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He has no problem going twice with full orgasms, the third time takes time for his squiggly getting hard and ejaculating with a smaller amount. When we go for a third at home it’s normally oral for both of us. I’m exhausted after that.

The latter. We are still experimenting and DVP sounds very painful. SVP is starting to need lube help can’t imagine two at the same time or that the men would want that. Not excited about anal sex with just anyone, still getting accustomed to having sex with others. Baby steps for me.

And some men are more suited to parties. Very recently we went to a beach house party with three other couples that we know well. I am thrilled to be with two women and ecstatic that with help and time I made it through to all but my wife. Three times for me is a miracle. My wife was also doing it with the three men impressed all the guys had it in them. My wife half jokingly said next. Surprisingly my friend was up and ready. He got the award for going four times.

Three women and two men in our poly family used to be sexually balanced when the guys would be able to get it up and off two times, sometimes three. Now getting it up a second time is ok, but cumming a second time for the guys is a struggle. A third erection takes lots of sucking, and they can't get to a third orgasm usually. (I'm talking about in a session, not a day.) That's why we women in our family share a supplemental boyfriend.

Can’t answer if ALL single men are clueless. In our immediate circle of swinger friends there is only one single man that joins us. He is a divorced half of a swing couple that was part of the group before us. Not knowing him I didn’t like the idea of a man having his way without a partner to share. Now that I know him better he is not an idiot, he is respectful of the women and husbands. The ladies enjoy his company.

I think that was Steve Martin in a 'Crazy guys" sketch from Saturday Night Live. Great stuff. I can totally see this. Kind of a pack mentality. Get a few men in a room 'competing' for the dominance of a women and men can get pretty aggressive. I think this is where men forget to be gentlemen. Just because a women is open, sexy, aggressive doesn't mean she is something to be conquered or abused. I get some women may like that sort of dynamic, but clearly Aphroditee wasn't being treated like the lady she is as she provided a gift to all the men and her husband. I guess I always feel like I can never go wrong being a gentleman.

My wife and I have the same approach. From the very beginning, more than ten years ago now, we said that once we found sex partners that were really good, why not keep them around? Why keep flitting from person to person? Ok, not that you have to stick with just one, but if you find great sex don't tell them to go away just because you've had sex with them once or twice already. With that came an understanding that the more you had sex with someone, the more likely it would be you'd develop emotions for them. That too, we felt, would likely make the sex better. It hasn't been a goal per se, but we've embraced it when it's happened. For us, we pay close attention to how those emotions impact things, including us. There's never been a problem, but if there were we'd shut it down. Our relationship is our focus.

I know this is late but... Haven't been post covid. You can pay at the door (Bring Cash), no sponsor needed. You'll pay a yearly membership fee and then the door fee. If you ask these same questions on a site like SLS, there's a high probability you will make casual connections with a few regulars. Given the cliquey nature of New Englanders, its a huge advantage as a first time visitor.

Go to hedonism.com, click on groups and entertainments, then group events. Look at the groups, explore their websites, pick one that you're interested in and going when you can go, and book with them. Some groups are diverse, some are more nudist, some are more lifestyle, some more bi, some more older folks, some younger. No need to pay to play there. Lots of opportunities for whatever you are looking for. Like to watch, like to be watched, mfm, ffm, mfmf, whatever you like, no problem. Great staff, great entertainment, great climate, great food, beautiful place, water sports and other activities, all-inclusive food and drink, Hedo Weedo, party central, adult Disneyworld. Best part is the awesome people you meet there. Check it out.

I don’t ask women how many men they have had sex with, because it is none of my business unless they choose to tell me and I don’t really care! Besides I like women that like sex and know what they want and don’t consider them a slut, because they do. I actually prefer women with more experience with multiple partners. They tend to be more skilled, because like anything the more experience you have with something the better you are at it.

This is hysterical Makes me think though; women are biologically better suited to swinging than men are!

I want to watch my husband get gangbanged. Can we get five or six women willing? Must have plenty of time and patience getting him hard that many times.

Don’t ask, Don’t tell. I don’t know if it was a mistake to ask her how many men she has met on different sites. Over the years we kept our separate meetings to ourselves, I never asked. Now that we started talking about it I was wondering what type of men she was meeting so she shared her password with me. Together we logged into her primary account that she used to meet men. We went back six years and figured she met close to 50 men or appropriate 8 a year. It was way more than the numbers in my list of women I met. She allowed me to read the back and forth with the men which I found hilarious, I couldn’t believe it was the same woman. She told me the most men she dated at the same time was 3, and did meet 2 of them on the same day.

