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And don't invite him ever again.

Experienced this last weekend. Met a bi m/f cpl for motel play. We all agreed to bareback sex, since all three produced written records of our latest test results beforehand. She was very nice, and an expert @ what she was doing. He was toned, and pretty hot, with a PHAT cock, very thick. He expressed that he wanted me to fuck him while she watched. So we all got naked & he and I started sucking each other. He then rolled over to the doggie position. I lubed his ass really good. This was only his 2nd time bottoming. She came over to the bed as I slid my stiff cock into him. She maneuvered herself underneath him, 69, with her nose rubbing my balls with each stroke. It was an erotic moment. He started grinding his ass into me as I was balls deep. She stated she wanted me to cum inside him, and he concurred. As I neared the point of no return, she started licking my balls, and that's all it took. I sprayed my load deep in his ass, while he was moaning & grinding against me. When I exited his hole she sucked his cock. He unloaded, and she said it was the biggest load she'd ever had from him. It was an experience not soon to be forgotten. They expressed the desire to meet again, so he could fuck me. I agreed wholeheartedly

All LS gatherings, parties, club events etc that we have hosted or participate in this is behavior that will get you removed and banned. All these venues also will have the person/couple that invited/recommended the new person/couple leaving with them. They are held responsible for their actions. no matter the event, activity including open and private room participation is it acceptable to do any activity at all without consent from that person/couple. It is not ever acceptable behavior. There definitely a line….do not test it or cross it.

Being an Alpha doesn't mean it doesn't feel good. You sound like my husband. Anal play is part of the natural course of things, its down there where everything is happening so of course it's going to get included whether planned or not. Back in the day when we used to get hot and heavy things happened and anal happened. We touch, we grab, fingers slip here and there in the heat of the moment and so forth. Now it is a very planned part of our sex. Over the years and the many many many orgasms I have had from anal along with vaginal, my husband began to realize anal is amazing (to receive) and could as amazing for him. The more he let me play the more open he became and soon the man was having orgasms as large as me and multi (something he had never experienced). We didn’t open our marriage up till much later and then only to people who understood we were only doing it for things we could not provide for each other alone, hence the reason for groups. One male doesn’t provide enough by himself, he needs friends. As I have mentioned in prior posts: I cannot get enough cum from one man, I enjoy it that much; I cannot get multiple holes filled with real live bareback cum filled cream puff stuffed penises with only one man; and I have no way to cum fill or cream fill my man’s holes without other men. So I needed to find a way to get men. For my husband, the comfort level was not there for males only to join us so I found couples. With couples I had to give as much as we got of course. I wasn’t expecting to do all that I do with the wives, but to not be a taker I made myself available for them. You do what you need to do to keep the group smooth. My husband who has no interest in men or really other women does have such a strong interest in my desires and connecting with me in any manner possible eventually gave in. For years we had done him anally and he knows how amazing that is so he would come to the group sex parties and watch. It took a while for him to try a few things here and there like cum kissing with me after I’d sucked one of the men off, then more, then cum swapped. Then I was asked to eat some of the wives’ cream pies, he helped. As we played watching others he was always rock hard, leaking all over and never flinched if someone touched him a little bit. The