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A woman’s bush that still has its full triangular shape, but is trimmed *just* enough to take most of the curl out … exquisite!

That's exactly what I did with my husband, except I lent him out for free to female friends and acquaintances of my choosing. It was a control thing: me choosing the women that he slept with, then telling him it was arranged and to do it - but he never complained. It turned out to be easier to set up than I thought, but then, it was free and he is good looking. I think a lot of single women want to have sex with another woman's husband. That was a little harder to arrange. Many women took me up on my offer to screw my husband, but few let me watch, fewer let me participate.

I have been wanting to respond to this topic for a while, but knew it would be somewhat long and take some time. When I first became non-monogamous, I had no idea where it was going, but never thought it would lead to an MFM. I had broken up with my ex-fiancé Red and moved out of our place to live alone. But we still liked/loved and saw each other, went out and got together for sex, which was really good. I wasn't looking, but then met David, handsome and technically oriented like me, the man who would become my husband. We started going out and afterwards I did what seemed to me to be the natural thing to do and went to see Red to discuss what was happening, how I felt, and where things were headed. Red was hoping for us to reconcile, but he was very accepting of my decisions. After talking, we would have sex make love. I was honest with David about my recent breakup with Red, that I had strong feeling for him but realized that we were too different (he a creative artsy type, me an engineer; he unconcerned about money, me more ambitious with desires for a stable family life) to make a long-term go of it. David was more than a good listener and tolerant of what most guys would find off-putting conversation - he was genuinely empathetic, concerned, understanding. As I saw David more we both felt love and an incredible physical attraction, and after several dates started having sex. After the first time fucking David, I did what had become my routine and went back to see Red, told him everything including how good it was. Then we fucked. I really enjoyed it, but yeah, I felt like a cheat, a slut, a pervert (two guys! How could I be having sex with two guy? ). Not long afterwards at the beginning of one of our dates, David said (not "asked", but "said") to me, "You're still sleeping with Red." (I recall exactly that he didn't say "fucking" or "screwing," but used the gentle term "sleeping".) I thought, this is it, it's over. Instead, David said that it was ok with him, he knew that I still had feeling for Red, and it didn't affect anything between us. I was stunned, my mind had been quickly going through the pleadings and promises that I would make to David, but now it was reeling in another direction. So began me going between two men, one with whom I was getting ever closer and one I couldn't let go of. They both knew about the other and I now felt unbelievably loved, powerful, appreciated, confident. What could make them love me so much to agree to this? And it all seemed so natural, so right. After about another month, David called and said he was on his way home from the office and asked if he could stop by my place on his way home. I hesitated, and David again immediately picked up on what was going on and said, "Is Red there, I'd like to meet him." Once again, the usually quick minded Petra didn't know what to say and feigned confidence and enthusiasm, "Sure." I told Red that David was stopping by and he reacted mildly with "That'll be nice." It was like five minutes of terror for me, once again not knowing what might happened. When they met, it was a sign of what was to follow - despite all of their differences, they got along and talked about things they did have in common, which thankfully did not include me. So now, not only was I seeing two men, fucking two men, they were both openly in my life including the three of us being together. It was as if it were meant to be. The three of us almost never went on dates together, it was always either David and I or Red and I, but we seemed to be getting together more and more for practical reasons like shopping or helping to fix something. Now to the point of this thread: one Saturday morning the three of us were at my place after I had been out of town on business the whole week. I was unpacking, doing laundry and was looking pretty grungy, I thought. David asked Red didn't I look good, and asked if I was wearing a bra. I hardly ever at home because I hardly have tits. Unusual for him, David's talk got dirty, he asked me to take off my shirt, I did and he asked Red something like isn't that the most beautiful thing you have ever seen? Red said yes, and David asked me to get closer to Red. I didn't know exactly what the plan was or even if there was a plan, but we were, to use a cliché, all on the same page. David stood back as Red and I took my clothes off, I sucked his dick as he played with my tit, then his clothes came off and we went at it. Hard. After we both came, I started having having fears and doubts again about David. I mean, not only was what to David I thought only an abstract thing, he now saw me do it, not just sex, love making, deep kissing. I looked at David he invited me over and kissed me. Affectionately. He pushed me down onto the bed, on my back, and began what had become our foreplay routine of him licking my clit before we go at it. I can only take so much of that before I want him inside me, and it happened. All that messy sloshing and squishing, and a second ejaculation in my vagina right after I had one from another man. And what a lot of orgasms. I had no fear or doubt now, it is clear that David loves me as I am, which includes my love and sex with Red. I never thought I could exceed my earlier feelings of being "loved, powerful, appreciated, confident," but now I did. It would have been great to have continued the day with the three of us, but Red had an important appointment to go to so it left David and me. The rest of the day and most of Sunday was David and me. We didn't talk about the threesome, again, it all just seemed so normal and right. David left in the afternoon on Sunday, I threw the additional laundry that we had generated into the machine and went to Red's place to talk, and screw. After that first time MFM, we never planned any, they just sometimes happened (although once we moved in together we would occasionally do it as a ritual, especially vaginal/anal DP, which I love). Mostly my love life with Red and David were conducted separately, although there were plenty of sloppy seconds. It was not long after we got to this point of what seemed total openness and honesty that David asked me to marry him with the thought that he didn't want to live without me and he had never been so sure of anything in his life. My first MFM was the highlight of my sexual life (and one of the top of anything in my life) until I was confident enough to let hubby start playing and I had my first FFM and opened up to my Lesbian side...

