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"what exactly you would say to couples that you like as friends but do not want to play with." We like as friends but do not want to play with you.

That was quite a while back for me too I'm 71 now. I still have my ax handle though. I hope I am never confronted with that kind of situation again. I'm glad your cop showed up expeditiously. Ours took about 2 hours. That's after my wife called up 911 as I was running out the door. There's a woman screaming and my husband just ran out with a club in his hand.

Theater gangbang has been a fantasy of mine for a while. I have tried to fulfill it(nervously) 2-3 times but often there are just gay men or hardly anyone there. I get nervous about being in trouble if the establishment doesn’t allow it, or someone I know coming in. I’ve been in gangbangs before in a more private setting. I like the anonymity of the bookstore theater and the idea of all the guys groping at me or (trying to just get brave enough to touch). I also worry about the condom rule because that is important to me.

It seems the self proclaimed doms are taking over our local sites! Pretty much get daily messages from the goofs these days even though it could not be clearer she has zero interest in them. For some reason I get way to much pleasure telling them no we are not interested in dom men, the pussy has the power in this lifestyle and the women have all the control. Dom men are so old school and so boring. Can almost sense them fuming in their cave finding out women don’t need to tolerate men that think they should obey the all mighty man, lol.

I am not the single guy but I imagine there are 2 obvious reasons: 1) Sex with no commitment or strings attached. They get to have sex with someone who is in a relationship with another man so they get to fuck but don't have to worry about the relationship aspect which is very appealing to men. 2) It's taboo. There is a certain mental aspect about using/fucking/dominating another man's SO that turns some guys on because of the taboo nature of it. For example my buddy likes to give my GF golden showers which is not something I find very stimulating so I asked him "why do you like pissing on girls so much?" And he said "I don't like pissing on girls I like pissing on your girl." It's a psychological gratification rather than physical.

What attracted me was keeping my girl happy. Before me, she told me that she had overlapping lovers, I knew it was something she liked, so I told her to go ahead. It wasn't cuckolding, it was hotwifing, I wasn't humiliated in any way. Actually, I met the men she ended up screwing (two exes at first) so that everyone knew what was up and that it was ok by me. Since then we've moved on to swapping within a closed group of married couples.

Something else where the meaning varies across cultures/time. Throwing the 'Metal Horns' Is the Same as Calling Someone a Cuck

Kind of silly using old timey definitions to describe today's activities. The cuckold of the 1800's is hardly what we are talking about in the 2022 lifestyle...

I see. I even looked it up for verification and yes, every time a gal has sex with another man, her husband is cuckolded. My interpretation of the word before today meant the shame and dominance of the other man (and the wife) toward the husband. To me, calling a full swap situation cuckold is a bit of a stretch. After all you get to nail the other girl, right? Let's ask the OP what his meaning is. Is it just getting it on with the married girl the thrill, or is it the humiliation of the husband involved that is the attraction to cuckoldry?

Can’t the same be said for a couple ? Were either of them plays separately to the delight of the other ? Some just get off on the idea of it, others watching and yes others cuckolding. Sometimes painting with a broad brush isn’t best

If your wife fucks other people you're technically a cuckold, even if it's a full swap with another couple. The shame/submissive kink that goes with that in porn is just that, another kink on top. It is interesting to see how many single guys advertise that they want to role play being a cuckold in a threesome. I guess you can role play anything, but that seems more like you're a voyeur since you don't have a connection to the woman.

Not much into cuckoldry. I would never shame a guy who is allowing me to fuck his wife. I have been with couples where the husband just watches, but I wouldn't begin to guess what is in the dudes mind.

Rule #1: If he has to advertise himself as a Dom, you can be certain he isn't. Lol

Well, my wife likes take-charge alpha male types actually and they are her preferred demographic when seeking MFM. But she likes them to be mature, intelligent and confident with zero air of cockiness

DITTO! I hate Doms, I am not into being dominated or controlled. I also get a ridiculous number of guys contacting me and telling me that I need to be controlled and I shut them down. It is such a turn off.

There are plenty of single guys in the lifestyle who just rule themselves out by saying stupid things in their profiles. We frequently say here that the supply of single males in the lifestyle far outstrips demand. The reality; the number of good single men in the lifestyle isn't anywhere near as disparate to the demand for such men. My wife and I can easily run through profiles of single men and go "Nope...<next>...Nope...<next>...Nope...<next>...Nope....<next>..." and on and on. There's maybe 2 or 3 in 20 that are worth reaching out to (if that). When we get messages, similar numbers immediately get excluded because they didn't read our profile or are demonstrating how much of an idiot they are. So many of their unsolicited messages boil down to "Hey, you seem cool. Wanna fuck?" Gets old. Gets really old. We have found a few gems over the years; guys that got to the point of having sex with my wife and with whom my wife had a really good time. When we do find them, we keep them around if possible. Two of them became long term lovers for my wife, spanning years. Very, very worth it rather than having to deal with so much BS from wannabes.

Sure some people are into it, but for the ridiculous amount of dudes that advertise themselves this way I am thinking most of them are going to be shit out of luck. The ladies are the ones with the power in the swinging world. If more guys got that and catered to them then more guys would get some.

I was present when hubby had his first bi experience. My role was to watch only; that was his request and I was happy for him to set the tone for that play meet because I wanted him to be happy with what he was doing. We talked about it at great lengths, about what he wanted to try, who he wanted to have his experience with, what I was to and what I wasn't to do, even how we would feel if either of us did not like the experience or even if we did. To my surprise, I loved every minute of watching him play with another man right in front of me. I was pleasantly surprised by how aroused it made me and I was proud that he handled it so well. Afterwards on the drive home we joked about how he could finally appreciate what I enjoy about going down on a guy....:-) I have since seen him play with another guy in front of me. It was a MMF, but at times they played together right in front of me and I was not always involved. It was hot to say the least. And personally, I can't wait to play like that again if and when the time arises. :-)

I played with a bi husband once whose wife wasn't into watching two men. She encouraged him to embrace his bisexuality and didn't mind if we played alone w/out her. That was kinda fun for me. Felt naughty even though she knew.

Dragging screaming woman by hair down our alley.