first time one of the husband’s did me doggy, he sat staring into my eyes as the man came inside me. It was the oddest sensation for us both. That was my first face sit on him. Then another man took me over him, and another, cum and penises are all over his face. So much has happened I get some of the timelines confused now but we were in a similar position with me sitting on his face cum leaking, a send or third penis in me over him, and one of the husband’s stepped in between his legs. I guided him into my husband. There is so much to tell but it is a very long tale. To the point I want to make with you, as per my husband & myself, nothing you can simulate or do is the same as taking a real bareback cream filled cock in your mouth or other holes. Nothing feels the same as it, looks the same, or provides as great of an aftermath picture. The orgasms from it are so intense it is hard to crave it daily and hourly. Since all of this, he has F ed me, all of the other ladies, vaginally, orally, and anally. He has sucked every guy off hundreds of times, been F ed by them as many times anally, and been cum in as many. So from our little meager interest things have expanded as do all things sexual for us. When with others, we still primarily focus on the main things we cannot do as a lone couple. For example, my husband can get all the anal he ever needs doing me so he does not do the other ladies anally often and he has never done a guy. He has no reason to and doesn’t want too. As far as being an Alpha, some men feel they are Alphas and only do others but if you are not into doing it with men why would you? My husband is not into guy’s butts. I however AM! My man is now perfectly content with letting the guys have at him. He’s a receiver and from what I can tell a pretty good one. My husband receives it from toys, machines, me, strap ons, the other ladies, and men and he feels no less than he ever did. He is very manly. Receiving is extremely pleasurable and he knows how much it does for me to be there watching up close, playing, touching, encouraging. There is something so amazing to be right there as his wife seeing and feeling him getting rummaged unloading penis after another and telling him all the while, you can do it, you can take it, you love doing this for me, you are so amazing at taking c***, I love you, I love that you do this for me, I love watching you get F ed in your … It does take a lot of patience and time to get to this point in relationships. Take it slow and play at home, RP a lot, use toys, machines, simulate it all in a variety of scenarios. Even that will be awkward at times. A few weeks ago I was pleading for my husband to take a giant black c*** while I was dping one of our sex machines. I was screaming how much I knew he wanted big black cocks and their cum inside him. He was like, “No I don’t.” Awkward… And yes he has done that and enjoyed them. He wasn’t as turned on as me yet, he’d just gotten out of the shower. I can tell you from my experience and from watching all the couples we have been with, the one who flourish and are the most exciting are the ones who play together, in the same room, stay together or as close as possible, try to watch, talk, and encourage each other as much as possible, kiss a lot, hold hands a lot, hug, and love on another often. It is so cool to watch a wife getting ravaged by several people while the husband is by her side getting done likewise and they are hold hands, glancing over at each other. So many times I see couples stretched out touching as they are doing what they are doing. Since your wife is interested in females I highly recommend joining her. I love it when anyone and my husband are dual doing me and I would much rather have my husband right there sucking and tonguing with me as I tend to the wives. I love sharing with him. That is why we got into this in the first place, not to have sex with others, but to share having sex with others, to share the experiences. We have an unbelievable connection and relate more on a deeper level now. I now get why my husband loves eating p***y so much but it is still so much better together. He agrees.

