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Gentlemen! Please stop asking us if we prefer guys with big dicks. If we have spent the night flirting with YOU, decided to go home with YOU, and are getting frisky with YOU, the dick size is not gonna change our mind about what we are gonna do or whether or not we are gonna fuck YOU! We already decided we were gonna do it when we got in the car. I like nice guys that are adventurous, respectful, flirty and fun! If you checked the boxes and seduced my mind I am gonna have sex with you and I am gonna enjoy it even if I gotta take care of my own orgasm. Sex for us is emotional. Nothing brings down the mood more than an uncomfortable conversation about whether your dick is big enough. I do not want to hurt your feelings so do not ask it. Cause if I had two nice guys that I was attracted to and one is packing and the other isn't, I'm choosing the package! But we never have that quandary. We meet a guy, we like him, we flirt with him, we seduce him, we fuck him. We made that decision without having any idea what you're packing. Your penis is fine, quit freaking out. I'll make you a deal, if you stop asking if your dick is big enough, I'll stop asking if this dress makes me look fat. Ok? Do we have a deal?

Hey guys and gals, my wife and I been married 12 years and have a awesome marriage. We’ve showed her naked online and so forth. She likes it and all but it’s almost like she is nervous to let me see that side of her? Why~? We have done All kinds of stuff. She is 49 and I’m 35. She likes the attention. What does your wife think of showing them to strange men?

Okay, first post here since 2011. Things got strange, then they got terrifying, then strange again, and now back to some normalcy. But that's a subject for a different post. What is the best thing that y'all have done TO the bedroom to enhance your sex life? We have a giant California king that takes up most of our bedroom, and I've added some screw eyes into the sides for some light B&D, but that's about it. Since our most exciting sex seems to take place during the day, we're looking into some blackout curtains, and I've got a notion about some mood lights around and under the bed (LEDs most likely). Any thoughts about some DIY projects that will spice up the bedroom?

Welcome back! Please do share your stories with us. We'd love to hear! We haven't modified our bedroom at all. But, I'm reminded of an adult shop in Toronto that had a mannequin tied up and hanging from a device on the ceiling. I soon learned it was called a "wench winch". I don't think I'll ever have one of those in my bedroom, but wow

Some guys just cum slowly. I know for me, cumming from oral sex is not that easy unless I've been with the woman several times. Maybe he's the same way. The amount of lube is....unusual. If it was some sort of numbing cream, your wife likely would have felt it's effects as well. Congrats on your first MFM! Don't take this experience as being representative of all swinging. Swinging is a bit like dating; you're going to find good ones, mediocre ones, and bad ones. It sounds like this one wasn't quite up to snuff. No worries. Move on to the next encounter! My wife and I decided before we got into swinging that if the first few experiences were duds, we'd keep at it a bit and see how it all worked out. I'm glad we did. The third time was the charm for my wife. She had a phenomenal time with the third guy, and couldn't get enough sex from him. The same will likely happen with your wife; you'll find just the right guy that will make her feel fantastic. When you do, keep him around. It's worth it!

Some men cannot come very easily. Usually older men, but even younger men with medical problems. If you are new to swinging, you will notice sometimes your partner does not have an orgasm. Sometimes the man cannot achieve or maintain an erection. It usually happens due to nervousness or a medical problem. It’s not usually from lack of attraction. I once had trouble with my youngest, most attractive partner. She kept paying attention to and jumping in with my wife and her own husband. I got psyched out because she wasn’t paying attention to me and I was a little mad and disappointed. Experienced swingers know these things happen. As a generous partner said to me in a flagging moment: “Hey, we’re not porn stars. “

This is why swing clubs are my favorite place to meet other swingers. Neutral territory, if you have interest in another couple you try to connect. If not, you can walk away. No excuses needed.

