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One man at a time has been perfect. I never found the need for more than one to be satisfied. Group sex was not our scene. This weekend we spent to time with a group and I had sex with three men 🤭 and their wives. Not a bang bang bang, it was over many hours and my husband was not one. You can say 4 men if you include him last night. I can’t believe we both had the energy for that. All three men were fun and different. Nothing to prove just a good time with friends and the women were just as much fun.

The one on the flag and Fillmore are Know Nothings. I have a Fillmore story, not the president, the concert venue in NYC. I can’t verify this, my parents were at the Fillmore most likely getting high which they deny, they got home around 4AM and made a baby, ME. It’s a family joke about being part of the Know Nothings and as my parent’s story grew and was embellished my mom would always end the story with I know nothing. That’s my Fillmore story. How it fits with this thread I don’t know. They had to be comfortable being nude if I was born.

When she is with you, I'm sure that sometimes she just wants you to 'make love' with her. Not just use her, but show that you love and care for her. When she is with someone else, without the love and emotions, it can be okay to just be used. You need to be willing to give her what she wants at times. But the second part of your post is what is more disturbing. It sounds like you have given her some power and she is abusing it, probably because she isn't used to having it. Time for another talk, but maybe with your heart in your hand. You need to be more sensitive to her wants and needs, and she needs to then return in kind. Let her know how you are feeling since great relationships are built on love, trust and communication. You need to show her more love and communication. As for swinging, you need to stop until you can reestablish the trust in your relationship. Good luck and let us know how things are progressing.

The general consensus/rule seems to be "never go ass to pussy" or mouth. That's certainly our rule. Question: Is a guy allowed to go from one girl's bum hole to another? It's happened strictly within our family several times, however, when a guy is up in a bum he almost always cums quickly. (OTOH, A guy going from pussy to pussy, or a woman switching dicks midcourse before either orgasms, is usual play.)

This is solely my — male half — opinion and I’ll probably be told by the longtime members here that I’m dead wrong… but here goes! ;-D I don’t think you’d necessarily be UNpopular at clubs. Even though most of the “veteran” couples are looking for some level of swap, some of them have a soft spot in their hearts for newbies — because they remember when they were new — and will play “down” to your comfort level one time anyway. There will also likely be other newbies there whenever you go and perhaps they’re looking to dip just a single toe into the water by sharing a bed with another couple. All that said, I’ll give you this piece of advice that I’m pretty sure the other members here will back me up on. Namely, when you make your first visit to a club, go with *NO* expectations other than to have a great time with each other. If that means you don’t do any more than get a playroom and have sex, take it as a positive. (That’s all we did on our first several club visits.) There’s something really exciting about having sex with the sounds of the music thumping and people milling around just outside the playroom door no doubt wondering just who’s in that room and what they’re doing in there. So don’t put any artificial pressure on yourselves to full swap, soft swap, or even share a bed with anybody else. And if you really want to put on a show while others watch, just leave the playroom door open. Trust me, you’ll draw a crowd!

We tried something new last night and were wondering if others have tried this. A couple that we have known for a while came over and we decided to have a “spa” night. We took a nice nude soak in the hot tub and then gave an erotic massage to each other’s spouse. We took care of them first and then we switched. Although we did bring each other close to orgasms our deal was not to cum. Afterwards, we relaxed in the tub again and then enjoyed some of the best sex we have had. I think the edging was the key along with allowing ourselves to bring it down a bit in the tub before bringing each other to climax. Anyone tried this?

What we enjoy as much as actual sex about about house parties, is sitting around nude to talk. The removal of pretense and relaxation creates a different environment

Returning to the theme of the original post (nudity and comfort with same), it remains surprising and disappointing that simple nudity persists as a point of contention and discussion. While there are settings in which fashion is celebrated, and there are settings in which textile separation makes sense, there are plenty of settings where fewer textiles is a reasonable and logical choice. The fact that having--or seeing--an unclothed body should make anyone uncomfortable speaks volumes about our cultural constructs and our perceptions of what it means to be human.

We reconnected with a couple we introduced to the board and their friends. Alan and I initially only met with one cpl at a time, parties were not our scene. We also didn’t build relationships with people, more of a few meeting then move on. We didn’t want any possibilities of attachment or others personal problems. The downside we gave up on some terrific times. Times change and our attitude changed we have become good friends with a cpl close to us. Yes we went to the Proving Ground in the Highlands. There is a good vibe, pretty, on the water and just over the bridge from Sandy Hook. I am pretty sure our profile says New Jersey and I see locations on other profiles. I normally look at profiles out of curiosity not for searching for hook ups. We mainly met those who are new to the lifestyle not long timers. We didn’t and don’t search here for hookups, searching is part of our fun. Now we are becoming more open to new friends. Lol. Yes.

There are a few members here old enough to get riled up about your post.

cplnluv1, I’m happy to learn you did reconnect with a couple who are members of the board, and that your time together didn’t end when you left the beach and the sun went down. Profiles on the board no longer permit one to include the town/state/region where they live. And given that making connections for sex is not a primary purpose of this board, that’s probably not a bug. That said, I’ve been surprised to note through reading posts and the handles members have chosen, that there are quite a few members of the board who reside in the greater metropolitan NYC area. To your point, on such short notice an invitation to meet up at Gunnison would be hit and miss. But I suspect that with two weeks’ or a month’s notice you might find as many as six couples/singles would commit to showing up. You might even find takers for a different er party at one of the restaurants in the Highlands or elsewhere nearby.