And what did you think when you found out? My wife found out about my bisexuality when I told her I sucked a dick once and wanted her to watch me do it again. She was all for it and hoped to join in.

I’m not bi. Or so I thought, until yesterday evening. My husband had dinner with one of his clients, a female CEO. I know they are friends and he never actually hit on her, until yesterday. He told me « tonight I’m gonna try to seduce her Join us at the end of the dinner ! » So, around 21:30, I joined. Obviously they had had a good time already, smiling, laughing, drinking an excellent wine, and their hands were sometimes touching above the table. This beautiful woman was obviously into my husband, but also into me. She was looking at both of us like if we were delicious cakes behind the glass of the pastry shop. That’s when it hit me. I wanted her too!!! For the first time ever, yesterday evening, I felt a strong desire for a woman, a beautiful girl with massive breasts, a body to die for, and a smile that could conquer Rome! I am not sure I would know how to handle her in bed, though, cos I’ve never been with a girl before. But for the first time, I am REALLY attracted !!!!!! Hubby says it will come naturally, and that I should not worry. Still, I would appreciate your advice, ladies. How was your first time with a female body in bed? How was the first time you ate a pussy, you played with boobs that were not yours, etc. ? :))) Sorry, I feel stupid but all this is very new to me.

When my husband, James, and I started doing full swaps we decided early on we preferred seperate rooms while swapping. It wasn't long before we unexpectedly indoctrinated a couple that were very good friends of ours into the life style. We had known them for 10 years and had been there when they met, dated and eventually got married. After we all started sleeping together we became even closer to them. They are truly our best friends. When it comes to Adam and Julie we had decided that we were comfortable being completely open with them. So permissions or planning are not needed to be affectionate or intimate with them. So if I want to spend time with Adam I can, if Julie wants time with my James she can. If Julie and I want some female affection, we just do it. So I quickly realized that Adam started his days early and ended his work day around 3 PM every day which was when I got out also. After a full day of work I am ready for a brain break and for me sex is the ultimate brain break, since my husband wasn't out of work yet, I started using Adam to reinvigorate the work engine. So I'd stop at his place on my way home and we would get frisky. My husband and Julie start their day later and they both enjoy morning sex, so Julie would leave her house just after Adam and I went to work and she would drop by our house and go upstairs and wake James for morning loving. Now I know this happens but had never experienced it or saw it, so while it was real, it wasn't "real" to me. One day I got to work and realized I wasn't feeling well so I left work and headed home. To my surprise, my husband and Julie were naked on the couch, she was on top and was seriously riding my husband. Now I know this happens, we had talked about it a lot, but I had never walked in on them doing the deed and it was just as she was orgasming. I should not have been shocked, but I was, and I shouldn't have felt a pang of jealousy, but I did. I had to step out of the room momentarily to compose myself. I'd have been devastated if I had ruined such a beautiful moment. To this day I have no clue what made me flash temporarily jealous shades, was it a first time thing, or was it reality catching me off guard, or if it was how amazing Julie looked. She is fit, thin and beautiful and James deeply enjoys her company. But I can't blame him, cause I regularly enjoy her company also. It doesn't flare anymore now, it was just that first time. So have you ever walked in on a moment you weren't expected to see? Did you react the way you expected too?

Yes! One post and done. I wish people would follow up on their stories.

Deb has been answering all the messages we got after discussing with me. I think some were horrible matches with people I never would have sex with. I think first impressions in these situations are important. I thought some were interesting and possibly nice to meet. Sex with strangers sounds exciting, most of you say that is what swinging is. Stay away from friends, stay away from an ex, both have big downsides. Our first swinging was with friends and after not going forward, hesitating and finally joining in was good, not perfect. Thinking back if it was strangers we never would go forward. Memories change, mine says it was great, Debbie must agree if we joined a swingers group. Debbie wrote back to her college friend. She made it clear she has no romantic feelings, she has a curiosity of seeing him as an old friend. Our conversation went to having sex with our old friends was much easier for her because we know them. She thinks sex with him would be easier because she knows him. I asked if it was my old girlfriend would she think the same way. I made her sleep on that thought. She couldn’t answer. We are still talking. I think I’m on board, she has to decide.

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We had this conversation not long ago. Background, we played separately for years, call it cheating if you want. I played around on business trips, she meets men on affairs sites. I continue to meet up with the same partners when traveling to a city. It could be a few times a year, less the last two years, and the excitement stays alive. She has quick affairs lasting no more than a month or so. She said she doesn’t want any long term relationships because it gets messy. She also said the excitement wanes over time.

The difference between the vanilla world and the LS is that the vanilla world winks at this sort of intrusive behavior, tolerates liars, thinks cheating is okay until people get caught and so on. The LS world is founded on the principle of physical autonomy, meaning that asking permission is expected, consent is required, and only "yes means yes". This is usually abbreviated as "no means no", but that's incomplete. The LS is also founded on the principle of candor, "if you don't have to lie about sex, you shouldn't have to lie about anything". Saying "no thank you" expresses a preference and defines a personal boundary. It is a neutral statement. It is not a judgement. It is a rejection only insofar as the other person wanted to know where the boundary lies (see above: permission). Persons who cannot internalize and practice these principles--respect for autonomy and embrace of candor--have rejected the LS, are unwelcome in the LS, and should be ejected from the LS. As an aside, asking permission and obtaining consent is a skill. It has to be learned, practiced, honed. It can feel clumsy. It should not be awkward. "May I please?" is a start.

