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That's hot. It's hotter though if she tells you and taunts you about it later while you two are going at it. When I finally got the courage (but not over my jealousy) to let hubby play, I would set him up with a friend or acquaintance (a control thing for me) and demand the details when he got home. (Or I got home; I liked them to fuck in our bed). Hotter still! Guys are different - many of my friends were eager to fuck my husband, but only a few of the women would let me be there.

She journals her life on a computer we share where she lets me read about her meetings. Since we are open about our life we know passwords we use, no hiding anything. I don’t journal the way she does, I just have emails she can read and has full access to this post. I once asked her why she journaled I was positive it wasn’t for me to read, it was for safety. She meets random men on a cheaters site so she would journal the who and the where she was meeting. Even her password to that site she uses is open to me. Her journal became more and more detailed bordering on pornography with some comedy with men who didn’t live up to their resume. We now play together at times and I look forward to reading her journal after those meetings.

Didn’t know where to post this thought I had when I read about the fear of wife leaving for another woman she met alone. This may not pertain to all here. SEX is for Fun. We were not looking for love or romantic relationships. Think most here agree with that. We talked and talked and talked before taking that first step of just looking. We Love US. Forgive my ramble. Rocky plays guitar and sings but he’s no Dave Matthews. We will go to a concert but I will listen to Rocky for the rest of life. Rocky is extremely funny and witty yet we go to listen to many comedians who are hysterical. We both are pretty good cooks and then we go to restaurants. We still hire plumbers, electricians, gardeners and other tradesmen though we are capable to fix things. The pandemic gave us time to again talk and that led to a curiosity. I don’t consider myself Bisexual, others will say I fit a definition. That curiosity brought me to act out not change my preference. Possibly it was the rebel in me that had me go against what society says is wrong, what religion says is wrong. I can’t say if it was the openness of same sex relationships on TV and movies that made me curious. We made a decision together knowing I was taking a new step and Rocky would likely have sex with another woman. I brought up him having sex with a man that he had no interest in doing. I didn’t push him, we just talked about it. I wanted to fulfill a fantasy not find a lover. I wanted to have fun and I had fun. We had fun together with a couple and I had a number of firsts. That first time led to a first time with a friend and her husband. This was about sexual fun not anything more. I also had sex alone with my girlfriend with the husbands knowing. We did the same things alone as we did with the husbands watching. Back to the post about leaving your spouse after having sex without him being there, IT’S NOT HAPPENING.

I met a nice German couple who were swingers. When asked if they wanted to have some fun, they said,"Vee are here for sex! Vee are not here to have fun!"

I thought that you were going to say that he would pass out from all the blood rushing from his brain to his cock.

Sounds like you two are a perfect match. How is your relationship otherwise? There are so many posters here struggling, seeking advice on "opening up our marriage." If you both are in agreement at the beginning of your relationship (as hubby, my boyfriend, and I were) the path is much easier and full of fun.

That is extremely generous, unselfish, and loving. You should ask her in a noncritical way to share her experiences with you. I definitely got a thrill when hubby told me about the results of the encounters that I set up with my friends and him. (Then I would debrief her for another thrill...) In the end it paid off well for hubby, and for the women who had a Lesbian side - I did whatever s/he wanted.

I’ll keep this short and sweet … you’re nowhere NEAR ready to try swinging! The LifeStyle is for couples whose relationship is rock solid … yours isn’t even close. Keep working on you as a couple before you even consider adding other people to the mix. To do otherwise will be the end of your marriage.

OR flamingos with black neck bands being fed pineapple by gnomes sitting on a white rock in the pampas grass

My current GF has been curious about swinging and nonmonogamy in general, and not found anyone she could be open about it with. When we started talking, and she found that instead of the idea bothering me, I was an enthusiastic supporter, she was able to talk about some fantasies that she's never been able to say out loud before. I don't think she really believed that it was okay with me. The first time she came to me after a hot date, she was so excited to shot me her creampie, and she came almost instantly when I pushed into her. I think that afternoon, she was finally able to relax and trust that I like her, even when she's leaking another guy's cum. She's still at the early stages of the lifestyle, and I"m encouraging her to take small steps so that she's comfortable at each new experience. But so far, it's been a helluva ride. To think that several guys let this one get away... well, it certainly works out to my benefit. As to sloppy seconds (or thirds, or fifths, or whatever), the hotter and slippery-er (yes, that's a word now) she is, the better. Also, the more turned on she is the better. She gets SO turned on showing off for me, that the sex can't be anything but amazing.

Circumcised all the way! Down with the turtleneck!!! *laugh* Sorry uncut fellows. It just looks better to me.