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My practice is to look around, even when talking to another naked person, just shift your gaze from face to hands to torso to face to feet... And I don't mind people looking at me when I'm nude. Various naked people aren't what you see everyday, and it's like an exhibition at a gallery - take it all in and enjoy.

Questions for the ladies and would like to hear the men respond also. 1. Would you or have you had your man cum on your tits then lick the cum off your tits? 2. Would you like your swinger partner to cum on your tits then watch your man lick his cum off your tits? My wife loves me to cum on her tits then lick the cum off her tits and she loves me to cum in her mouth then kiss me. We both find this a big turn on.

Yes, sex is fun, which is why we are all in swinging. But we also all know that sex makes babies. As swingers, we all know the many ways to try to avoid that result. We have been involved with swinging since the 1980's. As a result, we have known many fellow swingers, and continue to be friends with many. Twice in all those years, a couple suddenly disappeared from the scene, and my wife talked to the wife of the couple about the reason. Both times it was an unplanned pregnancy after all precautions were taken. It happens. As I think of our current culture, I think of how much harder it would have been on these two couples if abortion was not available, and they had to raise a child from a father that they barely knew. I am just thinking that suddenly swinging is becoming much more dangerous.

Over NYE we met a nice couple who were about 2 hours from where we live. We hooked up, had a great time and promised to see each other again when able. A few weekends ago, they came down to visit for some hot play time, with a twist. They asked if we would be interested in bareback and cream pie play. After a discussion about risk, (They both on Valtrex) we were in separate rooms playing. Both ladies filled to the rim, and then after they left, Mrs. F received her 3rd for the evening. We love it, and can't wait for more BB and CP play.

When I was young I came across a hidden treasure that led me to rushing home from school on many days. I found my father’s or should I say parent’s VCR tapes in a box in a closet. It was the first time I saw what I saw. No plot that I remember, mostly moaning and music. Did adults do that? Stupid back stories just to get to sex. Debbie and I had our first threesome with the wife of our new friends. Throughout our play I kept thinking of that old video except now I was the lucky guy being with two women. I’m laughing now that I remember the soiled socks I buried in the laundry hamper hoping my mother would notice.

Apologize for going off topic. I will try to tie this comment to the topic. Nudity became an issue when Eve ate an apple. According to a story that was written many years ago by I don’t know who, man and woman were naked in the field with no shame. Eve ate an apple from a tree of knowledge, not sure why books didn’t grow on that tree instead of apples. Eve gains knowledge and becomes shy. I think she just wanted to start a fig leaf business. All jokes aside different cultures look at nudity and the body in different ways. In Europe topless bathing is not shameful and is common in most Western countries. In many Arab, Muslim and Islamic countries women are fully covered from head to toe. Upbringing, religion or the fear of going to hell dictate what is accepted. We have been forced fed to live by others so-called morality. Our first time on a nude beach I had unfounded fear of being naked. I did attach a sexual note to the experience that quickly faded as my comfort level rose. Unfortunately I am finding that we are going backwards with the fear of a supreme being and other peoples stupid views overtaking the natural educated view. Politics has made us less educated.

Returning to the theme of the original post (nudity and comfort with same), it remains surprising and disappointing that simple nudity persists as a point of contention and discussion. While there are settings in which fashion is celebrated, and there are settings in which textile separation makes sense, there are plenty of settings where fewer textiles is a reasonable and logical choice. The fact that having--or seeing--an unclothed body should make anyone uncomfortable speaks volumes about our cultural constructs and our perceptions of what it means to be human.

No, not at all. No. Most couples (but not necessarily all) will ask what your interests and limits are before doing anything else. Those that don't ask will usually honor your requests if you tell them that you are not interested or to stop. The very few that may not listen at all should be reported to the club owner and escorted out of the club (very rare, but still a possibility). Don't let someone 'get away' with something you two are not interested in just because they force themselves in (that's what they are hoping you will do...nothing).

We reconnected with a couple we introduced to the board and their friends. Alan and I initially only met with one cpl at a time, parties were not our scene. We also didn’t build relationships with people, more of a few meeting then move on. We didn’t want any possibilities of attachment or others personal problems. The downside we gave up on some terrific times. Times change and our attitude changed we have become good friends with a cpl close to us. Yes we went to the Proving Ground in the Highlands. There is a good vibe, pretty, on the water and just over the bridge from Sandy Hook. I am pretty sure our profile says New Jersey and I see locations on other profiles. I normally look at profiles out of curiosity not for searching for hook ups. We mainly met those who are new to the lifestyle not long timers. We didn’t and don’t search here for hookups, searching is part of our fun. Now we are becoming more open to new friends. Lol. Yes.

