Yes, also hubby (with my permission) played (separately) with two single women who are now married. We are vanilla friends with them. Their husbands, who know that in the past my husband had a sexual relationship with their wives are fine with it. One is comfortable talking about it, not the sex per se, but when we met, how we met, where we traveled... So even vanilla people, men even, aren't necessarily put off by a woman's past.