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4 points1) I don't know who was first. My wife knew I had dabbled in the lifestyle, but rejected it. I never thought about it for us until she brought up a form of it about 6 years into our marriage. 2) I don't have an answer to what the "biggest" reason is. I have found that I find it intensely erotic to watch my wife having sex with another man. For years I tried to explain why. I gave up. I can't explain it. I don't have a reason for why I like it. I just do. She loves it, I love it...win/win. 3) That my wife enjoys him very much. The more she likes him, the better time she has, the more erotic it is. 4) I like the spit roast best, and my wife likes it best too. I prefer to be the one she is giving head to, and the other man being the one having sex with her. Second to that is having sex with her right after the other man has cum inside of her.
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1 pointYou sound so much like us, were we separated at birth? Yes I agree with this.
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1 pointI also like the “spit roast.” Man (or woman) is f’ing woman from behind while the woman is going down on a man (or a woman). Early in a our career, an attractive blond woman in scattered lingerie was bouncing up and down on me. I leaned up for a better view. Blond, boobs, dangling bra and a woman getting spit roasted behind her. I came immediately.
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1 pointIn my early 20's I used to sell shots at a gentleman's club, so I've had times where people offered to pay me for my "time." I have done it a few times and it was a good experience, but for the few I accepted, I said not to a lot more. I dont do Fake very well so I really need to be attracted to the men and women I sleep with. The money was good though. I think it should be legalized.
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1 pointEven in non-nudist settings, I have had European acquaintances and even co-workers (male and female) change clothes or go from one room to another nude in a mixed setting. It is different in the US, but we are sort of in the middle - in Europe nudity is no big deal while in some countries a woman showing her legs, arms, hair or face to someone who is not a close relative is taboo. And some places are a bit schizophrenic; I've been to a hammam in a Muslim country where Red and I were both naked and being bathed by women, and it was considered totally acceptable.
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1 pointSimilar to your story, my wife was the person who suggested to me the ides of meeting another people for sex. Earnest swinger couples have no problem about meeting newbies. When my wife and I started we went to swing club parties. If you go the way of making a profile at a hook-up Web site like SLS or SCZ, just be aware that a lot of foolishness goes on with those sites. But if you persist, the result is well worth the effort.
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1 pointFor us, we will never do oral anal on anyone else. My husband hasn't wanted to do anyone else anally at all since we married. I did help him do a few of my friends anally before we got serious. He was so darned good at it I bragged to them so much I sort of owed them the experience. We are still in touch and they still want him to give them a few more goes. I am totally okay with it but he says he gets all he needs from me and no one can compare to my backside - awwwwwwww, gotta love him!
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1 pointStill new to having sex with friends we didn’t set up any rules. Thinking about an intimate act that would be troubling, I don’t want to hear Debbie say anything about love. I Love You should be saved for us because that’s pretty intimate.
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1 pointWe were on a Bliss cruise. We were seated at the hibachi bar at the ship’s Japanese restaurant. The chef asked if anyone had any allergies. One of the swingers said “No anal.”
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1 pointMy husband and I are swingers, have been for years. We don't mind bringing newbies into our swinging fun. Even though we are experienced swingers, there were still things that I wanted to explore: sex with another woman being at the top of that list. I had been talking to this woman online for quite some time. Brenda and I have a lot in common. Both want to explore the woman-to-woman aspect of the swinging lifestyle together. Brenda is married to a very conservative, sexually unimaginative man. Her husband told her he didn't care what she did as long as he didn't have to hear about it. She has had her share of affairs but really wanted to experience another woman. As the months wore on, Brenda and I chatted online, on the phone, and exchanged emails. We decided to meet for lunch and had a great time, swapping stories and talking about what we wanted to do with each other. I only kissed her goodbye, though I wanted more. The briefest touch of her clothed breast against mine as we kissed released a flood of wetness into my panties. I was dying to get her naked. She has only had one experience with another woman, and it wasn't gratifying for her. I wanted to go slowly with her, take my time, so she would feel extremely comfortable. I hoped to include my husband in our sexual escapades, too. Brenda and I chatted about meeting for dinner. Then, as she said, 'whatever.' We set a date. We had a great conversation over dinner, mostly her telling outrageous stories about her male lovers. The talk got us both pretty worked up. We headed out for a few drinks, then headed to my place, so she could meet Jim. Brenda and I shared the sofa and talked with my husband for a few minutes. I knew she didn't have much time before she had to leave and head home to her family, so I asked her if she'd like to help me seduce my husband. Her eyes lit up, and she got this big smile on her face...sucking cock, I soon learned, was a specialty of hers. As I slowly unbuttoned Jim's shirt, Brenda leaned over and began sucking and licking his very sensitive nipples. I unzipped his jeans, slipped them off, and began sucking his hard cock. I noticed Brenda watching, so I invited her to join me. We were both running our tongues up and down his shaft. While Brenda took all of Jim's cock into her mouth, I