An update to the story for those who were following. Today morning as we were fucking (that’s what we call doing it nowadays - not having sex, doing it or making love - we call it fucking 😏) we mutually agreed to stop entertaining this couple. We will still mix socially but we will not entertain anything remotely sexual, or even lewd jokes. We decided that we will look for other guys who might be interested to fuck her. A part of me is wistful, since she was genuinely aroused when I discussed this guy and me fucking her together or in a gangbang, I think it is better for everyone involved to just move forward. Thanks for the advice everyone 🙏

Thankfully I don’t need the money. I just wish the government wouldn’t control what people do with their bodies as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone. It is kind of hypocritical that men in power use that power to have sex, men in power who have sex and then pay to keep their secret quiet. I don’t like that men will force women into sex and then steal the pay. If selling sex pays the rent, the food or lets someone live a decent life, as long as they are careful and not transmitting disease, they should be able to do so. This goes for men too who will satisfy women’s wants. I have never been to a bachelorette party that had men dancers who would do more but I’ve heard.

All shapes and sizes, but… I have a recurring weight problem. Lifestyle events have inspired me to do something about my weight. A good goal is to knock off 10-20 pounds, not be perfect. You will perform better sexually, be more attractive and improve other health markers like diabetes, heart health, breathing, etc. Jenny Craig, WW, Mediterranean diet, pick your fave. Take a break from your favorite poison, real ice cream, pizza, fast food. You will feel better.

We have been talking about it for about a year. It has helped us discover some kinks and interests but we haven't taken the plunge yet. I am hoping to continue the conversation when my wife recovers from her surgery and see if we can move past just a fantasy.

What I like to see: I can't say that I like huge saggy breasts, but it does turn me on to watch Clair's or Lora's breasts sway back and forth when they are fucking doggy. (Mine are too small to sway.) Forget a guy's dick (vaginal orgasm is easy for me regardless of dick), I love to see and play with a (huge saggy) scrotum with well-defined testicles, not the scrotums that look like half a tennis ball. A man's testicles are the source of all his manhood and the sperm I like to have living inside me. Beautiful scrotums/testicles don't get the recognition they deserve. On a woman I appreciate nice, appropriate sized inner labia that slightly protrudes beyond her outer labia, and a well-defined clit.

Welcome to the swingerboard HHgirl

Whatever the reasons, the statement is accurate: there are fewer "family friendly" nudist resorts. That does not mean that there are fewer people comfortable with social nudity... only that there are fewer who want to go to a resort centered around the lack of textiles. Both adults and families now want and expect more of their travel destinations than they did fifty years ago.

The jealousy problem is real, some couples can handle it some cannot. I think you need to know which kind of couple you are before you try. When my husband started asking me to be a hotwife, and I realized he wasn't gonna let it go. I tested it. We went to a club one night, we went seperately, for that night we were not a couple. I told him I would flirt my ass off, I'd dance with guys, I'd accept drinks, and I'd get numbers but I would not leave with anyone but him. The entire night his job was to watch me do it. If it ever bothered him he could come get me and we would leave. I texted him every dirty detail all night long, I was very touchy feely, I danced my ass off and ground my booty against a couple guys on the dance floor. I made sure he saw it all. Then we left together when the club closed and we debriefed each other. He was super turned on so I called one of the guys that gave me their number.

