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Ugh. We had to block single men from seeing our profile on SLS -- precisely because we were getting just too many clueless message from them. We explicitly write in our profile: And are resigned to the fact that single guys simply don't read.

As for getting her to stop swinging just tell her you don’t want to do it at the current time! If one partner wants to stop then both partners stop. I would think this is something most people agree to when they get into swinging. As for convincing her to go to therapy I got nothing. It took my ex wife 6 years after she left me before she finally admitted she had issues to deal with and go to a therapist for help.

We enjoy meeting men who aren’t looking, men at business meetings or sporting events, men willing to join me for some fun. Some of the men we meet think it’s an invitation to be an idiot, it’s not. There is a fine line between being aggressive and being dominate. Every woman has limits and ways to get warmed up. Spit on, choked and tied up are no-no’s. What you call throat fucked or face fucked is a turn on for us as long as it’s not overdone. We have met men that oral sex is all I do and Michael and I will do more after. We know the boundaries that we will allow and will stop anyone going too far.

Bingo! Any real man can be assertive without showing their supposed dominance. Missus Enhancer loves getting fucked hard once she is warmed up! She does not get warmed up however by being slapped, choked, tied up, spit on, called a slut, being throat fucked or forced. A real man will concentrate on her needs and wants to get their own and a man like that is going to be rewarded with the time of their life in return. Selling yourself as a dom bull to a couple is like saying your man is useless and weak. Maybe some are, but I doubt that it is the norm for most swinging couples. As she always says to these clowns I already have a stag why would I settle for a bull.

Hey folks, new to the forum. Navigating and found some things of interest. Anyway, brief story of an experience in VT at a nude beach. Found this place called the Ledges. It's a lake owned by a power company that is nude friendly. Walk down a nice path with some single track and you arrive to the beach. The beach is exposed when water levels are down. Exposed rocks to lay nude and enjoy the day. It was a great nude experience. VT is nude friendly as well as many other New England states. We also stayed at a nude resort in VT. Lots of fun to be had in Vermont! Now we enjoy the lifestyle so, it's an interesting dynamic how things are changing. However, we will always enjoy being naked!

If someone brags about being a bull it turns me off. I don’t want to hear that you want to dominate, to me it’s a bad sign. A man can be assertive during sex as long he shows respect. I don’t want me or my husband humiliated.

Alcohol, I have noticed in our many years of swinging, is always present. And no, no to the point of sloppy drunkenness, but to take off the edge. I have always believed that without alcohol there would be very few swingers.

I love to look at a pussy that has just been filled with cum. I love the feel of sliding my cock in a pussy that is full of cum. I'm not sure why but I would love to have my wife fuck my face after her pussy has been filled. I'm not gay or even bi, but the thought of another man sliding his cock in and out of my wife until they both cum then her wanting me to clean her up drives me wild. Any one else feel this way? Ladies are there any of you who would love to have your husband lick your pussy clean after another man has filled you with his spunk?

You may not be poly, but it sounds like your wife is! She texts with him daily and they have feelings for each other. Sounds like a little more then just a swinging buddy. This would never get to the point it is for us and if it did it would end immediately. Either you can be fine with your wife having a poly relationship or you can tell her it is done. Don’t think there is any other solution with this one. If you both don’t want it then it should not be happening.

On rare occasion, I disagree with the mainstream thought on a thread. I'm partially doing so here, but still agreeing overall. Some couples are ok with feelings developing. It's not an immediate death knell for the swinging relationship. Yes, there is a difference between swinging and being poly. That said, I've long said that once you've found a great partner, why not keep them around for a while? It can be hard to find great partners. However, the more times you have sex with someone the more likely it is that you are going to develop feelings for them. My wife had two long term boyfriends with whom we had many MFMs and she had many more solo dates. She developed feelings for both of them, and they for her. It did not negatively affect our marriage in any respect. Everyone's mileage varies. To your particular situation; you've stated clearly that you are not poly. Yet, your wife is developing emotions for this guy and in essence saying you are the one who is having a problem with this, and things would be great if you just calmed down and trusted her. This isn't about trust. Your wife is going against your wishes. That should send up major, major red flags and everything with this other guy should stop....in the very least until the two of you get on the same page on this. Right now you're not, nor are you close. This is a serious issue, and can't be flippantly dismissed by either of you. Don't suck it up and take one for the home team. You don't have to accept this. There's trouble written ALLLLL over this. Also, he plays solo and says he and his wife are poly? Have you actually met his wife? Has she confirmed everything he has said? I wouldn't at all be surprised if this guy is cheating. Even if you were ok with your wife having feelings for this guy, and he for your wife, you should absolutely insist on meeting the wife and clearing everything with her.

We have only a few rules but some of them that pertain to this case are: We play as a team. If one of us says no to anything, we both are saying no, no questions asked. Women can talk/text women, men can talk/text men, all other contact is as a group where everyone is included. Our partner (husband/wife) comes first in all cases (or in this case, you need to be put ahead of him). Since she has also stated that she has feelings, you both need to cease all contact with him and she should be okay with you checking that this is happening. Trust but verify since any other way it will be too late when you find anything out. Also, we agree that you both should stop swinging while you work on getting this sorted out. It might just be NRE, but there's no reason to take a chance here. Good luck and let us know how things are going.

