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Most of our gatherings are fairly long. The sex isn't happening the entire time, but we would be together for 4-6 hours and sometimes longer. Often late into the night.

He has no problem going twice with full orgasms, the third time takes time for his squiggly getting hard and ejaculating with a smaller amount. When we go for a third at home it’s normally oral for both of us. I’m exhausted after that.

We usually get together for an evening...dinner, hot tub, sometimes a movie or a concert. Sometimes we play, sometimes we don't. Usually when we play it's about 4 hours and about an hour of playing.

All night. We like to swap with friends in separate rooms and meet up again in the morning. Also spending a vacation with our friends.

Her: If it is an overnight thing, we have more than one session. It sort of depends. We love to visit naked. Part of the fun is the verbal play. I think the verbal play is just as much fun.

I’d say 45-90 minutes. We have an hour in us. We can get bored if it goes too long.

For us it is always many hours! For others I couldn’t tell you.

Please consider this and accept it without judgement. This pursuit; "swinging", "the lifestyle", etc, what ever you wish to call it is predicating on communication. Communication within the couples involved and communication between the couples involved. Open, honest, frequent communication creates trust which increases the chances of having a good experience. You have stated that "anytime we try and talk through this problem, it turns into an argument". Getting past this will be key to moving forward for the two of you, clearly. If you can't communicate as a couple, your chances are poor of communicating effectively with another couple as you will not be moving forward with one voice and aligned in all respects.

Not a gang bang only an observation of my first time swapping or swinging. After a wonderful night with a fabulous lover in a room with him alone we continued with sex in front of our spouses. Our previous night’s lovemaking became a hard fuck. My enthusiastic oral turned into something much different. I hated it, I hated him and I hated my husband for watching. I hated myself for not stopping immediately. I finally let my feelings be known, with tears if I remember correctly. As stated some women enjoy aggressive sex, I don’t. I needed to let him know before it progressed. On a positive, I continue to look forward to our visits and vacations with those friends. Our foursomes have been fun yet I still cherish our separate room time.

The latter. We are still experimenting and DVP sounds very painful. SVP is starting to need lube help can’t imagine two at the same time or that the men would want that. Not excited about anal sex with just anyone, still getting accustomed to having sex with others. Baby steps for me.

And some men are more suited to parties. Very recently we went to a beach house party with three other couples that we know well. I am thrilled to be with two women and ecstatic that with help and time I made it through to all but my wife. Three times for me is a miracle. My wife was also doing it with the three men impressed all the guys had it in them. My wife half jokingly said next. Surprisingly my friend was up and ready. He got the award for going four times.

I want to watch my husband get gangbanged. Can we get five or six women willing? Must have plenty of time and patience getting him hard that many times.

You first post and I will repeat what has been posted before. This is your fantasy and your fantasy doesn’t count if it’s not hers. How would you feel if she joined and posted on a swinger forum that she wants to watch her husband blow four people?

He made a facebook announcement of moving to the other side of the country. We just found out from our friend when asked he do we feel about it (he assumed we already new)