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2 pointsHow do you handle telling someone on a swinger site that you aren’t interested? Do you just not answer if someone contacts you and something in their profile doesn’t match your wants? What about if there is no physical attraction? Are we wrong not giving someone a reason we aren’t interested? Today so many people meet on dating apps, swiping left or right based on first impressions. I’m thinking that physical attraction is that first impression. Not sure how it works and if you are swiped that that person is interested do you have to swipe back? Now on SLS or Swingtown or Kadidie, I know we can contact a member and wait for a response or respond to a request. Do you always answer? I just figure if we don’t get a response there was no interest. I would hate to respond You’re not Our Type. For us, I am more interested in the appearance of the male, I think I know what Debbie likes. We do look at profiles together and Debbie is more critical than me and I certainly want her to make the ultimate choice. Also do you normally checkout the Private pictures and do those risqué pictures affect your choices?
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2 pointsSimple. "No thank you, and we wish you the best of luck on your journey. " You should *never* give a reason. You should *never* feel an obligation to give a reason. "No means no."
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2 pointsIf we don’t like the other couple, we do respond and we say “We’re not a match.” We find that this is the least hurtful answer. We have received many answers in which the husband says he will do my wife, but his wife is not interested in playing with our husband. We find that answer insulting. Our profile says we are looking for a couples swap, not a single guy. We meet for a vanilla dinner or drinks on the first meeting. No awkward pressure to play. We don’t mind dinner or drinks with any civil couple, so we are not too harsh about judging appearances. Some people who squeaked through on the pictures turned out to be totally charming and sexual dynamos. Give people a chance.
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1 pointOver NYE we met a nice couple who were about 2 hours from where we live. We hooked up, had a great time and promised to see each other again when able. A few weekends ago, they came down to visit for some hot play time, with a twist. They asked if we would be interested in bareback and cream pie play. After a discussion about risk, (They both on Valtrex) we were in separate rooms playing. Both ladies filled to the rim, and then after they left, Mrs. F received her 3rd for the evening. We love it, and can't wait for more BB and CP play.
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1 pointCollege is overrated. Just convince that child to be an Influencer and live on the beaches of Thailand.
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1 pointGetting old requires a LOT of adjustments. I never thought this would be one. On the bright side, I make less of a mess!!!
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1 pointI never thought of that so I looked it up. What I read is sperm is a very small part of ejaculate, 1-3% and most likely not noticeable in the quantity. It could be age. It can also be you are having more sex, lucky guy. Age: Males tend to ejaculate the largest volume of semen in their thirties. As they age, this volume decreases. Sexual activity: Recent sexual activity, including masturbation, may decrease semen volume, which potentially reduces the distance semen can travel. Prolonged periods of abstinence may cause a person to produce more semen than their usual amount. Genetic factors: Genetics play a role in most aspects of health, including the volume of semen. Some people naturally ejaculate more or less compared to others, regardless of health or lifestyle. Lifestyle factors: Diet, smoking, and many other lifestyle factorsTrusted Source can affect semen quality and overall health. For example, most research shows regular exercise may improve fertility and sperm quality, and studies suggest it may increase semen volume. Overall health: General health may affect semen volume. For example, a person with a chronic illness, such as diabetes, might notice a change in their semen. Hormonal issues may also influence semen quality.
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1 pointWe just joined one of the swinging meet sites reluctantly. Our friends insisted that we meet other people and not depend on visiting them as our only swing mates. Filling out the profile together we put in many restrictions that we didn’t have with our friends. Couple, same room, no bi play, condoms, no anal, and many more no. In capital letters NO SINGLE MEN. We emphasized again in the profile NO SINGLE MEN. How clear can we make it? It is very difficult for us to just post looking to meet a couple, we made Debbie the screener. It was only posted very recently and we are getting correspondence very similar to what Billygoat posted. The reason I posted this is because we aren’t looking for a woman, we want a nice couple and we still get crazy men contacting us, it isn’t saved for any type of posting.
