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I've been researching a club called SkirtClub for the last two years. I discovered it just before the pandemic then the world shut down, bummer for everyone, but especially for the sexually adventurous like us. As a bisexual woman it is so difficult to meet like minded women. Lesbians think we are confused and straight women think we are gross. It is difficult to meet women that are truly bisexual. I've met women that are just fulfilling a husband's fantasy or a boyfriends fantasy. Going to the sex clubs invites male energy which is often very aggressive, I cannot tell you how many times I've entered a club and had men just swat my butt, or grab me without so much as a hello, it makes me feel like I'm in a meat market and I'm just under inspection, to the men I'm not a fan. Getting one on one play time with another woman is difficult. Thus enters skirtclub. I finally attended an event recently, and it was divine. It is a women's only club for the bisexual and bicurious. They host events world wide, there are small events called mini skirts which are cocktail mixers where we can meet othe bisexual and bicurious women. Then there are their play parties. These events are women only, there is some educational speaker at the beginning and then a burlesque style performance to create the mood. Some sexy games like spin the bottle and tequilla body shots. The events are held in very posh locations, penthouses and mansions. There are women of all walks of life present, different looks and body styles, wearing sexy clothes and in some cases lingerie, i even saw a gorgeous creature high stepping in nothing but heels, I was so jealous of her confidence. Once the games start women start venturing to the bedrooms and it is so incredible. I walked in one bedroom and saw probably 12 women in a writhing mass on a bed. It is incredibly erotic and intense. I did pare up with a beautiful woman and had an incredible night on one of those female adorned beds. If you are a woman like me please check out skirt club it is truly magical. The website is Skirtclub.co.uk

Well I also believe in most definitely having a blast, often. I've lived by that mantra since I was a teenager.

So I stopped talking about the number of Guys I've had sex with a long time ago as it tends to shock people. So this is a two part question. How many men can a woman sleep with before she is considered a slut? What is the number of men that a woman could sleep with that would shock you or make you reconsider playing with her?

Acknowledging J. R. R. Tolkien, I call it "Middle Hole."

How could the patrons see who behind the glory hole? Seems like this is a fantasy.

I don’t ask women how many men they have had sex with, because it is none of my business unless they choose to tell me and I don’t really care! Besides I like women that like sex and know what they want and don’t consider them a slut, because they do. I actually prefer women with more experience with multiple partners. They tend to be more skilled, because like anything the more experience you have with something the better you are at it.

I wanted to reply to your entire post but, honestly, I am having a difficult time trying to follow your train of thought or rationale on the various topics you raise? However, on the subject of health insurance and dilation and curettage (d & c) procedure, it appears you are confusing a number of things. The d & c is a routine medical procedure offered by an OB/GYN, often administered right in the office. Health insurance companies almost always cover this procedure when it is deemed medically necessary. The procedure is used for a variety of reasons, many of which have nothing to do with miscarriage. In the event it is not considered medically necessary, it is classified as elective surgery, and it may, or may not, be covered by your carrier's policy, depending upon the particular terms and conditions. This is the case with many, if not most, elective surgeries. Regardless of whether or not your insurance carrier covers the d & c procedure, is not illegal. And will not be illegal should Roe vs. Wade be tossed. As far as the "AARP army" trying to "take away life saving procedures..." um, AARP is the Association for the Advancement of Retired Persons... so, I literally have no idea to what you are referring. AARP has no public position on abortion. And they don't enact laws. And, using common sense, they wouldn't be particularly interested with reproductive issues since one has to be age 50 or over to join their organization. Unfortunately, this is the kind of hyperbole and misinformation that surrounds the issue of abortion that makes its way into the heads of people who are not prepared to carefully examine the arguments. We have to be careful to separate fact from fiction.

If your curious, then the next step is to give it a try. Just be sure to agree what you will and won't do and that if things don't click for either of you it's alwayus ok to make your excuses and go home. Some like us take to it like a duck to water and other don't. Good luck.

Username87, I'm sorry this experience turned out the way it did. There's no easy way through this. With time, patience, and love the edges of this will be smoothed out.

Don’t ask, Don’t tell. I don’t know if it was a mistake to ask her how many men she has met on different sites. Over the years we kept our separate meetings to ourselves, I never asked. Now that we started talking about it I was wondering what type of men she was meeting so she shared her password with me. Together we logged into her primary account that she used to meet men. We went back six years and figured she met close to 50 men or appropriate 8 a year. It was way more than the numbers in my list of women I met. She allowed me to read the back and forth with the men which I found hilarious, I couldn’t believe it was the same woman. She told me the most men she dated at the same time was 3, and did meet 2 of them on the same day.