You are correct, details are not necessary. What you went through had to be traumatic enough for you to still have these memories. Men just don’t realize how sensitive a woman can be and not every woman is the same. Just like men not all being the same, women’s bodies adapt and react to stimuli differently. Men think just because we can have babies that our bodies can accept almost anything. I would think your gynecologist was protecting you by asking questions, many women are ashamed that they were raped and protect themselves from being traumatized with the questions and legal parts of accusing a man. Rape is never your fault. I am not a psychologist or in any way one to give medical advice, I’m just a woman who is understanding and will listen if that helps. Bless you for sharing.

I also meet men on a couple apps, mainly Tinder and Bumble, but also an affair app. It is about chemistry for me, and that is the same for most women I know. Sure looks play a part, but I also dismiss the braggarts and the pompous ass types. Honestly dick size doesn't even factor in until I yank his pants off. Now of its big I say Yeah! Cause it's fun to have a big dick, but if it's average or small I have NEVER said WTF and left. I suck him hard and blow his mind in the process, and then I fuck his brains out. My oral tricks with a average to small dick are impressive, and pleasing a man is super fun for me. I love hearing I was amazing, I literally eat that shit up. It's my Crack. So stop stressing dude. Your dick is great.

After reading the topic I had to ask the wife. Her answer was one I have a hard time deciphering, “I married you” Seriously I don’t always know why she chooses the men she does. She meets men on an affairs page with profiles and pictures. If a man posts pictures of his equipment it is hard to unsee, it has to register positively and negatively. She said if a profile is bragging it goes to a more important aspect and shows he is full of himself. She says she dismisses those profiles without further thought. She has a big dick at home, it vibrates and recharges. I happen to know it is 10 inches and she claims it’s the biggest dick she ever played with. Being funny she told me she looks for big tongues and prefers that. Now I’m standing in front of a mirror checking out me tongue. Does anyone know how to measure a tongue and if you measure on the top back to the uvula or under the tongue?

We would never play with a past ex from either of us. There previously were too many emotions there to take the chance of having them surface (especially in the ex) again. Always move forward, never go back.

1. Yes, you run into people from vanilla life. We don’t tell anyone they are swingers 2. I would not play with a former girl friend. I would not want my wife to play with a former bf. I doubt that she would want to do so. There are billions of people with no attachments or history. That is part of the fun. No reruns.

A gangbang with strangers without condoms seems crazy to me. We planned a gangbang with some friends in 2 weeks at a casino hotel but a couple of them already backed out and I'm afraid more might so we will see what the final list ends up looking like. I would never be on board with my GF having a gangbang with strangers who don't use condoms although she has done a few blow bangs with strangers without condoms. She has tried oral with a condom but hates it.

The gangbang in concept is hot. In practice, I will say that a high percentage of the populace has HPV or HSV, many of whom do not even know they have it. We could introduce you to several women who used condoms for swinging, but had surgical events due to HPV. Not even getting to HIV. I think gangbangs are in our rear view mirror.

I am now retired.My wife passed away in 2007. I do not know if this approppiate in this day and age but I met my wife in europe in a ganbang in a sex club.At that time she was being banged by about 15 guys. No condoms full on ejaculation in her vagina. I just by chance after her show asked her if she would like a drink.We became friends.I gave her my phone number not expecting her to call me. She did 12 months later. I brought her to Ausralia. No strings attached. We married and had 3 children. She one night when we were out what I asked what she would like! She said a full on gangbang! I arranged it through a girfriend I new who was a prostitute. She arranged 20 guys privatley at her house.I have never seen my wife so happy. I am not a jelous person but the smile on her face going home and the mess she made in cab was unbelievable. On special occasions I would arrange further gangbangs for her! I miss her so much! I would love to connect any females who think the same .Cheers

Thank you. Even the D guys are curious about what I have under my shirt.

My breasts are small, but they go well with my "athletic" (scrawny) body and they have stayed firm and my nipples point in the right direction. It also does seem, however, that men are more curious about what actually is under my shirt than a woman who has 90% of her breasts exposed because they are so large. What gets my attention is a guy's testicles. That is where his manhood lies.

Wife and I love showing sexy and nude pics. Wife would always send sexy pics and she loves taking them. I suggested we find a place to share anonymously. We have a tumblr account and that’s where we share them. When we first did it, she was surprised at the response and messages! We would take pictures 2 nights a week. Thankfully, Wife has recently warmed up to talking about it after a long break.

