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I want to watch my husband get gangbanged. Can we get five or six women willing? Must have plenty of time and patience getting him hard that many times.

In the 60s and 70s, there were state laws against homosexuality, interracial marriage, contraception and, as stated above, contraception education. A series of Supreme Court cases that recognized a constitutional right to privacy made these state laws unconstitutional. If the leaked Alito decision is issued, there will no longer be a federally recognized right to privacy. I think Americans can name the states that will reinstitute the laws mentioned above. Sad to say, in my opinion, this country is regressing in terms of freedom, self-determination and self actualization.

Yes, sex is fun, which is why we are all in swinging. But we also all know that sex makes babies. As swingers, we all know the many ways to try to avoid that result. We have been involved with swinging since the 1980's. As a result, we have known many fellow swingers, and continue to be friends with many. Twice in all those years, a couple suddenly disappeared from the scene, and my wife talked to the wife of the couple about the reason. Both times it was an unplanned pregnancy after all precautions were taken. It happens. As I think of our current culture, I think of how much harder it would have been on these two couples if abortion was not available, and they had to raise a child from a father that they barely knew. I am just thinking that suddenly swinging is becoming much more dangerous.

This is hysterical Makes me think though; women are biologically better suited to swinging than men are!

We used the lube launcher at home and it was way more comfortable and messy but so what. On a funny note I wrote someone privately and now I’ll share. Preparing for our first use of the launcher my wonderful sweet terrific hilarious husband launched the lube in my butt. Not wanting to waste I let him make use of something we hardly ever do.

Not gonna repeat my mistake by dragging him into another lifestyle he is not comfortable and also the big disclaimer is that if I allow it and he ends up finding nobody then that could make the situation ten times worse, the big disclaimer on this lifestyle is that it's always easier for us who are women to find someone to have fun with than the guys. I experimented from when I was 18 to 22 and had no problem at all finding guys but the same is not really true in reverse when it comes to guys. And my husband is a bit shy and introverted he had only been with two women before me and one of those experiences lead to a trauma that caused all of this. I would never deny him if he asked me but I am just wondering if he does try to find someone outside of our marriage, but then ends up finding nobody and feel even worse because of it. I honestly feel if that happened it would break him completely I just don't think he is wired for that kind of relationship.

Over the top? In 1975, the women of Iceland went on strike for equal rights. 90% of women walked off their jobs and homes, shutting down the entire country. The men could barely cope. Five years later, Iceland elected their first female president. Now Iceland has the highest gender equality in the world. In the USA, 80% of Americans support the woman’s right to choose. It’s fair to say that at least 80% (if not more) of women feel this way as well. They could easily be heard just like the women of Iceland nearly 50 years ago. The clergy, politicians and judges think they hold all the power when in fact the people do if they choose to use it.

Let this sink in ladies… Whether you believe in abortion or not; you do not have autonomy over your own bodies. And, you will not have autonomy over your own bodies until you stand up. Many men will stand with you, but you must stand up. Shut this fucked-up country down if you need to; but be heard. You have the power to fix this.

Wow! 🙄 Politics, at its most basic, affects how members of a polity in a fundamental sense live their lives. Regardless of one’s views on the subject of abortion, yes, this is a political subject; and one that has huge prospective impact on how Americans conduct their sexual lives. As this is a group organized around that very subject, the upcoming Supreme Court decision is totally germane. But Justice Alito’s draft, if it does indeed represent the essence of the forthcoming decision, will have impact on subjects of importance potentially to all Americans whose sexuality and sexual behavior is outside narrowly-defined limits. The core of Alito’s draft is that there is no "penumbra" in the Constitution. That notion of implied rather than specifically enumerated rights in the Constitution what, provided for the idea of a guaranteed individual right to privacy that ensured that people enjoyed within fairly broad limits the ability to conduct their personal lives as they see fit. All of us here on the Swingersboard count on that Constitutionally guaranteed right of privacy. In the mid’60s, when I was in college in Massachusetts, it was a felony, punishable my several years in prison, to provide birth-control information. Not birth-control devices or medications, just advice. In “Griswold" the Supreme Court, under the theory that the Constitution’s penumbra guaranteed privacy, invalidated that Massachusetts law and all other similar ones in any of the 49 other states. Do you enjoy performing or receiving oral sex? That was against the law in a number of states, even when practiced by straight people within a marital relationship. The same with anal sex. Fuck your wife in the ass and if a vice cop was peering in your window you could go to prison for years. Sure, these laws were mostly enforced against gay people, but sometimes against others. "Griswold" led to the end of those laws that severely regulated people’s sexual lives. The current Mississippi case, if Alito’s opinion is the Court’s, will permit states and localities to enact laws that will criminalize the behavior that most of us on this board highly value. (We don’t even need to get into anti-miscegenation laws, which the Supreme Court forbid under the apparently soon to be extinct theory of Constitutionally guarantee of privacy.)