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1 pointRecent exchange on swingtown: we think you’re hot. thanks we are hoping for a threesome I’ve done many threesomes, have you? no. We are new to all this and would like to try having one. have you been to any LS parties. not yet. Not sure about that. Really want a threesome well the best is to meet some time and talk. Make sure everyone is comfortable and discuss limitations, likes and no go activities. oh sure we understand. Really excited. What kind of things like rules yes, limitations for you and her. Best to know before anything starts. Will this be soft or full swing event. ????? involve penetration or just manual or oral play all of it we are open. Just want threesome. well I am not bi but not shy. ok and I do not participate in anal. ok i am clean, clipped and snipped ?? circumcised and vasectomy. Tested and clean you are a guy. yes husband here. no. I just want two women. yeah. Don’t we all. You only asked for a threesome. just women np. Good luck supposedly late 40s couple. Husband calls all th shots. Wanted to meet solo to check things out then involve his wife. The vibe wasn’t right so I had a little fun. Lol
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1 pointWhether looking for a woman or a pair the results were the same. We didn’t have restrictions on our posting because we were testing the waters. Thinking back we weren’t looking for single men, single women or bi/bi couples. I know we had to be physically attractive to us. We wanted ages close to ours. We got single men, men saying they had partners and as others stated Fakes. We didn’t know what to expect and how others acted on first meetings. I couldn’t just meet for sex with strangers. So many just wanted immediate sex, no pre-meets. That was a red flag for us. We wanted to meet and get to know first. We contacted a couple, she wrote back with a sweet non sexual response. We made a date, no pressure meeting. It worked. They asked what we were looking for which made us think more. She asked if I was comfy with certain things, I wasn’t sure. We weren’t looking for a unicorn, didn’t find a unicorn, but with work found a fabulous first.
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1 pointWe have been on SLS for about seven years. We like to play as a couple with couples. We see the usual suspects come up in our searches. Few are couples who actually play, fewer still are in our age group (over 60). It’s a limited group of actual lifestylers. Most of our recent (pre-pandemic) play has been on cruises.
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1 pointWhat I like to see: I can't say that I like huge saggy breasts, but it does turn me on to watch Clair's or Lora's breasts sway back and forth when they are fucking doggy. (Mine are too small to sway.) Forget a guy's dick (vaginal orgasm is easy for me regardless of dick), I love to see and play with a (huge saggy) scrotum with well-defined testicles, not the scrotums that look like half a tennis ball. A man's testicles are the source of all his manhood and the sperm I like to have living inside me. Beautiful scrotums/testicles don't get the recognition they deserve. On a woman I appreciate nice, appropriate sized inner labia that slightly protrudes beyond her outer labia, and a well-defined clit.
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1 pointWhen I was about 13 my sister caught me jacking off, so instead of saying anything to dad. I had to Jack off her, then eventually she would masturbate for me. She sucked me a couple times and we had sex once. Many years later I was at a party, she was also there, some chick was getting banged on a back room, I wandered back there, only to see her doing a chain.
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1 pointAs I said before, once people of either sex are old enough to realize what's important and there is no possibility of procreation, I wouldn't have any issue with siblings having sex. But, Couplers, no way am I going to mess with someone who's got problems, whether they're my kin or not. As they say, "Never go to bed with anybody who's crazier than you are!"
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1 pointAlura is correct that there are probably more brothers and sisters that may have played. I don’t think they play as swingers, most likely as adolescents. I think there has been plenty of sexual experimentation that has taken place at homes when mom and dad were at work. I am not saying that this is the norm and not saying if it occurred it continued to adulthood. Certainly this is not a socially accepted relationship, neither is swinging. I have learned not to make judgments on who people have sex with or what is normal.
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1 pointTricianmike, I was thinking in terms of who could get hurt by siblings playing which is why I mentioned reproductive age. If there is no chance of creating a child that would be aborted or possibly suffer some kind of genetic abnormalities, then for me, my conclusion stands, who cares? As for Mrs Doc's sister, no she doesn't play. We HAVE talked about the possibility. In a perfect world, my wife wouldn't mind, we've played several times with her very good friend who is perhaps closer than the sister and it was wonderful. It is not a perfect world however and if we even hinted at the possibility, her sister would be absolutely outraged. In puppy talk, I definitely got the pick of the litter. The attached was taken yesterday trying on a christmas present….
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1 pointI think if a brother and sister are beyond reproductive age, so what? If they go to a club or a party as a couple and play separately, again, so what? My sister? Naaaaa, I don't ever want to see her naked. Mrs Doc's sister, you bet!! In a heartbeat!
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1 pointYes they did play, not immediately. I am not a big party player and normally play I a separate room. I ended up in a room with the brother. We played about an hour and I went to freshen up. My new friend went to the room where the others were. He was sitting next to his sister. From there they played right on the floor.
