My husband originally brought up his "hotwife" fantasy. Asking me to flirt, seduce and sleep with another man. I was pretty reluctant in the beginning but eventually met a guy that really did it for me and I gave my husband his fantasy. It surprised me how well it went for both of us so I started being open to opportunities when they arose. A year after I got downright aggressive about my hookups. I was the one that ended up opening the door to full swaps, my husband was eager to do it, and within a month we had our first full swap. Currently we have a couple that are close friends that we swap with frequently, we also have another two couples we can play with.