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As long as single guys keep presenting themselves with cock pics, ignore or not read what couples clearly write on their profiles, only try to talk with the female half of a couple, send one liners like sup, assume every guy from a couple must be a cuck that can’t satisfy his own wife, advertise themselves as a dom bull and say stupid juvenile stuff they will be ridiculed by lifestyle couples. It is a thing. Are all of them this way? No just way more of them then I would have ever imagined going into the lifestyle. The good ones will stand out from the crowd. God knows it isn’t to hard to with the lame competition out there. For the record there are more then enough married guys out there that are no better and I have criticized them just as openly on this site many times. There is a reason women have all the power in the lifestyle! Men do nothing to deserve it.

Damn, all that equipment. One of the things I like about sex is that it doesn't require special clothing or equipment. Everything needed you always have with you! I'm always prepared if there are a few minutes and a little privacy.

"How long does a normal swinging session last between two couples?" Interesting question. Other posters here have distinguished between same room, separate rooms, and overnights. What about comparing MF couples' swaps with MFMs and FFMs? My experience has been that those threesomes go on longer than straight up couples together.

So the fact that I have asked for it means nothing? I liked it when a man first suggested it and found it hot. I have done it with my husband and with two other men as well. We both like it. I like it in most of the MMF we have done.

We have encountered several men who have difficulty ejaculating. Sometimes age, sometimes physical, sometimes psychological. It certainly doesn’t have to do with the woman’s attractiveness.

Last year, I connected with the submissive I play with occasionally at the tail end of some travel. I brought (with Mrs. E's permission, of course), a set of restraints we use, the blindfold, and the suction vibrator, threw them into a slot in the back of my carry-on. When I was boarding my flight, I was waiting in line at security and remembered they were in there. I'd checked it before and wasn't about to have a conversation about this in line now, so backed up and diverted over to the checked luggage counter. Of course, when I got to the hotel and opened the bag, there was a big "THIS BAG WAS SEARCHED BY THE TSA" card. I wager I'd been flagged for walking away from security and somebody must have had a good laugh opening that pocket. Better than ending up holding up the line explaining how the Womanizer Duo works to a TSA agent, but still, LOL.

Some sessions just continue as long as any male is hard, and when you have an uneven mix of genders, it may mean someone is spending time working in sequence. That's the case with both MFM and FFM. I agree though that as many people said above, couple swapping can go on for a long time if the couples are comfortable socializing between sessions, but it's not all play.

It is unfortunate that there wasn’t much foreplay! Can’t stand people that are in a hurry to get fucking without getting things warmed up the right way first. As for him taking a long time to cum your wife should not take it as a sign of her not being attractive! Some guys just take a long time to get there just like some guys can’t last two minutes without going off. I say this as a guy that does take forever to get there. Even with missus Enhancer it can take forever and sometimes it just doesn’t happen, because she can only take so much. It has nothing to do with her, because there is no one I find more attractive and she is amazing in bed. If the guy has no problem getting and keeping an erection then he is attracted to her. Everybody’s systems are different and react different. Some women struggle to cum once and it is normal for missus Enhancer to cum up to 20 times or more in a good session. It is what it is. Just enjoy yourselves.

Do not let either be the goal. Let each be a possibility. With each couple it will sort itself out. Trying to stage manage it can be frustrating and possibly dramatic. We prefer relational pairings. Sometimes it is just sex , sometimes it ends vanilla. Often enough it is near what is, for us, a good balance.

Yeah, same thing has happened with us. It was a young guy in good shape too. Was a hit to my wife's self esteem even though he's asked for a repeat and explained that attractiveness wasn't the issue. Damn things just have a mind of their own sometimes.

This is an open forum where everyone is entitled to their own opinion! You do not have to agree with others, but a little common respect goes a long way to making it a more useful place to be for everyone. We are all adults after all.

