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My husband fits in this catagory all the way. He is exactlt like you, he is straight but likes sucking the occasional dick. I'd look for a Bisexual couple with an Orally Bi Male, set your boundaries up front, just oral play, no kissing, no buggering. I can tell you for me it is the hottest thing ever, the first time we got to do it, I was laying on the bed while the other guys wife was eating my pussy and gently fingering me, I was super close to orgasming and I look over and see my husband sucking this dude's dick like a lollypop and I just came on the spot. That shit is fire, so fucking hot.

I also meet men on a couple apps, mainly Tinder and Bumble, but also an affair app. It is about chemistry for me, and that is the same for most women I know. Sure looks play a part, but I also dismiss the braggarts and the pompous ass types. Honestly dick size doesn't even factor in until I yank his pants off. Now of its big I say Yeah! Cause it's fun to have a big dick, but if it's average or small I have NEVER said WTF and left. I suck him hard and blow his mind in the process, and then I fuck his brains out. My oral tricks with a average to small dick are impressive, and pleasing a man is super fun for me. I love hearing I was amazing, I literally eat that shit up. It's my Crack. So stop stressing dude. Your dick is great.

After reading the topic I had to ask the wife. Her answer was one I have a hard time deciphering, “I married you” Seriously I don’t always know why she chooses the men she does. She meets men on an affairs page with profiles and pictures. If a man posts pictures of his equipment it is hard to unsee, it has to register positively and negatively. She said if a profile is bragging it goes to a more important aspect and shows he is full of himself. She says she dismisses those profiles without further thought. She has a big dick at home, it vibrates and recharges. I happen to know it is 10 inches and she claims it’s the biggest dick she ever played with. Being funny she told me she looks for big tongues and prefers that. Now I’m standing in front of a mirror checking out me tongue. Does anyone know how to measure a tongue and if you measure on the top back to the uvula or under the tongue?

I’m a 30 year old married woman! My husband spends a lot of time overseas with work. Do swinger clubs and parties allow a married woman to attend?

Anyone consider themselves straight but find themselves really wanting to suck a dick while swinging lol? I have no desire to kiss, fuck, or get fucked by a man and do not find men attractive, but for some reason, I kinda wanna suck a dick. Am I the only one? How would I bring this up?

As stated, your husband must be aware of any play without him and he has to approve. Only the two of you can make the rules. I have played without my husband, never on an initial meeting. Our rule is I never meet a man alone. Not club goer I wouldn’t go alone.

I've definitely thought about it. When I'm out and about, doing mundane everyday life things, I notice attractive women (not in a creepy way, I don't talk to them or stare. I just see attractive ladies here and there). I can explain what I find attractive about them. When the thought of giving oral to a man entered my mind, I have tried to look around while out, see if there is anything about men I find attractive. Nope. For the life of me, I cannot understand why women find us guys attractive. So, I'm not sure I'll ever actually give oral to a man. I've touched other cocks during our adventures (e.g. guiding one into my SO). The thought still pops into my head on occasion but it isn't something I'll seek out. I do understand the OPs situation. As for bringing it up...it depends on your wife. She may be grossed out by the thought. She may be turned on by the thought. Given the two potential extremes, tread carefully. Drop some hints here and there and gauge her reaction. Finding it would be easy if you want. Change your profile to "curious", make sure you mention it in your profile narrative. At the very least you'll find a single bi-male who would love to join you. Your best bet, at least from what I've learned from talking with others who gave it a try, is to find a couple with a bi-curious male. This way the whole experience isn't around the guys. You can dabble a little and still have a fun night with the other couple.

You are hardly the only one. To begin, look for a single bi male or a couple who lists their male as bi / bi-curious. But, many "straight" males are interested in m/m play and their wives are enthusiastic supporters/participants. If you list yourself as bi-curious, they will find you. Another thought is to have your wife bring it up in a playful, nonthreatening way. Men get to watch us play - why don't we get to see them play together??? If both women make it clear that they are good with it - it might open the door for m/m touching, etc.