Between the two of us, I'm more of the confirmed exhibitionist, although she's taken more of an interest in performing and being seen, including opening up about her pictures, as we've grown into this hobby. Twelve years ago, she thought it was pretty scandalous to sunbath topless in Europe and let the 19-year-olds gawk while she pretended she didn't notice them or my hard-on. I wasn't supposed to share any of our private photographs with her because she was afraid she'd somehow accidentally text them to her priest. We still create no evidence with third parties. It'd be one (not great) thing for people to find out we indulge in group sex, it'd be another for them to have a video.

I don't have to show off my GF because she shows herself off plenty. Amateur night at strip clubs, sex in public, and countless guys who have taken videos and pictures of her while fucking her. Most people would be horrified of videos like those being circulated around but it turns her on.

We never put pictures of ourselves online. My men don't seem to care about me being naked to others besides when having sex, but I enjoy being naked at spas where it is totally non-sexual (at least overtly, one never know what's going on in someone's mind). It is just so freeing for me to be nude among all sorts of naked people from children to old people, singles to families, all enjoying the sunshine, water, saunas, pools, steam rooms, and fresh air. I like seeing them and like them seeing me, all of us flaunting convention. This is all when I am in Europe, mostly in Germany and mostly on business when I get a break.

You asked for opinions...here's mine - I love MFM! I like being the center of attention and the challenge of taking care of more than one man. MFM was the first swinging encounter I had (years ago) and the first type of swinging we did together. Ever since, we're hooked. He's straight, but likes seeing me pleased and sharing me with another respectful straight man. Do you/would you enjoy? ABSOLUTELY Do you fantasize? Yep, all the time. Do you fantasize but keep it a secret? Never Do you do it just to please you partner but don't really care either way? etc.?? Nope He knows how I feel about MFM and he finds it to be the most erotic combination in swinging too! Yeah, lucky me! As far as your wife goes, I think you have to take her comments at face value. If she says she's not interested, my guess is she's not saying that just to spare your feelings.

Female half here: We have only had 2 MFM threesomes, and we (both of us) love them. I had never really thought about it before my husband brought it up, and at first I wasn't a fan of the idea either. But the more we talked about it, the more I started to think the idea of it was kind of hot, and eventually I did start to fantasize about it. I'm not trying to tell you to talk her into it, just letting you know how it happened for us.

Every time I read a post about big dicks I know it is written by a man. Men have no control of the size of their dicks, just like they don’t have control of any physical attributes they have. Genes have control of the size of their nose, feet, hands and their height, they can’t do anything to change what nature has given them. Genetics control so much of our physicality, what it has much less control of is personality. What women hasn’t looked in the mirror wishing they looked different, breasts, nose, eyes, hips and even genitalia. I’m sure most men wish they were larger down there, is it the sign of masculinity? I Do Not Prefer Big Dicks Early in my sexual life, having seen a few penises and like most girls my age started to know what a penis should look like both soft and hard I didn’t need a text book explains sex. Most of my girlfriends were becoming sexually active and girl talk was very general in terms of experiences. There was one guy who had a reputation as being very large. He wasn’t very tall and nothing about him gave a clue to his size. I heard he had a third leg, his dick was the size of an arm. I don’t remember the why or how I ended up having sex with him, he was a nice guy, not overly good looking. I wasn’t over sexed looking to have sex with every guy, I just succumbed to the day. As nice as he was he did know what he had and he knew we all knew. He was not the one who forced anyone to have sex, he did think girls wanted him. I guess I had to see for myself. And see for myself I did. He was everything I was told. Once we started he was not forceful, he took his time and kept asking if I’m okay. I really felt it was me who made it hard and painful and we kept going. Details aren’t necessary, I ended up seeing a doctor two days later who thought I was raped which I swore I wasn’t. He wanted to report a rape to the police until I swore over and over it was my choice. He thought I was covering up for someone. How do you explain to your mother and then a doctor the pain you have from having sex?