I had the opportunity to meet a new cuckold couple over the Memorial Day weekend. The encounter was different because I did something that I have not done in a long time. We met on another social networking site and I only saw a picture of their genitals. No face pics and we didn't even talk on the phone. Normally I don't meet anyone that I have not had a conversation with on the telephone. Despite the many times that I have been stood up when I did this in the past, I decided I was going to take a chance. I was pleasantly surprised. After reaching out to them and telling them that I was going to be traveling to SW VA, the wife sent me a reply telling me they had planned to be in that area for the holiday too. I was excited as it has been a while since I played with any cuckold couples. I told her to keep me posted and let me know when they get close to the hotel. She text me and said that they were 30 min away. I showered, got dressed, and got to the hotel at the same as them. To set the mood we smoked a joint and had a little to drink. Everyone was horny and ready to go by then. I started taking off my clothes and then ordered both of them to get undressed. I had both of them kneel in front of me and start sucking my cock together. She told him not to forget my balls. He started on my ball and she continued to work the shaft. I got so turned on I had her stand up and then kissed her in the mouth. He continued sucking my cock until it was erect. Then I told her to get on her hands and knees and scoot towards the edge of the bed. I ordered her cuckold to prep her so that I could let her feel my cock. As soon as he moved away, I slid my cock into her. We played twice that night. They decided to stay in town and get a room the second night. I went by to smoke and have a drink with them. Ended up playing again the second night. Like I was saying, this was totally out of character for me because I usually don't even leave the house until I have seen pics of both people and talked to them on the phone. However, I took a chance that weekend and it really paid off.

Is male bisexuality trending? Wow, another neighbor came over to talk. She said she had heard a little of a conversation I had on our deck with another friend about her husband coming out about bisexuality. Here I am drinking my tea and up walks Neana from the neighborhood pool. She plops down and lets it all out, "I walk in on my husband taking dildo after dildo up his a**. I watched as he did himself many times, orgasming, cumming, eating, doing himself more working to larger until he took the largest dildo in our arsenal. I'd never seen him do this on his own. As for cum eating, I normally have to fed it to him. I started all of this. I love doing him with my strap ons, taking him, jerking him off, feeding him, and continuing to take him. I guess it makes sense after all this time he'd be into doing it by himself when I'm gone for a few days. I did get home a day early. What got me was when I let him know I had been enjoying the show he glanced at his lap top which led me to look and there it was - guys fing guys and their wives. Bisex couples sex. We swing but he never once expressed an interest in bisex. I asked him and he said, yes he wanted to explore it." I sat, listened, watched. I learn a great deal being quiet and watching. Her eyes were wide, her voice was excited, her body was squirming, her nipples were extremely pronounced, and I swear I smelled a hint of her. She was very aroused. She went on growing more descriptive, darn she had me going. She had her husband do a show and tell, show her and tell her what he wanted to try. Then she asked me how to go about find someone. I smiled taking her by her hand walking her into the house to our sex room and let her watch a recording of us and a few couples going at it on our big screen. This is the third new couple in as many months whose husband has come out. At this rate our group is going to be bigger than precovid. We still have to vet them a bit more but they already want to come over and watch. The first new couple has already gotten naked and touched with us as a few couples played. The second couple is waiting on their tests. It is looking up to be a great summer.

I was right there with you until the sentence above. This is not true. As I wrote in a different thread, cheating is not a victimless pursuit. That's why it is called cheating. There are other human being(s) harmed, knowingly or unknowingly, and his/her feelings matter, too. The OP admits this behavior is not consistent with his moral compass. For this reason, he should discuss this immediately with his girlfriend and explain they need to tighten down the rules of the game. Playing solo does not equate to having illicit affairs with people in other relationships. Lastly, it appears to me there is quite a bit more to the story. A romp in the sack here and there is one thing. But spending an entire day together once every week? That doesn't pass the sniff test. There's more happening between these two than simply sex.

Thanks. Not that it matters. I was ready to accept the cuckold title at first, when my wife was playing and I wasn't, until I learned about the distinction about cuckolds being humiliated and hotwife husbands not.

No, didn't strike me as cuckold. Just a happy swinging couple who sometimes play separately.

Confession from *last* weekend: We have been playing around with apps more and decided to have a meetup. It was supposed to be a drink only but worked out. We didn't realize it at the time, but the bumped "how many" thread got me thinking. Mrs. E managed to get over the hump to having intercourse with more men since she met me than when we started. (Her first husband was #3, I was #7. This made #15.)

Nothing unusual for us, but it could be classified as cuckold: our daughter and I ran a few errands and did chores at home while mom was at another couple's house engaged in a threesome.