Interesting links. Unfortunately, the study reported is quite flawed and the conclusions are dubious. Here's why: Firstly, it defines swingers as "straight couples who regularly swap partners at organized gatherings at clubs and engage in group sex". That behavior certainly can't be applied to all, or even most, swingers. That definition only applies to a sub-set of the swinging community. Ann and I, for instance, do not go to sex clubs and never have. Likewise, we do not engage in group sex. And we are not outliers. Nobody in our play circle does, either. In reality, there are many sub-sets in the swinging community and our behavioral choices vary greatly from one sub-set to another. Most behavioral scientists recognize substantial distinctions within the Consensual Non-monogamy (CNM) community. The study fails to draw any distinction between, for instance, polyamory, polyfidelity, open marriages, and so on. These are not inconsequential differences. Secondly, the study was severely limited in both size and scope. Geographically, the study was focused on a comparatively tiny area in South Limburg in the Netherlands, comprising six small cities with a combined population of only around 360,000, and was based upon the reports of just three (3) STD/STI clinics. The sexual habits and medical conditions of a group of Dutch swingers frequenting sex clubs in the area of South Limburg can hardly be applied to the entire global CNM community.

Nope, that is also completely unacceptable behavior. A Woman need to respect a man's boundaries, just like a man needs to respect a woman's boundaries. When i am flirting with a man I've never met before I might casually touch his hand or arm but any woman or man that thinks they can touch another person anyplace under clothing without permission is wrong.

Honestly, this sounds like a deeper issue than simple sexual attraction. In a long-term relationship, passion naturally ebbs and flows. That's normal. But, to disappear completely in such a short period of time, and this happens in ALL your relationships? This is worth investigating with a professional. The biggest sex organ is the brain.

We could do something akin to that to our guest bedroom on the first floor, but then we'd have to stop using it as giant closet. Good idea, though, we'll keep it in mind.

We've been empty nesters for quite a while. As a result, we have some empty bedrooms. So, we did two things: First, we turned our master into a Zen oasis for no purpose other than complete relaxation and rest. No television, bright lights, so on; added light blocking shutters and drapes on the windows; added special sound insulation so no unwanted noise disturbs our sleep; added a special sound system for superb binaural beats, nature sounds, and other white noise. The centerpiece is a king bed that independently articulates, elevates upper and lower body, and has independent massage features. Also, it provides independent cooling or heating, depending on what each of us needs. Basically, it's guaranteed to drop you into a temporary sleep coma. Lol Next, we converted one of the other bedrooms into our sex room. Walking through our home, the bedroom appears ordinary and unremarkable. That's because we cleverly disguised its actual purpose and hid all of the naughty items. We like our sex to be varied, so we're set up for everything from slow, romantic episodes to more... adventurous play. The room has a large walk-in closet with a solid locking door (not a flimsy hollow core door you usually see in homes.) We reserve the walk-in closet for the kinkier sides of ourselves. It's also where we store the Sybian, sex furniture, and bulkier sex items. The bed and mattress is purposely mounted a little lower, so the height is just right for sex. The sheets are silk. We have a nicely sized television and sound system. The bedroom is connected to nicely sized bathroom with a two-person walk in shower and soaking tub. If someone asks us about the locked closet door (it happens from time-to-time), I tell them I keep some of my firearms inside. Nobody is the wiser. Our housekeeper doesn't even know what's behind that door. We have other bedrooms for guests to stay in, so it's not a problem to host company. I must say, having a bedroom dedicated to sleep, and another bedroom dedicated to sex and erotic play, is a luxury we both enjoy even more than we thought we would. I know it's not in the cards for everybody, but it you have the space and funds to make it work, you could do a lot worse for yourselves.

Is there any double standard for this? I had an incident where a woman, without asking, put her hand down my pants. I stopped her midway but thought it was rather aggressive.

My 2¢ here - take it for what it's worth. Some of the best sex we've ever had in our 28 year relationship has happened in just the last few weeks. Yesterday after work was off the freaking charts for both of us. There are ups and downs, and if you feel like the downs are impossible to overcome, you may with to speak to a counselor or therapist about it.

Ummm kids are not allowed in Mommies room, it's a rule!!! They know it and they follow it, on pain of death from the very uncomfortable conversations we will have!

My husband fits in this catagory all the way. He is exactlt like you, he is straight but likes sucking the occasional dick. I'd look for a Bisexual couple with an Orally Bi Male, set your boundaries up front, just oral play, no kissing, no buggering. I can tell you for me it is the hottest thing ever, the first time we got to do it, I was laying on the bed while the other guys wife was eating my pussy and gently fingering me, I was super close to orgasming and I look over and see my husband sucking this dude's dick like a lollypop and I just came on the spot. That shit is fire, so fucking hot.