SnakeCat, As I'm sure you're aware, you of course can't coerce your wife into doing this. All you can do is open doors for her. It could be she's feeling self conscious about her appearance. Maybe some time after the weight loss surgery she'll feel more confident. I've seen a LOT of comments about and from women here on this board who don't feel like they are attractive enough to take the plunge. It's just false. Keep talking with her about it, but don't push. Be casual about it, bring it up in conversation from time to time. No pressure. You might suggest a toe-dipping event; go out to a meet and greet or a hotel takeover. It gives the both of you the opportunity to meet up with swingers. There's no pressure to play. Doing something like that can help ease thoughts into the idea that it might be possible.

One of the sexiest nights my wife and I have ever had was when we had a male friend, half of a couple we know, who was in town on business. Went out to a nightclub, drank lots of champagne, ended up at our place with her sprawled out naked and me inviting him to drill her if he wanted. (as usual honestly) That particular night he was drilling away and I remembered that his girlfriend isn't on the pill so she can't take internal cumshots. I do that to my wife like daily so as they were going at it I mentioned 'hey I don't mind if you come in her if you want'. The kid-in-a-candy-store look on his face was priceless, it was so sexy to see him so happy like that. Call me queer whatever. He shot off deep in her and reeeeally enjoyed it, and then I jumped her and shot in her too. Then he did again. I was kind of surprised because he's slightly homophobic and I'm always careful about not crossing swords with him or anything, out of respect for his monosexuality. I thought he might think it was gross but nope. He seemed to love his second time with her. Then I did her again and shot in her again. Then he did again. Five internal shots total from what I recall, before the sun finally came up. She was literally oozing cum, and every time we stopped to admire her swollen, dripping pussy, we had another hard dick to shove in it. She's a button-down professional during the week so seeing her like that was just awesome for me, and I loved how much fun my friend had. Fwiw, typing that story was fun... Unfortunately I don't trust anybody but that one friend to ride my wife bareback or to come in her and he lives hours away. Too bad but the rare and dangerous aspect of it is probably a big part of what was so sexy. Very few men can handle doing something like that while still respecting her before, during and after. With him it was a blast but some random horny swing club guy going 'yeah yeah watch me cum in this slut' would turn my wife and I both right off.

Although my wife and I haven't done it yet, the biggest fantasy for us is having a black guy give her a cream pie and then I'll dump my load on top of his inside of her. Eventually we would love to get her gang banged by 5 or 6 black guys, all creaming her pussy. I'm not into "cleaning her up" but I'll put my dick in her after she's been creamed by a few guys just to add my load to it. That's a turn-on for me.

I'm a bi-female who loved to lick my lady lover (she's moved away) clean after my husband came in her or my favorite male lover. Both the woman and man were/are trusted, long-time lovers of ours; bareback sex was acceptable to all of us. Actually, I would lick/suck the man clean first and then settle down to her. I enjoy it as well when my male partner decides to go down on me after he's cum inside. My husband takes a pass on this, but occasionally my lover will delight me with this activity.

We always make love together after being with another couple. Our partners have always been married with little or no outside experience so disease has not been a worry. Mrs. Alura finds it sexy to have two loads in her but it really doesn't do much for me. Mr. Alura

Oh, I"ll never forget the mfm threesome some years back, first we licked her in turns until she just about blew her toes off, I sucked him until he was really hot, he then sat on the couch, her slowly sinking down on him. Me on the floor licking both of them, then he blew his cork, and I just gobbled it all up and loved it. We fucked her again and again. The first time ever, that I saw a woman totally fucked out, she had one final massive cum, after that she was too sensitive to continue. She is a very lovely lady,loves sex, is multi orgasmic, and I hope to repeat the performance one day, I have a "standing" invitation to revisit them. She loves DP, they are both bi, I only wish my beloved were the same. She was a hot babe in her time, but at 71 fucking is no longer a priority for her, you should just see her body, she is sooooooooooo beautiful, don't laugh, to me she is the most beautiful woman in the world, and I would eat her creampie or not any time.

It is my fantasy to watch a creampie being made while I am in a 69 with a woman. I am on bottom licking and sucking on her clit while she is getting fucked just above me. I watch as he cums in her and after he fills her pussy he pulls out and I take him into my mouth and clean up any last drops that are left. Then I start to lick up all the juices running out of her cunt while she grinds against my mouth and probing tongue.

Deeptuoch a creampie is when a man cums inside a woman. It could be vaginal or anal, but it must be inside. I think we all know how sexy it is to see a woman who has just had sex with a man. She is swollen with excitement, then the mixture of their cum slowly leaks from her. Very arousing!

It really turns me on when my wife comes home full of cum after an evening with her boyfriend. She love's it when I go down on her after she tells me about her encounter. I am not bi or even bi-curious, but I really like to get my wife off when she comes home to me.

I enjoy double penetration and having her drain from front and back at the same time

Swinging doesn't necessarily have to be involved. Why, I gave Amelia two big creampies last night, and it was just the two of us. Whatta guy!