Unfortunately, when I offered my girlfriend an erotic massage, she always refused, probably she just always wanted sex. I've always been surprised by this, because usually girls like kisses and hugs before sex, and my girlfriend just tells me that she likes to have a good fuck and that's it, it's strange of course, but it's okay for me anyway. And in general, we have a peculiar relationship. When I offered her an erotic massage, she said she didn't want to and asked me about buying me a one-time visit to sensual massage Manchester. And soon, I will finally feel for myself what an erotic massage is.

The one on the flag and Fillmore are Know Nothings. I have a Fillmore story, not the president, the concert venue in NYC. I can’t verify this, my parents were at the Fillmore most likely getting high which they deny, they got home around 4AM and made a baby, ME. It’s a family joke about being part of the Know Nothings and as my parent’s story grew and was embellished my mom would always end the story with I know nothing. That’s my Fillmore story. How it fits with this thread I don’t know. They had to be comfortable being nude if I was born.

There are a few members here old enough to get riled up about your post.

So what have you got against Millard Fillmore? 😉

Let’s make a date to meet one day at the shore. It’s almost impossible to find someone even when you know the person. We normally a flag, not ours, as a starting point to give directions. We stay clear of flags of a previous president. We sometimes see people in a an area that have Giants flags or a Bi flag. We should DM the next time we have plans. Looks like today will be a great day, enjoy 😎

I didn’t think anyone would because it’s so crowded and besides it was last minute and what are the odds someone close who read my post could make it there. We made plans with a member of the board who we have been with before who are still with us this morning as I’m posting. We were invited to stay at a friends house last night even though we live close enough. I’m sure sex happens quietly. As crowded as the beach gets it’s hard to be discreet. We have observed sex in the off season. Last year before Memorial Day we saw two men in an isolated area and a middle aged man taking pictures of what I hope was a legal aged young lady taking pictures.

I was limited from reading the article. I was apprehensive getting naked with a few couples we met on a cruise when we docked and headed to a clothing optional beach. If it were just the two of us going alone, not with a group, not fearing spending the rest of our cruise with these people I might have had different thoughts. Possibly the group strip made it easier as others were quicker to take their bathing suits off, the men were drop and go. Remembering the group we were all in decent shape I had lost some weight before the vacation knowing that I had to prepare for the eating and drinking orgy on the cruise. I think the new friends may have made it easier as if it were friends from home it would have been more awkward. In days these new friends would be going home never to be seen again. Getting naked where do you look or not look trying not to stare. Within minutes I felt at ease being nude the big feeling was not be nude it was still the not outwardly looking at others. I tried not looking down at the men. I went to that beach knowing it was nude not sex. I never thought that I would be having sex with one of the men that very night.

The latter. We are still experimenting and DVP sounds very painful. SVP is starting to need lube help can’t imagine two at the same time or that the men would want that. Not excited about anal sex with just anyone, still getting accustomed to having sex with others. Baby steps for me.

Doesn't sound comfortable to me; I'm a vagina & bum girl when it comes to DP. I don't like to suck dick either when I am screwing, it's ok at first but then becomes too distracting and interferes with me breathing.

I suspect that most members here have the resources to travel to another safe country if necessary. For those lacking the resources, however, it could be a real tragedy.

They kept me busy then kept busy together and I watched. Looking back it was about me which is strange because I’m always worried how Debbie is enjoying. I am sure they enjoyed too by the sounds I heard and the playing the ladies did when I was refracting. Is that the word for getting hard again? What amazed me is how Debbie has become so relaxed in having sex with a woman. She went from never doing it to enthusiastically enjoying it.

