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Gentlemen! Please stop asking us if we prefer guys with big dicks. If we have spent the night flirting with YOU, decided to go home with YOU, and are getting frisky with YOU, the dick size is not gonna change our mind about what we are gonna do or whether or not we are gonna fuck YOU! We already decided we were gonna do it when we got in the car. I like nice guys that are adventurous, respectful, flirty and fun! If you checked the boxes and seduced my mind I am gonna have sex with you and I am gonna enjoy it even if I gotta take care of my own orgasm. Sex for us is emotional. Nothing brings down the mood more than an uncomfortable conversation about whether your dick is big enough. I do not want to hurt your feelings so do not ask it. Cause if I had two nice guys that I was attracted to and one is packing and the other isn't, I'm choosing the package! But we never have that quandary. We meet a guy, we like him, we flirt with him, we seduce him, we fuck him. We made that decision without having any idea what you're packing. Your penis is fine, quit freaking out. I'll make you a deal, if you stop asking if your dick is big enough, I'll stop asking if this dress makes me look fat. Ok? Do we have a deal?

It would be nice to think that everyone who tries swinging enjoys the experience and incorporates it into their life. But experience shows that doesn’t happen, even when they have "done all the right things" in preparation for their first time. As you note Username 87, the two of you failed to keep a pre-play agreement to not do full swap. There are folks here on the board who have done similar things without causing a post-play problem, but there seems to be a consensus that mid-play renegotiations of agreed upon rules often causes post-play issues. Or even mid-play issues…) I’ve seen this happen to friends of mine, and it happened to me with a couple who were friends. In one case a couple I knew brought a lady friend in. There’d been no agreement the women would play with each other. But they did. By my friends’ account both ladies had a great time. But the next day their unicorn friend freaked out a bit. My own example was actually my first MFM. A couple of months previously the wife in the couple told me they had been talking about inviting a guy to join them in bed for a threesome. At a weekend sporting event we were all attending their hotel had over-booked, but I had a room reserved with two beds. I offered them the second bed. Only when we got to the room there was just one king bed. We got into bed with nightclothes. Then the wife said "This isn’t how we sleep at home" and pulled her nightie up over her head. After that there was way more sex than sleeping. Everyone had a great time. At the end of the event I went with them to their house and while the husband had to go to work the wife snd I continued to have sex. But the aftermath, when everyone’s ardor had cooled, almost wrecked their marriage. We all stayed good friends, but they never played as a couple again, with me or anyone else. (For a number of years the wife and I occasionally played.)

Rocky gave more attention to the size of men, I noticed other differences. I told him he has the best looking penis. Does that make you feel better? In my life I never asked a man how big he is before deciding to have sex with him. I also never used a man’s size to determine if I would continue seeing him. For the benefit of his ego I did remind him that I married him.

We prefer the right guy.

I apologize if I emphasized Boyfriend. Debbie and the man on the swing site dated in college for what I understand was a semester. I think many of us had relationships that were sexual when in school. Her major memories were a few ski weekends and a trip to Maine. At the end of the school year in May they both went home and the contacts were few. In the age of social media and constant cell phone call, I lost sight that those only became every day things in the last 20 years. He has sent another message acknowledging our reluctance to write back stating it would be nice just to meet at a truly safe place, Starbucks. If we did go further, I keep telling Debbie that she looks just like she did in school. I joke he already saw you naked, she joked back, sure he ran away.

I have two friends with breasts that are probably smaller than yours and both of these ladies are extremely popular in the lifestyle. They are wonderful, sexy people and I'm sure you are too. You are enough.

I think she will get over it as time passes. She is one of the great majority of people for whom swinging is a bridge too far. Using the other posters’ advice, you may be on the road to role playing gold. Just be careful, your wife is sensitive to certain hot buttons.

I know I read this on here, part of the fun is seeing a partner that first time. I can’t say I was ever taken back by someone being cute sized

This is exactly my point. I've also never known how big he was until I made my choice to sleep with him.

The mistake was to say you were not jealous You could have said "I'm super jealous, but that's part of the excitement ;-)" and you should have had private sex with her immediately afterwards. Now... the only thing that will "repair" this is beautiful moments of private lovemaking. As soon as possible. And while at it, whisper in her ears that you were super jealous. That's what she wants to hear.

It sounds like you took the act of frivolous sex, which is fun, and added homework to it. 🤣

DVP is something I really want to experience. The feeling of another cock rubbing against my cock in a pussy must be extremely hot. I can only imagine what it must be like when he's about to cum and slides his cock deeper inside her where we can feel him pumping his cum inside her. I know I wouldn't last much longer and add my cum. Knowing the wetness of the three of us mix and run over our cocks out of her pussy must be amazing. Too sad my wife isn't wide enough for two cocks inside her. We can only have sloppy seconds.

My fetish/turn-on this week is dvp, preferably with a creampie from both men. As a man that is turned on by bisexual activities, dvp seems to be the holy grail. Two cocks rubbing together, face to face, within a hot girls pussy, so hot! Even better seeing the cum oozing from between the two cocks... amazing!

For me and my wife the most pronounced fetish is about cum. We love creampies, sloppy seconds, licking a cumfilled pussy and snowballing. For us there is such an incomparable intense, exciting, and reliefing feeling when a man fills a womans pussy. She gets an orgasm, when she feels how a man burries his cock deeper in her, starts to twitch and pumps his cum in her. Good sex has to involve creampies for us and the play with cum.

It has been said many times, men obsess on dick size, women care about many more things. When we first looked for someone to meet we both noticed the how nice she looked and the size he had. It wasn’t a factor just a fact.

When does she get to free use you?

