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Had another I am Dom guy that likes cuck situations message last night saying I think we might be a match check out my profile and get back at me! Clearly didn’t bother reading our profile that is clear that dom guys and cuck situations are of no interest. Too bad for him because based on his pictures he might of had a chance to catch her eye. This was followed up by a cock pic guy that sent another cock pic, because I guess the ones on his profile were not enough. Another thing we make fun of on our profiles. Guys wonder why they are not accepted in the lifestyle! It really is on them and they do it to themselves with their own stupidity. We are more then willing to give some of them a chance if they could just figure it out.

Yes 24-1 odds success for a four way match with another couple sounds about right if not a little more! We are never offended when another couple doesn’t find us to be a good match, because we know how hard it is for everyone to have the same taste when it comes to attraction and attraction is a big part of it for us. We see no point at all in having sex with people that we do not feel a physical attraction to. Some people do and that is their choice.

The four way match is elusive. One couple told us the four way match has 24-1 odds of success. Not sure how they calculated that, but sounds about right. We haven’t tried a threesome often. Usually a spinoff with another couple or, awhile back, my wife at a multiple man party.

That is fair! We actually prefer the dynamics of threesomes, but couples can be fun if we have the rare 4 way attraction that we find really hard to find ourselves. More often then not we both find the other woman attractive, but she does not find the other guy attractive. It takes all 4 people involved to be on board before we go that route.

I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now, and even though we haven’t known each other long we’re deeply in love and want to get married some day. However, we are also pretty kinky and have been considering threesomes quite a lot lately. I just want to ask about people’s opinions on having an MFM threesome with him and his best friend- I was a virgin before my bf so it would definitely be a big step for us, but I think we’re both into it? He’s bisexual but definitely leaning towards females, and he wouldn’t want to engage sexually directly with his friend, just for them both to do it with me. I’ve never been particularly attracted to the friend (I’ve only met him twice) but I think the threesome idea is fun (I’d like to do it as well as my boyf wanting to do it) and I think he’d be a chill person to do it with (I feel like a random man has potential to be a little creepy). Should I go for it? Or is it all a mistake?

In two quotes I believe that I have summarized your dilemma: On one hand you fear that you may lose your man to another woman if you engage in the lifestyle, while OTOH you definitely will lose him if you don't. First, appreciate his honesty. Second, look at it as if it were another activity he was attached to (boating, hunting, old cars) - would it make sense to demand that a guy you like so much give up something important to him? Third, swinging seems to be something that you would enjoy, since you admit so jump in with the attitude that giving it a try with a chance of success is better than just walking away,

What brought out my Lesbian side and established my bisexuality was the jealousy I had watching my husband fuck another woman. (I had chosen her, so she was already attractive to me.) I just had to reclaim my husband afterwards by licking his semen out of her vagina and sucking his sloppy dick. I loved every aspect of it and my favorite arrangement is FFM.

We have looked at all the options. As a breast cancer survivor, hormone replacement therapies are not a good option. On the other hand, it does put sexual play, both with each other and with others in perspective. Her health is more important than play. And swinging is a great memory.

oldswinger, I trust that you two pursued all the medical possibilities.

I'd have to disagree. I found that the most intriguing part of the review because I've always wondered exactly how those worked. I was even going to suggest to the OP that they start a specific thread on that topic just so we would learn more. Personally, we aren't a couple that likes surprises, at all. If we don't have at least some idea of what is going to happen, then we aren't going to even consider doing it. We would be missing out I guess, but now having read about at least one person's experience, that would probably be enough to get us to try it.

Agreed!

There isn't much better than a good blowjob. I met a woman a long time ago who loved giving blowjobs. Her soon to be ex-husband could never cum via oral so she didn't do it much. She asked if she could give me one and give me pointers on how to improve (what a great line!). Always willing to assist a woman in need, I obliged and let her give me a blowjob. Oh....my....goodness.... She was absolutely incredible. Never had one like it before and never had one like it since. No idea why her husband couldn't finish. She was all about pleasing. Any time I wanted one she was ready to go. And she wanted to give me them more than I wanted (5-6 times a week). We never had sex, she never wanted anything in return. We eventually moved too far away from each other and it stopped. I enjoy receiving oral. I feel selfish if I get a blowjob and the provider gets nothing. I'll give oral any time my SO wants it. I enjoy it immensely. Anyway, everyone has their preferences.

so we decided we'd first try some pretty innocent stuff, like trading pics and vids, and then move to live cam where we can watch the other couple as we play. If that works of course we'd like to meet, but our time is real limited and the most we could do is like six nights a year :) That's how it goes when there's 3 children !!! :) anyway. please dm us with pics, yes we need to see your faces (at least , eventually??) here's some topless pics of R. : along with some regular pics as well. https://imgur.com/hrSPmH0

Exactly. We've come across guys who puff up their chest and claim to be something special. Then when the time comes they are basically impotent. Most of these keyboard/chat "doms" are not what they claim in reality.

We formed our group among married swinging couples who we met through the traditional ways and became friends. We shared the common desire to be uninhibited in the way we engage in activities, including playing alone and playing bareback. We got together and all pledged not to play outside of the group even with condoms, pretty much upon penalty of death. If you want to play outside the group, you can leave, no questions asked, no recriminations. No one has left thus far. We were all tested twice, and have free from the usual worries of swinging. You might think that the temptation is there, but with the quantity and variety of sex available to each one of us, the temptation is less than for a monogamous vanilla couple.

Ewww. I thought the post was about swinging with my doctor.

My ex and I played in threesomes with guys we knew to be Bi. I told them I was straight before we started, I never had any problems. If you're uncomfortable with just knowing the guy is Bi and don't want to play with him, that's fine, your preference. But if you're afraid he'll come on to you, and that's the only reason you're rejecting him, I'd say go ahead and schedule a date.

There are those, like my wife, who have pain during insertion of anything, even a finger after menopause. We still do oral and cum in other ways, but intercourse is not an option.