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imho, you don't share love, precisely. you share complicity, sexual tastes, etc. but if he prefers the lifestyle to a relationship with you, then he is simply addict, he lost control, and love is nowhere to be found there. if one cannot sacrifice his past behavior for someone he pretends to love, then that four-letter word is simply a lie.

I never identified as bisexual even when I had my first encounter with a girlfriend. I didn’t have a romantic attraction to her, I don’t think I even had a sexual attraction to her. My sexual voyage started with a male friend who was interested in a threesome. My memory probably has changed as I have told this story so many times to women who are exploring their sexuality. My first bisexual experience was just three nude friends in bed, a little high, having fun. Yeah lucky guy. The couples we meet that are looking to explore are mostly those that have watched movies or TV shows that depict women having sex. It’s curiosity not romantic attraction, it’s sexual exploration. Female bisexuality has been, or dual female sex has been romanticized in media. I say don’t let your actions label you or stigmatize you. I believe mainstream media has made bi female sex more socially acceptable. I’m not sure of male bisexuality and why men search out other men but I’m sure much of it is similar to women’s thinking. We don’t search out men looking to have sex with other men and it hasn’t presented itself with the couples we met. I support the LGBTQ community even if I don’t consider myself part of it. If I were surveyed I would have to think how I would respond if asked my sexuality. In the true sense of the question I should answer Bisexual to be fair to the survey. I’m not ashamed of who I am, I am not romantically attracted to other women. We all know sex and romance can be mutually exclusive, swinging is sex, not romance.

For those who want to know, while the sex I had with David and Red was mostly one on one and our love deepened among the three of us in those early days (before Clair and Lora), the MFMs we had became more about just the sex, the physical pleasure, like a celebration. Our first DP was one of our weekend meet-ups, I was riding David cowgirl and Red came up behind me and put it in my bum, and then it was a kind of thing.

Yeah, njbm, I’m not surprised to learn that sight put you over the top — right then! 😉😂😊