The plus side of menopause is not having to worry about pregnancy. What the Justices said about Roe vs Wade Thomas also said it would be inappropriate for any judge, including himself, to take a case on an issue "in which he or she has such strong views that he or she cannot be impartial. Gorsuch I would tell you that Roe v. Wade, decided in 1973, is a precedent of the United States Supreme Court. It has been reaffirmed," he said. "A good judge will consider it as precedent of the U.S. Supreme Court worthy as treatment of precedent like any other." Kavanaugh "It is settled as a precedent of the Supreme Court, entitled the respect under principles of stare decisis," he said. "The Supreme Court has recognized the right to abortion since the 1973 Roe v. Wade case. It has reaffirmed it many times."

Some of the same opponents of legal abortion also oppose the use of contraceptives. If the US Supreme Court bans the use of contraceptives, we are all seeking asylum at Enhancer’s house.

The OP did not argue in favor of or against abortion. He simply raised the issue that accidental pregnancies arise in swinging and if abortion is illegal, that is a risk in swinging that is more hazardous than it was in the last 49 years.

We live in Canada where the laws are not all going backwards so not to concerned.

You first post and I will repeat what has been posted before. This is your fantasy and your fantasy doesn’t count if it’s not hers. How would you feel if she joined and posted on a swinger forum that she wants to watch her husband blow four people?

"He did admit that if I back out or realize the lifestyle is not for me after we try, then it would be a deal breaker for him," That does not sound like a sound basis for either swinging or a marriage. As for your concerns we were together for almost 40 years when the subject first came up. We had questions and concerns also. It took us a few years to sort it out. We would say that your concerns are normal both specifically and generally. Being under the gun or being on any sort of timeline is not fair to you or balanced with the gravity of the questions. Once we were satisfied with our answers to the questions, we proceeded with a very good and profitable addition to our relationship.

Hello! As I said in my introduction, I am a gay man with an interest in the swingers world. I enjoy an active sex life in the gay community, and (I do NOT, of course, speak for all gay men, many of whom are monogamous) I enjoy group scenes, play parties and couples just like many of you do. I am a sexual adventurer, to some extent, with an interest in sexuality beyond my own. I like to read the stories here on the swingers board (many of them are VERY HOT), especially about the "good" experiences. I enjoy reading about the experiences of both men and women. Any experience I would have with a male/female couple would be completely new to me. Ok...before I post any sort of ad (here or anywhere else)... I wanted to ask some hypothetical questions about a hypothetical situation. I should stress: These questions are for hypothetical consenting adults behind closed doors, not in a club, ... and these questions are geared toward couples where the husband is bi or bi curious. The hypothetical gay man (ok, me) is a courteous guy who does not create drama (hates drama, actually) and is very respectful of rules, boundaries, safe behavior, etc... FOR THE WOMEN: Would it turn you on to be present as your man has a sexual experience with another man that you knew was gay...would that be a turn-on, or not so much? What if there were some hardcore sex action between the guys, and your man was also licking you and pleasuring you at the same time...What kind of erotic energy might that tap into for you? Is two guys something you would enjoy just watching, or would you also really enjoy participating (i.e. being licked by your husband)? FOR THE BI GUYS: Would you find it exciting to see your wife witnessing your pleasure with a gay man? What if the gay man wanted to watch the two of you make love, maybe even guiding you in her? BASICALLY, FOR ALL OF YOU: I just want to know if any of these ideas are exciting to you, and what it is about them that is exciting. ------------------------------------------------------------------ I hope I chose the right forum to post in. I know some of these issues have been addressed in other places, but I don't think they have in the context of the third man being gay. Don't feel the need to answer every one of my questions if you respond. Just respond to the topics about which you have a strong opinion. I do not know whether I belong at all in the world of male/female swingers. I have some fun fantasies and enjoy watching swinger videos... so I am just trying to see if I fit in here or not. Those who have responded to me so far have all been very nice...just super people!

[Yoda closing his eyes in deep concentration] Difficult to see. Always in motion is the future. JoAnn and I encounteted a woman and a man at a house party, later revealed to us to be gay, who wanted to watch while his womanfriend and my wife were having sex with me. As it happened, he gave away a big hint when he grabbed my prick to "guide" it into her. The unpleasant character of my reaction was owing to a surprise effect. He would have done better to reveal his sexual preference ahead-of-time. Short form of answer: I would not mind at all, would even invite it and find it interesting. But, please, no surprises.

I'd like to get a phone call like that. I'd love to hear every detail after, too... but my husband doesn't think like I do. My husband's not interested in m/m activity, so if he was in the situation the OP described, my husband would probably thank his friend for being concerned with his sexual welfare and ask if he could fuck his wife instead.