began licking and sucking his balls. His moans of enjoyment were very exciting, and I helped Brenda lick his cock. Our tongues would touch occasionally, and so I thought that would be an excellent time to really kiss her. The next time our tongues were close, I put my tongue on hers, coaxing her to kiss me back. She hesitated just a split second, then joyfully joined in. As our tongues entwined, our breathing became more labored, and I felt her hand pulling my head closer. I found my hands tugging at her clothes, desperately trying to free her beautiful large breasts. She pulled back and took off her shirt. I unhooked her bra and took in an eyeful of her beautiful breasts. I began to stroke them, pinching the already erect nipples. I then took her nipple in my mouth, lightly sucking, running my tongue all over, while caressing her other breast. She was kissing Jim and rubbing his cock. She then returned the favor, and as I took off my shirt, she unhooked my bra and began licking and sucking my nipples. I'd run my hands through her hair, moans of pleasure coming from my mouth. Jim decided to join the fun, and he took one of my tits in his mouth while Brenda sucked the other one. My hand was teasing her, trying to slip her pants off. She paused long enough to discard them while I did the same. See her sex on display as she peeled off her panties made my heart race. Now with all three of us naked, the fun could begin! We started by including Jim back in our threesome, both of us kissing him, licking his balls, running our tongues up and down his cock, taking it in as far as we could. He was very impressed with Brenda's cock sucking ability! Brenda and I continued our kissing and fondling, and then I gently eased her onto her back on the sofa. While Jim sucked her breasts and she stroked his cock, I began to lick her inner thighs. She was very wet, and her scent was of pure womanly sex. I couldn't wait any longer to taste her. I gently ran my tongue over her outer lips, then began sucking on her clit. From her moans and groans, I knew I was doing a good job! I inserted two fingers into her dripping pussy, moving them in and out quickly, and began dancing my tongue all around her pussy, inside and out. As she came, she groaned loudly and bucked her hips, pressing my face into her pussy. By this time, Jim was feeling kind of left out, though enjoying himself, but ready for some action. He flipped me over onto the sofa and began eating my soaking wet pussy, while Brenda caressed and licked my tits. Jim then teased me with his cock, almost putting it in my pussy, making me beg for it. Once in, we began a hard rhythm, which totally fascinated Brenda, who had never watched another couple have sex. Having his cock in me while another woman sucked my tits was incredible! As Jim came, he quickly pulled out and shot his cum all over my stomach and tits. Brenda took her finger and massaged the cum onto my nipples. Then, with a mischievous look, she dropped her head and traced my nipples with her pointy tongue, cleaning me up. After my nipples were squeaky clean, we got up and got dressed. We relaxed together with a drink while talking about what fun we had, then kissed goodbye. We are, of course, looking forward to our next time with Brenda, when I hope it will be my turn to have a woman suck my pussy! We didn't have to wait long since Brenda was texting to set up another play date by the next day. We made plans to meet on a weeknight at a bar near the airport. This time, Brenda wanted to bring one of her boy toys, Greg. She wanted to surprise him by suggesting that Jim and I join them in one of their bedroom romps. Well, you didn't have to ask him twice! He was all for the idea and very excited about a foursome. They arrived together, and we had a drink and talked. It wasn't long before we all were ready to head to the hotel that was next door. Once in the hotel room, we weren't sure how to break the ice, so Greg suggested strip poker, but that was shot down because Brenda and I don't know how to play! We played our own version, though, and had fun with it. We both thought it was very amusing that the men lost first, and we were sitting there naked while we were still partially dressed! Greg then brought out some sex dice; one die listed a body part, the other gave a command to do to the body part. It was agreed that Brenda and I had to completely strip to start this new game. We all took turns, beginning with some light teasing, like Jim and I sharing a deep kiss, Jim kissing Brenda's nipples, Greg sucking Brenda's nipples, me kissing Greg's ear. Greg then decided it would be good to roll the dice and have Brenda and I act it out. The first roll, I got to kiss and suck on Brenda's tits, and the second roll, she was sucking on mine. Though it wasn't a command of the dice, Jim had his hands on both our pussies, driving us crazy! Greg scooted up behind me, so he could stroke my body while Brenda was sucking my nipples. He then leaned over and began sucking my other tit, which really turned me on. Between the two of them sucking my nipples and Jim finger-fucking my pussy, I was having a great time! Brenda decided she wanted to suck Jim's cock, so I began sucking on Greg's at the same time. I don't know who was moaning louder, Jim or Greg, but it certainly made Brenda and I suck harder! After a little of this, Greg pulled me up so he could talk to me. He told me that he and Brenda talked about what they wanted. Me to eat her pussy, and then she would do the same to me, which she has never done before. I told him I was certainly looking forward to that! Brenda asked why we were talking, not fucking, and Greg asked if she was ready to do what she promised. She was, but I said I'd go first. I got on my knees on the floor and pulled Brenda to the edge of the bed, so I could get nice and close to her shaved pussy. I began a slow lick from top to bottom and put my tongue just a little inside her to tease her. It must have felt good because she couldn't keep still, and I had to keep pulling her back to my mouth. With every move and moan she made, I licked harder and faster until her hands reached down and grabbed my arms, and she pushed her pussy into my face for a nice long orgasm. Yum! But now it was time for Brenda to try some pussy licking, so we switched places. They guys couldn't wait to watch this! I have to say, for her first time, she did a great job. She was very soft and