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Although rash decisions are generally an invitation for disaster in swinging, there are some things you just can't truly know until you try them. It's normal to have some reservations, I think everybody does. Ask yourself the question - Am I afraid I will be hurt, angry, insane with jealousy, etc? OR Am I afraid this could harm our relationship? If the answer to the first one is yes, best to leave this as fantasy. If it's the second one, then maybe proceed on by talking to her about your feelings and see where that leads.

Could be, might not be. Look at yourself make your best educated guess, and then follow through. Decide beforehand that even if you don't like it it's not your wife's problem.

If you've discussed this with your wife, do you talk about it during sex? How do you feel about it after you're finished? Same for masturbation. If you're fantasizing about this to get off and it seems awkward and unpleasant after you're done, that might be a flag to slow down. If you both still like the idea, it might be a flag to begin experimenting.

Are your wife sharing thoughts something that your wife is 100% with. Have you even discussed it with her? Unless you are both on the same page about you sharing her then there is a good chance your insecurity may bubble to the surface. Sometimes, thoughts and fantasies are best kept just as thoughts and fantasies.

Have you talked to her about this?

Girls, how do you position yourself for doggy? In my pussy, I start hands and knees and work my way down onto my elbows, then chest. For anal, I stay on my hands. Lately though, I've been doing more standing, resting myself on a table for both.

After having a Ménage a Trois with the wife of our new friends it was decided that Debbie would join them without me. Quid pro quo. This is the couple that Debbie dated him in college and we found on a swinger date site. I’m still not that confident in myself watching her with anyone and though he is a great guy who I can now call my friend I still couldn’t stop thinking. Debbie is still exploring her own sexuality and bi side and I was hoping that was going to be the main sexual acts even when I knew it wasn’t. I know I can trust her after we had our previous meetings. In our brief experience in swinging we always talked after thanks to recommendations from many on here. When Debbie came home I wanted to know how it went and asked questions. I promised myself not to ask the was it better and it slipped. We had made a deal to never ask that and then on her first time without me involved I asked.

1) Let her choose the the where, when, how, and especially who. Don't criticize her choices. 2) If you don't like it, don't watch again.

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Excuse me, I don't recall, but do you have a partner with whom you already swing? Is she bi? From my perspective, the advice would be to set it up on your own. The way we (hubby, my boyfriend, and I) stumbled into adding two additional women to form our poly family was by me setting up hubby with my female friends and acquaintances. (Women like fucking other women's husbands, me giving permission only made it easier.) Many took up the offer (hubby is very attractive), few let me watch, and only several let me participate. That's what got me started on my path to Lesbianism and forming our family with Clair and Lora.

We've got an older thread, last post from 2018, that might be of some general help. Couldn't find anything newer. So if you go, please come back and update everyone with your thoughts! Cherry Lane Resort Michigan

I have a twin brother and during the curiosity part of my sexual development things happened. So no judgement here. I can tell you it happens, but not super common. I can't imagine doing it with my husband in the room lol. Hang on babe while I bang my bro. 🤣🤣

When I was about 13 my sister caught me jacking off, so instead of saying anything to dad. I had to Jack off her, then eventually she would masturbate for me. She sucked me a couple times and we had sex once. Many years later I was at a party, she was also there, some chick was getting banged on a back room, I wandered back there, only to see her doing a chain.

So incest is definitely a real thing, when I was just out of High school I worked at a DejaVu Showgirls Gentlemans Club in Flint Michigan, I was a dancer there. Guys would come in and offer us money to work parties and events, and they often paid well. One night a guy invited my friend to a party and asked her to bring her friends. I was always up for extra money so I tagged along, When we got there her brother was there. I have known this girl for a long time and I knew her brother. Now when you invite a stripper to a party and pay her to be there you are definitely expecting them to get naked and put on a show, if you invite ten and pay well its safe to say they expect there is gonna be some fucking. Seeing her brother I grabbed my friend and gave her a heads up. She said no worries he sees me naked all the time. I was not expecting that answer, 3 minutes later she was naked as a jay bird and three feet away from him. She even fucked the guy next to him. He watched everything she did. It was weird but if I hadn't known him no one would have known.

We do the separate room hard swaps and it is much more intimate and passionate. I don't love having my husband as an audience, I get in my head, worrying if I am being too loud or vocal, enjoying it too much, being too dirty with him or her, am I putting on a good show but not so good I make him jealous. It's too much. I just wanna be focused on the man between my legs and how good it feels to have him inside of me.

My wife is 7 months preg and has no desire to swing. She thinks of herself as fat and unsexy and I have to agree, she is fat and unsexy. I know its not what a husband is suppose to say, but I've never understood the pregnancy is sexy idea or the fetishlike 'preggers' porn sites.