Angel here. This is personally my first post here. Greetings to everyone here in this forum/website. My husband and boyfriend are both what you may call cuckolds but none of us are into anything demeaning or humiliating. They're also not bi and MFM threesomes between us have never occurred. We do like to watch however. But at the end no sloppy seconds for me and no eating of the freshly laid cum from my pussy. They're just not into that.

grrrrrrrrr I am in total agreement with this!!! As for our weekend - We have been working up to being naked around couples. We had a masturbation party another time. The closest we have come to anything with other people was a few weekends ago. We had a great memorial weekend where I had my husband in a position to where something extra fun could happen. And it did, he was turned on enough to let one of the husband’s take me. I got him in a 69 having a blast orally and anally. And one of the husbands stepped up over him grabbing my hips and pressed his cock in me. I orgasmed three times, the man did as well. No cum though L, there was a condom. So I used my imagination acting as though he WAS eating it out of me when we went back to our oral fest. I sucked him off while playing with him anally and was able to sneak in a couple of the wives helping me touch him back there and one of the husbands (sort of / a little). Another was right there with his beautiful cock hard as a brick. I so wanted him to stuff it on. My husband did let me attack him anally in front of the ladies and take his cum for them, which was an enormous step! The wives said they loved it and truly wanted to participate more as did they want their husbands too. All of these wives are similar to me slowly leading/ guiding their men into moving to the next step. So at least I met a group where it might happen eventually. Still not sure how - but one step at a time. So big time first few steps: having sex with my husband in front of others (aside from masturbation), my husband letting another man F me (which is exactly what is was) AND directly over his face (though no cum L) AND I sucked him off in front of the group as well as did him royally anally in front of everyone. THAT was probably the 2nd biggest next to me getting rampaged over his face.

I am an openly bi male, bi in the sense that I only suck other males off, and totally enjoy orally being with another male, but that’s where I stop wanting or desiring other men. That is not to say I have not tried/done other things. I have been bottom four times, my wife has fingered my ass and inserted toys countless times, and I have topped three times, none of which really did much for me. I have kissed another man more than a few times and that was actually a turn-off for me. However the ‘moments’ witnessed by my wife she claims were a huge turn-on and wants to see more of. She says for her seeing two men together is akin to guys seeing two women together and I get that. Although we prefer MFM situations, where I and another male please her and I indulge in my oral desires she wants more of M on M action while she watches. So how do get over the hurdle and go from really liking having his dick in me and even his cum but no longer repulsed by having his tongue in my mouth? I want to at least give it a few more ‘attempts’ to open an additional door or two to freedom and fun and most certainly please the wife but just can’t get past certain issues. Bottoming is ok occasionally but I prefer being top. I really like sucking and feeling him cum or going down on her after he has cum inside her. However, just not into wanting to kiss, cuddle, touch him anywhere else other than his ‘package’. WTF do I have to do to get past this???

