other! Her moans and cries were even louder at this point! Heath couldn't hold back any longer, and I reached around and gently grasped the base of his cock so I could feel the spasms as it filled Monica's ass with hot semen. After a quick clean-up, she was at it again! Attacking my pussy, licking and sucking like a pro. She asked for a dildo and filled my pussy while she continued to flick her tongue over my clit and suck on my pussy lips. My hands were grabbing at her head, pushing her face deeper into my pussy. Monica was so turned on by going down on me that she started yelling for Heath to fuck her. He was ready for round two and quickly moved behind her and began fucking her from behind. Monica then told him she wanted to watch him fuck me, so she moved up to sit on my face, and Heath began pumping his cock into me. But Monica didn't last long in this position. She wanted to lay down on the bed, so I moved between her legs so I could eat her pussy, and Heath fucked me from behind. I loved the feel of him pumping into me, pushing my face deep into her extremely wet pussy. Heath finally came inside me, and I think Monica was finally satisfied, too. We slept for a few hours, then Heath drove her home. We plan to see each other again in a few weeks!
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1 pointA little off topic, but once a female co-worker of my wife's was at our house. My wife changed into her bathing suit in front of both of us. I later told my wife that I thought it was a bit odd and inappropriate. She said why, it's normal to be naked in front of your husband, as it is changing with another woman around.
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1 pointYou now share a sexy secret about each other - enjoy it - and leave it at that.
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1 pointIf we meet someone we know from the vanilla world as swingers or nudists, our first steadfast principle is to never reveal to anyone that the other person is a swinger and/or nudist. And we expect the same from the person we met. Not everyone is accepting of these hobbies and we prefer to keep it confidential.
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1 pointA varied diet insures that you get all the proper nutrients.
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1 pointI'm going to expand a little on our answer here. This last weekend we had a chance to practice what we preach, and we have to say 4 couples on one bed was a blast. We haven't had that many on one bed in a few years, and it worked out wonderfully. Before the party we had decided that we would invite 3 or 4 couples back to our room, after a party we have found this works out well for the reason that there are enough people there that everyone will have someone they are attracted to. In this case it turned out that everyone was attracted to everyone else, so an 8 way pile worked. K
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1 pointWe like both situations. The one thing that bothers us though, is if the other couple has such a need to connect to each other that they are constantly needing to "check-in" with each other. Our best experiences have been where we all start out together, then go off separately (same room or not), then come back together.
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1 pointMrs. H and I have found that we have the most fun when it's just a big pile of bodies, rather than a straight swap. I find that what turns me on the most is fucking her while she's giving/receiving oral pleasure from either male or female playmates. As long as we are connected to each other(heh-heh..)in one way or another(damn, these double-entendres)we both get off in a HUGE way!!
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1 pointWe've only done straight swap since we are both straight. I wouldn't mind a more fluid straight foursome.
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1 point#2 (not that we mind #1) because it allows us to still be able to give each other pleasure and there can be so many different combinations when all four are connected somehow and there is plenty to do without the guys having interactions with each other.
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1 pointYeah. With BF and myself, we are both bi, a lot of our couples are straight, so it is more of a one on one kind of situation, however, we usually play as a group in the same bed so its fun for everyone We love to watch each other with other partners.
