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Not into the cheating husband scene. Morally wrong and unfair to the cheated upon spouse. Invites drama, how bout the wife showing up at your tryst, screaming or shooting. A zillion single guys willing to perform the same tasks. If a person is in a loveless and/or non-sexual marriage, they have to consider their alternatives, such as divorce. You can’t have it both ways by cheating. It will be uncovered and you will be faced with the same decision in an uglier scenario.

We have been reading recently a lot about how awful it is when a married man decides to play alone, his wife not being aware of his extramarital activities, etc. And strangely, the main reason you seem to dislike this behaviour is not so much for moral reasons (duh…) but because “nobody wants to have to deal with cheating dramas, etc.” Well, as couple who loves MMF, we disagree. Here’s why. 1. There are less chances that a married man brings “feelings” into his sexual adventures than a single man. He knows and acknowledges that he is here for sex, not to find a soulmate. That is less dangerous - and boring - than the single man who falls in love. (Even if, of course, it can still happen…) 2. Erotically speaking, it’s very VERY exciting to know that this man chooses me against his legal wife. And that makes my husband even more proud of me 3. Being married, the guy will never stay too long. He will know his exact place and will leave precisely when the moment has come. So… married cheating single men… write to us

Hey all, first time posting. My husband and I are filmmakers in our vanilla lives. We found that we really love filming folks having sex. Is this an official kink? We play some with others but I think we are more into the exhibitionist/voyeur side. There is something amazing about using a good camera and lights to make people look even hotter than they do in reality. Anyone else into this? If you're curious - lsvideography.com and yes, that is me getting fucked really well

Mrs. fit enjoyed MM Play, being in the middle, sliding cocks in asses, etc. She enjoys CD's who enjoy getting fucked and filled and cleaning up. One of our favorite scenarios is ANON sex, where I'm licking Mrs. Hot wet pussy ass up, and a stranger comes and starts to fuck me. Eventually, we switch it up, where he's fucking her from behind, I'm under licking her and his balls and offering a place to empty into or clean up.

Wow! It doesn’t matter that the context is a swing club. Anytime a person without invitation puts their hand on a woman’s vulva, or finger in her vagina, in my opinion that is plain and simple criminal assault. As a practical matter a sexual assault that happens at a sex club is unlikely to be reported to law enforcement, but that doesn’t mean this reprehensible behavior isn’t criminal. You have solicited suggestions. Mine is to spell out to this guy exactly what his unsolicited behavior constitutes. Alerting the club’s management would also be a good idea. If your "good friend" assaults the wrong woman, particularly one with an appropriately protective partner, things could get very ugly very quickly. And in the unlikely circumstance the woman did file a criminal complaint this could make problems for the club’s managers and/or owners.

We don’t play with cheaters, because we think it is a narcissistic trait and we both have a strong dislike for narcissistic people! Definitely do not find narcissistic people attractive in any way. We also believe in karma and have no interest in being in situations that brings bad karma to all involved. Knowingly being part of someone betraying the one they are supposed to love and be loyal to is bad karma. We may not know their spouse, but that doesn’t mean we are okay with causing another person emotional pain regardless of who they are. She also doesn’t feel sexy or attractive if an attached guy hits her up, because they are more then likely hitting up anyone and everyone they can trying to find someone to help accomplish their self centered goals. Shitty people will use anyone to get what they want.

Yeah, this is where we are. Fidelity is key to the lifestyle for us. Violating someone's marriage is not what we want.

I question their understanding of consent if they are willing to potentially bring something back to their unknowing partner.

I can see those argument from both sides. 10 years back I was a bit poly, I was then seriously dating my current husband but still had side relationships. One day at a bar I met an extremely attractive woman named Allison at a gay bar and we connected, the chemistry was amazing. We danced and drank till the bar shut down. At the end of the evening we went back to my place and had an intense night of sex. We hung out the next day and exchanged numbers. I told her everything about me. I thought she told me everything about her. We started casually dating each other which turned into seriously dating and she was my girlfriend for over 6 months. One night I was out with my man and I saw her at the bar. So I went over to grab her and see if she wanted to join us. I walked up and said hey sexy and went to kiss her only to see her jerk back in horror. She quickly kissed me on the cheek and then I heard a guy say "who is this?" She turned and introduced me as a friend to the guy and said to me "This is my husband, Michael." I was floored and deeply emberaced. Watching her jerk away from me in fear of getting caught hurt. I loved her. It was hard for me to get over. So I agree with the no cheaters rule. But I currently engage in Hotwife activities. When I pick up a guy I'm often traveling for work so I'm out of my town. I meet guys at the hotel bars generally and I have found my share of traveling business men with the wedding ring. I never ask if they have permission, it adds to the experience. It makes it a little more wicked or naughty. I never tell them I have permission. If they ask about my wedding ring I ask them "Why do you want to know? Do you know him? Are you friends? Are you worried about hurting his feelings?" The answer is always "no" and then we bone. I never feel bad, I don't exchange numbers, I don't even give them my real name. So in that scenario cheaters work for me.