‘Steven Brody, PhD, in Cambria, California, believes the divorce rate among non-monogamous couples to be as high as 90+%. This is based upon his more than three decades of clinical practice and thousands of patient interactions." ( http://www.cnn.com/2010/LIVING/personal/03/23/o.open.marriages.work/ ) This fails the inter-ocular test…🙄 This is complete BS. It’s his clinical observation, not actual research. It may (or may not) be the case that lifestyle couples who come to him for counseling eventually divorce. But happy swinger couples don’t present for relationship therapy. If, hypothetically, there are 1,000 swinger couples in his catchment area and 100 come to him for relationship therapy. Of those 100 couples 90 eventually divorce. That might be 90% of his patients, but it’s only 9% of the total swinger population.

Not only are unaccompanied women welcomed at the clubs but at some of the clubs here they are encouraged and often waved any entrance fee.

...but if he does know and has giving his permission, you become a unicorn and will pretty much have your pick of who you want to swing with.

I don't actually poke fun. It would be an inappropriate and disrespectul response to any question, plus...not allowed here. I think part of the problem is the difficulty in conveying the reality of the female body to someone who doesn't have a female body, which is physically very accomodating, even allowing for individual differences. Plus, women tend to focus more on the men attached to the cocks than the reverse and (very importantly), when sex with our partners is routinely terrific, that's our gold standard for right size/right moves/right everything. Everything else might well be fun, including the wide variety of cock size and deployment of same, but what it really does is increase our desire for our partner. Or at least that seems to be the way it works for me and for other women I know. Here's how size matters to me, given anything smaller than the cardboard tube inside a roll of paper towels and larger than a finger: I prefer penetrative sex over any other kind. It's going to feel good no matter what penetrates. However, the smaller the penis, the less friction with each stroke, so it's going to take longer to come. A larger penis is going to be a bit more efficient at creating friction. I'm still not going to crave one larger than Mr. Doe's.

I was the playmate helping a friend of mine from work and his wife. He had a big cock but when I entered his wife she felt tight and firm to me even if he went first. I expected her to be loose. She enjoyed me just as much and I brought her to many orgasms even though she was used to having sex with her husband that had a bigger cock.

Every time I read a post about big dicks I know it is written by a man. Men have no control of the size of their dicks, just like they don’t have control of any physical attributes they have. Genes have control of the size of their nose, feet, hands and their height, they can’t do anything to change what nature has given them. Genetics control so much of our physicality, what it has much less control of is personality. What women hasn’t looked in the mirror wishing they looked different, breasts, nose, eyes, hips and even genitalia. I’m sure most men wish they were larger down there, is it the sign of masculinity? I Do Not Prefer Big Dicks Early in my sexual life, having seen a few penises and like most girls my age started to know what a penis should look like both soft and hard I didn’t need a text book explains sex. Most of my girlfriends were becoming sexually active and girl talk was very general in terms of experiences. There was one guy who had a reputation as being very large. He wasn’t very tall and nothing about him gave a clue to his size. I heard he had a third leg, his dick was the size of an arm. I don’t remember the why or how I ended up having sex with him, he was a nice guy, not overly good looking. I wasn’t over sexed looking to have sex with every guy, I just succumbed to the day. As nice as he was he did know what he had and he knew we all knew. He was not the one who forced anyone to have sex, he did think girls wanted him. I guess I had to see for myself. And see for myself I did. He was everything I was told. Once we started he was not forceful, he took his time and kept asking if I’m okay. I really felt it was me who made it hard and painful and we kept going. Details aren’t necessary, I ended up seeing a doctor two days later who thought I was raped which I swore I wasn’t. He wanted to report a rape to the police until I swore over and over it was my choice. He thought I was covering up for someone. How do you explain to your mother and then a doctor the pain you have from having sex?