Hello, Total newbies to the site and lifestyle here but I wanted to share this story my wife wrote about our expirence last weekend. For years, I have wanted to be with a woman. Only recently have I had the courage to admit it to my husband, after several conversations, a couple of trips to the strip club and hours of searching different apps and swinger websites, we found the elusive unicorn. We decided to go on a last-minute date night trip to a strip club in West Virginia. I was wanting another VIP experience in the club, and my husband was more than down to go as well. So, we packed our bags with our sexiest outfits and drove the couple of hours to West Virginia for our experience, leaving the kids with grandma. We planned on having a few drinks and left the car at the hotel, taking a Lyft to the club. Since we had only been to clubs in Vegas, we had dressed to the 9s to go to the club in West Virginia. Boy, did we feel over dressed, but I am glad we did it. I was wearing a very cute dress with a tank style top that is tight around the breast and upper stomach and goes loose with and under lace slip. That dress had several of the strippers complimenting me, and paying extra attention to me. I was loving it, and spent a fair amount of time with the strippers at the bar. A young, beautiful lady who was also a customer at the club complimented me on my dress as well. We spoke for a bit at the bar and she added me to her social media accounts. I was absolutely amazed because she was about half our age and gorgeous. This beautiful girl has a little shorter then me, probably at around 5’5”, curvey in just the right places, beautiful curly hair and the biggest smile. We will call her Angel, because that is what she is to us. A little later my husband and I were at the stage watching the beautiful ladies at the full nude club and I see Angel walking by, again by herself. I ask if she is there by herself (she was there supporting her cousin who was a stripper) and asked her to join us. She sat right next to me and we talked about how beautiful the girls were and how talented they were. My husband was great at keeping the drinks coming. However, he likes to have a cigar when he drinks, so we went outside. Angel also smoked and came with us. It was cold outside, but I had the warmth of all the vodka shots. Angel was cold, so I gave her my sweater as we talked about our likes and desires. I mentioned that I really wanted to go down on a girl and make her come. I really was looking to lick her, play with her boobs, kiss her and please her in all sorts of ways while my husband fucked her, but we haven’t found a girl that was interested in that yet. She pipped up with “Me, I am interested. You can make me cum!” To which I said, lets go. She of course hesitated, and was afraid at first. She leaned in and kissed me as a test. Her lips were soft and gentle. I had never kissed a girl before. I never had thought that I would enjoy kissing so much, but I loved the feel of her silky, tender lips on mine. She wasn’t ready to go with us yet, she was nervous that my husband (we call him Bear) wouldn’t like her, or that I would get jealous. She wanted to kiss him, which I told her to do. This took my husband completely off guard, but he was completely aroused. She leaned away and said “Ok, I’ll do it”. While we were sitting there, I start to order the Lyft to get us back to the hotel, but she starts kissing me again. I start feeling her breast, and they are soft and perfectly sized. I rub her nipple through her crop top while slipping my tongue in her mouth, through those soft lips. She takes my hand and lowers it to her pants. I slip my hand down and touch her wet pussy, right there in the smoking pit of the strip club. All the men outside are watching us, enthralled by our show. She moves over to Bear and straddles him on the chair, making out with him there. That is when security came and kicked her out. Not us, just her. We quickly ordered the Lyft and met her outside. I was afraid she would change her mind and leave, but she waited for our ride and got in. As soon as we got in the Lyft she starts making out with me. I feel her perfect breasts, kiss her neck and move my hand to her pussy again. She is begging for more and moaning like crazy. I am so embarrassed that the driver is hearing all of this. I later found out that Bear caught him watching in the rearview mirror and lifted Angel’s shirt to “treat” the driver. As it is getting hotter, Angel is getting louder. Both Bear and I are kissing her, feeling her up and rubbing her pussy. I have to keep telling her to “shhh, do not cum yet, wait for the hotel”. She does, but her eyes pleaded with her mouth agape in an O shape. It was amazing. We get to the hotel and rush in directly to the elevator. We continue to make out in the elevator as we just try to make it to the room. It seems like ages, but we finely make it to the room. As soon as we walk in the door Angel starts stripping clothes off. Bear unzips me and while he undresses, I lay Angel on the bed kissing down her body. I spread her legs and gaze at a perfect and fully engorged clitoris and pussy. This is it, I finally get to taste a pussy. I lean down and lick her. She moans so loud, I worry about the other people in the hotel. As I lick her pussy, borrowing my face in, Bear is kissing her and messaging her breasts. She is utterly enjoying every second and was louder then most porn stars! Bear comes down and asks if he can have a taste. I move slightly to allow his face in to lick her pussy while I insert a finger in her pussy to find her G-spot. After just a few seconds she cums. When I say she cums, I mean HARD. She screams and SQUIRTS. She squirts all over the bed. It was amazing. Now, I am not a woman that can have multiple orgasms. Angel, however, can. After just a second she is ready to go again. Now she wants to be fucked by Bear. I really want to have her on top and facing backwards, but she is not ready for that. So, Bear hopes on her missionary style while she begs for it harder and rougher. I continue to play with her boobs, clit and Bear’s balls. My husband and I ravish her for hours. She came so many times that I could not keep track. Bear was super worried before hand that he would only cum once, then be on the sidelines for the rest of the night. That did not happen. He was so turned on by what Angel and I were doing, and that he was having sex with a new woman for the first time in over 20 years he had more stamina and enthusiasm then ever before. He also came over 6 times that night! After several hours, Angel was wore out and sore. She fell asleep in the bed, and while she slept next to me, Bear took me, fucking me hard and making me cum like I had never before. We slept with Angel between us. That was incredibly hot in itself. After about a 3 hour nap both Bear and I wake up horny. We both start rubbing Angel’s back in a sensual way. After a few minutes of rubbing her back she starts to moan softly and lean her butt into Bear’s crotch. I went down on her again, making her some several more times. She again asked to be fucked by Bear. They started doggy style, but moved to Angel on top facing forward. I rub her clit as she fucks Bear. She quickly reaches a screaming orgasm. Bear has not finished yet, but Angel is sore, so we are done for the day. We drove her home and haven’t heard from her sense. We hope it was not a one time deal, but we found the elusive unicorn. I hope to see my rainbow squirting unicorn again, but I know how lucky we are to have found her at all.

