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I assume that this is something that your wife wants to do, fucking someone else of her choosing is almost certainly a "yes!", having you watch may not be, especially at first. Usually guys have their regrets and bad feelings after they orgasm. My suggestion is that while you're watching don't jerk off, that will give you the post-orgasm blues. Wait until they are totally done then make love to your wife. The re-bonding with your wife, taking her back, will make it feel good. Just my feelings from having watched my wife, although the same applies if she plays alone. Love her when she gets back; it's like a celebration.

Hubby and I skipped that part. He wanted to make that promise because at the time only I played, but I thought if only he did, my failure to do so would appear obvious. As things turned out, we're glad he didn't promise to forsake. We made that commitment believing it had nothing to do with sexual fidelity. I believe that we in our poly family are less likely to cheat because we already have sexual variety within the family. Conversations about nonmonogamy and even the practice thereof should begin before marriage. It's too important to leave a deal-breaker topic until after the deal is struck. Uh, in a word, "No." No one person is enough. I realized that about myself not being enough before I admitted that one man isn't enough for me. Even more important, I realized being heterosexual was not enough for me. That one was strong for me, but quickly fell. After experiencing two lovers who knew about each other, it felt right and proper. Interesting observation. Oddly, we in our family have managed to remain trim, but not monogamous. Ha, it was! Since hubby and I were going on a two-week honeymoon, I made love with Red (twice) before we left. In a way, nothing out of the ordinary for us, but still, memorable because it affirmed our choices. Hubby and I, and the other three adults in our poly family are fiercely committed to our family, perhaps because unlike swinging, us being poly helps us through the challenges rather than exposing fault lines. We two of us have a disagreement, the others never take sides. Rather, the two fighting run to another for consolation, and yes, sex. The disagreement quickly dissipates. 1 Corinthians 13 1 Love is patient, love is kind. ...it keeps no record of wrongs. Great observation! I often say that that I am jealous of my loves, especially hubby, not only having sex with the other women in our family, but also actually being in love with them. It is jealousy, however, that I am addicted to. But it isn't envy, I am actually happy for them both. Indeed. There are many things that we have done in our family, individually and jointly, sexually and not. We've always just moved on. No regrets, no apologies. For the poly us, we are often having fun with him/her as well (especially since we women are bi) when we join in. Something that hubby and I did together by me setting him with my female friends and acquaintances. It wasn't planned, but among those women were ones who brought out my Lesbian side and became part of our family. Does anyone think it through this deeply? We just followed our instincts and emotions. Although David is my husband, we are all spouses and what you say about our union, especially among us women, is particularly true. A wonderful essay. I hope that you don't mind me adding some personal observations.

There are many threads lurking in the background that are very deep in content. I would be interested in hearing what thread, or threads have helped or added insight for you in the Lifestyle. This post was prompted by Fundamentallaws essay. (Which we actually have bound in our library.)

What attracted me was keeping my girl happy. Before me, she told me that she had overlapping lovers, I knew it was something she liked, so I told her to go ahead. It wasn't cuckolding, it was hotwifing, I wasn't humiliated in any way. Actually, I met the men she ended up screwing (two exes at first) so that everyone knew what was up and that it was ok by me. Since then we've moved on to swapping within a closed group of married couples.

yes been there

Nice place to go. There is this rooftop Garden of Eden bar that is clothing optional. You can check out the goods before you go further.

I am definitely a face down ass up cause thats they way I love to Fuck! I start on my elbows once he is in I relax into it and drop my face into the bed, my left arm goes above my head and my right hand is on my clit alternating between applying pressure and moving it in quick circles. I like it when the guy grabs my hips and thrusts deep and hard. I wanna scream.