*wouldn’t notice. 🤦🏻‍♂️

To answer if the sperm donor/participants are legally bound: not sure if all do this but I know a few who did this had those chosen sign legal documents waving all parental rights to include contact prior to 18th birthday of the child. Other than health no contact and no required financial obligations by the participant. The health exception was contact if health history or donor inquiries. I was told it was standard stuff and completely legal. for those we know personally a young m/f couple no papers and three children over 6 - 8 years same group, different participants, several participants over a week each time no test as to who the sire could be. two lesbian couples using male friends in a swinger group. Again several participants over short period of time no paternal tests done. 2 -3 children each. one f/f couple (lesbian/bi) had several chosen males from their group at one time, twice over a weeks time period. for those we know all is well. Except for a very few no one know who else participated each time.

I don't try to edge, but when it sort of happens with oral/manual stimulation, I leak. The eventual orgasm is pretty much the same. What is incredibly intense for me are second and subsequent orgasms. I can achieve a second erection and orgasm within a short time without too much effort (especially in a play situation where there is different pussy), but third and even fourth erections/orgasms take a lot of effort. Oral always can get me up, but if I am going for a fourth orgasm, I need anal to get me off. Both my dick and balls ache for a while afterwards, but it's worth it. Women have it easier with multiple orgasms.

Yes - we have had a couple of places get busted locally for pushing the limits. We get a couples massage about once a month from the same two therapists. The woman that works on me always pushes it a bit. She definitely teases when she is working my upper thigh and hamstrings. It would definitely be amazing if she would finally just lube up my cock and finish me off.

While I've never tried this with another couple, I love to edge my wife. Being a person who loves foreplay, I like to spend 45 minutes to an hour just teasing the crap out of her. Erotic massage is definitely my preferred choice. I like to bring her to the edge at least five times. Seven is about her limit before she gets to frustrated. I alternate between a slow, sensual massage and lightly trailing fingertips across her body...getting as close to her sensitive areas (nipples, clit, opening) as possible without actually touching them. That drives her crazy. After 25 minutes or so of that, I'll progress to full contact with those areas.. caressing, stroking, tugging... then slowly insert a finger halfway...curling my finger upwards, applying pressure to her g-spot and just holding it there, while continuing to caress, massage, kiss her breasts. You really have to know your partner and be able to read their body. I have occasionally pushed her over the edge before I was ready. Oops...oh well...guess we have to start over...lol

I love love love hot tub sex. I've done this with a couple in a swingers club: Its nice when you're with a new couple, him leaning/sitting down with her sitting-straddling on his lap, water all around, both naked. Edging each others bodies, her vagina lips slowly firmly rubbing up and down the length of the underside of his dick. Soon after, rubbing harder and harder against each other, she seductively teasingly going a little higher, and higher, until her vagina entry reaches the top of his glans, she hangs there for a second looking into each others eyes...... she then slides down on him... of the outer/underside of his dick before giving him a lovely locked-lips passionate kiss. She then says "shall we go get a condom?"

One time we tried this and I did all the pounding, our fuck buddy came really quick even though I was the one pounding. Feeling your penis heads rub together feels good. I didnt cum when he came and in fact it got too messy and her pussy was too wide since he took his dick out. My dick kept slipping out so I just jacked off and came on her outside pussy lips and his nut sack lol.

yes to both....wife loves her tits cummed on and loves when the cum is rubbed into her hard nipples

No thanks. Once something leaves my body I don't want it back.

It adds some nice variety. Physically, cumming in a girl feels a lot better than coming on her. But coming on her has visual appeal that coming in her doesn't and she likes some variety in where my cum goes. We find it isn't better or worse; just different. In any case, I don't know that I've ever licked my cum off of her per se, but I like it when she kisses me after I cum in her mouth. She also sat on my face once after I came in her and made me lick it out, which was really, really awesome.

My play partners know me for my signature move: titisjob I like cum and I often end up having cum on me, either my boobs, tummy or back None of my male partners have ever been interested in touch their own cum, or get in contact with other male cum

The first couple we swapped with the guy yanked the condom off, came on my tits, rubbed it in, and then proceeded to lick it off. While not a huge turn on, it was interesting to watch. I don't know that Jeff would be open to licking some other guy's cum off of me...but I don't know that he would be dying to try it. lol

I have been with several women who love it. They like to watch the man cum and like the feeling of having his cum licked off her breasts.

I've had cum licked off my tits. In the heat of the moment it's a hot thing to do and have done. I'd do it again.

Here's the double standard again. We hope our lady will like our (and maybe other's) cum but oh no not for me (or my guy in the case of you gals). It's smacks of homo or bi activity.