I agree that this sounds like a big risk. Personally I do not love condoms but if it is a new lover and we haven't built up that trust yet, he is wearing one. I've taken guys I know really well bareback, cause we have trust and like I said I am not a Condom fan. But I trust these guys, I know their wives and other partners. I'm also very selective about who comes in me vs on me. I could never let a bunch of strangers treat me like a cum dump, that sounds like a good way to get cooties or worse. And if there was a guy that was gonna unknowingly give you cooties it would be a guy that is ok barebacking a chick who just let 5 guys fill her with cum. Nope sounds gross.

For me it is simply attraction and CHEMISTRY! I enjoy sleeping with men I click with. I enjoy a man with a strong flirt game cause arousal for a woman is mostly in our heads. Adventurous is always a plus, and finally you must respect boundaries. No catching feelings or trying to overstep a strictly sexual relationship.

My husband asked me to be his hotwife. I love the sneaking around aspect of it. So often I will roleplay that he does not know and that I am cheating on him, even though I am gonna tell him afterwards. I never tell him before or ask for permission. It makes it all just a little bit wicked and I love feeling naughty.

Sounds like she'd be a natural We are based in NC but travel all over. I think I see you are in CO? Actually we are passing through there next week and also will be in NM for a bit this summer. If you want to chat we are lsvideography on kik or you can email info@lsvidography.com

A woman’s bush that still has its full triangular shape, but is trimmed *just* enough to take most of the curl out … exquisite!

For us it's very simple - good manners, proper hygiene, and mutual attraction. In online only environments, for us at least, we've found that good manners eliminates almost all from consideration. There are of course exceptions but they seem to be harder to find than the elusive unicorn.

Here are a couple more of Missus Enhancer in her new green outfit! Getting ready for Christmas.

If you have pics in the gallery on this site you can just go to the insert other media and choose from the existing files! Otherwise I am not sure. Maybe a picture hosting site?

The start of an anal session.. We love the butt

My contribution

Sorry, I have nothing to share, I don't have big butt cheeks, but what I have is 88% muscle according to the last measurement. Little tits too. Big labia and clit though.

My husband and I had a sm over for an MFM threesome and it was great. Everyone was very comfortable with each other. There was no m/m play as both men are straight. Although, during my husband fucking me, his cock slipped out and the sm reached over and took my husband's cock and put it right back in my pussy. There was no intention behind it other than him merely wanting me to continue to enjoy my husband fucking me and putting it back inside me. Nothing more took place and it was not made out to be a big deal. There was no sexual tendency behind it at all, it was an in the moment thing for my continued pleasure. I see nothing wrong with something like that.

Really depends on the season and location! Rather cold most times of the year where we are, but during summer it's great (as brief as it is!) Below is what you could say would be the absolute minimum during summer (only!) depending on location Work, Daily life, Beach, Topless beach Oh and nude beach, as per profile pic

I am a male who has always been really turned on by very small breasts. Our male friend who my wife and I play with also is really turned on by very small breasts. Large breasts are not something we look for.

I know no woman who is completely happy with what she sees in a mirror. I suspect that if you know how others perceive you, you would feel lifted.

FunintheSnow, has anyone actually commented negatively on your breast size? Have you seen a look of disappointment on anybody's face when checking out your breasts? I ask in order to just make sure that you haven't actually gotten any negative feedback yet. Assuming you haven't, then this is likely an issue only to you! Firstly, some people really go for smaller breasts. Secondly, as others have said, your hotness is much more about how you carry yourself, how comfortable and sexy you feel, how comfortable and sexy you make others feel, than it is about a particular physical attribute. So I say, strut your stuff proudly!

One factor we enjoy most about swinging is the variety. If this means itty-bitty-titties, whooo hoo!!! As CoupleNUs said, we all have something that we aren't happy with.

I don't think it will matter a bit. You're thinking and worrying about it 100X more than anyone else will I'm positive. I know that's easy to say, because we all have things about ourselves that we wish were different, and so it's much easier to advise someone else to do than it is to do it yourself. Personality and the vibe you give off makes up 95% of attraction I think. This is swinging, not sorting through a stack of retouched photos to select the Playboy Playmate of the Year award, and so people are looking for other real people, with all their perceived "faults", who they hit it off with and want to share something together. If that chemistry is (or isn't) there, your breast size is not going to change anything. Another factor in how people perceive you is confidence. If implants are something you want for YOU, then that's worth considering. If it's something you are doing for someone else, then don't.

My guy has guided many dicks into my pussy and asshole, just to show that he is ok with it and ... I got a kick out of it as well

Being the party member having the cock guided into (the wife) I love it, the feeling and thought of having my hubby or another man slide a cock in me is hot... but I also enjoy gay men on men porn. Just the feeling of full submission, being used, so dirty. However my hubby wasn't to keen on have man touch his cock when we first started playing with others. He really didn't like having men's nuts or spunk on him during dp. He got pretty bi-comfortable though. Now he'll grab a friend's dick and jam it in me because he knows how hot it makes me.

We like doing DP pussy a lot, and I'm usually the one working from behind. In this position, with the Mrs. bent over a little further than normal, its almost impossible for the guy on bottom to get a hold of his cock to push it back in. So, yes I do this rather often during our play. Another reason for this is she is quite the squirter and has a tendency to squeeze cocks out during major orgasms. It just makes it much easier for all for me to do the job.

We have enjoyed this as well, not as some cuckold experience, but between two couples. Early on we met a couple that was about our same age. They new to the swinging thing so we were eager to play with them. It was the first time either guy had the chance to guide another man's cock and it was a huge turn-on for each of the guys and the girls. A very wild time.

I'm a woman who has guided my husband's cock into another girl. It was HOT HOT HOT to me. I know you were asking men, but thought I'd share anyway.