Family friendly nudist resorts are are having a hard time staying in business because of all the legal issues (lawsuits involving sex in the presence of minors) All the lawsuits going on with the Boy scouts has caused their insurance to sky rocket. In some places having sex in front of a minor is a felony. This is why the swinging has to be kept "behind closed doors" at the family friendly nudist resorts. I have been a nudist for the past 33 years of my life. My husband was the one interested in nudism at the beginning of our marriage and I gave it a try and I was hooked faster than either of us dreamed. Back then there wasn't a lot of females that would even give nudism a try so it was always me and all these gorgeous gorgeous guys. I felt like a kid in the candy store. I have always been open minded and I have had an amazing sex drive. My husband has always given me the green light with the condition that I not do anything behind his back and I share the details. He likes to live thru me vicariously. I only tell people on a need to know basis because that is just how I am. I am lucky that the nudist clubs that I am members of don't seem to be judgmental but I still am not going to tell everyone . I have a lot of friends and I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings (about who I want to play with and who I don't) I am new here by the way. Hubby thought I might like this forum.

I do agree with realcplub2; getting feedback from women here on this forum will offer some confirmation bias. The only women on this forum will very likely be women who enjoy swinging and have had good experiences from it. That said, there are some things you might not be aware of that bear considering. Quite a few women do very much enjoy swinging and get lots of satisfaction from it. Women are a strong element of swinging. If women were more reluctant than men after getting into swinging, then there wouldn't be swinging. From my perspective, women tend to have a bite more difficult of a time separating sex from emotions. My wife certainly agrees with this. It's possible that on average women get into swinging more slowly than men. But, women wouldn't be in it if it wasn't worth it. It most definitely IS worth it...IF the couple is ready, IF the couple is very close, IF the couple has strong communication skills, IF the couple have no issues in their relationship. Your wife might not be completely onboard with swinging yet. It sounds like she's quite interested, but is uncertain about all of it. That's perfectly understandable. There's a rule of thumb swingers have quite often said; move at the pace of the slower of the couple in getting into swinging. You've been fantasizing about it for years, and are likely more ready for it than she is. Allow her to grow into the idea. Move at HER pace, not yours. If you really want this fantasy to come true, you need to support her in her thoughts and decisions about this, and certainly by no means should you try to move her along faster than she's ready. It is a wonderful, wonderful thing to watch your wife having sex with another man. But, it's all meaningless if she isn't enjoying it too. I've seen my wife have sex with other men many times. It's intensely erotic...because she is enjoying it! Your wife isn't ready for that, even if she gets very turned on by the idea. realcplub2 is right; you need to talk about this well away from the bedroom, without being overwhelmed by sexual thoughts. If you do go down this path, understand that the first time doing something isn't likely to be a great measure of how much she will enjoy it. My wife and I talked about this possibility before we got into it. We agreed we'd do it a few times at least, even if it was just a so-so experience. We'd just try different people. It's a good thing we did this; the third time was the charm for my wife. Before that, the sex was kind of humdrum, and not really worth it. Ok, not a bad evening, but not really worth it. The third guy? He curled my wife's toes...quite literally...and she couldn't get enough sex with him. Shortly after we were on the way home from that, she said "Ok, NOW I'm a swinger!" That time was definitely worth it. It can be for your wife too, but you need to proceed at her pace. Talk lots about it, in the bedroom AND well away from it as realcplub2 said. Don't allow your own fantasy dictate this, otherwise she can end up feeling like she's only doing it to fulfill your fantasy. That will end badly. It needs to be her that wants it, her that enjoys it, her that has a fantasy fulfilled.

It is great when watching how both of them react brings satisfaction. For me, it intensifies my jealousy fetish that she is pleasing him, and he her, and he has deposited a living part of himself inside of her. What kicked it up for me is when I found my Lesbian side, hubby would make love to my girlfriend, and my jealousy ran in both directions. The quandary is always who do I reclaim first? Since his dick is too sensitive immediately afterwards and she could go for multiple orgasms, I usually go down on her first.

Kid in a candy store...quickly she will figure out that not all candy tastes how she likes it...and most of the candy is just old (lol). She'll probably start refining her taste once she sees what is available and what she likes (and once she finds out that she's the blood in the water surrounded by sharks). It sounds like you raised her will and have given her good advice as she heads in this direction...I think she'll be okay. Of course, having a couple or two that you know keeping an eye on her won't hurt either.

