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Shooting inside her is the reason we play within a closed group of married couples. We both, all actually, much prefer it and the danger is taken away. Not only do I like the direct feel of a vagina, but also sloppy seconds.

Let’s face it, most women have vibrators. I be read about 80% of women use a vibrator alone or with their sexmate. I may have told jokes about my vibrator yet never had a real discussion with my friends about using vibrators. Is it strange that a topic I never talk about with long time friends became a conversation with a new friend who we just met since we are swinging. The new friend lives nearby invited me to meet for lunch. At lunch sex toys were brought up. My whole life my toy has been penis shaped toys and recently upgraded to an intense body messages. She told me about one of her remote control toy that is U shaped. She showed me on her phone the app she has. She invited me to her house to show me. All I can say is WOW. Part is inserted, part is external and she was able to change what I was feeling from her phone. She drove me crazy and it was great crazy. I need to look for more toys like the bunch she has. Any recommendations?

If you are in NJ the nude beach has a cross section of people similar to a clothed beach but not many families. When we go we sit with other couples and don’t take a count of any ratios. Yes, there is a “gay” presence, so what. Nude beaches are not hook up beaches, mostly everyone just enjoys the freedom of nudity. Don’t expect to see any sex on the beach. Do expect to see some gawkers. Don’t be a gawker or a schmuck.

Attraction…sure. But for us the attraction is personality, attitude, humor, sense of adventure etc etc. we have been very fortunate the people we have met over the years. Blessed. many we have been great friends to this day. Decades of friendship. some of the best gifts in life come in plain wrapping.

Family friendly nudist resorts are are having a hard time staying in business because of all the legal issues (lawsuits involving sex in the presence of minors) All the lawsuits going on with the Boy scouts has caused their insurance to sky rocket. In some places having sex in front of a minor is a felony. This is why the swinging has to be kept "behind closed doors" at the family friendly nudist resorts. I have been a nudist for the past 33 years of my life. My husband was the one interested in nudism at the beginning of our marriage and I gave it a try and I was hooked faster than either of us dreamed. Back then there wasn't a lot of females that would even give nudism a try so it was always me and all these gorgeous gorgeous guys. I felt like a kid in the candy store. I have always been open minded and I have had an amazing sex drive. My husband has always given me the green light with the condition that I not do anything behind his back and I share the details. He likes to live thru me vicariously. I only tell people on a need to know basis because that is just how I am. I am lucky that the nudist clubs that I am members of don't seem to be judgmental but I still am not going to tell everyone . I have a lot of friends and I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings (about who I want to play with and who I don't) I am new here by the way. Hubby thought I might like this forum.

Still new to having sex with friends we didn’t set up any rules. Thinking about an intimate act that would be troubling, I don’t want to hear Debbie say anything about love. I Love You should be saved for us because that’s pretty intimate.

We are swinger/nudist outliers as well. Fortunately the beach we frequent has a wonderful representation of all types. The trick is to read them well if you want to "go there." Last weekend I couldn't take my eyes off of an amazing looking man that was there with another couple. After some innocent talk I began to hint that we were both swingers. As he seemed comfortable with the conversation I "went there.". I told him he had a beautiful big penis and asked him if I could see it nice and hard out in the parking lot. We all left together and ended up in our room. Being naked around a hundred other people is a sexual experience for me and many other I expect. I'm not going to lie about it or hide behind it. I love watching guys look at me, I like seeing their naked bodies and I love the feeling of being naked outside. Not sure what that makes me...

Some swingers are also nudists, some nudists are swingers, but not all swingers are nudists and not all nudists are swingers (in fact only a small proportion are). There still is an overlap. At our local nudist resort, they have a themed party every Saturday (that, from what we heard) that is pretty much a get together for swingers. Different rules for different resorts, but there usually is an overlap.

I suppose my impressions of the nudist resort and all that happened were grievously wrong. Nudist resort members have pure minds and view other members as wholesome minded regardless of their physical attractiveness. It's like the Garden of Eden, where both genders romp around enjoying the natural beauty that surrounds them without distortion. Where males view female athletic and mental ability over all else, and females would never eye a male below the belt to consider what he has to offer. Where all conduct themselves with a modest outlook and as equals since their status in life is not on display. How absolutely lovely it is. Swingers who dare visit and associate with these pure minded folk, would never consider polluting the minds of such a fine assembly. When visiting such a resort, they safe-guard their personal lifestyle so as to not divulge their personal interests. Although they may allow their eyes to evaluate the physical characteristics of another member, bridging the moral barrier simply wouldn't enter their minds. Said another way, what I thought I saw and experienced on my first trip to a nudist resort was simply a mind fuck - a fantasy of demented proportion that is offensive to nudists and swingers alike. Even voicing such a distorted view of the mingling of these two lifestyles has set me aside as a freak of nature, What more can one expect from someone raised of the other side of the tracks?

I was taken to a nude resort by a photographer I worked for. (He said I needed to work on getting a full body tan). I should add that I'm an orphan, so I had no family to object. We arrived there late on a Friday, I remember, and were invited to stay with the owners in their small cabin. With our clothes locked in the car, we all sat around in the common space cross-legged, and drank wine. I wasn't used to drinking and it hit me. The owner made the statement, "You two have to be initiated, so we get to watch." The photographer openly took me and I didn't resist. During the night, the owner took me too. I was introduced that weekend.

We went to hedonism and decided to take the plunge. We watched lots of open sex, tried it ourselves and ended up playing with other couples.