gentle but kept up a nice rhythm, which made it very pleasurable. Brenda climbed up next to me on the bed, ready for the next part of the game. Greg gave Brenda a long, deep kiss. He laid her on her back and began sucking on her big tits. I helped him out, sucking one while he sucked the other. He then drove his cock into her tight pussy, and the loud moans she let out demonstrating that there is nothing she likes better than a good fucking! After only a few strokes, Greg stopped, mentioning that Brenda has been talking about having sex with Jim for the last three days, so could Jim please take over? Of course! He's been waiting a while to fuck Brenda, so he was more than happy to send Greg over to me, so he could spend time with Brenda. Greg moved on top of me and began rubbing his cock over my pussy, getting me even wetter. Feeling his tongue deep in my mouth, his moans in my ear, having him suck my nipples, it all was driving me crazy! He finally entered me. I know he didn't want to come so soon, but all the thrusting was just too much for us, and he came with a loud cry, and we both lay there exhausted. Meanwhile, Jim was pumping his cock into Brenda's tight pussy as fast as he could go. It was totally driving her nuts! She told him if he even THOUGHT about stopping, she'd kill him! There was no way she was going to let him come without her! After a few minutes of groaning, moaning, and head tossing, she finally came with a loud cry, and Jim was able to let go and have his own release. Boy, the room sure had become quite warm! As we lay there naked, recovering, we talked about going for Round 2. We decided we'd put so much effort into Round 1, we should probably just wait until the next time. I'll let you know when that is.
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1 pointFor my wife and I, and as far as I can tell for the rest of our group as well, it doesn't matter what any other one or two people are doing with someone's spouse, so long as the spouse is enjoying it. My observation is that each pairing or threesome has its own ritual, groove, or whatever you want to call it, and the dynamics can be entirely different from other couplings or threesomes. Someone needs to write a grant proposal to study it all.
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1 pointFrom our experience, you're right, that's just the way it is.
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1 pointNeither my wife nor I consider anal anything special. We occasionally do it between us, if she's had her O's and I feel like it. With our swing partners within our group, I've had anal with all of the wives, but hardly ever do it now, I'm just much more a pussy guy. My wife does it more because some of the other guys like it.
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1 pointIt would be difficult for either of us to fuck and not kiss. No kissing would be more like masturbation than intercourse, for that moment, it makes you one.
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1 pointIMO, main-stream swinging is a female-centric activity/culture, where women are desired, worshiped and rule. As much as a few persistent guys want it to be so, man-on-man sex is just not desirable in this setting. To me personally, it's fucking gross. Us ugly, disgusting male beings ought to consider ourselves lucky that women will let us be with them sexually in the first place, let's not ruin that by turning them off even more with guys sucking each others dicks. I think most woman are not interested in seeing gay male sex and some are downright against it. There are surely niche groups and settings out there that cater to bi-male group sex but standard swingers culture is not one of them. ?
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1 pointThat is true for my wife and I as well. For my wife, she is genuinely in love with one other guy and one other woman (not his wife). They exchange "I love you"s in the throes of passion, when parting, on the phone, in texts. They don't hide it and it doesn't bother me (or their spouses). I much prefer that another man have caring feelings for my wife than just consider her a cum dump to fuck and leave. My wife sometimes plays alone with him and when she comes home she is as loving and caring towards me as ever, better I would say than 99% of marriages. My case is a little different in that I go on dates with a woman who has common cultural interests as I do that bore our spouses silly. We have even gone on jaunts out of town to catch events. (Before a trip to New York, my wife read our emails, and was surprised (and maybe disappointed) that there was no discussion of sex, just plays, concerts, museums.) We too are "in love" in our way, have sex, and say those three little words to one another, but realize that our relationship is more one-dimensional than that with our spouses. At the end of the day, living life on the edge like this makes me feel all that more happy and secure in our marriage and home. I realized this after watching my wife the first time have (more than "have," "enjoy") a (condomless) DP with two other guys. This, I felt, was perhaps perhaps too far. Until we got home, the babysitter left and she, our daughter and I sat on the couch watching TV. I realized then that things were perfect.
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1 pointSince we have formed a closed group of married couples, we are comfortable with anything, as are the rest of our group. From the safety perspective, the closed group allows us to go condomless. We play to experience things that we don't necessarily do within our marriages, so anal (and and BDSM for one of the pairing) are motivating treats. We also play without our spouses, which happens mostly during the weekdays in threesomes and alone play. (The closed group allows us to feel comfortable with alone play and watching each others children while the other adults play.) There is, however as you say, the rule that "participating parties agree."
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1 pointMy fetish having sex with women not my spouse. Mrs Doc's fetish is having sex with men not her spouse. Our Fetish is sharing the above with each other. In the fetish department, we're pretty normal!
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1 pointHow many of you have ever been to a bukkake party, or have ever seen, or been a part of one in a swing club?