The OP makes a couple good points (#1 and #3). If the point for Lips & Tongues is to have a threesome, a married man who just wants to have sex and bail is a better option than a man who may bring feelings. There is a lot of potential drama if/when the wife finds out. I guess being in a swinger environment rather than meeting in another means (e.g. someone from work, an actual acquaintance, etc), you can keep personal info to yourselves (e.g. meet at a hotel rather than your home) so the wife wouldn't be able to show up and boil your rabbit. I find it interesting that Lips & Tongues noted they're a couple who "loves MMF". Are you finding married men who engage with your husband?

My husband has spoken with him in the past but I think the best approach is to tell him what you guys have said. That should shake him up and make him realize that it's not all fun and games, it's actually sexual assault!

I only masturbate on days that end in Y

That is hot as heck I have a fantasy of licking a woman's ass then as the guy is pulling out I run my tongue along his shaft till my mouth reaches her pussy and lick his load out.

We were just at Paradise Lakes for 3 nights and really enjoyed our visit. We stayed in a condo in the PL community but outside of the club area. We paid day fees each day to visit the club and sun by the pools. They had a large pool, which was a bit chilly, a heated conversation pool, hot tub, and two volleyball pools. The club also has a bar, a restaurant, spa area, and a night club that has weekend dances. There is also a playroom behind the bar which is open at various times on the weekends. Outside of the club there were pickleball courts that were actively used in the morning. We thought PL had a fun, laid back vibe. Easy to meet people at the conversation pool, bar, and nightclub. Everyone was friendly and many were snowbirds, so people were from all over. The place is considerably smaller than nearby Caliente and guests are a bit older, both of which are fine with us. It is truly clothing optional, with people nude or various coverups all around the community. Nearly everyone was nude at the pool, with plenty of lounging areas including some with umbrellas. Overall we liked the resort and will be back.

Speaking for women everywhere! That shit is fucking yummy. Please give us more of it.

I've never encountered it, but would think, "Hey, stop that, it's mine to suck and fuck." OTOH, I expect the guys to share pussy with me.

Women would you like to see your man suck another man or perhaps get sucked or both. I absolutely love it! Would it change your opinion of him. Turns me on more and more and I love that he is open to do it with me. Would you like to watch two strangers. I like to do it with my husband or with another man or watch my husband and another wife suck one. In college I saw plenty of guys suck guys but always with us girls there. I have seen stranger go at it but I enjoy it with people I know.

I am a black man and I totally understand what this dude is saying about racism. It does go both ways and the white guys that want to be black guys as he described the white boy thugs get in because they wanna be black and try to act black and thuggish. Brother the only thing I can tell you on this was that I would have thrown the shoes at her just like you did and said get your ass up right now and come with me. If she’s out of the door in five minutes or shall I say probably 30 seconds she would’ve heard the car going down the road and I would’ve left her a day exactly where she wanted to be. Brother you are better than me because I would’ve bossed up quick and made it clear that her actions were absolutely unacceptable because she is your woman and the fact that she did not want to play with you when she knew that everybody was ignoring you shows that she is disrespecting you on every level. There is no way I would except that from my wife. My wife is sitting right next to me right now and she said the exact same thing but in a different way. No my wife is not black she is Slavic Russian and she said there was no way I would leave you hanging like that when I see everybody acting like assholes to you. In fact when we return to her home country of Latvia, which is a former Soviet union country for all of you who do not know. I am the odd man out and my woman doesn’t leave my side for one bit and several times and we have gone to clubs in her country where I am the only person of color, several of the Russian guys trying to come up to her and pull her away from me even though I usually get in the face real quick, my wife turns into a complete ice queen and cold as Siberia. And the things that she would say to them in Russian would make a hooker jump out of church and change your religion. Your girl/wife turned you into a spectator in a team sport and did not give a damn. Like I said once I threw those shoes at her and told her it’s time to go and she did not return to be in 30 seconds, I would have bounced and went right out the door and one of the people in her party would’ve said you better get your clothes on because your husband is driving down the street and I hope you got money for Uber because it looks like you’re gonna need it. Sometimes you just got a boss up dude and not take disrespect and the host of the party, she was part of the plan of everything that was going on. They wanted your lady and your lady didn’t care that you get hurt by it . So your problem is with your lady disrespecting you and she would no longer be my lady because if she’s willing to do that to me and that situation, can you imagine what situation she would do you wrong where is actually extremely important. Tell Coco to pack her bags and have that to take care of her.

The object of the game is to be sexually satisfied by whatever excites the members of the group and nothing more but the lack of acceptance is terribly hypocritical. My best friend is gay and he's constantly hammered by "straight" married guys to have sex. That is no surprise but for a swingers group to be so close minded is disappointing.

I do know at one party, my wife fucked 12 different guys, including me, a total of 15 times. She had a blast

I started my husband with my fingers and he soon graduated to a strap on and he loved it. He says if I had real cock I would fuck 5 times a day! I agree. Next we had a threesome with a guy and I sucked them and rubbed their cocks together and he sucked the other guy with me and we swallowed his load! The next time with him he fucked my hubby and I sucked him as our stud came in his ass he had an orgasm. Now he can’t get enough cock and it so turns me on!