I really don't know what the accurate description really is, I guess that there may be a few interpretations. But, for sure it relates to a very wet pussy, and I'd guess the pussy can be shaved or unshaved (I like shaved). I too like to have my wife have another partner first because I like the feel of her pussy when its a little swollen and tender and very wet. It's also a huge motivator for me. Sometimes I like to lick her first. So, I don't know what you call it, but I guess it always includes swinging in one form or another. Heck, maybe I have it wrong. Tell ya what, I volunteer to do the research ...lol.

We are really into the creampie thing. I love watching the wife going at it with another partner then having a turn myself. The way her pussy feels after she has barebacked another guy is the biggest turn-on for me! That is as long as the other guy is willing to go bareback. So far it hasn't been a problem!

I've always heard the definition of "creampie" had to involve her getting filled up with semen. (semen = cream. pussy = (hair)pie)

I guess the most exotic part of all of this for me is just finding her wet from sex with someone else. Her arousal is the real turn on for me. When I find her in that condition my instinct is to want to lick her. The term I have heard used most is "creampie" because she is wet. I guess I have misinterpreted that because in the truest sense it is from another man .... thats ok to, but her being wet is what I have considered creampie. It could be from masturbation, or sex with another woman just as well.

One of our favorites, just need to find a willing partner to fill her up Any Males in the cincinnati area up for it? Zoe/Joe

OK, the first time I saw a husband grab his wife up and "clean up her creampie" after she and I finished, I kinda freaked out in a quiet way. Now, it's no big deal. But it has always surprised me how many husbands want to do that. I personally have never had any desire to do that. My question is, how many of you have done that and had the single guy freak over it or do you tell them before hand??

Variation on the theme....I like to "clean up" the other girl after my hubby fills her. Any other girls like me?

Man, you hit it on the spot! I, too, love diving in after my wife gets a load from a friend, and then I slurp out the big juicy creampie! No, I'm not gay either but I do like "cleaning" up after her, and it's a HUGE turn-on for her too. She usually has a big orgasm when she feels my tongue working around inside her. We love threesomes primarily for this reason! facelick

Yes there's nothing like a good cream pie for dessert after a nice roll in the hay. facelick

A great turn-on for me has always been when Molly gets fucked during the day while I'm at work, and saving the load until I get home. She has also meet a friend after work, fucked him and then came home with her pussy wet and filled. This can never happen to often for me. We also have a couple in a distant city who enjoy the same thing, so we have worked out a plan where I visit his wife in the daytime and he visits Molly. A great relationship. We are also thinking about a Meet 2 Cheat arrangement but have not yet found a good connection.

Love to sit back & watch my wife & her BF going at it until he fills her pussy & then my going down on her for a bit, frenching her with his cum in my mouth and then filling her with a load of my own. Sometimes her BF will then go down on her and then french her with both of our loads in his mouth. She loves it!

I love the thought of my husband watching while I get filled up. Maybe someday.

I would love to slide my dick inside of a cream filled pussy! That has to be one of my biggest fantasies. Watching someone's husband fill her up, then have her ask me to get inside of her... mmmmm

I love to load the filling for a couple and have done a couple so far and was erotic as all hell.

You'll never hear me complain about sloppy seconds... or thirds... or fourths... it just keeps getting better. I love sex with my wife after she's been with another guy, she's already hot and bothered and ready to go.

Where most will complain about sloppy 2nds...I'd beg to be 4th or 5th.

Hi everyone - single man's view here. Been with couples for threesomes and this is one of their fantasies. I think there is nothing wrong with it and to each his/her own. One couple always wanted me to cum in her and then he would clean her up. Another was that she wanted to be filled by both her husband first, then me and then her husband cleaned her up. I will say it was a great sensation being second and seeing the pleasure it brought to her was incredible. As long as everyone has fun then let there be creampies!

Watching me get filled with another mans cum drives my hubby crazy. I love it too. It truly is when I'm the most orgasmic. Hubby always goes second and has me massage myself so it begins to drip out, then slides his cock up and down my pussy lips, smearing the other man's cum all over my outer pussy lips. Then he plunges in while I suck off another load. Hubby's load is mixing in my loins while my throat is choking down another load.

I would love to be with a woman who was with many guys (10 +) and be the clean up slave afterwards. I wouldn't mind helping getting the other guys off unto her either. The taste of women's and men's cum mixed together truly is a nectar for the gods.

My wife and I have done the two guy creampie thing before. She finds it erotic as hell as she prefers bareback sex. One of her fantasies is to do a creampie gangbang where a bunch of guys fill her up one after the other. The trick is to find the right guys to participate.

A woman's point of view. I personally loved it! It was so erotic for my husband to fill me up after I already was filled to the brim. mmmmmmmm... Sorry nostalgic. But the bad side is I was to wet to actually get off, no friction, it was the moment that got me off.

You're not alone on this one. I'd love for my fiancee to get her pussy filled with cum and then her ride on top of me while his cum runs down the shaft of my cock Of course she wants this too, we just haven't been brave enough to include another guy yet.