Lol... I find the question to be somewhat humorous. What do couples look for in a single man? Um, the answer, of course, is a varied as the couples involved. The notion that there is some universal description of what "all couples" are looking for in a single man is rather unrealistic. At best, we could offer some guideposts that mostly surround your behavior, dress, personal hygiene, etc. Not coincidentally, this is the same advice we'd offer any man looking to meet up with a single (vanilla or otherwise) or open couple: Expect rejection, lots and lots of it (if this thought bothers you, quit while you're ahead) Be a gentleman at all times in your words, deeds, manners, and demeanor Be punctual Be genuine Show interest in her/the couple and don't talk about yourself too much Be sparkling clean, closely shaved, with minty fresh breath, and use cologne sparingly Dress smartly for the occasion, slightly above what might be expected Nobody likes a boozer or drug user (if you do partake in libations, do so in extreme moderation) Have no expectation of sex (it probably won't happen, especially on the first meet up) Always remember the biggest sexual organ is the brain; make her laugh and help her relax, and you're halfway there Give chemistry time to develop and don't be in a hurry The couple always has veto power and they don't owe you an explanation Get tested for the full spectrum of STDs/STIs and be prepared to produce the results when requested Should you be lucky enough to be invited to have sex, always assume a condom is required and bring your own You may have some performance issues (yes, even the Bull God) so bring along a couple of doses of sildenafil (Viagra) Pick up after yourself Don't overstay your welcome A follow-up phone call 48-72 hours later is fine, but don't act like a desperate hound or creep (texting is not acceptable) Never kiss and tell (there is no Expiration Date on your obligation to remain discreet.) Best of luck to you.

Since you are bi, my question to you is would you walk away from another woman because she had small boobs? I am guessing the answer is no, and I know I wouldn't walk away. So why would you think other women would do that to you? As for men, I think most wouldn't, and if they would they are not a good match for you anyways. Don't stress, there are plenty of guys that put more emphasis on nice booties.

This is actually why I now avoid swing clubs. I cannot stand being randomly grabbed and pawed at. The last time I went to a swing club in the first 15 minutes I had probably 9 guys just grab me and yank me around so they could "inspect" me. It made me feel gross so I left.

Wow! It doesn’t matter that the context is a swing club. Anytime a person without invitation puts their hand on a woman’s vulva, or finger in her vagina, in my opinion that is plain and simple criminal assault. As a practical matter a sexual assault that happens at a sex club is unlikely to be reported to law enforcement, but that doesn’t mean this reprehensible behavior isn’t criminal. You have solicited suggestions. Mine is to spell out to this guy exactly what his unsolicited behavior constitutes. Alerting the club’s management would also be a good idea. If your "good friend" assaults the wrong woman, particularly one with an appropriately protective partner, things could get very ugly very quickly. And in the unlikely circumstance the woman did file a criminal complaint this could make problems for the club’s managers and/or owners.

Mrs. fit enjoyed MM Play, being in the middle, sliding cocks in asses, etc. She enjoys CD's who enjoy getting fucked and filled and cleaning up. One of our favorite scenarios is ANON sex, where I'm licking Mrs. Hot wet pussy ass up, and a stranger comes and starts to fuck me. Eventually, we switch it up, where he's fucking her from behind, I'm under licking her and his balls and offering a place to empty into or clean up.

All too often, we see these questions, and yes, the answers based on the Alpha male brain.. Centuries ago, Roman soldiers engaged in bisexual play, and went home to wives and families.. Hmm seems to me if you spend your days raising cities and conquering people, and your nights .. well.. what happens in the tent stays in the tent.. Recently read thru the post, Why do some men try to force their wives to be bisexual? , and another asking Are we swingers or something else? Seems to me, we the freest of thinkers , the current sexually liberated generation are too hung up on what we call ourselves.. LGTBQ, all seek acceptance.. We get it.. But, why seek labels? We are human, and SEXUAL BEINGS, enjoy whatever you wish, DO WHATEVER YOU WISH WITH A CONCENTING PARTNER OR PARTNERS.. Be Sexual.. focus less on the gender and more on the experience

Amen!

