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If you want to stay married, end all contact with him. After I read that sentence I didn't have to read the rest. That is a recipe for disaster if you want to remain a married couple. This guy is done with his wife and was looking for something else. He found it...your wife. The angry 'you don't trust me' response is the EXACT response of a wife who is cheating. I've seen it. I'd step back from swinging and settle back into your marriage (if you want it to continue). If you want to be like this guy and his wife (i.e. have a poly relationship), continue doing what you're doing.

We are not poly. Step 1: all texting from the other male goes to me, the husband. Step 2: if another male thinks my wife is his “girlfriend,” either my wife tells him she is uncomfortable with his romantic overtures or we shut the relationship down. We are in this for sexual spice and to meet open minded friends. If there is romantic interests on the part of other people, we are out of there. All respect to polyamorous people, but that is too complicated for us.

Buddy that's a huge issue then. You need to be firm on boundaries. Ask her to take a break and work on the relationship home

My wife. She is bisexual and has a really different way in receiving sex and relationships. Our marriage isn't the end all or be all. We can have other relationships that are just as important as our marriage including non-sexual ones such as parents or siblings. We both find other people attractive and wouldn't mind playing with others together. It's unfair to expect one person to fulfill all our needs.

First off, my wife and I are new swingers. What I mean by "new" is that we haven't dipped our feet in all the swinging lifestyle has to offer as of yet. (Which will change with time.) Instead we've been taking things slow, and currently are only having MFM (Male-Female-Male) threesomes. I enjoy sharing her with other guys, and she enjoys being shared. Anyways, I'm 5.5" inches long, and about 5" thick. As I mentioned above, I enjoy sharing my wife with other guys, and with that said, the idea of guys with bigger penises filling her pussy drives me wild... Unfortunately she has brought up that she prefers smaller, because anything above 6" inches and within my girth is too much for her, and is painful. She admits she would like to try bigger but is hesitant due to the discomfort/pain. I bought her a 7.5" dildo but she doesn't like to use it because of the pain/discomfort. My question for everyone is: "How can we get her use to it so that she can enjoy cocks bigger than myself?" After all, it seems like the average size guys we come across whom seem to have the best potential in what we're looking for are often 7"-9" inches with thick girth. Because of her discomfort with anything bigger then 6" inches our potential playmates seem to be limited. (Not that there is anything wrong with anyone smaller then 6" inches, but overcoming this would leave a bigger window of opportunities!) Thanks.

We have only a few rules but some of them that pertain to this case are: We play as a team. If one of us says no to anything, we both are saying no, no questions asked. Women can talk/text women, men can talk/text men, all other contact is as a group where everyone is included. Our partner (husband/wife) comes first in all cases (or in this case, you need to be put ahead of him). Since she has also stated that she has feelings, you both need to cease all contact with him and she should be okay with you checking that this is happening. Trust but verify since any other way it will be too late when you find anything out. Also, we agree that you both should stop swinging while you work on getting this sorted out. It might just be NRE, but there's no reason to take a chance here. Good luck and let us know how things are going.

After a years long drought we are going to be doing this on Friday. Have a guy we've been talking to for months. We both got tested. So we're ready to go bareback. Going to set it up as an anonymous scene even though we've vetted him. She'll be blindfolded and restrained like she likes. He'll come in and have his way with her and I'll film/join/clean up.

Thank you all for your insight. I appreciate it. We will have to have a good long talk about this and get it figured out.

Sex is supposed to be messy. There is nothing like an extremely turned on woman sitting on my face. That wetness. That warmth. Oh my goodness. Just awesome. If she's filled, even better.

I love them. I love the feeling when a guy is cumming in me

I've definitely thought about it. When I'm out and about, doing mundane everyday life things, I notice attractive women (not in a creepy way, I don't talk to them or stare. I just see attractive ladies here and there). I can explain what I find attractive about them. When the thought of giving oral to a man entered my mind, I have tried to look around while out, see if there is anything about men I find attractive. Nope. For the life of me, I cannot understand why women find us guys attractive. So, I'm not sure I'll ever actually give oral to a man. I've touched other cocks during our adventures (e.g. guiding one into my SO). The thought still pops into my head on occasion but it isn't something I'll seek out. I do understand the OPs situation. As for bringing it up...it depends on your wife. She may be grossed out by the thought. She may be turned on by the thought. Given the two potential extremes, tread carefully. Drop some hints here and there and gauge her reaction. Finding it would be easy if you want. Change your profile to "curious", make sure you mention it in your profile narrative. At the very least you'll find a single bi-male who would love to join you. Your best bet, at least from what I've learned from talking with others who gave it a try, is to find a couple with a bi-curious male. This way the whole experience isn't around the guys. You can dabble a little and still have a fun night with the other couple.