I've done that before and it's hot as hell. Playing with a couple, had sucked his cock really good for a long time, told me he was gonna bust....wifey grabbed his cock, jerked it, he moaned and came hard down my throat. LOVED that "wife assisted" hot load in my mouth. Seeing her smile as she jacked off her husband into another guy's mouth (mine) was so hot too.

It is my dream for my wife to watch me suck a fat cock! Lick it, and suck it. And when he is just about to blow, she grabs his pulsating dick and jacks him off into my mouth!! Maybe one day we will find the right person.

Yes It Is! I so agree with you! That IS what makes it fascinating. I do not have the body parts, I do not have the cum, I can only simulate it all. My husband gets the reasons it turns me on to no end such as: getting to be right there helping, seeing and participating up close, guiding, spreading, and what not; that goes for the anal penetration as well as oral; he understand how hot it is for me to receive cum and to do it with him would be extra icing on the cake (too funny); & to be able to look into his eyes as he take a penis orally and/or anally even kissing him deeply as he gasps from the anal entry – O M Gosh how amazing! My husband even knows of many reasons for himself, especially receiving anally. After all we have done and do, he knows the potential in receiving a live penis full of fresh cum up his derriere. He will never give even though he wouldn’t want to be selfish, it is not enough to trade out. Beside he still is trying to get past “it will be a guy.” Without a doubt I believe how could easily handle cum from other men but still perhaps not the actual penis.

This thread seems to be getting hot!!!!!

I love when the wife will give me oral and then help me slowly slide my dick with all her juices on it into her husbands ass...bareback style (safe/trusting couple of course) and then pounding him, slapping that ass and then busting the biggest nut into his ass while she watches and pleases herself.

It's so good to see bi guys out there. My husband and I have been doing a lot of mfm lately and bi guys who are willing to go beyond oral is rather difficult to find. With a bi guy who is willing to try everything with both of us, it creates so many more interesting sexual positions and combinations. And although we don't do it with every bi guy, our favorite is to have husband getting some good sloppy seconds sex with me after the other guy is done.

My wife loves to see guys sucking cock, and loves it when I am getting sucked or I am sucking!

This is the female half and I say it would be so hot to watch my man do that. I just do not see that happening anytime soon. I will be there for him when he does. We were just on a trip and while at one party there was a large group of gay/bi men playing and that was hot as hell. I could have stayed and watched all night... but I needed some attention for myself.

I have enjoyed everything we have done up to now and this is one of my favorite desires. I'd love to be there helping out, up close getting to watch and play. These are things we cannot do without another male so it only makes sense to add one...

My wife was with me the first time a man sucked my cock, the first time I sucked a cock, the first time I swallowed a load of cum, and the first time I got fucked in the ass. She loves to watch me with a bi male. By the time we're ready to cum, so is she! I loved to watch her play with her pussy and cum while I swallow a load! It's a family tradition!

My ex-wife use to really get off watching me suck another guys dick but would have ran out of the room had he and I gone any farther. I've often wanted to fuck another guy while his wife or mine watched but not so sure I'd allow anyone to fuck me. My current wife, while still holding out from the swinging scene, has said she'd get off watching me blow another guy but it has yet to happen.

We are both bi and it's a huge turn-on for me to see him suck a dick or get taken from behind. He was bi before I met him and I think it's great that he can be himself.

Most people know what turns them on, what they like to see, and what they don't like to watch. However, I think it is always changing and evolving...just like ourselves. We grow, we learn, we explore, we expand our minds and are open to new and different experiences that we would have found distasteful years ago. For myself, I don't particularly find two guys getting it on to be a turn-on but I will enjoy it for the fact that they are giving and receiving pleasure from one another and that is a pleasant thing. If Mr. Sun were to ever want to explore being bi-curious (long-shot at the moment), I would whole-heartedly welcome it because I want him to know that I'm accepting of his sexual exploration and the pleasure he may find. In the end, why would I want to deny him something that could make him happy?

It turns me on to see two guys fucking on video, but I've never seen it in real life. I've also never inserted Pet into that fantasy because I know it's something he would never do. Now, if he ever fulfilled my fantasy of seeing him suck a dick... then my new fantasy might be to see him fucking another guy.

Every Saturday night we go to a swing club and hang with a couple who are good friends. We know a lot of people there and have introduced this couple to everyone we know. Here's the problem: Every time a woman is friendly and kisses him hello or engages in conversation with him, he takes it as her having interest in playing with him. This man will put his hand up a woman's skirt and try to finger her within moments after meeting her. My husband has tried to tell him that women do not appreciate it but he continues to think this is what they want. So far nobody has slapped him (shocking) but they do not appreciate it and tell us so. What ends up happening is the couples play with us in the playroom and avoid the other couple like the plague. I like them, but don't really like being associated with this type of behavior. Any suggestions?