First step, is, taking fear and anxiety out of the equation. If this woman is into it, 99% of the battle is over. think of it this way, the first time you were with a guy, nerves and excitement.. the newness of the experience the sensations. same applies.. just different plumbing Second step as was said above, just go with what you like, obviously youve had oral sex done to you, what felt good and what didnt.. Just go with it.. and listen/read her signs.. If you do something that makes her moan, go with it. So please relax, and enjoy...

My first was in a car in a safe place, just took turns on each other, no cum in mouth that time.

Try saying 'tell/show me what you like'. It's hard the first time because you want to do things 'right', but asking makes it easier...and more fun!

Be your natural sexual self, use your imagination,put yourself in her place,use some visually effects,stimulate her senses, perform cunnilingus on each other taking turns, indulge in what feels good, communicate your needs,embrace those moments of climax, and finish with complete satisfaction using devices.

“I need to spend time alone with a man” to me that isn’t being bi when you need to be alone with someone intimately without your partner there.” I agree with you. “It upsets me because he is so into talking about being with men and no mention of me or another woman etc.” I totally get you. I am the one who pushed for this lifestyle and pushed. We had one of the wildest sex hookups of our life a while back. The banging was so ravenous and back to back we couldn’t keep up with it. Everything we’ve done with other people has been as a couple and always instigated by me. After that weekend I saw a change in my husband. The next gathering, he no longer waited for me to suck with him, he got guys hard, and got guys doing him. He went through the men like you see men go through women. I was a bit taken aback. It was superhot watching him then it was overboard. I know, stupid mixed feelings, stupid me, stupid emotions. I felt left out. I absolutely love watching him, helping him, guiding him, getting him revved up for it all, but doing it with him. All of a sudden it doesn’t need me anymore, caught me off guard. It took me a few weeks to process it, why did him excluding me bother me so much? I realized everything we have always done has been together, always, I mean everything. That is what has been so incredible about this whole journey, the “together.” It was time to talk. He was upfront. “I had never craved any of it before, something clicked in me and I had the desires of a thousand people. I still do. I can’t wait until our next group; I want to have a lot of extra men there. What do you think about all the women around on the outside with all the guys in the center going full on?” He got very descriptive. I can barely imagine how you must feel to not be in the same room and have your husband doing who knows what. Hearing mine describe his ideas was enough to make me feel abandoned. Yeah the man was scaring me now. I told him what I thought. What I was feeling. That is was no longer about us, sharing, our connection, doing things together. That’s what I am in it for. I didn’t get through to him. After the next large party it took almost six months for us to work out a few of the issues. We are still working on all the others. There were way more men this time and he did as he said, went wild. He did things I never could have imagined him doing. This was a recorded gathering which I watched a few days after with him. He was as shocked as I had been. He saw how left out I was, how crazy he’d gotten, and he was extremely embarrassed. It wasn’t my intention to embarrass him only to get him to see how it was no longer “us.” Take your time as I did. Do not let it gnaw at you but genuinely work through your thoughts. Word it well when you speak with him but catch him with you can have his FULL focus. Have a true heart to heart. You may have to compromise but be upfront about it all. My husband and I want the “us.” I have no limitations on my husband and he on me but we have to be in it together. So at our next get together, which will still be a while he can go all out wild as long as I am right there helping, touching, handling, encouraging, and so forth. We will never be in separate rooms away from each other and no way on our own somewhere else. We are a married couple, we come as a married couple, we do as a married couple so we can share. I do not know how anyone remains connected otherwise. I hope something in all my typing helps somehow. Let us know how it works out and if you need anything.

Tits went to bed last night left her phone in bathroom. I went in and the screen lit up.Come to find out she belongs to a web site where people chat and masturbate. That fine but was surprised she used this site . When it lit up it was a message from an attractive lady asking Tits when she would be back on so they could play together again abd she loved Tits DDD tits and shaved pussy. After noteing site I put the phone back. The next morning she was mad because her phone dead. …. I have not mentioned the site to her but have went on and jacked off myself

From my perspective it is Extremely HOT!!! From my husband's he most definitely enjoyed receiving it, even spit roasted, and bareback.