Not only are unaccompanied women welcomed at the clubs but at some of the clubs here they are encouraged and often waved any entrance fee.

Wife and I would talk about it during sex and it would get us off in a good way. Then 7 years later she asked me point blank if I would have a threesome or foursome and the word “yes” shockingly came out of my mouth. She was shocked as well but didn’t say much until a few years later we took a sex quiz together and she revealed she was open to it. the problem is actually going through with it and how to find a couple that would be willing to deal with newbies. However if we never do it I still think it’s nice that we are on the same page.

An update on this. I recently did another DP with my GF and buddy and it was far better and more comfortable than any time before. We were all definitely tipsy and I had most of my clothes on throughout it. My buddy had her sucking his dick while she was on my lap then was fucking her while she was leaning over me. The whole thing felt very much like a cuckold scenario which isn't our usual thing but it was hot so what the hell. I was going with the flow and didn't think I was going to have the opportunity to join in until he was fucking her from behind over my lap and instructed her to take out my cock and suck it. At this point he's pounding her from behind and pushing her head up and down on my cock. Eventually he instructs her to ride me. At this point I unbutton my pants and pull them down just a little bit but still have my dick out through my underwear, My buddy tries to come around to the side for a blowjob but doesn't work out so great. Then he goes into fingering her asshole and I know exactly where this is headed. Eventually he lubes up, asks me to spread her cheeks and he goes in. I'm not sure what the exact reason is but it just felt more comfortable and enjoyable. I think the main reason is because we weren't all fully naked. Maybe it sounds crazy but I think having some clothes on made the DP more enjoyable for me. I had said previously that I disliked DPs because I didn't like feeling that close to another guy. Even though we're technically still close and our dicks are close when inside my GF it just had a different vibe that made it more relaxing and less paranoid.

I think some activities are best enjoyed as a voyeur rather than an actor. For me DP is one of those things (although there are many others as well). I did another DP with my GF not too long but it's still not my thing. I basically laid there with my dick in her pussy while my buddy pumped her ass away. Being involved I don't find it very pleasing and I also can't get comfortable being that close to another guy. However I have noticed that a few shots of alcohol takes the edge away and allows me to overcome some of those psychological issues so that I can perform a DP for my GF.

The wife and I have done DPV with a toy, 8 inch on a fucking machine and I slid in with my six. I'm thick and so is the toy but she stretched out without issue. I would love to try DP A/V with another male but alas, she won't do it. Anal is not her thing. I'm not interested in DPV with a guy.

I've only been unmarried doing swinging (A GOLDSTAR UNICORN!). After my divorce I had a fuck buddy mention he fucked hotwives now and then. I had zero idea what he was talking about. He introduced me to swinging after suggesting it.

My husband originally brought up his "hotwife" fantasy. Asking me to flirt, seduce and sleep with another man. I was pretty reluctant in the beginning but eventually met a guy that really did it for me and I gave my husband his fantasy. It surprised me how well it went for both of us so I started being open to opportunities when they arose. A year after I got downright aggressive about my hookups. I was the one that ended up opening the door to full swaps, my husband was eager to do it, and within a month we had our first full swap. Currently we have a couple that are close friends that we swap with frequently, we also have another two couples we can play with.

And we're happy to have you here with us on the site! My advice would be just continue to explore the fantasy on whatever timeline feels right, no need to rush anything. You may decide next week you are ready to move forward with it, or six months from now, or maybe it ends up it just always stays a fantasy. No right or wrong answers, just walk the journey together as a couple and see where it takes you.

Hubby always bring up wanting another girl involved, wanted me eat her while he fucks me, her eat me while he fucks her. I do admit I was not in it at first. I do have a kinky side of me fantasize things... I told him I may do so if I can have another guy to fuck. Oh gosh well here we are.

Mmmm I did my bf was like wow and I knew It would work just then. Now many mfm later we can both say it has been great!!! Finding a new guy is so much fun for both of us.

We have always been comfortable playing together in the same room as others since we met in 1999, and I guess I was the first one to bring up an intrest in swinging, we had any number of fails and we have been very lucky things have gone as well as they have, we dont go to parties as we're both homebodies but we like to chat and play with others when we feel that itch.

Some (most) people are not interested in swinging. It took me a very long time to talk my wife into it. Depending on your spouse, it may not happen. Obviously, all bets are off with the corona virus mess.

With one couple we really trusted, after a few months we decided to go bareback. After we had a session and they left, my wife and I often had reclaiming sex, as we did after couples and men where they used condoms. My wife was a freak about using tissue on herself after sex, but still when her insides were coated with our friend's sperm, it was always much silkier, lube wasn't necessary at all. Yeah, it was hot and wonderful. But still, don't let this fantasy get away from you; worry about STDs and pregnancy; play safe.