I finally found some good pictures and put on the show of a life time and after getting my husband super clean, naked sitting on a towel on the bed, I told him a story showing him one picture at a time, basically telling him what I posted above in a short story. The man was leaking so much I was able to feed him scoops of pre-cum. By the time I got to the end of the story I was guiding my “story friend’s” rod into his hole. At that time I was actually stuffing a nice sized dildo in him. He was spreading wider more enthusiastically than ever before. Once I started pumping him and we got into a good rhythm I dropped the bomb shell. I name my friend – Conrad! I increased the dildo pounding with my hand as his eyes shot open wide with a loud gasp he exclaimed, “A guy? You want a guy to shove his cock up my???” I leaned over bare chested kissing him hard as I continued jamming him. I noticed his body was bucking wildly and his first of many orgasms came. I kept talking about how hot it made me seeing Conrad’s cock fucking in and out of his anal hole. I continued showing him pictures when I had a free hand. He couldn’t take his eyes off the massive cock driving in the husband in the pic as his wife spread him wide and helped the man fuck his hole. My husband was still leaking in large pools which I fed to him as it gathered. My hands were a mess, so was my laptop, so were my thighs. I was drenched! Without a doubt my husband was severely turned on by it all. He tried to deny it but I told him another story and this time without touching him. I showed more pics this time with a wife and two men. She guided one cock into her husband’s mouth and the other into his ass. My husband was rock hard leaking all the more. I pressed his legs up over his head telling him to jerk off while I fingered him. He came hard and large! His cum shot all over his face, a lot of it going into his mouth. All the while I was praising him for sucking cock and how yummy the cum sliding down his throat was going to be. How proud of him I was for taking cock up his ass and letting himself get fucked as well as sucking cock and drinking cum. I told him I wanted him to eat all the cum and he did, he licked, scooped, and sucked the cum off everywhere he could lapping it down. It was so hot as I fed a dildo from my pussy to my husband’s mouth and then turned and fed and even larger one into his hole. He never went soft and his flexibility is so good he can almost lick his cock. He was still bent over with his cock hanging over his mouth, his tongue outstretched. YES he had his tongue outstretched as if he wanted it. I told him he wanted to suck that cock, didn’t he? And he said YES! I continued. I told him he wanted me to go get him a cock to suck didn’t he? He said YES! Oh my goodness I was so horny so hot, I was trying to think who I could call. Dang! Why hadn’t I prepared for this… I was humping his hole with the toy causing his body to bounce and cum to drip onto his tongue, lips, and face. I decided to ask, “What if I could get you a cock to fill your mouth and your ass at the same time? Would you like to have your ass full of cock at the same time your mouth is full? Do you want a cock to fuck and cum in your ass?” THERE it was. It was out there. I held my breath… Not only did he respond, he responded so enthusiastically I told him to keep doing himself and I ran to get my cell phone calling everyone I could think of who might could help me. My husband shouted, “Oh GOSH YES, I want a cock in my ass, I want to be fucked in the ass by a thick fat cock, I want to get fucked in my ass and I want it to fill me full cum creamy hot cum! I want to suck cocks and gets fucked I want to suck lots of cocks and have them cream fill my mouth and cum down my throat! Oh my gosh I want cocks everywhere!!! If you set it up I will do it, I will take as many cocks as you want me to take!” He orgasmed three times from the toy, I assisted with the last and jerked him off into his mouth again. We kissed and then I rode his face to glory land! It has been several months with lots of practicing, preparing, and now I have 5 men are great guys and who want to partake in our fun. Their wives want to join. I started with the wives telling them what I was after and what my husband had finally agreed to do. They were all so hot over it they insisted they get to join in on the fun. All of their husbands are bi which I knew, which is why I contacted them. I wish it could have happened that day. My husband said he will follow through with his promise even though he is not as open to the idea as before. We have an entire three day weekend set aside, we are going to take it very slow the first day and see what happens. I am going to RP just as I did with the pics and all and work my way up to real people, beginning with the ladies and strap-ons. Here is to hoping!!!

I tried that recently with a woman. I mentioned the idea, she loved it and we followed through. She laid on her back, I rode the dildo, and she jerked me off at the time. Hardest I've cum in a while. This was after she "bent me over like her little bitch" haha that was her first request

I'm not offended by two guys having sex, but I do rather be the one having strap-on sex with a guy more than watching them.

So, first off, I am not bi nor have any inkling to try anything bi but putting this into a common perspective, if you don't enjoy something, chances are you will NEVER enjoy it. What your wife needs to understand (and I'm sure she does or would) is that it's something you may do for her on occasion but it's not your favorite thing to do. MD hates anal. I know she doesn't enjoy it but occasionally she will do it because she knows I like it. I NEVER ask for it but I appreciate it when we do it. She will NEVER enjoy it. The point is, hopefully your wife understands that you do that for her only and she should appreciate the things that you do enjoy and really appreciate the special occasions you go beyond what you like for her.

One night my wife and I went to a fetish club party that they have once a month at the Swinger's club. We were doing the 'tour' checking out the action and when we got into the playroom, there was a crowd in front of the picture window into the big room that has three queen mattresses pushed together. At one end of the bed was an MMF threesome having a great time (based on the constant smiles and grins they were giving each other, and the energy they put into the sex). It was all oral, and fully fluid back and forth between all three. It was mesmerizing and my wife and I started slipping our hands under each other's clothes to play along with them. A minute later one of the girls standing next to us said, practically moaning, "God, I wish more guys were bi." A chorus of about another half dozen girls all chimed in with "Really," "Oh yeah," "I so wish." I just chuckled into my wife's ear (I'm bi, but we have not started playing with others yet).

