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Attraction…sure. But for us the attraction is personality, attitude, humor, sense of adventure etc etc. we have been very fortunate the people we have met over the years. Blessed. many we have been great friends to this day. Decades of friendship. some of the best gifts in life come in plain wrapping.

The jealousy problem is real, some couples can handle it some cannot. I think you need to know which kind of couple you are before you try. When my husband started asking me to be a hotwife, and I realized he wasn't gonna let it go. I tested it. We went to a club one night, we went seperately, for that night we were not a couple. I told him I would flirt my ass off, I'd dance with guys, I'd accept drinks, and I'd get numbers but I would not leave with anyone but him. The entire night his job was to watch me do it. If it ever bothered him he could come get me and we would leave. I texted him every dirty detail all night long, I was very touchy feely, I danced my ass off and ground my booty against a couple guys on the dance floor. I made sure he saw it all. Then we left together when the club closed and we debriefed each other. He was super turned on so I called one of the guys that gave me their number.

Hello. Have a question...for those that had the only intention of just being a nudist, from going to a nude beach or nudist resort...with time did you switch in being open-minded because you were going to these nude settings? Maybe you switched because chatting with people in the pool at a naked resort, and thought maybe why not? Curious on your situations. Thanks.

No we do not meet people we are not attracted to! For us attraction is an important part of wanting to have sex with other people. If we are not attracted to them then we do not see the point in having sex with them. We already are having sex with someone we are attracted to whenever we want with each other so no reason to do it with people we are not. Physical attraction is just the start though! If they have a bad attitude or personality we are not going to find them attractive either. The lifestyle is not a full time thing for us and we choose to be picky about who we do and do not play with. Quality experiences over quantity. We are not interested in playing with people that don’t feel the same way either. No one should be taking one for the team.

This is not surprising. 😉😊💕

We went from going to our first nude beach with a couple we just met in a cruise to swapping partners that night. Maybe vacation, maybe excitement, maybe thinking nudity and sex exciting and definitely liquor. No regrets for us. I still can’t believe we did that.

I'd been in a couple of nudist environments - a California beach, the spa at Baden-Baden - before we turned into swingers. But I don't think those had much to do with our decision to try swinging.