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Welcome SingleMan! First, you have to keep in mind that the "supply" (if you will) of single men in the lifestyle significantly exceeds demand. There are plenty of couples that will do MFMs with a single guy, but there are also a number of couples who only play with couples. So, opportunities might be limited. That doesn't mean you're not welcome. Far from it! Get yourself a profile on swinglifestyle.com and PAY for it. You won't be considered serious (and can't contact anyway) if you're not paying. Put tasteful pics on your profile. There are far too many guys out there who believe a dick pic is what every woman wants to see. Spend time developing your profile. Be earnest, sincere, and produce a great profile. One line answers to the questions isn't going to help you. Be clear about what you want, what you hope for, and what you can do for a couple. Make it clear how you understand the lifestyle, why you want to be in it, and that you're not cheating on your wife. It's ok to send out emails to prospective couples. Before you do, carefully read their profiles and understand what they want. Take that into consideration in writing to them. Be polite. Make yourself stand out in a gentlemanly way. Far too many single guys drool over pics on a couples' profile and say stupid things in contacting couples. Far too many single guys fail to read the full profile of a potential couple, and say things that obviously don't jibe with the profile. There are also single guys that just spam the same message to as many couples as possible hoping to get a bite. We, and I'm sure many other couples, would just block you and move on. If you want a quality experience with a quality couple, you've got to present yourself as being that quality guy they are looking for. Many couples will be on the lookout for "tells" as to whether a guy is truly single or not. Please, if you really aren't single, do us all a favor (yourself included) and don't bother trying to be in the lifestyle without your wife's permission. If you meet up with a couple, be honest about why you're single, what the lifestyle means for you, and be available to them. A big tell is a not really single guy who is barely available. Swinger couples don't want to play with cheaters. Get yourself STD tested and be ready to prove it. Always assume condoms. Be respectful of both the husband and the wife. They are both letting you have sex with her; a great gift to you. Be mindful of that. Understand your role; you're in some ways a living sex toy. Take time to understand their rules; ask them, and listen carefully. Respect those rules. If you do these things, you have a much better chance of being asked back for a second (and so on) encounter. For a single guy in the lifestyle, it's a lot easier to find one couple and stick with them for a while than to have to find a new couple for every encounter. If you have an encounter that goes well, and you feel comfortable doing so, please ask the couple to certify you and leave a comment about you on your profile. It will improve your chances for future potential couples.

I love women of all shapes, sizes and colors. When I see a pretty girl, I usually think, "What a sharp girl! I would love to be friends with her." As for having sex with them, I have a really hot girl at home. Once you start talking to them, many of the pretty girls become ugly and the plain girls become really hot. The "having sex with them" part would come in due time if the girl in question was interested, Many people on here and other sites describe swinging as sex with strangers. I am retired from swinging these days but I would describe swinging as sex with new friends.

Diagnosis: normal male. (credentials: two semesters of college psychology, know many odd people). If people are going to display their parts, other people are going to look.

I love big butts and I can not lie! Share them if you got them.

I’m recently married and my wife enjoys sex and exploring and so do I. We are both fit and athletic built so we tend to attract very easily people. We have never explored swinging even though she wants to be with a women. She’s very shy about it but fears it could effect our marriage. She also loves to play with my ass and has bought a dildo and a strap. I’m not into that at all actually but I let her do it and she loves it. Being a Alfa make it felt weird but it was ok as I’m open to exploration. She has voiced fantasies of have a bi couple to play with us including the guy wanting to play with me and vice versa with her. I’m not bi but curious as like with her. It’s strange to feel that I would be interested in that but wanted to know if other couples have tried it even men and what was the outcome. We are both opened about our sexuality but have never pushed past our bedroom to seek it out or what to expect

Didn’t think I would be posting this early after meeting our first contact from a swing site. I thought we did everything prior to the meeting that would lead to a new friendship and more. I even wore new underwear. Phone calls, Zooms, wives talking, everything set for a great night. Met at a restaurant we both knew making for a neutral place. We had no problem finding them, we had just Zoomed and knew what they look liked. We spent hours talking, what could go wrong? Debbie gave me the preplanned signal of Let’s go home. What I didn’t plan was an excuse to leave without having sex. I knew the expectation was there, no guarantee made. After a nice dinner we said we would hope to meet again for more. I could tell they wanted more, they invited us back to their home. Quick thinking I reminded them we are new to this and want to digest things, a true statement. I didn’t know what Debbie was thinking or signal giving. We said good night and left without any negative vibes. I was not sure what happened that turned Debbie off, they were nice. She wasn’t specific, she said she just didn’t want to go further. I didn’t push for more reasons. Too bad SNL was a repeat.

Trying to resurrect our post….

Here are a couple more of Missus Enhancer in her new green outfit! Getting ready for Christmas.

If you have pics in the gallery on this site you can just go to the insert other media and choose from the existing files! Otherwise I am not sure. Maybe a picture hosting site?

The start of an anal session.. We love the butt

My contribution

From my playdate with a submissive a couple weeks ago, she's been asking me to find outlets to display her so I'll make sure she sees this thread.

We are swinger/nudist outliers as well. Fortunately the beach we frequent has a wonderful representation of all types. The trick is to read them well if you want to "go there." Last weekend I couldn't take my eyes off of an amazing looking man that was there with another couple. After some innocent talk I began to hint that we were both swingers. As he seemed comfortable with the conversation I "went there.". I told him he had a beautiful big penis and asked him if I could see it nice and hard out in the parking lot. We all left together and ended up in our room. Being naked around a hundred other people is a sexual experience for me and many other I expect. I'm not going to lie about it or hide behind it. I love watching guys look at me, I like seeing their naked bodies and I love the feeling of being naked outside. Not sure what that makes me...