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Hey We finally managed to get the courage for a next step and it was awesome. We met up with a guy who was easy to be around and didn't pressure my wife into anything. After some foreplay, she ended up on her knees with her ass ready and the deal was for him to tease her pussy. If she wanted to fuck, she would back up on his dick which took like less than 20 seconds to decide. She backed right up and and I watched while my wife fucked him good. After a few minutes she got right into it and It was an amazing experience that she now wants to do again but next time, she would like a couple while I watch. Watching my wife being all naughty and taking another dick is an amazing thing to see, looking forward to the next time

There have been a number of threads regarding how the issue of body image and lack of self-acceptance can be a barrier to even beginning to explore the lifestyle. In most cases it has been women, but there have been examples of men as well. This piece currently on The NY Times website suggests several strategies for getting comfortable with being naked, whether at home or in public situations— nude beaches, nudist resorts, etc. — where being nude is condoned. https://www.nytimes.com/2022/06/17/well/live/feel-better-naked.html ‘Here’s a quote that notes that body image is a factor in an individual’s libido, an observation that won’t surprise many who hang out on the Swingers Board: "Research shows, for instance, that women’s perceptions of how attractive they are can influence their sexual desire, while being relatively comfortable with one’s appearance has been linked to higher self-esteem and overall life satisfaction."

We don’t sext. We only text the same sex partners of other couples. Other men don’t text my wife, I don’t text their wives. We have encountered men who become infatuated with my wife. One of us will ask them to ratchet it down. Generally my wife will tell them that she is uncomfortable. If they don’t get it, game over.

Agree. One of my favorite threads here, so let's keep it positive for those who do enjoy the subject matter. If big butts aren't your thing, then just start a thread on what butts are your thing and then we'll have two threads to enjoy 😉

So what you’re saying is because a woman never asked you for it, that means NO women ever ask for it?

That is awesome. I love watching for the entire time, I love joining, I love swapping. Hell I just love swinging. I love that you guys have found what you're into - Dustin

Sounds like you two are off to a great start!

Well this thread is for big butt appreciating! If you don’t like them that is okay you can ignore the thread. Another happy booty Monday! No implants. All natural.

So the fact that I have asked for it means nothing? I liked it when a man first suggested it and found it hot. I have done it with my husband and with two other men as well. We both like it. I like it in most of the MMF we have done.

We've done both DP and DVP several times and are big fans of both. Either configuration can be very intense for all parties once you get a groove and have become a regular part of our play. Our female half may be slightly addicted to DVP.

The start of an anal session.. We love the butt

We have texted and sexted, more in the past, less now. I soon learned to separate the lurkers from the real people. We share an email making it very easy to read all email messages. Texting privately can be a problem for some. We know the other’s passwords, if I want to check his phone it would be easy. We have trust.

I can understand the first time hesitation that goes away in a short time. I quickly understood that nudity is natural not sexual. Go to a nude beach everyone is nude including old, young, thin, fat, pretty and not so pretty bodies and nobody cares. The more you go the less the nudity is an issue. At home nudity is just a normal thing.

I was limited from reading the article. I was apprehensive getting naked with a few couples we met on a cruise when we docked and headed to a clothing optional beach. If it were just the two of us going alone, not with a group, not fearing spending the rest of our cruise with these people I might have had different thoughts. Possibly the group strip made it easier as others were quicker to take their bathing suits off, the men were drop and go. Remembering the group we were all in decent shape I had lost some weight before the vacation knowing that I had to prepare for the eating and drinking orgy on the cruise. I think the new friends may have made it easier as if it were friends from home it would have been more awkward. In days these new friends would be going home never to be seen again. Getting naked where do you look or not look trying not to stare. Within minutes I felt at ease being nude the big feeling was not be nude it was still the not outwardly looking at others. I tried not looking down at the men. I went to that beach knowing it was nude not sex. I never thought that I would be having sex with one of the men that very night.

Have you tried it again but with a different position?

Great to hear that both of you enjoyed living out your fantasies together! It sounds like you are both on the same page on how you want to do things. Always works better that way. Good luck on your future adventures.

We don't allow personal texting or contact in any way. It is either w/w, m/m or a group text to all four of us. This way there can be no misunderstandings. I would contact everyone and just politely explain that this is the way that the two of you have decided things should now be handled. Anyone who has difficulties with this will need to find someone else to play with.

But you were gone, fucking another hot chick with your wife's blessing, and she had another offer. Then when you found her, you got to fuck her with another guy. I wish I had such horrible problems!

If at first you don't succeed......

Is there such a thing?

we haven't seen this thread since almost 3 years ago. We tried dvp a couple weekends ago. I am the longer of the two, he is the thicker. We tried with her reverse doggy on me and he tried getting between her legs. It was awkward and almost worked but he couldn't get in and after a few min he went soft. I was rock hard with anticipation. We will definitely try again with him and from what we have read, swap places.