It's also a really meaningless way to interpret a woman's sex life, everybody goes through different "seasons". I've known a number of women who enthusiastically went through dozens of men in their dorms, then settled down into stable monogamous married life like nothing ever happened. On the other hand, Mrs. E has fucked more men during her second marriage than she did before her first. The single woman we've played with for a while jumped on all the dating sites after her divorce, and it wasn't because she was trying to land a new husband. People's circumstances change their confidence, openness, and needs, and so do our ideas about what's permissible - and how much people lie during or after as a result. It used to be widely assumed that a single woman was not having sex, and now it's widely assumed that a single woman is probably having more sex than a woman who has been in a committed, exclusive relationship for years. Either of those assumptions can turn out to be way off.

I do know at one party, my wife fucked 12 different guys, including me, a total of 15 times. She had a blast

I agree I have been called a slut since I was 13 and it has definitely lost its sting. And thanks this is my "hit them in the face with the obvious" pillow. ??

Although 'slut' is not a derogatory term as far as we're concerned, why don't people label men as "sluts" if they've had a high number of conquests?

First off, it is not anyone's business but yours. we have no idea how many partners either of us have had. We enjoy sex and we like to play. We have been married 26 years and make love to only one person. For us, that is all that matter.

So I've had the pleasure of being DPV a couple times and its fantastic once you get everyone in. Never felt more stretched ever and orgasmed so easily which is not my norm. Big dick on the bottom, woman takes him cowgirl then lays on him, 2nd guy enters from behind and fucks her doggystyle. It feels best if you alternate thrusts, so you are pulling outwards as he is pushing in, and you are pushing in deeper while he is pulling outwards. Do not actually pull out till everyone has cum.

You know many many many people in the world would/could/do say the exact same thing about swinging/partner sharing/infidelity etc. Everything is a matter of degrees and here in this community I hope a pray we can all be open to others without judgement regardless of our/their unique kinks. My wife loves men sucking each other. Don't know why exactly, but I also don't care why. She gets off and that's all that matters. Is it for everyone? Nope. But I'm not into ass licking either, whether with a man or woman. But I don't judge those that enjoy that activity and I would never suggest it isn't desirable in this setting.

How do you feel about two other cocks inside your baby while yours is in another woman? When that happened to me I honestly was in mental overload.

Ah, now I understand. But we subscribe to the philosophy that if there's a woman involved that it's merely incidental.

Brian and I are both bi. I love to watch him with another man either as he is being fucked or when he is fucking the guy himself. It is a huge turn-on for me I must admit.

Best way to describe us we are bi when it comes to swinging. Neither of us had or would go looking for a bisexual experience by ourselves, but with the right couple, anything goes! I am actually really proud of mr. A for letting it happen...and enjoying it!

I tend to just call it my "pussy".... if I'm feeling really dirty I might call it "cunt". I just don't see the need to use odd euphamisms.

No haven't tried it but it is on the fantasy wish list!! Mrs Spoomonkey

Been there, done that, can't wait for next time.