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I posed the question to Debbie with a few additional options. One man, her ménage a Trois with our new friend, our ménage with the wife or our first party with five other couples. Debbie said the party was exhausting and fun. I understand both of those, I wanted to be with all the women c’est la vie. What I wanted and what I could do doesn’t always work. By observation and her report the first for her lasted a half hour with her having a great time before he entered her. I did see her get up to refresh and have some laughs before a second gentleman approached. I didn’t see much of that because of my own play. She later told me that his wife joined them. After that it was break time, the men needed it. It was nice to just talk, drink and laugh and for me rest. I was then approached by a very nice horny woman which left her husband to Debbie, her third. I could tell the booze had gotten to Debbie. They were very close to us and I saw her being very frisky. I have to remember to buy more booze for the house. Four hours into the party our hostess asked Debbie, not me ☹️, as the newest one which men haven’t you been with. Rhetorical, we all knew. Debbie threw the towel in and said she couldn’t. With a bit of coaxing she orally took the fourth and with the help of one of the other women, got the fifth up and in. I was only able to get a bj from a third horny gal. Debbie is having fun

I will try to answer for me, it depends. My thoughts on what Michael and I do changes on our moods. I think we are thinking alike when we both want what the other wants. I have never heard him use Gangbang as something we should do. I have been with multiple men and still don’t call it a gang bang. I have been with multiple men and don’t feel I am a hotwife, a term I only learned on here. I think I enjoy variety in partners. I enjoy being pleasured and I enjoy giving pleasure.

Some of the guys I knew from her first gangbang were friends of mine, the other one was an ex of hers. It was pretty hot!! 🔥🔥🔥

So how come all the men in the Bible had multi wives. Moses had two wives. King David had eight wives, his son Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines.

I was making light of the religious proclamation that sex and marriage is only for one man and one woman.

We used to attend parties hosted by a friend that had an imbalance of men over women, maybe 3 or 4 men to women or a little more men. Our friend called it “multiple men” parties because he felt that “gangbang” implied violence or many men descending on a woman at once. The men were very courteous and respectful. We’ve been to many house parties, but we liked those. Most of the women there were open and looking to play actively. We’ve been to house parties where some of the women did not want to play or play with men.

How did you find the people for the first one? One of the swinger personals sites like SLS or some other way?

Agreed, except for FFM, I like on man and one woman the way God intended. Multiple men at once is not enjoyable for me, except for the occasional DP. It excites me when the guys are otherwise engaged, like I am, then comes to me sloppy and spent, and I have to get him aroused again.