Let’s make a date to meet one day at the shore. It’s almost impossible to find someone even when you know the person. We normally a flag, not ours, as a starting point to give directions. We stay clear of flags of a previous president. We sometimes see people in a an area that have Giants flags or a Bi flag. We should DM the next time we have plans. Looks like today will be a great day, enjoy 😎

I didn’t think anyone would because it’s so crowded and besides it was last minute and what are the odds someone close who read my post could make it there. We made plans with a member of the board who we have been with before who are still with us this morning as I’m posting. We were invited to stay at a friends house last night even though we live close enough. I’m sure sex happens quietly. As crowded as the beach gets it’s hard to be discreet. We have observed sex in the off season. Last year before Memorial Day we saw two men in an isolated area and a middle aged man taking pictures of what I hope was a legal aged young lady taking pictures.

NC_Seniors, you're dead ....right Seriously Watchhercum4u, what NC_Seniors said One aspect of this though if you're at a club; if you're in a playroom having sex with each other and you leave the door open, some people might take that as an invitation to come in. That might be ok for you or not; respectful people will ask, or at least ask if you would like them to be involved. We've been to one club where every playroom had a window with curtains, so you could have the door closed but the curtains open. It was rather fun to walk down the hallway where these rooms were and be a voyeur looking in on the rooms with the curtains open, also knowing the people inside WANTED to be watched. Good for them, good for me If you found a club with playrooms like that, it would probably be perfect for you.

cplnluv1, please let us know if anyone from the board drops by to see you. When we lived in Monmouth County, Kathy and and I frequently visited Gunnison. We aren’t beach bunnies but enjoy being nude (our swimming pool was sufficiently screened by fence and foliage that we swam nude). It was a sufficiently short drive that we would go for just a couple of hours late on a Saturday or Sunday afternoon, when the crowds had thinned out. As you have noted, sex isn’t permitted on the beach (it was somewhat — a bit — tolerated 20 years ago) but we did have couples and singles, straight and gay, occasionally try to pick us up.

The wife and I have had this experience once. She was seeing a vetted younger guy and she mentioned to him that she wanted me to join their next adventure. They met at a hotel, I was sitting in a chair in the corner of the room, he came in and said hello then we all had a few drinks- she was playfully flirting and touching his arm and chest often. She then kissed him and she slid her hand down to his bulge, stroking him over his pants, he then took her top off and she unclasp her bra and her amazing huge tits fell. He began sucking on them and slid his hand down to her cameltoe where he slid his fingers up and down. They took off their clothes as I was stroking my bwc in the corner, they made their way to bed and he layed her down. He had a 7 inch cock, slender cock but she liked it. They were kissing and he slid the tip of his cock into her wet pussy. He fucked her for about 10 mins missionary, I undressed completely and was still stroking my cock. She then climbed on top of him, it was at this point that I grabbed the astroglide and approached her and pushed her forward. I put lube on her tight asshole and my thick cock and told them not to move, I put my cock in her ass and thrust forward, had to get the timing right with her an him, as he was thrusting I was pulling out slightly till we got into a rhythm, I shot a torrent of hot cum in her ass in about 10 mins, he pulled out of her and came on his own chest and stomach, she orgasmed shortly before that. It was one of the hottest times we’ve had.

That's not unusual, a guy in my bum (any bum) cums pretty quickly. For that reason, and because I can cum multiple times, the guy going up my bum usually has a first round in my or another pussy. His second orgasm takes longer that way and all three of us get to enjoy the DP longer. Also, the first, larger deposit of semen goes where it is more appreciated.

I've never tried DVP but have done DP a few times. Most recently, with a couple I'd played with a couple times before. He was watching as she rode me quite enthusiastically when she suddenly stopped bouncing and leaned forward and kissed me hard, then whispered, "my husband has a request..." After a few seconds of silence, I glanced his way but they both just kept staring at me expectantly. "Um, what's that?" Then, so quietly that I could barely hear her, "can he do my ass while you're still in here?," accompanied by a couple squeezes of her pussy muscles. "Oh, yeah, sure," I replied and he was instantly back on the bed and, with only minor shifting and shuffling, pressing against her back door. Just as I felt the pressure of his cock filling her up, he came. Ah well, those few seconds were fun. More successfully, with a couple I've seen on and off for years, he doesn't usually join in, if he's even there, but when he does it sometimes ends up in the same position but with me in her ass. But I'm intrigued by the recliner position someone mentioned earlier. Think I need to give them a call!

We were with our neighbor. There was a ton of sexual tension between my wife and him. We ended up drinking and flirting. He and I began rubbing her tits nd making out. She undressed for us and and started sucking our cocks. She sucked his cock while I fucked her from behind - his dick was perfect and a lot bigger than mine. I could tell she was totally into him so I invited him to switch with me. I got on my back nd had her straddle my face - i figured it would drive her wild to have be eating her while he pounded her with his big cock. She came very fast and I shot a load in her mouth. when she was ready he put his cock in her again. While he was fucking i just instinctively rubbed his shaft with my tongue. As he pulled out of her i took the head of his cock in my mouth. He went back and forth between my mouth and her pussy until he finally went balls deep in her and ejaculated. I sucked his balls and could feel his thick cock pulsing as he put his load in her. It was a first for all of us. My wife was so turned on by the whole experience. We laid around afterwards and she continued to kiss us and play with our cocks. I held his cock as she sucked him off - he came again. My wife masturbated watching him sucking my cock. We sat back nd jerked off together until we both shot another load. She continues to totally get off seeing me with another guy.

Yes, it's great! Hot tubs are almost required to be swingers.