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1 pointOkay, this is probably going to get some comments. Incest is wrong for several reasons: If one person 'controls' another. If it's done at a young age. If there is any chance of pregnancy (and thus defects). But . . . when you are adults and there is no chance of pregnancy, is it really wrong for a brother and sister to have sex? There's a part of me that says, 'not really.'
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1 pointI see no problem, as long as everyone is legal and everyone is on board I don't see the problem. Sex should be something to be enjoyed, with a relative or not. Though marrying cousins is legal in most us states and countries. The problem is really only with close family members like mom/son/dad/daughter.
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1 pointMy idea of a good time: 1. Turn the porn on. 2. Turn the volume on the tv off. 3. Turn music on. 4. Take the clothes off. 5. Start having sex. Simplicity is beautiful. heh. Honestly, there could be a marching band going through my cranium while I was having sex and I wouldn't get distracted.
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1 pointWe are Mike and Ida and several of our true experiences have been posted in the past. We have been swinging for 26 years. This experience is an absolute first for us since it involved Ida's brother and his wife. Ida's brother, Nick, is two years younger than us. Ida had told me that Mike has slipped into her bedroom when she was 16 and he was almost 15. She pretended to be asleep while he felt her breasts but when he moved toward her pussy, she found his dick and it was hard and throbbing. She told him to go get a washcloth so that he would not shoot on the bed or floor. When he came back, she gave him a hand job and let him suck her nipples and finger her. This was the first climax for both. They continued masturbating each other until Ida went to college. About a year ago, Nick called and asked if we would like to go to the mountains with him and his wife Martha. We agreed and asked them to come to our house on the way and we would leave from here. Martha is short with nice legs but it is her breasts that everybody notices. She claims to wear a 38 F-G bra. She often wears a maternity bra. She is well accustomed to the stares and remarks. She always dresses down so as not to draw as little attention to her breasts as possible. Ida and I often talked about Martha's breasts since we are both fascinated by them. We have always been discrete about our swinging and considered Martha to be straight-laced, so we never mentioned her breasts in front of her. Ida told me that she had seen Martha's breasts once many years ago when they were changing into bathing suits. She said that they were beautiful and her nipples were about like her index finger and about as long as the first joint in her finger. Martha noticed Ida staring at them and let her feel how heavy they are. Nick and Martha came to our house for what was supposed to be for two days before leaving for the mountains. Nick and I went to fill the vehicle and left the girls at home. Nick cautiously told me that he and Martha had been swinging for several years and asked how I felt about that, and if Ida and I had thought of it. I did not want to admit to our experiences without talking to Ida first so I told him that we had thought about it. He told me that Martha was checking Ida out about it. I knew that Ida, like me, would love to have sex with Martha but I had doubts about Ida and Nick. When we got back home, Ida told Nick and Martha to make themselves at home while we went to took care of something. Ida told me that Martha said that she and Nick had been swinging a few years and asked if that bothered us. Ida said that she had confessed that we had been discretely doing it for 26 years. Ida said that while we were getting gas, Martha told her that her breasts were hurting and asked if she would take a look and see if she saw any bruises or anything. She said that Martha sat on the bed, opened her shirt, dropped the maternity cups on her bra, and let her breasts drop out. She said she was moving them around and looking them over for bruises when Martha eased Ida's mouth onto one of her nipples. Ida said that they both hurriedly pulled their shorts and panties down and fingered each other but we got back too quick for them to climax. Ida asked me how I felt about swinging with Nick and Martha. I told her that I would KILL just SEE Martha's breasts, and asked how she felt about it. Ida said that she and Nick had done everything except put his dick in her when they were children and she could not get pregnant, so she did not see any danger or real harm. She said that she did want to talk to Nick alone about it and asked me to drive Martha around for a half hour. I waited in the car while Ida went and told Martha to go with me for half an hour while she talked to Nick. She said that she and Nick were not going to be intimate and asked that me and Martha not do more that touching until all of us got together. I cannot possibly describe the ride with Martha. To feel those breasts that I had wanted for 30 YEARS was as close to paradise as it gets!!!! When we got back home, I could hear Ida groaning and making a lot of noise. I told Martha that Nick was either eating Ida or slamming her. We eased to the bedroom as Nick was slamming Ida into the last stages of climax. We backed out unnoticed and went to