Thanks for contributing! Looking great.

Trying to resurrect our post….

If you have pics in the gallery on this site you can just go to the insert other media and choose from the existing files! Otherwise I am not sure. Maybe a picture hosting site?

My contribution

Sorry, I have nothing to share, I don't have big butt cheeks, but what I have is 88% muscle according to the last measurement. Little tits too. Big labia and clit though.

I was in this situation 7 years ago. Mr. Vixen wanted to try swinging and, at the time, I was terribly offended. I told him flat out NO....I was raised so strictly and had been burned so badly by the opposite sex. I was in no frame of mind to undertstand the concept. However, I told him NO...flat out...I knew at that time I would not be able to see him with another partner. However, within the last few years, our relationship has really cemented itself. We are at a point now where I am confident enough in myself to know if he has sex with another woman, he's not looking for another life partner. Not only that, but I see now that he could have involved himself without asking me so long ago. Now, I'm just as excited about our "first time" as he is, although there eill be boundaries....set well in advance of our first "encounter". I hope you can both move on from this experience. More importantly, I hope you can repair the damage that was done to your heart before you and your husband ever considered swinging. One final note~ Kudos to our male counterparts for understanding that sex has little or nothing to do with love right from the beginning. It takes most of us women YEARS to figure that out!

This is why we definitely do not "introduce" anyone to the lifestyle - it is fraught with potential drama. Everyone is at fault here - the husband for being pushy, the wife for being manipulative, and the other couple for being so eager to swing that they chose a disfunctional newbie couple. The situation just plain sucks and is something we avoid like the plague.

im not going to flame you or your husband,but i certanly would like to hear his side of this. you said that all the way through this you were a defanatly NO NO NO and even the couple knew this but wanted to play anyhow. what i dont understand is how long did you talk about this before you made the plung into disaster. somehow it makes me glad that we talked about this for so long before we decided to persue swinging. you see we spent a few years maby a little more talking about every senerio that could happen good or bad. we did know the first time that no matter what the sex turned out to be it was not going to destroy our relationship, it would be a learning experiance completley together. i really am so sorry that the lifestyle has some how damaged your relationship it has been so pro,marrige for us and the friends we have.your actually the first that we have heard of this happening to. we wish you guys could have been on the same page with this. as for counseling .. we wish you had maby taken that alternative first but its never to late to work things out if that is both of your desires. mrs fun and i wish you guys all the best, as a married couple we hope somehow your marrige becomes stronger. our hearts are with you. we always feel that marrige comes first and above all. as swingers on a journey together we wish you guys well even if the lifestyle isnt for you. peace and happiness, mr. and mrs.fun

We have been enjoying the Lifestyle for about 2.5 years now. When we started and began meeting other couples, we had several "one and done" meetings. Some involved play, others did not. Four couples have filtered out as our regular play partners, and we meet and play with one of them every 1 to 2 weeks. The first couple of these four we met almost 2.5 years ago. We don't text, we only Kik, and that once a week on Happy Hump Day. We are all busy well-traveled professionals, so our calendars are full and we only get together about every other month. No individuals text each other one-on-one and all 4 of us are in the Kik chat group. This couple only wants to get together if play is involved. The second of these couples, we met a couple of months later and we became fast friends. We have vacationed together a few times and do vanilla stuff together too. We don't have to play at every meeting. We text as a group and individuals. The 3rd couple we met last March and we have become good friends and do vanilla activities with them as well. Only he and I text and the ladies text each other. The men don't text the ladies individually. That has not gone well for them before. She is a knockout, and men just overdid it. Thus my only interaction with her is when we are all four together. The 4th couple we met last April. We became friends and to date have only done lifestyle dates with them. We had a group text with all 4 and then each of them asked each of us if we minded if they texted us individually. We said OK, give it a try. My lady broke a rib about 6 weeks ago and it is just now healed enough for play to resume. I will readily admit that an encounter with my lady is an amazing sexual experience. All four of these guys can't seem to get enough of her. All four have proclaimed to her and me that she is their "favorite" play partner. Guy #1 is very cool about it as is Guy #3. Guys #2 and #4 are the ones who text her individually, and during the period of her rib healing when play wasn't possible, they sexted her daily. Now that her rib is improving, they are blowing up her phone trying to get playdates scheduled. It's like they're junkies needing their next fix. I confess I'm a little weirded out by this. All four of these ladies are wonderful, and I enjoy playing with them very much. At the same time, I have no need or desire to text them or sext them or start up deep conversations with them thru text. The two that I do text are conversations like "How's your week going?" etc., much the same as my texts with Guy#3. Anyone else experienced this? Any suggestions on tactful ways to tell the two guys to tone down the texts? Atxpair

Looks like you are excited to have your cocks rubbing together and nothing to do with her. Just have a sword fight if you want to touch his cock. I never met a woman who asked to have this done to her. It is always a guy fantasy.