The object of the game is to be sexually satisfied by whatever excites the members of the group and nothing more but the lack of acceptance is terribly hypocritical. My best friend is gay and he's constantly hammered by "straight" married guys to have sex. That is no surprise but for a swingers group to be so close minded is disappointing.

Personally I quite enjoy seeing two men together. I find gay porn hot! Personal preference. I think it is important for us not to judge others. If you like it partake, if not don't. There is no need to malign each other about it.

Agree that anyone else's experience includes their particulars and "survivor bias." That's one of the reasons we wanted for him in each case to meet with Daniela and me at dinner and talk before they became sexual. The points we made were that we were happily married, that this was solely for her pleasure, not mine, and that she had fond memories of the sex they had. Most importantly they were exes for a reason, and they both agreed when they broke up that it wouldn't have worked long-term. I would say that old flames were rekindled, they burned bright and hot for a very short time, then quickly went out. The infatuation was there, but my wife said it made her want me more than ever.

It makes you understand what you are and what you are not to her sexually. You may be her best, her favorite, but you're not everything. You can't be - you're only one person.

Am I crazy or are some people overthinking this entire thing? Your wife is not a child. If it were me I would be open, honest, and direct with her. She brought the idea up in bed so you already have the opening. If you're direct with her she should either say yes, no, or maybe. I am not really into playing games so maybe I'm a bit bias but I would be upfront at this point.

Wow good posts. Our first time was very hard for me, but the guy was very nice and respectful and kind. He treating me very good. By the third time (hard for me also) I was hooked. Now I look forward to this very much and I am much more into sex and open about what we do. This was the best fun for us both, trust me. We now plan our meets together and it is so much fun. She may be a changed women as I have been. To find your man is ok with this and I mean really ok with this is so liberating. I have become the whore lol in the bed room that men talk (dream) about. It is a great source of enjoyment for us both!

I'm a firm believer that the best way to start is to let your wife take the lead and do what she feels comfortable with and is the most fun for her. No arguments, and the payoff is huge.

My husband is usually the top but last week I got to finally watch him get taken. I watched while another guy was inside me. The guy was definitely bigger than average so it took a bit of time to get inside him. When my husband got fully erect I took him in my mouth. He came very quickly and so did I - absolutely amazing experience for us. Afterwards he said the guys penis hitbhis p-spot perfectly.

We started as nudists, much later became swingers. While there is a big overlap of the two interests, there are many nudists shocked by swinging and swingers who do not want to walk around naked. We have a parlor game in which we try to guess who the Swingers are at nudist resorts.

I'd been in a couple of nudist environments - a California beach, the spa at Baden-Baden - before we turned into swingers. But I don't think those had much to do with our decision to try swinging.

Definitely gorgeous women feet. Love the smell and the look. And being pegged.

My fetish is performing oral sex on a new woman until she pushes me away, tells me I've worn her out. Happened more than a few times.

Now that is a FETISH!

"Unconventional" stuff that turns me on: Preggos (fucked the brains out of my wife during her last pregnancy) Big, lactating tits (see above ) Watersports (wife's not too thrilled, but we've tried a few times) Armpit hair (haven't been able to convince her to let her underarm bush grow wild) Her turn-on's: Double vag MFM (still in the fantasy stage, hopefully that will be sorted out this year)

Two words: high freakin' heels

My main fetish/fantasy is to have others watch me... I love attention... All of eyes on me! A room full... All focused on me... I'm looking sexy... Feeling sexy... Everyone looking! I love love that!

If you are able to down raw oysters AND enjoy the experience, you will have no trouble going down on a bearded clam that had a little bit of semi-translucent, viscous fluid.

I would say one of mine would be that I get very turned on by the thought and action of going down on my wife after I have cum in or on her. Not really "trying" to eat the cum but ...I don't know. It's just hot.

Getting my wife to squirt Breast milk Lingerie Group sex Etc

Me: When three of us are playing, MFM of FMF, it doesn't matter. It just seems like three is the right number to be engaged in sex. Hubby, Red, Lora, Clair: Oh my, I would have to think too much to list all of it.

I like to watch my cock slide in and out of a nice shaved pussy. I like to see juicy shaved pussy lips wrapped around my shaved cock. Also like to see my cock slide in and out of a nice hole during anal.

I really get turned on by the thought of eating the dripping Pussy although once we have had our orgasm it becomes a lower priority. If we do it privately we might go another round. We did post orgasm 69 last time we Clubbed but after that I just let my partner and another lady masturbate me off again.