As promised, here is our update on our first 'real' swinging experience. I'll call it The Good, The Bad, & the Ugly as it had all 3 components. We did, however, manage to keep a humorous perspective throughout. Well we signed up and attended the Arcadia party on Feb 16th. The site advertises: Most couples are 21-45+, the age range varies for each party. The average age of the single women attending is 21-30. In reality, at least at our party, most attendees were AARP members. To put it mildly, it was mostly a total disappointment. Thank god for 'Elliot', the waterguy. He showed up early, maybe an employee, with a bunch of bottled water for the party. He was a good looking, is shape, guy from England, with a nice HARD cock. The wife had her first MFM with him as everybody watched the 3 us on the bed...of course they all just stood around watching with their clothes on. Anyway, NOBODY was swinging. All stayed as couples. Most left their clothes on. One older fellow fell asleep in a chair. Lots of Asian couples and single guys....strange they all fucked or had oral WITH their clothes on! Mostly older crowd that seemed ok just sitting around talking. I joked with my wife that they will probably start playing bridge soon. Food was decent. Hosts were personable, but dressed NOT to impress. Security guy, I think thats what he was, was a large Hispanic fellow who seemed to be a voyeur. He just walked around and stared at any 'action' going on. Not the most comfortable feeling when a large, clothed Hispanic guy, who looks like he just got out of Pelican Bay is standing over you watching your wife...Yuck! We won't be back. Norm told us when we signed up that 23 couples had reserved. On the way down we called to get the room info and Norm told us that there were 18-19 couples. When we got there we asked how many couples...we were told 15 couples, 8 single guys, and 0 single females (I can see why). On a scale of 1-10 (ten being best), I'd rate it a 1 (it would be 0 if not for Elliot). Bottom line...DON'T GO! The above was The Bad & The Ugly...now for The Good. As described above, we did meet a nice guy, Elliot. Now originally my wife was pretty much convinced she just wanted to 'observe' the goings on in a real swingers party. Upon arrival we changed into our sexy attire...damn she looked HOT. All 100 lbs of her! So we start out on the bed with her on her back and me straddling her face and feeding her my cock. Well as mentioned Elliot, we nicknamed him 'the waterboy', leisurely walked into our room...which was actually a open aired loft on the second story of this particular Residence Inn (Arcadia, CA). Elliot had on boxer shorts and they were STRETCHED straight out, not hiding his VERY hard cock. He walked around the bed a few times and we could tell what he wanted. Eventually he pulled out his cock and held it in his hands, making it very obvious that he wanted to join us in a bad way. I whispered to my wife and asked her if she wanted to do anything with him. The answer was NO. She only wanted to mess around with me. Elliot sensed the futility of it and went downstairs. The wife and I continued to mess around. Me going down on her, her on me, we fucked for awhile...generally putting on a show for the gathering crowd lined up on the walls around the bed. Let me tell you it was weird. They all kept their clothes ON! Well the wife must have been getting a bit hornier as she suddenly told me "well I guess I could give him a hand job. So the door was now a bit open! My fantasy is to see her with another guy and for me Elliot was perfect. Good looking, nice personality, trim, and a cock, that while a bit shorter than mine, it was thicker, curved upward, and HARD AS STEEL. Eventually Elliot made his way back upstairs and I motioned him over to us and explained that we were newbies, my wife has never done anything like this before, but she would like to stroke his cock if that was ok with him. He said that would be fine and he respected her limits (told you he was a nice guy). So Elliot and I both kneel on the bed facing my wife and she takes our cocks in her hands and begins massaging us both. I will tell you the sight of a strange, hard, and thick cock in her hands was very exciting to say the least. This goes on for awhile and I tell her to lie on her back so Elliot and I can each take a side (of her) and it would be easier for her to stroke us. This goes on for a bit and I then move down between her legs. This is where it starts to get good...she is writhing in pleasure, now stroking Elliot's ROCK HARD cock and massaging his balls with both of her hands as I enjoy her pussy and watch her massaging a thick cock. The sight is awesome...but it gets better. Elliot knows she is getting hot and begins, ever so lightly and precariously, to massage her shoulders and eventually moving to her breasts, first with his hands, then his mouth. My wife is now moaning and her pussy is getting REALLY wet. I move my mouth from her wetness as Elliot now begins massaging her clit and finally inserting his fingers into her. I move to give my wife a DEEP French kiss (she loves deep kissing) and now she is really getting worked up. As I move to my wife's head I motion to Elliot to take my place with his mouth...I also whisper to my wife that "he is going to go down on you". She does not argue. As Elliot's mouth is concentrating on my wife's wetness, my wife pulls me towards her and takes my cock into her mouth. Her body is now moving every which way in pleasure and she is moaning even more loudly. NOW I lean over and ask her softly "do you want him to fuck you"? Her response I will never forget...she says innocently..."do you think I should"? I respond YES! I then ask Elliot if he has a rubber and he tells me he does. Knowing what is going to happen, he puts the rubber on. I watch as he does and I realize just how thick he is...he is a bit shorter than my cock, he's about 6 1/2" but thick, and harder than I've been in awhile (hey, I'm 49)...I mean his tool is like steel, curved back towards his stomach, and I can tell his cock is aching (literally) to enter my wife's tiny hole. Now this is also something I will never forget. The sight of my wife's tiny, shaved pussy, and his rock hard cock a few inches away from what has formally been all mine for 32 years (back to high school). I am completely turned on as I watch Elliot move closer and his cock penetrates my wife. Her gasp as he entered was memorable. Elliot started out slowly but then started pounding my wife to the hilt with his fat cock. At one point I leaned over to my wife and asked if she was ok...she just nodded and moaned. Then she did was she rarely has done with me...completely wrapped her legs around Elliot and locked her legs. This was Elliot's clue to really start to hammer her...and he did. My wife then grabbed my thigh, pulled me closer, and took my cock deep into her mouth...it was incredible for me...and all the folks still lining the walls around the bed. Now my wife has only cum a few times via having intercourse, but I could tell she was getting close, and it was turning me on bigtime knowing that it was Elliot's fat cock and his jackhammer action that was bringing her to the brink. I then leaned over and whispered into Elliot's ear to complete my fantasy...I whispered "cum inside her". At that he really went to work. He lowered himself heavily onto my wife and began to go into overdrive. It wasn't long after that he began to moan and groan loudly. I knew what was about to happen. When he came it was obvious to everyone in the 2 story unit what was going on. He stiffened and pushed with all his might into my wife and let out a final exclamitory groan that he had mightily orgasmed into my wife. He then gave my wife a peck on the cheek and said "thank you". I watched as he pulled his still rock hard cock out of my wife and I noticed when he removed the rubber that it looked as if a horse had cum in it. There must have been over 2 inches of sperm in the end of the rubber. So, the night billed as "The Good, The Bad, & The Ugly" did have a VERY GOOD side to it. Oh, I forgot to mention how I 'finished'...I wanted to put my cock inside of her well worn pussy and she went doggy as we put on a heck of a show for the 'wall people'. I finished by pulling out, she lay on her back, and I slowly jacked off (she loves watching me do that) over her wanting mouth. I surveyed the room and it looked like the 'wall people' were hypnotized as they watched me shoot stream after stream of my sperm into my wife's open mouth. Even Elliot was watching and came over to tell me that my wife was one of the hottest women he has ever seen...I thanked him and totally agree! All in all, not bad for our first time out. Now its off to SMI in March...I am counting the days! Scott & JoAnn