My wife is definitely not into it but I have often wondered what it would be like to slide a dick in my mouth and have them cum down my throat as their wife masturbates and then with her telling me to bend over so her husband can get pleased by fucking my ass. If they were trusted I would so have him bareback me so I can feel him explode. Though I would feel like I was owned by her and her husband if that ever happened.

I still haven’t found out. Do you know something I don’t know? I know when he found out I was bisexual. I’m sure some of the men we have played with might be bisexual even though none of them has acted that out with us or with anyone else in front of me.

Congrats! If you're looking for open minded swinger men, I wouldn't go to a gay site. There are plenty of bisexual or curious men on SLS or any of the other sponsors here.

Create long lasting, long term couple friendships, and stay in touch no matter where you all move. We have such a wonderful group of very trustworthy couples we can get naked with. Most recently we had a peg board competition, craziest thing to watch. Men went first getting we ladies so frothy, then it was our turn. My husband came in 2nd among the men, I came in 3rd among the women. Fun times with naked friends.

Took many years and the entire trip has been amazing. Now the sex is off the charts!

From the sounds of it - you two know how to have a good time!

All good advice above. Just judging by how threads on this site go regarding male bisexuality, acceptance of bi males has improved somewhat I think, but only somewhat. Ten years ago this thread would already be on page 2 of replies, most of them a strident NO WAY!!!! Granted, even then it was usually the same handful of posters driving those NO WAY conversations. But, even now, while female bisexuality is publicly celebrated, male bisexuality is kept quieter. It's there though, do enough reading here and you will see some stories like "they didn't say in their profile he was bi, and we don't advertise it in ours either, but when we all got together...." Good luck on your search, just be patient, it will happen.

Most couples on SLS say they have a straight male and a bi female. Some to many males who say they are straight are bi-oral, but some straight guys are a bit hostile to the idea of male bisexuality. Your assignment is to sort these guys out! Your best bet is to look for males who identify as bisexual, either in their online profile or in a pre-play discussion of what the participants enjoy. I don’t mean to alarm you, but there are male swingers who are up in arms against bi males. Just screen for that.

He swallowed, did you?

Wow...Was it his first time? I've never considered this. Who decided the position? What was his review of your performance? What did your wife say? Does she want to see a repeat performance?

I was on top and he fucking jackhammered me! My first blowjob moonlit as a throat fuck!

My husband often refers to himself as being orally bi, he has no interest in fucking a man or being fucked by a man, but in the heat of the moment he is okay with sucking dick with me or letting a man suck his dick with me. For me its hot, Its an instant puddle in my panties. I could seriously watch him suck dick all day. And I like when I get a bisexual guy. I am bi and my husband enjoying sex is fun for me too.

We know plenty of couples who are into it. The women love it. m/m play in the context of mfmf and mfm play is more common than you might think. And, it would not happen if the ladies weren't enthusiastically in favor - because as we all know - they are in charge.

Ok David, you are right, there is a difference in oral and anal, but I consider male bisexuality to include oral and/or anal. And Chicup, I didn't know there was a "rule" at clubs that if you were a bi-male you could not attend. This is one subject that most men, if they are bi or bi-curious, will keep to themselves simply because of the fact that it is so strongly frowned on by people in the lifestyle. They don't want to be outed so they never admit it to anybody, ever. You are in the majority when it comes to vocalizing their dislike for it, but I sometimes wonder how may of those that say..Not me, never! are really thinking in the back of their minds...hmmm, I wonder? You and your wife are not turned on by it at all, and that is fine, but there are some of us out there who will stand up and admit that yes it turns me on big time. I just wish that it was not frowned on so much so that those that do like it, would not have to hide the fact that they do,just so they can be accepted.

Most guys when asked will deny from the highest treetop ANY interest whatsoever in oral bi with other males. When Tam and I get them into a private room (whether it be at a club or not) they suddenly develop an interest lol. Tam loves to watch this also btw.