I'm a what I consider to be a straight man. I'm not gonna lie and say that I have never thought about being involved with other guys because I have. I have also brought this up with the Mrs and I really don't know what her true feelings are about it. In the past I would have never even thought of this kind of activity, until a while back I stumbled upon a bi-sexual couples blog and really read what they were saying. I have never been with a man before, but I won't say that I won't! Actually, the more I think about it in a MFM situation I think it's pretty kinky and could be fun.

My wife is 'straight' but has allowed another woman to suck her nipples and go down on her and while it was hot to watch. She actually prefers watching me suck another man's cock. She wasn't sure at first but after our first encounter with another man and she watched me blow him she gets really turned on watching me suck her juices off him!

This is a good question, and one that I’ve somewhat faced, but not to this extent. My wife and I have only been in this lifestyle for three months and we have had two experiences with one couple and been to two private parties, where my wife got jiggy wit’ it at both (the most recent last weekend). So here are my feelings as a newbie. My wife didn’t orgasm in either of the two experiences with the other couple, or at the first party where four guys went down on her one after the other and then I got her off when I went down on her. She said one of the guys was really good at giving oral, but she just couldn’t get over the edge until I took over, because, she says, it was the familiarity of being me. At the party last weekend we ended up in a bedroom with another couple but the experience was strictly between the girls, and she came hard with the other woman. It took her quite a while even though my wife said she was really good at oral, it was me there kissing her and telling her I want to see her cum that did it. The common denominator in the equation both times was me in one-fashion-or-another. Which is really cool. Now, my wife is very vocal and physical when she comes; body jerking, spasms, etc. So watching her cum is exciting in-of-itself. The woman’s husband was thoroughly wowed by it. And for a little while afterward I felt kind of strange because for the first time I watched someone else make her cum really hard, as hard as I do. I think watching a man make her cum like that would be even harder (male ego I guess). It boils down to even though I want her to have a really good time, I don’t want to be playing second chair in my own band, either. So I understand how you are feeling. And how do you talk to her about it without making her feel guilty about having fun? I think one thing to remember (and I tell myself over and over) is that the sex is not better, it’s just different. And sometimes it is the situation, not the other partner that makes it so good. She probably would have cum just as hard with you. Do you remember sex with another woman that was really good and more memorable than regular old home bedroom sex because maybe it was the situation? Maybe you did it where you could be caught? Or it was really spontaneous? Same thing. You don't pine for it, it's just a memory. It’s not BETTER than sex with your spouse, it was just DIFFERENT and the situation was DIFFERENT. Now, the only thing that would personally hurt my feel-bads, and maybe is really bothering you, is that she could (should?) have picked you to finish, but she didn’t. Add to it that it was an ex-lover just multiplies the feelings you are having (this is the reason we have a “no ex” rule). At the party where the four guys went down on my wife, one of their wife’s was going down on me while her husband ate my wife out, and after we finished and stepped back from the group, all the other guys pounced on her. What I loved the most as I watched was when the time came and she was ready to go home, she pushed them all aside, straddled her husband and finished the night with him, in front of everyone. The message we all got was “you were all great, BUT THIS IS MY MAN.” Even if she did cum with them, she finished the night with her husband. It was really cool to see happen, and had to be a big ego booster for hubby. This might be the real cause of your anxiety. I know it would be mine. You need to get to the heart of why you feel this way, and then present it to her in a non-confrontational manner that says “it’s okay that you had a great time, and watching you have a great time was a real turn-on for me, but next time I would appreciate it if you…” I bet she does, too. You two are really, really new, and toes will be stepped-on on both sides, so openly communicating about it will be very important. With every experience we are finding new things out that we never thought of. WS

He made a facebook announcement of moving to the other side of the country. We just found out from our friend when asked he do we feel about it (he assumed we already new)

I and the wife have never been concerned about the number of guys she’s been with- as far as I’m concerned it made her into the slut she is today, the count is irrelevant lol. All that experience, different lengths, age groups, positions are what makes her absolutely fucking amazing in bed. There is no number I can think of that would dissuade me from being/ fucking a woman- if I’m interested and so is she that should be enough- ya know? 😉😉