Scott & JoAnn, Hmmm... usually the places we play provide kleenex and such for cleaning up. But sharing a shower is a good thing too!

We had our first ffm experience this past Saturday night and HOLY COW!!!!!!!!! I already new that I was ready to see my hubby being touched by another woman, but didn't think that I would be that excited about it! I can't get the image out of my mind of her giving him a bj! We aren't ready for intercourse with anyone other than each other for right now. Of course I had a blast finally being with a woman for the first time too! I was so nervous, but boy it was so erotic! Our preference started out with just wanting a female to join us but we soon realized that it was near impossible and are getting together with a couple this Saturday night. We are going to start out with ff play and hubby's will join in with their own wives. I am ok with soft swapping, but my hubby isn't sure if he is ready to see me with another man, which is ok with me since I won't have fun if he isn't having fun!

All I have to say is that we are hooked! We have been lucky enough to have found a couple that we are now friends with as well. We were fortunate enough that our children were spending the night at papa's house so we decided to go out for dinner, stop by a strip club and then come back to our house to "see what happens". We all chatted the week before and new what we would like out of the evening so we were all on the same page. Now for the good stuff! We were all very nervous and just sat around chatting and decided to play truth or dare(I know very grade schoolish, but it got things moving along)! So, at some point both myself and the other woman had put on schoolgirl skirts with only our bras and panties underneath and we started pleasuring our men. She then decided to lay me back on the couch and give me the most sensual oral sex! I am shuddering just thinking about it! I couldn't let her have all the fun so we swapped places and I proceeded to give her two body shaking orgasms! My dh was so proud! During that my dh was giving it to me from behind! We each then went with our own hubby's for some good lovin! We have now become great friends and have gotten together two more times since! One of them being just last night! We are still just sticking with the woman playing for now and all is well! We are talking about maybe adding some toys to the mix at some point! Well, I need to get to bed and..................