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Totally agree with this. We've found that most of the ladies we've met are in pretty good shape, dress to impress and are very personable, while the guys seem to think they can ride the coattails of their attractive wives, putting in little effort. Attitude does a long way. Personality goes a long way. This is an interview for the most fun job you'll ever have...and the guys show up unprepared and wearing shorts and a faded t-shirt.

Like the title says, who would be interested? I am trying to show my wife what she would be in for😈, she doesnt think so at her age. How can I convince her? (How would you convince her?)

Honestly if you are just here to have guys say dirty things about your wife which I assume is more for you then her I would suggest you check out Ourhotwives forum! You will get a lot more horny dudes commenting there. This site is more suited for swinging activity.

I assure you that no woman regardless of age or appearance will ever have any problem finding lots of guys that would be interested in them in the lifestyle! It is way more challenging for the male half in a couple. Regardless of how hot the wife is the male is not going to be getting some based on her alone. Something a lot of men do not seem to get and are not willing to put the effort into changing. Nine out of ten times we decide no on a couple it is, because of the male who does nothing to sell themselves or make themselves more desirable to other women.

Ok so here's the reality. It doesn't matter how hot she is (and she IS!). It's what she thinks of herself. Our society places absolutely enormous pressure on women to adhere to a fantasy of the 'ideal woman' in appearance, and anything less means they are ugly. Few women who are 20 can even achieve this fantasy ideal, and virtually none past 40 could so without a few staff members, and a non-stop workout routine. It's just not realistic nor attainable. Time after time after time again, I see posts on this forum where the wife of the couple feels negative about her appearance, and doesn't want to dabble in the lifestyle because she's certain she's going to be thought of as ugly, and nobody would want her. Ok so problem one; their husbands are the only men in the world idiotic enough to find them attractive? Obviously that's false. Problem two; it doesn't matter what you look like. You could look like Jeri Ryan as Seven of Nine (see Baconhead's avatar above) and some men would go for someone else. All you can do is put your best foot forward, look, act, and feel your best and let potential play partners decide if they want to engage you or not. The ones that don't are saving you time. Third; a woman with the best body and the worst personality is...at least for me...going to find I'm not interested in the slightest. A woman with below average looks but a great, engaging personality is going to find I'm very interested. So, you can't convince her. Let her read the replies and maybe she'll make up her own mind differently than she does now. Another possibility; go to a swinger meet and greet. You don't have to play, nor is there any pressure to play. Just go and meet people. I think you'll find your wife draws a lot of attention, and she will notice it. It's a safe environment within which to try that. If you want to try something a bit more risque, have her dress up nicely and sit down at a bar in an upscale hotel. You can be there, but not with her at the bar. Go get a booth or table somewhere you can see her, but not right next to her. You're her safety net. Chances are, traveling businessmen will be attracted to her like a set of keys to a supermagnet. She doesn't have to leave with them of course, and the two of you can have a signal that she can make which asks you to join her if a guy is being a problem. Like, setting her purse in a particular way, or turning out from the bar on her stool.

Eating a fresh creampie is great, I've had the pleasure a few times in the past. My wife doesn't mind having me clean her out either. We're both bi so I've sucked a few cocks and swallowed what they had to give me and loved it, so why not eat my own from my wife. Someday we'll find a safe partner and we'll fill her twice before I eat it.

I'm not gay or bi, but I did tell my wife one time while we were fucking that I wanted to eat my cum out of her pussy. Trouble is...I pussied out at the end and didn't do it but I think she got off on the idea that I would ACTUALLY do this! The other day after she got out of the shower, she saw me jerking off and she leaned over to give me the rear view to help me out and blow the load. I ended up squating behind her and eating her pussy and asshole from behind while she feverishly rubbed her clit. I ended up spunking all over her asshole and without really thinking about it, I resumed my squat and began tongueing her pussy while my cum was running down her crack. It was AWESOME! I lapped up my cum from her asshole and pussy and she came like a freight-train. Good tuff....without a doubt. I have a NEW hobby now!!!!