the living room. Martha said that we should strip down and work ourselves up so that Nick would not feel bad about his and Ida's activity. I stripped Martha down for the very first time and feasted on the nicest breasts I will ever see. I instantly had a very strong erection and I fingered Martha to get her good and wet. We made noise as we approached the bedroom where Nick was driving his dick into Ida for another round. Ida was stretched out with her legs wide-open and pulling Nick's butt into her. Nick jammed his dick into her one last time and shivered. They kept going till they both climaxed for the second time and made room for Martha and I. The sight of Nick filling Ida and Martha holding my dick made me cum. Nick said that he wanted to watch me fill Martha up and make her groan with pleasure. I looked at Ida and she nodded. As Martha eased down on the bed on her hands and knees, Ida grabbed one of her dangling breasts. Martha paused and let Ida enjoy caressing it. Ida was on her back and Martha found Ida's pussy, which was SOAKED with Nick’s cum. Nick and I enjoyed watching the girls fondling and fingering each other for a while. I rolled Martha over on her back and got totally carried away with her breasts. I had wanted those breasts for more than 20 years and always thought NOBODY would EVER have them but Nick. Her breasts wobbled, rolled, and jiggled as she rolled over on to her back, then came to rest spilled over to the sides of her chest. I gently gathered them up to the top of her chest and took one of her HUGH nipples in my mouth. It is about the size of my little finger and as long as the first joint of that finger. Martha began to moan and twist as I let go of her nipple and moved up enough to rub my dick on her pussy lips. She reached down and put the head of my dick in her. As I started to move in and out of her, Martha went wild. I was having sex with a woman that I was convinced was untouchable until today. I looked over and noticed Nick and Ida both watching us with that glazed hypnotic look on their faces. Nick had Ida up in the doggy position and was behind her. Martha bucked and jerked, then easily took one of her nipples into her own mouth. I found the other one and began to squeeze it. Nick said that she was about to come when she took her own nipple into her mouth. Martha twitched and shivered into her first climax with me. She groaned and shook until her climax let her settle back down. I was about to HAVE to unload in her. I just could not hold it any more. I heard Nick say for me to fill her up because he loved sloppy seconds. I have always loved them with my wife too and I knew that Ida was loaded with Nick's cum. I could hear the squishing and smacking sounds of all of the juice in her pussy as Nick pumped her. As soon as I exploded in Martha, I slid out so that Nick could have her while she was full. Ida and I watched as Nick slammed Martha into a second climax. Ida was working on my dick to get it back up. I told her that it would get back up if I could feel hers and Martha's pussy while they had two loads in them. We moved up next to Martha with our heads at her feet. I took hold of both pussies and got right back up. Ida opened up and I slid my dick into her soaked and throbbing pussy. Nick and Martha got behind us so they could watch me pump Ida from behind us. While I was enjoying a slow but steady pace of moving in and out of Ida, I felt Martha hold my balls and lift them. Ida relaxed and whispered that Nick was trying to get his finger in her butt. Ida's behavior told me the instant that Nick got his finger in her butt. She grunted, began to squirm, and thrash her head. I could feel Nick's finger through that flesh between Ida's butt and her pussy. Ida started to climax and Nick pushed up against my dick hard. Ida climaxed as hard as I have ever known her to. Ida is very vocal and was grunting and groaning very loud, almost screaming. She told me not to quit and to squeeze her nipples. She kept saying harder. I squeezed her nipples so hard that I do not know how she stood it. Her face had that look of ecstasy and pain at the same time! As I shot my load, Nick pushed up against my dick even harder. When I got off Ida, I noticed that Nick kept his finger in Ida's butt. He repositioned himself and slid his thumb in Ida's pussy and had her on the way to her next climax. Martha and I watched as Ida gathered her breasts together and squeezed her nipples. She humped at Nick's fingers and groaned into a BIG climax. She told Nick not to stop yet. I turned my attention back to Martha. She was lying across my belly at an angle. I decided to try Nick's two-finger trick on Martha. I was able to reach between her legs and found her pussy. She must have had the same thing many times before. She opened up for me and I lubed my finger up on the cum oozing out of her pussy. She threw her head back and arched her back as I found her butt hole. She let out a little whimper as I put my thumb in her soaked pussy. We gave the girls a couple more climaxes before we traded back. I just wanted to feel Ida's butt and pussy while it was soaked and throbbing. We all cleaned up and decided to spend the week at our house rather than waste the driving time to go to the mountains. Nick and Martha told us that they had a closed club of swingers and would like for us to come and join at one of their parties one day. When we did, we enjoyed other couples and on one occasion, Martha and Ida took on four black men. Ida & Mike Arkansas