Have a lot of the same ones as "GoNatural" above. I'll add being seduced by an extremely passable, feminine Shemale and surprisingly discovering a very large and hard cock. Then having a MFM 3some with said Shemale. Having a considerably older woman watch me masturbate to completion. Pretending to be back in the 8th grade again at my strict catholic school and being seduced by my former 22 yr old first year math teacher that used to sit on the front of her desk wearing very short skirts that would ride way up her thighs. She was a about 5'2" and a 100 lbs soaking wet with a rock in her pocket and had THE most incredible legs I've ever seen on a women. Hot little Italian spinner. Whewww, I could pop a load just thinking about her.

My husband's fetish is feet. Mine is another man's sperm inside of me. My "creampie" fetish is a very, very rare treat for me since there are only a few trusted men I allow to be inside of me without a condom. I'm too afraid of an STD. But in that rare occassion, it easily pushes me over the cliff of orgasms. If only the world was perfect and all STDs gone. Then watch out world, here I come!

My old gf could squirt...It is a fantasy/turn on when a woman squirts all over me and rubs her shaved/dripping wet pussy all over me, then I suck her pussy. One thing my old gf wanted me to do, which we did not get around to do, she wanted me to cum in her pussy than have me lick/suck her pussy...I would have done it...

IvoryTowers, the definition that you wrote of a fetish is correct, at least by the ditionary's standards, but on this forum, it is what sexual details or particular sex acts REALLY turn you on. I have a long list of fetishes. Women that do not shave their pussy, and it is a plus is they don't shave their pits either. Feminine women that do not wear makeup. Hippie chicks, for all of the above reasons. Nerdy or intellectual women, as someone mentioned in an earlier post. Half dressed women (eg. wearing only a shirt, up skirt views, or just cotton panties). The smell of a natural and musky pussy that has hair on it. The pussy and ass smell of a woman at the end of a long day. Watching a woman masturbate. Watching a woman use a big sex toy or object, if she's into that kind of stuff. Vaginal fisting (I enjoy giving it, but I'd rather watch one woman fist another woman). Watching a woman that craves Big Cocks get what she desires. Creampies, giving one, or watching another guy cum in a woman. Eating a creampie. Sloppy seconds. Anal sex, giving and receiving. Rimming a woman ( I have to get to know her first though to enjoy it). Watching one woman rim another woman. I would so love to see that! Homemade porn, especially if it is a video where the guy filmed his wife with a well endowed guy that also knows how to use it! Watersports, but not in the moth, and I'll only try it with very select women. I'll have sex with a woman during her period, but only if I'm dating her. Light bondage such as restraints and blindfolds on rare occasions. Semi public sex. Sex outdoors. Watching others have sex.

well never considered a fetish but I love watching Red getting off on with ever person or toy that is getting her off at that time. I have a anal fetish both giving and receiving. If Red had a fetish I would say it is just lots and lots of fucking and clit stimulation. She is just wild. She also loves watching women doing sexy hot dancing.

If we're talking about an obsession, or a fixation, then I say sex. Yes, folks, that's my fetish. Sex in almost anyway, shape or form. The very idea is freakishly sexy and to be honest, makes my pussy pucker.

Her: She loves giving head! Him: Women who love giving head! Gotta love it when a plan comes together..!

For me, genuine female excitement. I feed off of it. If she's just going through the motions, I won't get anywhere, but when she starts to get slippery, her hips get to rocking, her breathing starts coming in gasps, and her muscles start to tense in just the right places - look out... For her it's watching a man walk around with an erection. She's really mesmerized by it - especially if he's walking toward her, and she knows it's for her...

Mohawks....I know, it's weird, but they're just so freaking hot!!! Also, the smell of shops. Mechanic's shops, sheet metal shops, HVAC shops, pretty much anything that has that ground in, completely permeated by oil, grease, and sawdust smell.

I probably have to many to list but just to shoot a few off (no pun intended). I like women who wear glasses. That nerdy/geeky looks is beyond hot. I like those fishnet stockings, thigh high. And I have an ass fetsih: licking, fucking, playing with. But no dirty stuff if you catch my drift. That's all I'll list for now. Is it ok to have no shame?

Mrs. Ekies...she swears she doesn't have any...we shall see. Trace...analingus...me doing it and having it done to me.

A temp fetish....When I was pregnant with my 2nd my hubby was fondling my breast and they started leaking...for the next several months he was so turned on to play with my breast and get them to leak on him. Funny thing is, dang it felt good!!!!